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Jul 29, 2012
Sooo, my wife and I have been married for 4 years. I love her to death, and I know she feels the same. I feel like there is a huge barrier between us though - her breasts... Ya, I know a few jokes can be inserted there, but its true! She is a petite, beautiful and smart woman with gorgeous long hair and the most amazing pair of natural (c cup) breasts that are proportionate to her body (not overly large, and definitely not too small).
Let me start by saying: I love bewbies. Probably too much. I know I drove her crazy in the beginning of our relationship. I would walk up behind her (in private), and reach around to gently cup her breasts while she was cooking in the kitchen, or do the same while laying with her on the couch and watching television, etc.
Now I have to say in my defense, I wasn't trying to initiate foreplay or try to get her to sleep with me. Its just really comforting and intimate (to me!), to be able to touch my wife's breasts. I mean no one else should be touching them but me and her, so its a very special link between us in my mind.
After a while, she started complaining that all I cared about were her breasts, and that I'm always 'groping' her. I got the feeling she felt as though I looked at her as a walking sex machine with a couple of funbags attached in the front. Soooo, I decided to change my behavior. I didn't want her to think this way, so I stopped doing that. And it was very difficult for me, as much as I love her breasts (they are just so frigging perfect and beautiful!)
I limited my attention to her breasts to the bedroom and during sexual situations. Given this, I still loved cuddling with her in bed (no sex expected on my part), and just gently resting my hand on her chest and breast. I would just lay spooned with her like that, and would be happy as a clam. I made a concentrated effort to not move my hand, so she wouldn't think I was 'groping' her. I thought of these moments as very special and intimate between us.
But sometimes when I even do just this, she will physically grab my hand, pick it up, and remove it from her, saying something like 'Geez, going for the gold 'eh?' Then I would feel like a perverted *******, and get pissed off, not touching her for the rest of the night.
So I tried changing once again. Now I try giving her equal attention across her body (she enjoys having her scalp gently massaged, for instance), and not focusing on the breast as much. I'm a man though, and can't help it. I love her breasts and I get so angry that she hates them (she sometimes refers to them as big globs of fat hanging off of her chest), and assumes I just want to play with them for sexual reasons.
I am a good looking guy, 35, pretty fit, and she is gorgeous, 32 with a body to die for. We have no kids (neither has ever had any). She has never told me that her breasts are sore - though I know she doesn't get a lot of feeling there, so foreplay with her breasts is more for my benefit I suppose, then hers. But she KNOWS how much I love her breasts, yet she continually makes me feel like a pervert for doing so...
I don't know what to do. Last night when this happened again (her picking up my hand and moving it), I just got so pissed. I didn't say anything, just rolled over and didn't bother touching her for the rest of the night. I am a very cuddly guy, so this was unusual, and she noticed. I could tell she felt bad in the morning, asking me what was wrong, but I just didn't want to get into a fight at the start of the day about it... She is a doctor, working very long and stressful hours. She even admitted that her libido is practically non-existent these days. So I don't want to stress her out even more about this. I just don't know how to approach the situation.
Now I have to say in my defense, I wasn't trying to initiate foreplay or try to get her to sleep with me. Its just really comforting and intimate (to me!), to be able to touch my wife's breasts. I mean no one else should be touching them but me and her, so its a very special link between us in my mind.
you have a chronic fetish...
but why not make it "All Body" for her..? viz from Head to Toe and Toe to Head..
It may sound odd for you..But I would say, A Dear Woman is also like a child. She should be pampered if she is worth it.
Your Description of her , says you love her for her attire and the being that she is , but with that fetish, you are being selfish and ruining your image , and collaterally paining a beautiful thing that female fragile being , viz your wife.
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Jul 29, 2012
Thanks for the quick response. Ya, I've talked with her about it. It seems like me saying that I enjoy her breasts as a sign of intimacy rather than sex, just goes into one of her ears, reaches her brain, and gets filtered to: 'I want to bounce your boobs around and stick my penis in you'.
Whenever we've talked about it she gets defensive regarding her work schedule, never having time or the libido for sex, etc. But the thing is, I don't think this is about sex - its about intimacy.
I don't think that she likes her breasts at all. I think she's one of those women that feel like they are a burden. They are not overly big or small - they're perfect! If we are changing in the same room, she will usually politely wait for me to leave, or grab her bra and top to go in the bathroom to change. I get so annoyed - I love her body and wish she did too. I'm not just being her fanboy - I see guys looking at her, she just has a faulty self-opinion regarding her own body.
With regards to touching her bum, no she doesn't react as strongly, though she has gotten annoyed if, for instance, she is laying down on her stomach, and I just rest my hand on her backside (no groping, just resting here off to the side on one cheek). I don't do this quite as often though.
You may be on to something though, when you mentioned about you going into alert status when your husband touches your tummy. I can envision big red sirens flashing off in her head the moment my hand gets near her breasts....
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Jul 29, 2012
you have a chronic fetish...
but why not make it "All Body" for her..? viz from Head to Toe and Toe to Head..
It may sound odd for you..But I would say, A Dear Woman is also like a child. She should be pampered if she is worth it.
Your Description of her , says you love her for her attire and the being that she is , but with that fetish, you are being selfish and ruining your image , and collaterally paining a beautiful thing that female fragile being , viz your wife.
Ok my husband has this same idea, that he wants to constantly touch my boobs.
Personally, I hate it, outside of sex.
It just feels degrading, and uncomfortable. I don't walk by him and grab his balls everytime I pass him. I find it uncomfortable to constantly be touched there. It's like being treated like a sex object 24/7.
Also, I dont like any part of my body to be treated like a play toy for his amusement, which is kind of what it feels like when he won't lay off. Sort of like a little boy pawing at my boobs in fascination - I guess a woman might feel like a grown man should have more self control? I don't know. It's hard to explain.
Also, if you have done this constantly, you may have created the negative association in her yourself. I think you need to back up and stop for awhile and let her get over the negative feelings.
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Ok my husband has this same idea, that he wants to constantly touch my boobs.
Personally, I hate it, outside of sex.
It just feels degrading, and uncomfortable. I don't walk by him and grab his balls everytime I pass him. I find it uncomfortable to constantly be touched there. It's like being treated like a sex object 24/7.
Also, I dont like any part of my body to be treated like a play toy for his amusement, which is kind of what it feels like when he won't lay off. Sort of like a little boy pawing at my boobs in fascination - I guess a woman might feel like a grown man should have more self control? I don't know. It's hard to explain.
Also, if you have done this constantly, you may have created the negative association in her yourself. I think you need to back up and stop for awhile and let her get over the negative feelings.
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Now I have to say in my defense, I wasn't trying to initiate foreplay or try to get her to sleep with me. Its just really comforting and intimate (to me!),?????WHY ???? to be able to touch my wife's breasts. I mean no one else should be touching them but me and her, so its a very special link between us in my mind.
Let me start by saying: I love bewbies. Probably too much. I know I drove her crazy in the beginning of our relationship. I would walk up behind her (in private), and reach around to gently cup her breasts while she was cooking in the kitchen, or do the same while laying with her on the couch and watching television, etc.
-----Selfish you are , Pal by TOO MUCH of Breast and Cupping ...!!
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let me tell you, she is a female human being..
You need to deal her, by knowing her needs as well..Note, that she was fine with your "fetish" initially, since she felt it's mutual..but your fetish has turned things "sore." She is feeling as if she is an object and with her tender parts, you are playing sex games , rather than caring for her being and existence..
she is tired perhaps and is not liking your fetish bound sexual approaches.
First treat her as a being. Be Contextually aware, what she needs...
Life has Love and Care ...not mere Carnally driven stuffs..
Try to understand what is the difference between Agape, Storge, Philos and Eros..and Apply them accordingly from your Heart and Head as well..
Know her...TRULY INTIMATELY....and not as you do now..
....Treat her as a Child , when she needs such a care..treat her as a Friend, when she needs such a love, Treat her as a Maternal being when she needs to be so, Treat her as a Woman, a Spouse , a Lover ..when she needs to be ..and thus Love her Truly and Dearly..!!
I can't offer any advice here, my husband loves bewbies too but only if they are triple DDD or larger. I'm a c cup myself but I feel like a flat chested boy sometimes. I wish my husband was a little more "grabby"...then I'd know he was still interested.
The opposite of love is not hate, it's indifference.
I can't offer any advice here, my husband loves bewbies too but only if they are triple DDD or larger. I'm a c cup myself but I feel like a flat chested boy sometimes. I wish my husband was a little more "grabby"...then I'd know he was still interested.
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Jul 29, 2012
Ok my husband has this same idea, that he wants to constantly touch my boobs.
Personally, I hate it, outside of sex.
It just feels degrading, and uncomfortable. I don't walk by him and grab his balls everytime I pass him. I find it uncomfortable to constantly be touched there. It's like being treated like a sex object 24/7.
Also, I dont like any part of my body to be treated like a play toy for his amusement, which is kind of what it feels like when he won't lay off. Sort of like a little boy pawing at my boobs in fascination - I guess a woman might feel like a grown man should have more self control? I don't know. It's hard to explain.
Also, if you have done this constantly, you may have created the negative association in her yourself. I think you need to back up and stop for awhile and let her get over the negative feelings.
See there are women, who crave for being cupped, grabbed or groped etc etc in the "top" or bottom or any where ..!!
Their Needs are different and your wife's are different..
Just Discern well on your marriage life and live well accordingly.
"you're selfish for wanting your wife to be intimate with you (outside of sex)"
"you're not trying hard enough to treat her like a 'Child', 'Friend', or a fabled 'unicorn'"
--Myopic perceptions..emotional reasoning..and hence no understanding..!!
Are there other problems in your marriage? Has she always been this way? It sounds like what she really resents is just you.
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Jul 29, 2012
Are there other problems in your marriage? Has she always been this way? It sounds like what she really resents is just you.
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Jul 29, 2012
"you're selfish for wanting your wife to be intimate with you (outside of sex)"
"you're not trying hard enough to treat her like a 'Child', 'Friend', or a fabled 'unicorn'"
--Myopic perceptions..emotional reasoning..and hence no understanding..!!
You do realize how self-righteous you sound, and by taking that tone - you have immediately caused me to write off anything you say...
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Jul 29, 2012
Are there other problems in your marriage? Has she always been this way? It sounds like what she really resents is just you.
"We can complain because rose bushes have thorns, or rejoice because thorn bushes have roses."
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Left my wife who is very pretty sitting at the hotel bar in Vegas for maybe 5 minutes and when I came back, a VERY good looking group of younger guys were standing around with one sitting next to her chatting her up. I laughed it off at first but I got the vibe that she liked it. Anyway, we get up in the room and start to have sex and I get her talking. She confesses that the one sitting gave her his number and had been aggressively hitting on her before I came back. She had told him she was married and he had said so what, ask him if I can take you upstairs. She was shocked by that. We were both pretty hot by then and I was getting off on it. I asked if she thought he was hot. She said yes. I don’t know at all wtf got into me, but I made her call him – actually pushed her to do it – to come to our room. I said just for a drink that I’d like to watch them flirt thinking nothing would happen. She did and he came up. Now, I’m not gay, but this guy was obviously hot and she was obviously totally into him. She was horrified when he knocked on the door and she hid in the bathroom for quite a while. He and I talked a while. He was a funny guy. I apologized to have wasted his time. As he was leaving I convinced my wife to come out and say good night. She did and was so awkward that I laughed. Again, no idea wtf got into me but I pulled her close, started kissing her and just said relax. As we were kissing, I motioned for him to come in. He ran his hands along her and we held get between us as I undressed her and I said let’s treat her to the orgasm of her life. She pulled away a bit and started to protest, but when he stepped forward, grabbed her face and slid his tongue in her mouth, the booze, the guy’s hotness, the moment made everything else kick in. She kissed back and she became someone I didn’t recognize. The three of us ended up in bed and it all happened fast. In fact, I came very fast, so I watched them for quite a while before I could go again and then joined back in. It went on for a very long time. The mix of being so horny, very jealous when she begged him to fuck her harder, the taboo and seeing her cum so hard when he was inside her was like being on the best drug ever. The only moment that I struggled with was when it ended. He was about to cum and so as he tried to pull out, she held onto him and he finished inside her. It was a sudden end and resulted in a bit of inexplicable panic from everyone. She woke up very angry the next morning that we’d done something so stupid, that he hadn’t worn a condom and she said she’d never do anything like it again blah blah blah and she won’t talk about it – never has since. She flushed his number and was angry at me for days for pushing her into it. As for me, I just close my eyes and imagine that first little second when he slid inside her, the first guy in twenty years other than me as far as I know, and the satisfied little wimpier she made. I think of it, the sweet jealousy wells up and I get hard. Sigh
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