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My girlfriend wants me to give her a birthday spanking. One spank for each year. I have some concerns, but thought it might be a fun idea to explore....
Her birthday is a month away and I am not sure what to do?
Well, it sure beats going to the movies…or does it? Your ambivalence about giving your girlfriend the gift that keeps on stinging may stem from wanting to please your girlfriend on her special day, while simultaneously wondering whether it's up your alley. Spanking may not be for everyone, but it's not just limited to leather-bound S/M'ers (sadomasochism enthusiasts). Some may enjoy experimenting with various types of sex play that strays a little, or a lot, from the "standard" sexual positions. If you don't feel comfortable giving a spanking-new birthday gift, however, you may just want to follow your instinct.
You mention that spanking your girlfriend "might be a fun idea." Could this also mean that, "it might be fun to try?" Perhaps you would like to consider the upcoming spanking gift as a one-time experiment — one that you won't have to repeat unless you feel that it's exciting, fun, and safe for you and your girlfriend. If you would like to give spanking a chance, perhaps you can think of ways in which you would feel more comfortable doing so? For example, could you start this year with just one inaugural spank as a way of easing you into this new activity? Lights on or off? Music, perhaps?
Still, with your girlfriend's birthday a month away, you may want to use this time as an opportunity to explore the extent of your comfort, or discomfort, with spanking. How would you feel if you did spank your girlfriend and either one or both of you decided it's not the way to go? What would be the worst that could happen? Are you worried that you may hurt your girlfriend when spanking her? Do you feel that spanking your girlfriend may indicate violence or abnormality in your relationship? Are there other types of sex play with which you may feel more comfortable?
In the meantime, you may want to strongly consider having a talk with your girlfriend about her birthday wish and share any concerns that you may have about spanking her. Do you feel compatible with each other, sexually or otherwise? What other types of play would you both like to try? Remember that you are half of your relationship, so it's only fair and healthy for you to communicate with your girlfriend to let her know how you feel and what you want — even if it's her special day. If you're uncomfortable broaching this topic with your girlfriend, ask yourself why this may be.
Whatever you decide to do, make sure you feel comfortable with your decision. Communicating with your girlfriend about your wishes, as well as hers, may help you (and her) understand any underlying doubts about spanking and about other types of sex play. And who knows, maybe one day you'll want to be the one on the receiving end of that hand…
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michael costigan on September 14, 2021 at 1:19 am

My thirtieth birthday was approaching, and I was finally
going to do it. I’ve had a fascination
with spanking—with me on the receiving end—for almost as long as I can
remember, and this year I was determined to take the steps to have my fantasy
realized.
I developed this plan three years ago, but was too chicken
to see it through. This year I was
determined. I had already written the
note, enclosed it in an envelope, attached it to a nicely wrapped package, and
addressed the whole thing to Gail, the love of my life for the last seven
years.
I was uncertain how Gail would respond, but I had confidence
in our relationship, and even if I did not get what I wanted—a good
over-the-knee spanking—the tension of my secret would be released. At worst, Gail would find the topic amusing
and we would have a good laugh. At best,
well at best my birthday would be one to remember.
My birthday fell on a Saturday, so that afternoon I
announced I had to go run a few errands. I left the package on the kitchen table where
I knew she would see it before I got back. 
I am always more fluent in print than in person, and while I worked up
the courage to broach the subject of spanking, I was not brave enough to do it
face to face.
Excited and nervous, I took a long slow drive in the
country. (Why should this subject
embarrass us so, even with the ones we love?) 
As I drove, I imagined Gail discovering the package, opening the
attached envelope, and reading the note inside:
Today is my birthday, a
time for celebration. It is also a good
time to review the past and make necessary changes for the future.
Birthdays hold many
traditions: gifts, a cake with a candle for each year, and sometimes a birthday
spanking. Birthday spankings have long
been given by parents, close friends and lovers to mark the occasion. Often (I’ll bet) they are given as punishment
and absolution for the sins of the past year and encouragement for the next.
This spanking tradition has
long fascinated me, and I thought on the occasion of my thirtieth, you might try
it with me. The attached package contains
something you may find useful if you wish to participate in this ancient
birthday ceremony.
I extended my drive until I was sure Gail had more than
enough time to discover the package, explore its contents and get over the
initial shock, if any. When I reentered
the house, I saw that the package had vanished.
The rest of the afternoon passed as if nothing unusual was
going on. In the evening, we got a
little dressy and went out to dinner at a steakhouse we both like. I was on pins and needles waiting for the
topic of spanking to arise through the drinks and the appetizer, but relaxed with
an enjoyable dinner full of light and playful conversation through the steaks
and a delicious red wine.
After I was long past expecting it, Gail looked into my eyes
and quietly said, “I got your note. It
sounds like it could be fun. Why don’t
you tell me what you have in mind?”
I stammered, then admitted to my long-held fascination for
spanking. In low tones over cake, ice
cream and coffee, I described my fantasy of a long, thorough, humiliating,
over-the-knee, bare-bottomed spanking.
“Real spanks,” Gail asked at one point, “or just playful
little swats?”
“In my fantasy, it’s real spanks,” I answered, “but a key
element is that the spanker sets the tone and keeps full control of the
spanking session.”
We didn’t talk much on the drive home, each of us buried in
thoughts of our conversation over dessert.
When we arrived home, Gail spoke up, “Well Bob, why don’t we
get right to that birthday ceremony you requested. Come with me to the bedroom.”
As I followed Gail into our bedroom, I began to have second
thoughts. I have not been spanked since
I was small, and those were just a few swats delivered to a fully clothed
bottom. This could be rather
embarrassing, and even a little painful. 
My concern jumped up a notch when I saw the straight-backed dining room
chair in the center of our bedroom floor, with the contents of my present to
Gail laying on its seat. That little devil , I thought, she set this up just before we left for
dinner .
Gail walked over and stood next to the chair, leaned casually
against it, and said with an evil look about the eyes, “You know what happens
next. I want you naked from the waist
down.”
This wasn’t easy, with Gail standing there watching, but I
had included the element of humiliation in the description of my fantasy. With some nervous fumbling, and with no help
from my lover, I achieved the required condition.
I stood there, eyes downcast and blushing, as Gail sat on
the chair and beckoned me to approach. 
With butterflies in my stomach, and on shaky legs, I moved forward and
soon found myself seized and lying upended over a pair of capable thighs.
While embarrassed, I wasn’t uncomfortable, and the
realization of the position I was in and what would happen next stimulated me
noticeably. This was heightened further
when a familiar hand stroked and squeezed my bottom.
“I never noticed this before,” Gail said, “but this is a
very spankable bottom.” I wasn’t entirely
sure this was good news, but at least it seemed to indicate I was not the only
one getting into this scene.
After a few more minutes of strokes, touches and pats, Gail
spoke again, “Before we begin, Bob, are you sure you want to continue? Once begun, and in agreement with the rules you
described, all choices past this point will be mine.”
“Y-yes,” I stammered with considerable trepidation but
enjoying the moment and not wanting it to end, “let’s get on with it.”
“You asked for it. 
The number is thirty, right? We’ll
start with that.”
Start with that , I
thought, what does that mean? But before I could voice the question, I
heard a loud SMACK and a mild sting developed on my right cheek. Not too
bad, I thought. Then there was another
SMACK directed to the other side. She was
using her hand.
Gail started a little tentatively—not an experienced spanker—but
as we continued both the strength and the rhythm of the spanks began to
increase. By about twenty, what started
as a mild sting and a tingle grew into a distressful warmth covering most of my
backside.
I counted the spanks, and as we approached thirty, the heat
had grown to the point I was getting a little anxious about maintaining some
sense of decorum until the whole thing was over. I emitted little gasps and a few involuntary
kicks as the final spanks fell.
At the count of thirty, Gail stopped, and I began to
rise. It hadn’t been too bad, and at
least I had now experienced a real adult spanking. My secret fantasy realized.
As I levered myself up, Gail pushed me back into position
with a firm hand in the small of my back. 
“Not just yet, Bob,” Gail said, “we’ve completed the traditional thirty,
but I don’t think we have yet addressed the ‘sins of the past’ as you so eloquently
wrote in your letter. Besides, I haven’t
used the little present you gave me. Let’s
see, how did you phrase it in the note you enclosed in the box? Ah yes, here it is:
“Both your seat and my hand have grown a little hot, and,
while this lovely wooden hairbrush may not cool your bottom any, I’m sure it
will make a big difference to my hand,” Gail chuckled.
With that I heard a resounding SMACK!! as a sharp fire
penetrated my already sensitive right cheek. 
My head shot up, my legs kicked out and I emitted a surprised squeal in
response to this new assault, soon duplicated with equal effect on the left
side.
Gail learned quickly during what was apparently our warm-up
session. She showed no hesitancy now,
but delivered each spank with confidence and authority. In no time at all I was feeling true remorse
for all of my “sins of the past.” My
little gasps and exclamations soon turned to apologies and pleading. “I’m sorry,” I said. “I’ll be good from now on… You can stop now, please… No more, please… I’ve learned my lesson… I’ll be good, I’ll be good!” But Gail just maintained the steady
cadence. I was seriously, questioning my
common sense when I earlier talked about the element of “loss of control” by the
spankee. I did not realize she paid this
much attention, or took me this literally.
After what seemed like hours but must have been only a few
minutes, Gail tapered off to a few final, well-placed spanks and stopped. We were back to the hand of my lover gently stroking
my bottom, which in its current state forwarded every slightest touch to my
overheated brain.
When I regained some control, Gail helped me to stand. It was obvious we were both now in a high
state of sexual excitement. Clothes were
removed (not a lengthy process on my part), and we were soon on the bed
enjoying the most exhilarating and satisfying sex we’d enjoyed in a long time.
Much later, as we lay spent in each other’s arms, Gail
whispered in my ear, “Is that what you had in mind all these years when you
fantasized about being spanked?”
“Holy cow,” I exclaimed, “I had no idea just what a real
spanking could be like. I’m not sure I ever want to go through that again.”
“It was a real experience, wasn’t it,” Gail said with a
chuckle. “You learned what a real
spanking can be—what it is like to surrender control, to be taken over someone’s
knee and to have your bare bottom spanked thoroughly and completely.
“I have a confession to make,” Gail continued while massaging
my still very tender backside. “When I
first read your note, I didn’t know what to think. I wasn’t at all sure I could satisfy your
wish for real bottoms-up punishment, but I knew it was important to you or you
would not have opened up the way you did. 
And, about half way through the initial hand spanking, I realized I was rather
enjoying myself. I liked the feel of
hand meeting deserving bottom, and your cute little cheeks do color up nicely,
darling.
“You know, my birthday is coming up in a few months. We should schedule another session for that
occasion. Of course, I am not the one who
is into being spanked, so I guess we will just have to do a repeat of tonight’s
arrangement.
“I’ve also been thinking about all of those little
thoughtless things you do that annoy me,” Gail continued. “Spanking has been shown to be a very
effective teaching tool. You may want to
be a little more careful in the future.”
Oh lord, I thought,
what have I begun?!
If you’d like to know how this story might have gone had circumstances been a little different, check out its alternate version: A Birthday Request Gone Awry ; >)

Birthday Spanking In Pajamas - WWC 131

By Richard Windsor, on January 16th, 2019
I’m off to Iceland today guys, I will have my iPhone and iPad with me so I should be able to post updates from Iceland. Also, my intention is to book my trip to Vegas today for next month as well. As mentioned in a previous post I will be doing my annual interview with Dana Specht and I’m seeking questions to ask her. In return for asking a question you can get 56 vintage F/M pics that don’t get posted anywhere if that floats your boat. SEE THAT POST HERE .
Today, for my Windsor Wednesday Classic number 131, we take a trip to one of my favorite topics, birthday spankings. This is a great one as well because it leaves a lot to the imagination that allows you to create your own scenario.
What do you suppose is playing out here? A daughter on the way to college getting her final birthday spanking in front of her friend? Or perhaps, and this is my favorite, her friend has stayed over to help her move and it is the friend getting the birthday spankings from the dad? The upstairs neighbor coming to borrow some milk, AGAIN!! Or perhaps a niece is staying over?
Which scenario do you think is playing out? Most of the time I get very few comments, but I think a lot of that is because people don’t know where the comment box is. So I have made it easy, just click on the YOUR COMMENTS image below and you will be taken to straight to the comments section.
For you older folks out there like me, how many of you also thought that maybe this is Chrissie Evert’s tennis coach giving her some final early morning instructions 🙂
This will be added to my WINDSOR’S BIRTHDAY SPANKINGS collection.
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Classic and wow looks like a tennis player we old folks know. Nice
Ron
Indeed it does, Ron, as a young man I adored her, well, I esp
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