Butt Worship

Butt Worship
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June 24, 2021 by Marion Winik · Body
Today's celebs sport bootylicious proportions, but can those of us who came of age with Jane Fonda's aerobics-sculpted glutes ever embrace our curves? Find out where you stand.
This century has been full of surprises for us baby boomers: Self-driving cars, portable phones that are smarter than we are, the ubiquity of hummus. But nothing has made my jaw drop further than the phenomenon of big butt worship.
My college-aged daughter has explained to me that the ideal figure now is something called “thick.”
I grew up hating my big fat butt, in fact, feeling humiliated by it. Oh sure, many other body parts were on my shit list as well, but only my thighs could really touch my butt (ha ha). I now know that girls of all shapes and sizes also felt this way, but I was bona fide chubby. I constantly compared my body to other people’s, whose cute little butts I could see a lot better than I could see mine. In fact, the only good thing about my butt was that I didn’t have to look at it. When I did, for example in a department store three-way mirror, I would feel a degree of self-loathing that eventually caused me to avoid department stores. And while some of my negative body consciousness lightened up around the time I became a mother, I still had enough rage against my butt in my 40s to come up with the Butt Assessment Test (see sidebar).
In 1992, we first heard this line on the radio: “I like big butts, I cannot lie.” That was Sir Mix-a-Lot in his landmark cut, Baby Got Back . In 1998, Juvenile begged us to “Back that ass up.” These songs certainly made me smile, but as I had already gotten the impression that African-American culture did not have the same boner for anorexia that plagued the white world, I wasn’t all that surprised.
Nicki Minaj in her “Anaconda” video.
Now, big butt worship has crossed all color lines, with Kim Kardashian, Nicki Minaj, and Jennifer Lopez leading the charge. My college-aged daughter has explained to me that the ideal figure now is something called “thick”—skinny waist with big butt and thighs. She showed me a whole series of pictures that girls have posted on Instagram to show off the size of their hips and butt, a sort of imitation of Nicki’s iconic poses in the music video of “Anaconda.” One of these Instagram posts drew the comment “You been eatin’, girl!” This, she explains, is a compliment.
This is good news for the post-Twiggy generation: we who pretty much invented eating disorders.
Wow. Good news for the post-Twiggy generation: we who pretty much invented eating disorders.
When I checked with my African-American friend Cija, a 42-year-old academic advisor who grew up in Harford County, MD, she basically agreed with my initial assessment that a few extra pounds have generally been better tolerated in black culture than white. Cija attended a predominantly white high school in the ‘90s, where girls with big butts were mocked for having a “wide load.” However, her African-American friends who attended a more racially diverse public high school talked about “the booty girls”—narrow-waisted girls with naturally generous butts who were admired for the perfect thick figure that is now sought after by one and all.
These days, the conversation has gotten quite a bit more complicated, as our devotion to ideal body aesthetics meets our more enlightened feminist attitudes. Cija called my attention to a 2017 storyline on Spike Lee’s She’s Gotta Have It where a character—an aspiring dancer named Shemekka—has silicone implants in her rear. The episode where these implants exploded during a performance was supposed to be funny, but it drew sharp criticism from women writers on the internet as a severe example of mansplaining and body shaming.
There’s a great article by Elizabeth Enochs on Bustle, “ How America’s Ideal Butt Has Changed Over the Last Century .” She shows that the big round butt of today actually had a precursor in 1910 with the hourglass of the Gibson Girl, and the pin-ups of the ‘40s and ‘50s had curves for days. The no-butt years heralded by Twiggy in the ‘60s gave way to the aerobicized superfit butt that came into vogue with Jane Fonda and stayed until things blew up, as it were, with our big butt pop culture queens.
Sadly, the focus on having a perfect body, no matter how perfect is defined, is always going to mean some people are miserable.
Sadly, the focus on having a perfect body, no matter how perfect is defined, is always going to mean some people are miserable. I wish I could say that my demographic has aged out of this sort of thing, but that would be a big lie. Though I bet they see very few midlife women at the butt-injection clinic, it’s because they’re all over in line for Botox, collagen, and facelifts .
Even if I’m more or less out of the game, the whole “thick” thing makes me happy. When my daughter explained that it applies not just to the butt but to the thighs, it took my breath away. It’s too late for me to grow up sane, but she and her friends are beautiful, curvy girls and happy about it. A more generous social ideal for women’s bodies can only be a good thing.
While factors such as personality, intelligence, education, and work experience are all important to a person’s self-esteem and prospects, these indicators are secondary compared to the importance of butt size. Even the most accomplished and beautiful among us can find herself trapped in a snake pit of self-loathing and madness if her butt is too big. And how do you know? When you end up in a department store dressing room with fluorescent lights and a three-way mirror and learn that a hideous alien life form is posing as one of your body parts? Fortunately, most of the time, your butt is in your head, and that is why psychologists have at last provided an assessment tool in this area.
While a written test like the BAT cannot determine the actual, i.e., “physical,” size of your butt, studies have shown that physical reality is less important than delusional projections when evaluating the effect of your rear on your daily life. So take a seat and let’s begin.
1. The best thing about my butt is:
a. it looks so good in a thong.
b. guys are crazy for it.
c. it is comfortable to sit on.
d. it is in a place where I rarely see it.
2. When I was a child, people made fun of my:
a. little sister.
b. lunch box.
c. frizzy red hair.
d. butt.
3. The most serious obstacle to my personal happiness is:
a. my boring job.
b. my tedious partner.
c. my drug and/or alcohol addiction.
d. my butt.
4. It is said that some men prefer women with big butts. This is:
a. true in a song I once heard.
b. true in cultures to which I do not belong.
c. if true, proof of the existence of a benevolent God.
d. really not the point.
5. The best way to minimize the appearance of my butt at the beach is:
a. a French-cut leg.
b. a vertically-striped maillot with a belt at the waist.
c. a tricky skirted number.
d. a giant t-shirt which you never, ever take off.
6. The best exercise for your butt is:
a. squats and lunges.
b. the “Buns of Steel” exercise video.
c. wriggling into a Spanx.
d. fathomless yearning.
a. dangerous.
b. expensive.
c. extreme.
d. always a possibility.
8. One of the most unfair aspects of the disparity between the sexes is:
a. men are paid more for the same work.
b. men don’t menstruate or bear children.
c. men control virtually all aspects of government and business.
d. even totally out-of-shape men rarely have big butts.
a. sleep with other women’s husbands.
b. sell our national secrets to enemy countries.
c. cut in line at the grocery store.
d. have perky, cellulite-free butts.
a. At least my butt is relatively smooth and unblemished. T/F
b. At least my butt looks okay in clothes. T/F
c. At least my butt is not the size of a Chevy Suburban. T/F
d. At least my butt is not responsible for the many problems of the world. T/F
Score one point for each “d” and each “False” answer you chose. If your score is over 5, your butt is ruining your life. But you knew that already.
University of Baltimore professor Marion Winik is the celebrated author of First Comes Love , The Glen Rock Book of the Dead and other books. She also hosts The Weekly Reader podcast on WYPR.
A version of this article was originally published in June 2018.
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The media is so afraid to highlight big butts. Look at this article. The main photo of JaLo crops out most of her assets. LOL
It figures, I had a big butt when it wasn’t fashionable. Now that I am older, the big butt is gone and NOW it’s fashionable!
First people complain about being skinny and now big butts. Why not stop criticizing and just be able to let people do their thing and you do your thing?
Sorry, but focusing on what you sit on should not be important, I’d say focus on the brain and heart, get more leverage that way. Have a blessed evening.
This is an awesome take on the new booty protocol. I am a fifty year old woman who has always had serious ass. I grew up in a family of ectomorphs. I was targeted at home and at school for having a big butt. It hurt a little, but… I never hurt in any serious way for male attention.
Flash forward to when I had daughters. They both inherited my bum in different degrees. At this point, one could literally take a pic of me and my two girls from “behind” and if we were in the proper order, name the photo: “S,M,L”
One day, I was leaving the gym with my daughter, and some obnoxious teen on the basketball court heckled: “ mama gotta big booty”. I didn’t even know if he was referring to me or my baby, but I admonished him in some way. My daughter was so embarrassed, and said: “Mom! That’s a compliment!”
“No, it’s not”, I told her. I don’t care if “big butts” are “in”. I’m not gonna lie, I’m enjoying this phase. I am. And I’m allowed. But I want my well-endowed girls to know, that when Twiggy is back in style, (and mind you, twiggies are and have always been just as beautiful as Marilyns, Christies, Annas, Oprahs, Norahs, Fridas, what-have-yous) that me, my babes, and everyone will still be as beautiful as they are today.
My husband loves mine, so that’s all that matters..lol
It’s good in that it reminds women to work their glutes. These muscles are important for preventing back and leg problems and weaken as we age this the flat butt
Right just saying I saw some in the post advocating for a flat butt and that’s not good structurally
This is just telling them to make it big.
Thank God For my butt. It is round it fits me and above all it is real and I am happy with it.
I am waiting for the mind and spirit to be in vogue, instead of big fake asses and boobies!!!
Women of all shapes and sizes are beautiful. There are men out there who haven’t followed the craze and think for themselves.
A healthy, well cared for woman will always be attractive. Ignore trends. Go for style! Personal style, that is.
This is awesome. I grew up with an “hourglass” figure, and was made fun of by my ”ectomorphic” brother and sister for having a “big butt”. I was self conscious about it, but always joked that I was glad I couldn’t see it.
Flash forward 30 years, and both of my daughters have inherited my booty: one a little less, one a little more. I often picture a photo of us from behind, me in the middle, with the hashtag “#S,M,L” but…. I’d have to be a real jerk of a mom to do that. Both of my daughters, totally diverse, seem to truly love and embrace their bodies. And they have truly inspired me to do the same.
Am I enjoying the booty-loving culture of late? You bet your sweet ass.? Will I ride out the next Twiggy- esque phase, and still try to embrace my own curves? For sure. Beauty comes in all shapes and sizes, and we can’t totally blame culture for celebrating one at a time, yet. Maybe someday the “influencers” will get it, but until then? You are beautiful, and your “time” will come!
Thank goodness, for those of us with NO butt!
So what the men’s body part that’s in fashion? Never hear about that.
I’m waiting for a big belly to be in vogue.
What amazes me… with the METOO movement, this is all about body worship. Aren’t we supposed to try to get people to stop objectifying us. So, why do these journalists continue to push this on us.
You come to the edge but avoid stepping off. Your generation did invent eating disorders and it’s time we all admit that beauty obsession keeps women from achieving all we could. It’s a trap we can free ourselves from, but we have to be willing to change our use of beauty standards as a shortcut for money, privilege, and power. And we have to get over our denial that aging, and death exist. 🙂
Society sets Very wrong priorities!
Never cared to have a big behind. but to each his own. Live and let live.
Society must stop valuing women by their body parts. ❣️
It’s beyond shallow, stupid, absurd…and I’m sick and tired of the
antiquated misogynistic value system. Women are smart, powerful,
capable, and compassionate and must be valued for these qualities!
MaryAnn Andrew La Rue Thank you….Spoken from a mature heart❣️
None of these obsessions are a good thing if it leads to people having implants and having weird stuff injected into their bodies. Unfortunately, nothing has gotten any better since I was a teenager in the 70’s… as a matter of fact, it has gotten worse. Self-esteem is still a big problem because of the ridiculous unrealistic images that women feel they have to live up to. The way you look on the outside is still celebrated much more than your accomplishments or your heart. Plastic surgery used to be something that older Hollywood turned to in a desperate attempt to halt the inevitable aging process. Now we have beautiful young people in their 20’s and 30’s going under the knife and having injections in hopes of looking like some ridiculous computerized, air-brushed image.
Having a big butt is like saying you have a fat ass
Thank you Marion Winik for another great piece. Your Butt Assessment Test is hilarious.
It’s a tough one. I think it’s fabulous to celebrate all body types, but is “big butts worship” really any different to “small butts worship”.
It still suggests that some bodies are more desirable or in vogue than others. For a while we celebrate the thin and tiny, then we celebrate the tall and busty, then we love hips & curves, then flat chests, etc… but never “all bodies” at once. It’s like we always have some body to admire or long for, or regret not having….
I don’t think women will ever stop trying to be what men want them to be. The ideal of beauty is dictated by men.
Huh? Darn, did I miss “the tall and busty” being in vogue ?
Jill McCormick hence many women getting implants.
Edith Pena, it’s NOT. Men are mostly happy with any reasonably attractive woman happy to spend time with them. It’s women who judge. Do you think guys care about fashion? Most don’t. I’ve been overweight ever since I had kids. I’m 52. I’m no beauty. I still get plenty of attention from young, attractive men.
I have to agree. We tend to buy in to the prevailing beauty line and use it to denigrate ourselves.
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