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There is nothing better than climax, is there? However, many people face difficulty ejaculating with the slightest efforts like dry humping or a simple hand-job. When a guy stays erect for too long without actually reaching climax, the feeling of pleasure can turn into a painful erection for him, and this is known as blue balls. The easiest way to get him out of this pain is sex, but sometimes giving somebody blue balls can make him feel better when ejaculating. So how to give a guy blue balls intentionally?
Our bodies work in amazing ways. Men's reproductive organ, for example. Within a few seconds of arousal, his penis changes in shape, becomes hard, and expands up to inches! All this magic that goes on is simply the blood coming into his penis with more and more pressure than before, and not going back out because the veins that allow the blood from his penis to flow back swells and constraints it. The pressure and the increase of incoming blood in his beloved organ against the decrease in outgoing blood is why the organ expands and hardens (Many people refer it to as a "boner"). When a boner has been up for quite a while, all the pressure built inside it and his balls starts to hurt the man. He needs to get rid of the pressure to get rid of pain, which is done by ejaculation, which opens the veins again to let blood flow out as his muscles relax and he lets it go.
The best way to give a guy blue balls is by locking his little soldier up in a chastity device, so that all your hard work does not go to trash. To explain how, it is really easy: try to bring him to climax and then suddenly stop, you leave him hanging and begging for it, of course, with blue balls. However, you must both be at consent with this kind of seduction because this act of leaving him hanging at the edge can irritate him and be painful for him. Many couples try the chastity device and it pleases them as the woman decides when or not to unlock his penis. Men are usually the ones who dominate in bed, and this can bring a twist in your sex life.
Now that you know what causes blue balls and how to give a guy blue balls, you should know that even though men might take advantage of this situation and convince a girl to have sex to relieve them of the pain, it is definitely not necessarily the girl's task. If you have not caused his blue balls, you are not restricted to make it go away. In fact, according to a doctor, having blue balls is nothing to be afraid of as it does not cause any damage. A man can get rid of his blue balls simply by masturbating till he ejaculates.
In the world of medicine, doctors and other professionals disregard blue balls as an ordinary situation, and many even consider it only a myth. No real consideration of this situation has been made in years, and it was only realized when a young boy came across this problem. However, and as we know, his problem was solved once he became sexually active with his girlfriend.
To talk about practical solutions, there are some. It is already discussed that the swelling of the veins restricting the blood flow out of the penis causes this painful condition. So, to get rid of blue balls, we must reverse this biological trap made in the penis, that is, we must open those veins again. This can be done by ejaculating either by masturbation or whatever way the man may choose; or, alternatively, like we unclog our ears in an airplane through forcing air, a man may use a Valsalva Maneuver to force an exhalation to open the veins.
All concerns about reproductive organs are extremely sensitive and it must not be concluded that any pain caused during an erection is the pain from blue balls. While it may seem unlikely to you, there may be underlying medical conditions like urinary tract infection or such, that may be causing the pain. In such cases, obviously sex or ejaculation is not the answer. It is best to be safe, and hence, get checked if the pain is recurring. Knowing how to give a guy blue balls and how to release it, you can also help rule out whether your boyfriend is having blue balls or a medical condition.
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Have an orgasm to release the pressure. This is the quickest, easiest, and probably most enjoyable way to get rid of blue balls. Once you have an orgasm, all the blood drains away from your genitals, which gets rid of the problem. The sooner the better, so get started! You can do this alone through masturbation, or with a partner by having sex. As long as you have an orgasm and ejaculate, the method doesn’t matter. [1]
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Never use blue balls as an excuse to pressure your partner into having sex. You can take care of the problem yourself if your partner isn't in the mood.
Women can also feel something similar if they get aroused without having an orgasm, and the solution is the same.

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Hold a cold compress on your testicles if you don't want to have an orgasm. Sometimes, it's not the right time to have an orgasm or you don't want to have one. Luckily, you also have some other choices to get rid of blue balls. Try holding a cold compress against your testicles. [2]
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This might be a little uncomfortable at first, but it numbs the pain and also restricts blood flow. This should make you feel better until the blue balls pass.

A cold shower might seem like a cliché, but this works too! Try to focus the water on your testicles.
If you’re using a cold compress, always make sure you wrap it in a towel and don’t let it directly touch your skin. [3]
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Exercise to focus blood to other parts of your body. There is no real evidence that this works, but some men say it helps them. [4]
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Try doing some exercise to drain blood away from your genitals and towards other parts of your body. At the very least, this can distract you from the pain until the blue balls clear up.
This might be uncomfortable for a little while until the blood drains away from your genitals.

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Distract yourself with other activities so you don't notice the pain. Even if you do nothing, blue balls will eventually go away on their own without any problems. In the meantime, anything can distract you from the pain until it passes. [5]
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Do something you enjoy for a little while until the blood drains naturally.

Something that requires mental concentration, like solving a puzzle or playing a complicated videogame, could work well as a distraction.
You might find physical activities like sports more distracting. These work, too.

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Focus on non-sexual thoughts so the problem doesn't get worse. Unless you’re working on having an orgasm, then sexual thoughts won’t help your blue balls. Instead, they’ll keep you aroused and the blood won’t drain from your genitals. Clean out your dirty mind and focus on non-sexual thoughts while you’re trying to distract yourself. [6]
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Notice an aching heaviness in your testicles when you’re aroused. Blue balls only happen when you’re aroused. If you were aroused without having an orgasm and notice some pain or aching in your genitals, then it’s a good bet that you have blue balls. [7]
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You can get started trying to relieve the pain now.

This might feel slightly different for everyone. Some men say their testicles feel heavy or full, rather than painful. Some might feel dull or sharp pains around their genitals.
Remember that blue balls aren't harmful, so you don’t have to worry about seeing a doctor unless the pain doesn’t go away.

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Don’t rely on your testicles turning blue to identify blue balls. Despite the name, your balls probably won’t actually turn blue. [8]
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At most, your scrotum might have a slight blue tint or a few blueish areas where the veins are, but it probably won’t be too noticeable. Don’t rely on this sign to diagnose blue balls.
Your scrotum might look more red or pink instead of blue. This is from the blood building up in the area.

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See your doctor if your testicles hurt for more than a few days. In almost all cases, blue balls clear up on their own within a few hours and you won’t have any lasting problems. However, if the pain doesn’t go away, even after having an orgasm, then you might have an underlying issue. Wait a few days to see if the pain goes away, and if not, make an appointment with your doctor to get to the bottom of it. [9]
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On the other hand, you don’t have to see your doctor for blue balls as long as the pain goes away. It’s a normal problem that doesn’t cause any harm.

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Make a doctor’s appointment if your testicles hurt without being aroused. You might assume that any pain in your testicles means you have blue balls. However, if you feel pain in your testicles and you haven’t been aroused recently, then you probably don’t have blue balls. This might be from a separate issue, so if your testicles start hurting without a cause, then it’s best to see your doctor for an exam. [10]
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All kinds of things can cause testicular pain, and luckily, most of them aren’t dangerous. They range from minor infections, fluid buildup, inflammation, or injuries. These are all treatable problems. [11]
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Blue balls might be uncomfortable, but they're completely harmless. This happens to almost every guy at least once, so you're not alone. Still, there’s actually not a ton of research on how to get rid of blue balls. Luckily, a few tips do tend to work pretty well. The surefire solution is having an orgasm, but there are also some other options. In any case, there's nothing to worry about.

The content of this article is not intended to be a substitute for professional medical advice, examination, diagnosis, or treatment. You should always contact your doctor or other qualified healthcare professional before starting, changing, or stopping any kind of health treatment.

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