Bruises After Sex

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57% of women fantasize about forceful sex, according to a study by The University of Northern Texas.
But ‘rough sex’ gets a bad name. It’s all about consent. It’s all about the ‘yes’ word.
Except for the fact, that OFTEN it isn’t!
The other night, I said ‘no’ to a man when I truly meant ‘YES’.
Fortunately he didn’t listen to my lies and rode me ferociously past the finishing line, slamming me against two walls in the chaos.
Whilst the PC police prance about swinging their batons. I prance about swinging my sexual freedom from my gyrating hips.
We are living in a politically correct world. Everything we say or write is taken literally. There is no longer space for nuance. There is no longer space for what’s left unsaid.
The arseholes attempt to police my thoughts and mince my words but they’ll never control my love and need for sex bruises.
In unconventional circles, like the ones I belong to. Bruises on women’s thighs and buttocks signal lust, passion, virility and animality.
Women (and men) wear their bruises with pride. They are like the medallion one wears after warfare. They are like the blood one wears after the kill.
And before you throw your acidic bile over my column with comments like:
“ You wouldn’t say that if you had experienced domestic violence”
“ You wouldn’t say that if you had experienced sexual assault”
I’ve experienced both as have umpteen women who enjoy the pleasures of rough sex and rape-play. Thankfully award-winning sex-journalists like Cara Sutra from the UK, continue to write articles of great significance about this taboo topic.
As fecal matter pours out of people’s mouths at a frenetic pace, I hold on to my kinks like a long-lost-lover.
As the PC police continue to throw good men, great porn and crude humor under a bus. I find myself craving rougher sex and riskier situations.
When rules are tightened, I rebel. Political correctness makes me behave like an uncontrollable teen. I want to wipe my menstrual blood over commentator’s faces. I want to throw my shit at politicians like a monkey at the Taronga Zoo.
Could political correctness possibly be responsible for the success of Fifty Shades Of Grey where BDSM goes mainstream and is debated on morning shows throughout the world?
Outrage recently erupted when Moroccan TV Channel 2M had ‘the vagina’ to air a clip teaching viewers how to hide domestic violence bruises using make-up. Gasp! The masses responded with their usual vitriol. What’s new?
I thought it was a great clip. The fact is, women get beaten. And when you have bruises all over you, sometimes you like to venture out inconspicuously. (God, forbid). Without interrogation.
Knowing how to cover up bruises with make-up is priceless information. It saddened me that 2M apologized. As far as I’m concerned, no apology was needed.
The world is heading into a safe-space and the safe-space is called conservatism . Soon, we won’t be able to belch without a dissertation being written about it.
I suggest you get yourself all bruised up before the PC army arrive. And I have no doubt, they are on their way to ruin our sex-lives next.
As my Irish ancestors would say: “ To be sure, to be sure”.
Vanessa de Largie is an actress, author, freelance journalist and sex-columnist.
Actress. Author. Freelance Journalist. Sex-Columnist.

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Embarrassing but every time I have sex with my boyfriend, I always end up having bruises over a lot of my body. Not just little ones, big swollen painful ones. It's just when it's sort of in the heat of the moment, I don't notice any pain because I'm sort of concentrating on other things. And no, I'm not high or drinking anything.
But the pain after with the bruises is really awful, and I don't know how to prevent it. Sometimes I can't even cross my legs for weeks! Its not as if it's bad horrible rough sex, it's amazing but I just always end up hurt and bruised afterwards. What shall I do?

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Does he flipping punch you and **** you at the same time or something...

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Does he flipping punch you and **** you at the same time or something...

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(Original post by WildBerrySpirit )
To be fair, some people just bruise easily.

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You been having sex with Mickey Rourke or something?

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Its his massive slong swinging around hitting you, thats how you are getting bruised

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(Original post by ***Hannah*** )
That's fair enough because when somebody punches me I bruise easily.

But read elsa_89's post...

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(Original post by Colonel Brusnahan )
You been having sex with Mickey Rourke or something?

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Did you have sex with Edward Cullen?

Like someone else said...you probably bruise easily OP.

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(Original post by ocelotrevs )
Sounds like how Marv does it.

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Wow...that's very strange, I must tell you.
Can you consult a doctor? Or is this your boyfriend's doing?

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Maybe it's time to tell your boyfriend to be a little gentler and more careful! Just because you don't feel anything doesn't mean he can't be careful! You can still have rough sex without getting horrible bruises.

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He's either beating you up at the same time or you have a condition where you bruise very easily. Worth a trip to the doctors.

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Did you have sex with Edward Cullen?

Like someone else said...you probably bruise easily OP.

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Clearly need to speak to a doctor....

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No, usually when I can't cross my legs because his hips dig into my legs in missionary and I get really bad bruises from that. When we do it from behind I get bruises from when he goes into me, but they're not so bad. And when I'm on top or something like that, he holds my hips very tightly and leaves finger bruises there. Then he likes to give me love bites so I really look like I've been in the wars or being beaten up by him after sex. I tell him I don't mind about why I look like that, I'd rather keep having sex with him and live with it, and he says he's sorry he doesn't realise he's doing it at the time.
But it's starting to annoy me a bit! It's like I can't have good sex without it hurting afterwards...

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