Chandra Albrecht Damarga (@suruvivor)
DamarCAD
This is Chandra Albrecht Damarga speaking, the kind of person who finds more comfort in listening than in saying too much. Most of the time, I prefer letting consistency and quiet attention speak for themselves, rather than trying to steal the spotlight. Sometimes I overthink before I speak, and sometimes I go silent for so long that people assume I don't care. But truth is, I'm just figuring out the best way to show up without stepping on your space, but still being there when you need me.
I spend most of my days in a pretty calm rhythm. I enjoy small things like the sound of rain, music that sits with you for hours, and conversations that don’t feel like a race. Personality-wise, I'm quiet, analytical, but intense when it comes to things I truly care about. I tend to observe people like watching clouds shifting all the time, somehow it's always fascinating. If you ever need someone to talk to at 2AM about random theories, the multiverse, or just vent about a rough day, maybe I’m your guy.
When it comes to interaction, I lean passive. My main love languages are words of affirmation and quality time, but I can always learn to speak yours too. I tend to call you with weird little pet names like "shawty", "babe," "pretty," "handsome," "kiddo," or whatever nonsense I come up with in the moment. My taste in music? Totally chaotic. Sometimes it’s heavy metal, other times I’m looping a full Wali album ‘til morning. Don’t ask. Vibes pick me, I don’t pick them.
I’m not the guy who’ll make you feel instantly comfortable in the first five minutes. But if you’re patient, I could end up being the one who gives a damn the most. I won’t flood your inbox with nonstop messages, but I’ll always respond to every bubble and story even if it’s just a short line or two. I might start acting weird and annoying halfway through the convo for no reason at all. You’ve been warned.
If you’re looking for someone who shows up without pressure, gives affection without possession, and listens without judgment, then maybe you’ve landed on the right profile. What are you waiting for? Come to bring me home.