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13 Blow Job Myths That Just Need To Die
1. Myth: You should swallow even if you're not a fan.
2. Myth: All men are obsessed with blowies, so if a dude doesn't want one, he hates you.
3. Myth: Deep throating is the key to an excellent BJ.
4. Myth: There's basically only one blow job position.
5. Myth: A blow job isn't "real sex."
6. Myth: It's normal for guys to push your head down.
7. Myth: If your teeth touch his penis, it'll fall off.
8. Myth: You always have to perform a blow job to completion.
9. Myth: Your mouth can always provide enough spit to make the act enjoyable.
10. Myth: If your BJ skills are up to par, it should be over in a few minutes.
11. Myth: You need blow-job sorcery for uncircumcised penises.
12. Myth: If you give your mouth a break, you have to start from the beginning.
13. Myth: You have to love giving blow jobs in order to be sexy.
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Oral sex can seem baffling if you think about it when you're not turned on. You're supposed to put your mouth where? And you would want someone's face in your most private spot why? But in the moment, when you're with someone you're into, oral sex can seem like a more genius invention than the lightbulb. The only annoying part is when you're having sex with a guy and certain blow job myths get in the way of both of you enjoying the act as much as possible. Here, 13 blow job myths you should stop believing, stat.
Unlike green smoothies, semen is not some nutrient-rich elixir. When you treat someone to a mouth-induced orgasm, they don't get to judge what you do after the fact. Spit, swallow, move out of the way so it doesn't get in your hair, whatever. As long as you're not like, "Ew, this is disgusting, you're a beast," there shouldn't be any complaints.
There are so many reasons a guy may not be up for a blow job. Just like some women love receiving oral sex and others prefer different forms of clitoral entertainment , he might be into a different kind of foreplay. Or he could be saving you from encountering his sweaty post-workout package. Or maybe he wants to talk about his feelings instead of having sex. Point is, it doesn't automatically mean he doesn't like you or thinks your blow jobs are awful.
If you can deep throat without issue, go for it. It's an awesome skill that you unfortunately can't list on your résumé, so use it when you can. But you can also give a stellar blow job without the head of a penis provoking your gag reflex.
Actually, there's a whole wide world of oral sex positions out there beyond you kneeling in front of him. You can try 69, lying next to him, your head hanging off the bed, lying down while he kneels on top of you, and so much more.
For some women, getting face-to-face with a penis is more intimate than having PIV sex. And even if you're not one of them, you can definitely still get sexually transmitted infections from giving a blow job because you're exchanging bodily fluids (and you can also get STIs like herpes and HPV from skin-to-skin contact).
Great if it turns you on. But if it makes you feel weird, ask him to stop. Blow jobs should be good for both people, not just the one receiving them.
The world won't end because you experience a little teeth-penis contact. As long as you're not scraping them up and down his shaft throughout, it's probably not an issue. Depending on the guy, he might even like it! But definitely ask before doing it intentionally.
You could. Or you could trade off, so he goes down on you for a bit, then you continue giving him a blow job after. Or you could stop before he comes and have sex until he orgasms . Or you could break up intercourse with some bouts of oral sex. The end goal doesn't always have to be orgasm.
Cotton mouth happens. Luckily, flavored lube exists! Just be sure to use a type that's compatible with condoms if they're a part of your sex routine, and also check that it's safe for intercourse if you plan on doing that after.
So many factors can influence how much time it takes a guy to orgasm: when he most recently came, what he's thinking about, whether he's holding out because he wants it to last longer...
An uncircumcised penis is still sheathed in its foreskin, which covers the head. A circumcised penis no longer has a foreskin, so the head is exposed. That's the only difference—they're both still penises, and guys still like it when you touch them.
Yes, the two types sometimes require different kinds of stimulation, since uncircumcised penises often have more sensitive heads and there's more skin to play with. But if you're used to one kind of penis and encounter another, don't freak out. Just ask the guy what he likes! You have his penis in your hands. He probably won't mind if you ask exactly how he'd prefer for you to handle it.
If he's right on the brink of orgasm and you call a time out, yes, you'll probably have to put in some extra work to get him back to the point of no return. But if you feel like your jaw's seizing up, give it a rest. You can use your hands to keep the good feelings going.
You know that whole idea of how nothing's hotter than a woman who loves giving blow jobs so much, she can practically orgasm from them? False. Enthusiasm is always attractive, but you don't have to worship at the blow job altar to be attractive yourself.
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Whether you're giving a blowjob as foreplay or the main act, oral sex is a great way to intimately connect with your partner. And while it's important to take your partner's pleasure into consideration, it's just as important to make sure you're prioritizing your own pleasure. This means only giving your partner a blowjob if you want to give them one, choosing positions that are comfortable for you, and not being afraid to say "no" if you don't like the way something feels or how it is escalating.
Fortunately, there are a lot of ways to help your partner reach a delightfully intense orgasm while also enjoying yourself. If you don't know where to start, you aren't alone. Trying to make sense of a whole ocean of blowjob tips can feel daunting and distinctly unsexy.
To make sure you can confidently please your partner and yourself, POPSUGAR spoke with a few experts about how to give blowjobs that are supremely enjoyable for everyone involved. The most important thing to keep in mind? There's no one right way to do it. The easiest way to give good blowjobs is to stay in tune with each other by communicating, listening, and feeling your bodies react. Keep reading to get a full rundown on mind-blowing blowjob tips, and get ready for some serious compliments.
You don't want to do too much too quickly, so think of teasing as foreplay for foreplay. "Beginning with the hottest move makes it difficult to build toward a crescendo and maintain the excitement and endurance needed to reach climax," Jess O'Reilly, PhD, resident sexologist for Astroglide , tells POPSUGAR. "First, rile [your partner] into a frenzy with a feather-light touch, teasing licks, wet kisses, shallow sucks, and heavy breathing."
Kristen Mark , PhD, sex and relationship researcher, educator, therapist, and contributing expert for the sexual wellness app Coral , echoes this: "Once [their] arousal is heightened, slowly take [them] into your mouth and use your hand to provide pressure on the shaft," she says.
And remember to watch out for those teeth. "For the first touch, keep in mind that the head or tip of the penis is extremely sensitive for most," Britney Blair , PsyD, cofounder and chief science officer of sexual wellness app Lover , explains. "Soft tongues and wet lips feel much better."
(Blair is board certified in sexual medicine.)
While "oral sex" and "blowjob" make it sound like a mouth-focused activity, experts agree that your hands play a crucial role. "Your mouth and tongue provide wet and warmth, but your hands provide tightness and rhythm," Jill McDevitt , PhD, MEd, licensed sex therapist and resident sexologist for CalExotics , says. O'Reilly recommends using your fingers on the outside of your lips, squeezing them together as you suck. "Your jaw will get a break, and you'll create an extra-tight squeeze that will make [their] toes curl," she says. This is also a great alternative if you don't enjoy the taste or sensations of a blowjob.
Another option, she adds, is to "create a ring around the base of the penis or use two hands to create a tight band around the base and both testes." Mark says to make sure you don't ignore the shaft. "Think about your hand and your mouth as two tools working together, but separately, for ultimate pleasure," she says. "Create one sensation with your hands, like a gentle twisting on the shaft, and another with your mouth, like a more intense sucking motion on the glans of the penis."
There's no "right" way to give a blowjob. Everyone has different preferences and pleasure points , so feel free to be creative, depending on what is comfortable for you. "Most blowjobs involve placing the tongue against the underside of the penis as you suck," O'Reilly says. "But the underside of the tongue offers a soft, gentle texture worth exploring." She recommends alternating between shallow sucks with the underside of your tongue on the upper side of the penis and deeper swallows in the traditional way.
Blair suggests trying long licks up the shaft, gentle kisses with only your lips, or circling your tongue around the tip of the penis. "You could even stroke the shaft of the penis while licking the head or fondling the testicles," she explains. To really kick things up a notch, McDevitt recommends holding a small vibrator on your cheek or under your chin so your partner can feel the vibration during the blowjob.
Remember, the penis doesn't have to be the only area involved in a blowjob. If you're comfortable, "using your mouth on the testicles and moving down to the perineum (the area between the testicles and the anus) is often just as pleasurable for many people as stimulating the penis," Blair says.
O'Reilly recommends using two fingers or a toy to press into the area. "Increase the pressure as [their] arousal intensifies, and stroke firmly back and forth (a tiny movement will do) in rhythm with your sucking," she says. While this area may be uncharted territory for you or your partner, it's worth exploring.
The more you enjoy it, the more they'll enjoy it. "The best tip I can give you is learn to love it," Blair says. "People who enjoy going down on their lover seem to be the most skilled at delivering pleasure to their partners." That said, this kind of blowjob confidence doesn't always happen overnight. If you're feeling insecure, talk to your partner ahead of time about what they like and don't like and discuss what you're most comfortable with. After, find a comfortable position, take a deep breath, and enjoy the power of pleasing your partner with oral.
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7 Best Sex Positions for Giving a Blow Job
Blow job's might not be a part woman's ideal romantic lovemaking session , but men sure do love them .
To make giving a blow job more enjoyable for you and your husband, we've rounded up the best sex positions for doing the deed.
Whether you haven't been trying your best or he hasn't been enjoying the usual blow job routine, trying one of these positions could help spice up your oral sex life .
The most common blow job position is the kneeling blow job . Many women opt for this position right away, because if it ain't broke, don't fix it. Plus, there are so many different ways you can give head in this position and other things you can try.
The boss's chair blow job position is one that works for every type of couple. Whether you're young and sprite or a seasoned veteran, you'll enjoy giving head in this position. To execute it, have your man sit in a chair and kneel in front of him to give him the best oral he's ever had. He'll feel in charge as you have your way with his member.
For the thigh pillow blow job position , you and your partner will both by laying on your sides in a sort of 69 fashion. You'll use his lower leg as a pillow while you give him a blow job. The key here is to make sure he keeps is upper leg out of the way, so as not to hit you in the face with it. That'll definitely kill the mood!
The doctor blow job position is pretty much exactly what you're probably picturing. Your man will lay down on a sofa with a prop under his head while you kneel to give him a blow job. This is also the
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