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No girl would rank the time when she walked in on her boyfriend watching porn as one of the top five best moments of her relationship. Still, the fact that your boyfriend watches porn may make you feel insecure or upset, or think that it poses a threat to your relationship. It is up to you to evaluate your values and determine whether or not porn is "okay" or "not okay". Watching porn is a common activity for men and women, not just men exclusively. It is important to recognize that if you want to accept your boyfriend's interest in pornography. This article is for people who do not think of porn as a deal breaker and would like to accept the porn into their relationship.
Talk to your boyfriend about it. Have an open and honest discussion about how his porn use makes you feel. Let him know what you're thinking and feeling, what doubts you have, and ask him some questions about his views on pornography. You'll feel better if you put your feelings out there and let him know what you're thinking and feeling. If he respects you, he'll respect your views and will take the time to listen to you. You can even ask him about his reasons for watching it, if you like, if you are concerned that he is aroused for the wrong reasons.
Just know that many men view their porn watching as a very private activity, just like masturbation, and your boyfriend may not want to discuss every little detail with you.
If you can both be open and understanding of one another, that is a good sign that you can grow together intimately with or without porn.
Don't try to ban it, but establish each other's boundaries to the relationship. Unfortunately, if you know you are not okay with porn and you try to keep your significant other from watching it, you may fall into a pattern of being the "porn police". This behavior causes distrust in the relationship, and can cause him to keep his porn use hidden from you, or cause tension and discomfort while talking about the subject. If you feel okay with the porn, the concept of keeping him from watching it should not arise. If it is only certain genres of porn that upset you, make sure to talk about this with him and let him know why it makes you feel the ways you do. If you are unsure, try to imagine yourself watching porn, or maybe you do watch porn. If you can understand the reasons he may have for watching porn or the reasons you enjoy watching porn, you can mutually grow and include the porn into your sex life. Understand your feelings before you act. If you feel tempted to snoop, or pick through his search history, you may find at the end of that road even more distrust and dishonesty. If your boyfriend is okay with you watching porn, and he also thinks it is okay for him to watch porn then the two of you can have a better, open conversation on how you can incorporate it into your bedroom and fulfill each other's fantasies.
Porn is a substance that can be addictive, and if you believe that he may have an issue based off of how the porn effects your relationship, he also has to see that. If he agrees with you and would like to stop using porn not only for the relationship, but also for himself. You can grow together, although it will not be easy and the use of counseling, couples counseling, or online programs like No Fap, will help significantly. If your boyfriend does not see eye-to-eye with you and how you feel, he will most likely do nothing to change, and you cannot change him even if you try.
If he chooses to stop using porn, he will still masturbate and he'll still have fantasies. If you are thinking of banning porn to make your boyfriend only think of you sexually, that is not reasonable. Men and women both fantasize about people who are not their lover, it could be movie stars, people from real life, a cartoon, whatever it may be... It is hypocritical to believe that you can have freedom over your fantasies and he can not.
Try not to be paranoid during your time together. When you and your boyfriend are hanging out watching TV, going for a run, or having a romantic dinner, understand that you may have thoughts about the porn and you may question if he is thinking about the porn while you spend time together. For men, usually their porn use is separate from the relationship and used as non-attachment and impersonal fulfillment of pleasure. Enjoy every moment you spend with your boyfriend, and know that he's enjoying every moment too.
Define what cheating means to you. You do not think of porn as cheating or you do think of it as cheating. Some men and women are not okay with porn and know how they feel about it being in a relationship. If you are uncomfortable and feel like his excitement of watching other women engage in sexual acts is cheating, then that may mean you are not okay with the porn. Do not feel like you have to rationalize his porn use and discount your feelings. If you feel that it is not cheating, then you probably just think of it as a pleasurable movie, the videos do not pose a threat to your relationship and you may define cheating as being something you can only do with a real person. Your definition of cheating matters, and understanding what your partner's definition of cheating is will help you feel more secure in your relationship or find points where you both will need to find compromise.
Ask yourself if you have any objections to having porn in your relationship. If you have values that don't align with the genre of porn he watches, communicate that. If you feel like the porn has a negative effect on your trust for him (if he was hiding it from you) then understand that the porn may not be the core issue, dishonesty could be the primary issue to deal with. It is essential to understand your own feelings and beliefs, and ask yourself if you can see yourself in a long term relationship with your partner and not having an issue with porn. It's important to be honest with yourself an d be clear with your partner.
If you are triggered by porn and have insecurity because it brings you to your past, you may want to explore yourself further and see if porn is the issue or if there is trauma you need to work through. If you have a hard time sorting through your feelings about the porn, seeking a friend who is understanding may help. If you feel that you can't consult a friend, there is professional help or advice online and in person available. It is okay to feel like you are okay with porn and then later feel not okay with it. People change everyday, and getting to know yourself while getting to know another person in a relationship can be difficult.
Identify your insecurities, if any of them root directly to porn and the nature of porn, then you may not be okay with porn itself. If the insecurities you have go back to dishonesty, trust, or intimacy, you should consider bypassing pornography as being an irritant to the initial, core problem.
If you have had cheating boyfriend in the past, or your boyfriend has cheated on you, you may feel like porn is a window for cheating, or that he may still be cheating on you.
Know if he has a real problem with pornography. There's a difference between being a casual porn watcher and having a porn addiction. If your boyfriend is obsessed with watching porn and sneaks away to watch porn every chance he gets, then he may be having a real problem with a porn addiction and should seek help. Though most of the time this is not the case, it's important to know that it's a possibility.
Ask yourself if his porn habits are affecting your relationship, replacing the time he spends with you, and generally making it difficult to be romantically involved. If this is the case, then you may have a real problem on your hands and should discuss next steps.
Consider watching porn with him. While this isn't for every couple, if you see nothing morally objectionable about porn though you have never watched it before, or if you've seen it before and are curious about what it's like to watch porn as a couple, then see if you and your boyfriend can have a kinky time watching porn together. Your boyfriend may not think this is a good idea, and if he doesn't, you shouldn't push him on it too much. And if you do watch it with him, watch it for the enjoyment of watching something sexy together, not to gauge his reaction to see how much he really likes it. This will make him self-conscious and unlikely to enjoy himself.
Try to use the porn to discuss your boyfriend's sexual fantasies. Many men say that they watch porn as an escape, and that they'd never want to do the same things with their girlfriend that they see people doing on television. Yet, sometimes the stuff he watches on porn can make him yearn for something with you, even if it's just some harmless role playing or some time spent having sex in a new position or making out in a new location. Talk to him about it to see if the conversation may take your own relationship to a new level.
Your boyfriend may want something in the bedroom but may be too shy to ask unless you press him. Of course, this doesn't mean that you have to do anything that you're uncomfortable with. The fact of the matter is, a lot of porn does objectify women, and you don't have to do anything that makes you feel demeaned or worthless.
And hey, you can use this as a time to tell your boyfriend about any fantasies you may be having as well.
This doesn't mean that your boyfriend will jump for joy when you ask him about what he's watching during his porn solo sessions. It may make him uncomfortable, and that's only natural too.
Discuss your next steps. Once you've had an open and honest discussion about watching pornography, then you and your boyfriend can discuss what next steps you can take. Here are some options you may decide on:
Breaking up. Though breaking up over your boyfriend watching a regular amount of porn alone may not be that common, the porn watching can be indicative of larger issues that may have brought the relationship to a status of beyond repair.
Watching it together. If you don't find porn offensive and are curious about what turns your boyfriend on, then this may be an option for you. Just make sure he's comfortable with it.
Having your boyfriend try to watch porn less, or not when there's a chance you may walk in on him, if that's what you really want. Though you don't want to force your boyfriend to curb his desires or to become too secretive around you, this may be the best option you come up with.
Seek a relationship counselor if it's necessary. If your boyfriend is suffering from a porn addiction and you want to help him overcome it, then you may choose to see a counselor together, or to have him see a counsellor. Or your conversation about porn may lead to your realization of larger problems in the relationship, such as issues related to infidelity or insecurity. If this is the case, then you may need to seek outside help for your relationship.
What do I do if I saw my boyfriend watching porn and he told me it was because he was bored of seeing me naked?
Get a new boyfriend. No one deserves to be talked to that way. He will respect you only as much as you respect yourself.
My boyfriend always says he loves my body, but he always looks for types that are completely different than me. How can I believe him?
There is a big difference between loving a person and getting turned on by seeing a specific body type. He might not see your body the same way you do, so he might not think you look as different from them as you think you do.
Does it make me a bad girlfriend if I feel insecure when he watches porn?
No, it doesn't make you a bad girlfriend. However, if porn interferes with your own self esteem and self worth, you need to work on that and cultivate greater self love. You can talk to your partner about how you feel and discuss options. You can decide whether you want to be romantically involved with a porn user. Many women do not want to be intimate with a porn user because of the inherent misogyny in modern porn.
How do I deal with my boyfriend watching gay porn when I'm a girl?
Well, depending on his sexuality, it might be just a kink he has. Maybe he's bisexual and just indulging that side of himself. Talk to him about it if you want to. Try to be understanding and not accusatory.
I try to talk to my boyfriend about why he watches porn, and all he does is get mad and starts a fight. How can I find out why he likes it?
If your partner gets mad when you ask about porn, it is a defense mechanism to hide his shame at using it. Getting mad is a deflection so that he doesn't have to look at his own behavior and take responsibility for it. It also may strongly indicate that he is addicted to pornography and cannot stop, and he is mad at himself for this addiction.
How do I explain to my boyfriend that I don't mind him watching porn but when I am in the house I would rather he initiate sex with me rather than watch porn when he won't even acknowledge he's watching porn?
Generally in case of sex/interests you can't force someone to do something particular. Maybe you can use some sexy clothing to get his attention towards you. That said, if it really bothers you and he values your relationship, you should be able to talk to him and he should understand.
How can I get my boyfriend to stop lying to me about looking at porn?
Keep this in mind - if he lies to you about porn, he probably lies about other things. Tell him you won't judge him about it, you just want to know (if this isn't true, that's why he's lying to you). Tell him when he lies to you, it makes you distrustful of your whole relationship and you don't know what to believe and it hurts. You don't want to be with someone you can't trust.
My boyfriend watches porn during the week when I am not there. When I discovered this on his PC, I got upset and started to feel that I am not good enough. I felt that he likes these girls and wants to be with them and not me. What should I do?
You need to understand that porn is, for the vast majority of people, a very impersonal thing. The viewer doesn't care about the individuals in the film and doesn't have any desire to be with them. They are just vehicles for sexual fantasies. You should not feel threatened or insecure, as long as your boyfriend isn't making you feel that way with his treatment of you.
How can I stop feeling like watching porn is morally wrong when my boyfriend says that it is fine but I am uncomfortable?
Different people find different things to be right and wrong. If it really bothers you, tell him. He should want to have a healthy relationship with you more than anything. Show him how seriously it affects you and why. If he refuses to see your side, you have two options - if the failure to resolve this issue is very important to you, break up with him. If you're willing to accept it, just tell him not to watch it in your presence or ever bring it up with you. This is the very least he should be willing to do.
In the pornography he watches, there are some raunchy threesome videos and girls younger than me. Does that mean he's secretly into raunchy scenes and that he prefers younger girls?
That's not necessarily the case. A lot of guys enjoy the fantasy of raunchy pornography and group sex, as no more than a fantasy. It also just happens that a majority of pornography features younger women, because younger women get more views. Your boyfriend probably also has a pretty open mind when it comes to watching pornography.
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