Buddy Wanking

Buddy Wanking

Common Conditions

ADD/ADHD

Allergies

Arthritis

Cancer

Coronavirus (COVID-19)

Depression

Diabetes

Eye Health

Heart Disease

Lung Disease

Orthopedics

Pain Management

Sexual Conditions

Skin Problems

Sleep Disorders

View All

Resources

Symptom Checker

WebMD Blogs

Podcasts

Newsletters

Best Hospitals

Find a Doctor

Children's Conditions A-Z

Surgeries and Procedures A-Z

Featured Topics

Symptom Checker
COVID-19: Check Your Symptoms Now

Slideshow
Get Help for Migraine Relief

Find & Review

Drugs

Supplements

Drug Basics & Safety

Commonly Abused Drugs

Taking Meds When Pregnant

Tools

Manage Your Medications

Pill Identifier

Check for Interactions

Drug Comparison Tool

Featured Topics

Slideshow
Vitamins You Need as You Age

Coronavirus
COVID-19 Vaccines

Diet, Food & Fitness

Diet & Weight Management

Weight Loss & Obesity

Food & Recipes

Fitness & Exercise

Beauty & Balance

Healthy Beauty

Health & Balance

Sex & Relationships

Oral Care

Living Well

Women's Health

Men's Health

Aging Well

Healthy Sleep

Healthy Teens

All About Pregnancy

Getting Pregnant

First Trimester

Second Trimester

Third Trimester

View All

Parenting Guide

Newborn & Baby

Children's Health

Children's Vaccines

Raising Fit Kids

View All

Pet Care Essentials

Healthy Cats

Healthy Dogs

View All

Health News

Reversal of Roe v. Wade May Go Well Beyond Abortion

COVID Subvariants Could Cause ‘Substantial’ Summer Cases

Fit Kids More Likely to Stay Mentally Sharp with Age

Monkeypox Not a Global Emergency Yet, WHO Says

School Shootings Rose to Highest Number in 20 Years

Experts & Community

Support Groups

WebMD Blogs

News Center

Dr. Whyte's Book: Take Control of Your Diabetes Risk

Featured Topics

Special Report
The Future of Food: What You Need to Know

Get Our Newsletters
Health News and Information, Delivered to Your Inbox

The rates were highest among Black and Hispanic women, often linked to COVID-19 or conditions made worse by COVID-19.

How to Get the Most Out of Home Health Tests

Learn What to Do About Diabetes in Dr. Whyte’s Book

Should You Get a Second COVID Booster?

Microplastics Help Viruses Spread Farther, Last Longer

Find a reputable provider in your area with WebMD Care.
Search doctors, conditions, or procedures

COVID Vaccine

COVID Vaccines and Kids

Long COVID

Omicron Variant

COVID and Travel

Face Blindness

Co-Sleeping

Ovarian Cancer

PFAS

Monkeypox

Optometrist, professor, and clinician
Select your newsletters: WebMD Daily Men's Health Women's Health
By clicking Subscribe, I agree to the WebMD Terms & Conditions & Privacy Policy and understand that I may opt out of WebMD subscriptions at any time.

Health Solutions

Penis Curved When Erect?

Could I have CAD?

Treat Bent Fingers

Treat HR+, HER2- MBC

Tired of Dandruff?

Benefits of CBD

Rethink MS Treatment

AFib-Related Strokes

Risk of a Future DVT/PE

Is My Penis Normal?

Relapsing MS Options

Liver Transplants Save Lives

Finance Plastic Surgery

Bent Finger Causes

Living With Psoriasis?

Missing Teeth?

“I want to look like someone who moves through the world with ease.“
The way we grow and make food is changing and will evolve even more in order to preserve our health and our planet.
Adding these foods and drinks to your diet may improve attention, memory, and brain function.
Subscribe to free WebMD newsletters.
Best and Worst Foods for Your Liver
You have symptoms. We have answers.
© 2005 - 2019 WebMD LLC. All rights reserved.
WebMD does not provide medical advice, diagnosis or treatment.

The views expressed in community are solely the opinions of participants, and do not reflect those of What to Expect. Learn more about our guidelines Just so you know, What to Expect may make commissions on shopping links on this page.
Your Guide to the First Trimester of Pregnancy
Your Guide to the Second Trimester of Pregnancy
June 11, 2022 | by ProbablyCaffeinated
Well, I caught my husband watching porn (I assume) and masturbating this morning. We have a 6 week old and she started up around 5am, so he and I both get up at the same time, I to make the bottle and he moves to the couch (which isn’t out of...
Intimacy with Non believing husband
Hey everyoneI wanted to get peoples point of view and advice from believers as I am one. My husband and I were both raised in Christian families! But after we got married he slowly just drifted away and doesn’t believe anymore. Will occasionally...
Latest: 2 months ago | caitlynjphillips33
Not baby related- husband masturbation/porn
Both my husband and I are in a religion where masturbation and porn usage are a big no no. I’m not naive to think although it is a big no no, there are slip ups. I know that porn is a huge industry.Here’s the thing.. I’ve been suspecting my...
Planning Visitors During Hospital Stay
You’re Pregnant! How These Moms Reacted
Moms Share Home Remedies for Pregnancy Morning Sickness
8 Expensive Products Moms Say are Worth the Money
14 Moms on What Labor Really Feels Like
What Are Your Go-To Healthy Snacks?
Things They Don't Tell You About: Mom Edition
Pregnancy Brain Moments? Let's Have a Laugh!
Welcome to the What to Expect community!
Create an account or log in to participate.
Violation Spam or Advertising Vulgarity or Profanity Personal Attack Invasion of Privacy Impersonating Another Member Inappropriate Content Misinformation/Conspiracy Hate Speech Racism Other
Are you sure you want to delete your discussion? This action cannot be undone.
Please specify a reason for deleting Caught husband masturbating. from the community. Note that once you confirm, this action cannot be undone.
Reasons for Deleting Spam or advertising Racism or hate speech Bullying, harassment or personal attack Invasion of privacy Vulgarity or profanity Medical disinformation Misinformation / conspiracy Offensive photo or image Disrupting the community or impersonation Inappropriate content or off-topic Threat of Harm Requested by user Off topic Other
Are you sure you want to delete your comment? This action cannot be undone.
Please specify a reason for deleting this reply from the community. Note that once you confirm, this action cannot be undone.
Reasons for Deleting Spam or advertising Racism or hate speech Bullying, harassment or personal attack Invasion of privacy Vulgarity or profanity Medical disinformation Misinformation / conspiracy Offensive photo or image Disrupting the community or impersonation Inappropriate content or off-topic Threat of Harm Requested by user Off topic Other
A Group Leader is a What to Expect community member who has been selected by our staff to help maintain a positive, supportive tone within a group. Group Leaders communicate with staff moderators and escalate potential violations for review, but they don’t moderate discussions. Group Leaders aren’t expected to spend any additional time in the community, and are not held to a set schedule.
A Group Owner is a member that has initiated the creation of a group to connect with other members to share their journey through the same pregnancy & baby stages. Group Owners uphold the core values of the brand by reporting content that violates the community guidelines.
Find advice, support and good company (and some stuff just for fun).
I caught my husband masturbating for the first time this weekend in our 11 years together. I’ve always know he did it but never saw/ caught him in the act. It was middle of the night 3am, I had forgotten my water bottle in the kitchen so I went to get it. I noticed my husband wasn’t in our bed and I walked in on him, pants down and jerking off on the couch. Part of me was shocked and asked him what he was doing, he was just as surprised to see me, stopped and his quickly pulled up his pants and didn’t say anything. I quickly grabbed my bottle and walked back to bed. I stayed awake for hours because of it. I think I was just too shocked and also felt unsexy myself and sad. I’m 30 weeks pregnant and with a big belly. I’m pretty sure he was watching porn as he had headphones on and phone in hand. Next day I wanted to talk to him about it but just couldn’t bring it up. Part of me was ashamed. I want to try sex during pregnancy but my husband is weirded out by it. Should I bring it up again as I’m still thinking about it. Has this happened to anyone else?
it’s normal to masturbate for anyone.
The porn thing is a no go in our relationship. It has been a big issue and I finally had to tell him that if it continued, I was done. My husband has made no effort during this pregnancy for anything sexual. Although I have had a lot of bleeding issues and was put on pelvic rest a while back. I don’t think he would of made the effort even without the bleeding issues. We have other issues or I have other issues with him, he unfortunately doesn’t see any issue 🙄 So ai have become very resentful and haven’t made the effort for anything sexual either. I think you need to talk to him if it’s something you are uncomfortable with.
Nah, just the first line was for you but the rest of it was for most of the replies to your post. I just didn’t go about tagging everyone. But for you, I think everything you said is valid.
I think you replied to the wrong person
It's totally fine if you're not cool with it. For everyone who doesn't care, good for you but don't bother giving advice to someone who isn't comfortable with it. She isn't, you don't have to understand.
Right? I’m very confused of what the issue is here. When I’m not in the mood, I give my husband a kiss, tell him I love him and ask him to watch porn instead lol
I think everyone telling you that masterbating is normal and not to worry about it, isn't really a fair answer. Everyone is different and every relationship is different. I also don't think that EVERY guy watches porn and masterbates. If you feel uncomfortable, I would definitely bring it up. You're extremely emotional and you're carrying his child. To me, that means something and in my opinion, he should take that into consideration before getting his rocks off.. ESPECIALLY if you're saying he doesn't even try with you
Why does your husband watching porn make you uncomfortable? I honestly don’t understand the problem.
I think it’s normal. And porn is so readily available that even though I don’t like the idea of it- I also think it’s normal. 🤷‍♀️
I have the same thoughts as you on this one.
Personally I’d just move on and not worry about it... but that’s just me. My husband masturbates and watches porn and so do i.. we’re pretty open and comfortable with all of it though.
Same. It’s better then him cheating with another woman and lying amd making excuses
same here. Its just a fantasy and I have zero suspicions of him cheating.
same in our relationship we both watch porn. sometimes together
If your husband is watching porn though and not being intimate with you then it’s an issue.
agreed. You need to talk to him about it.
I do not think is a issue if he is doing it sometimes.. I am not sure what my husband is doing to "relieve" himself, he doesn't talk about it, and I am more open than he is. We haven't had any intimacy since week 20 (now I am in week 32) and in our last conversation he told me he doesn't feel comfortable having sex while I am pregnant, that he doesn't want to hurt me or the baby.. we tried once and he gets really nervous and it just doesn't work.
I am always about honest and direct conversation to see what the real issue is.
I would just let it go. Masturbation is natural and normal. He was probably embarrassed to get caught, so I wouldn't say anything. Many men are uncomfortable having sex during pregnancy. It is ok to talk about that if you want.
My husband isn't big on sex during pregnancy, especially the first baby. I've never caught him in the act but I'm sure he does. I do, especially when he's not into pregnancy sex. I'd probably make a funny comment about it but I don't think it needs to be a talk
Ah definitely an awkward situation, but totally normal and you will move past it! I def wouldn’t want my husband to see me doing the same thing- but meh! It’s ok.
I'm the same! I'd feel uncomfortable if my husband walked in on me getting myself off. I have a dildo and he doesnt even know about it! lol I recently bought it
Lol i bought a dildo recently too & my boyfriend has no clue about it
My husband had a serious porn problem before we got married. I highly recommend very honest, candid conversations about it. the more secrecy, the more shame and hurt both of you will feel. I've told my husband I totally understand if he needs to masturbate during the stretches when my sex drive is non existent or during the 6 week wait post partum, we just make sure to communicate (and more often than not, I'm happy to give him what he needs in some form or other). for me, the biggest thing is just being open with each other so neither of us feel ashamed of our sexual needs or struggles.
Please whitelist our site to get all the best deals and offers from our partners.
We strive to provide you with a high quality community experience. We respect everyone’s right to express their thoughts and opinions as long as they remain respectful of other community members, and meet What to Expect’s Terms of Use.
If you feel a message or content violates these standards and would like to request its removal please submit the following information and our moderating team will respond shortly.
Please select a reason for escalating this post to the WTE moderators:
The educational health content on What To Expect is reviewed by our medical review board and team of experts to be up-to-date and in line with the latest evidence-based medical information and accepted health guidelines, including the medically reviewed What to Expect books by Heidi Murkoff. This educational content is not medical or diagnostic advice. Use of this site is subject to our terms of use and privacy policy . © 2022 Everyday Health, Inc

By:

Dana Larsen

December 19, 2021

Note to Hollywood: No one needs another song about L.A. traffic again, ever.
Illegal nudity, Fox News lying out their teeth, and the worst take in gaming history.
15 more jokes have been stuffed and mounted in the Comedy Hall OF Fame.
Masturbation, what is it? Is it a bad thing? Is it immoral? People have asked themselves these questions and more for centuries. To masturbate is to stimulate one's own genitals for sexual pleasure. While there are many myths and misconceptions about masturbation, it is generally considered a healthy and normal activity. In fact, research has shown that masturbation can have many benefits for both men and women.
Masturbation is a touchy subject. Many people feel ashamed or embarrassed to talk about it openly. However, masturbation is a natural, healthy way to explore your own body and find pleasure.
Everybody's done it. Some people do it a lot. Some of you reading this are doing it right now! It's ok; there's nothing to be ashamed of. Relax! Unbuckle your belt if you like; w
Amber Benson Naked
Sana Asad Nude
Abigail Breslin Mr Skin

Buddy Wanking

Report Page