Bioshock Sister Sex

Bioshock Sister Sex

Menu
Home Controversy Culture Education Faith & Character Health Marriage & Family Religion & Philosophy Science

Countering "going to do it anyway."

I recently completed a graduate course in character education in which we were required to carry out an "action project." For my project I chose to use character-based sex education to try to instill in my younger sister and her friend the self-respect, self-control, and courage needed to lead moral, fulfilling, and healthy lives.
I wanted to inform my 14-year-old sister Kathy about something that I unfortunately just began to take seriously: abstinence. Sure, I have always known what the word meant, but I had never considered it an option for me, until recently. I felt that it was my responsibility to pass the philosophy of abstinence on to my sister because I know that she will not get it in the "going to do it anyway" program that is used at her high school. Also, she is a virgin (her friend is, too), so I wanted to show her how important it is to hold onto that purity.
I started these discussions when I accidentally overheard my sister Kathy, and her friend, Michelle, talking about a "slut" that one of their friends was dating. I asked them why they considered her a slut, and Michelle responded: "She has slept with at least eight guys already, and she is easy." I asked them to think about why this girl is so promiscuous. Kathy said, "She's trying to keep a boyfriend." They assumed that having sex was a way of holding onto a boyfriend and showing love for one another. They also assumed that condoms would protect them from disease and pregnancy and that having sex had no implications for their future adult lives. My goal was to dispel all these myths.
We first tackled the issue of sex as "showing love" or "keeping a boyfriend." I used the girl they were talking about as an example of how boyfriends come and go whether girls have intercourse with them or not. We also talked about girls' feelings when they are rejected after giving part of themselves to another person. I then told them about my having pre-marital sex, and how I wished these relationships had never occurred and that the only true way to find out if a guy loves you is to make him wait until marriage.

We talked about the self-respect and courage involved in leading sexually abstinent lives until marriage. These two young girls developed a new awareness of how truly loving relationships and commitments develop and are sustained. Their awareness was evident in their response to my disclosing that I recently told my boyfriend that I wanted to abstain from sex from now on and he said he could not do this. I asked Kathy and Michelle if they thought the relationship was worth continuing, and they both said, "No, he does not love you if he won't wait for you." I was proud of their answer.
I gave real-life examples of teens who became pregnant or who contracted STDs even with the use of condoms; one of those persons was a close friend of mine.
I also wanted to make these girls aware of the physical dangers of pre-marital sex. I gave real-life examples of teens who became pregnant or who contracted STDs even with the use of condoms; one of those persons was a close friend of mine. They were shocked to find out that this friend contracted herpes from sexual intercourse while using a condom. We considered the possible implications of such diseases: the inability to conceive a baby, passing on a sexual disease to your spouse, and transmitting a disease to your baby in the womb or during delivery.
Besides being more confident in their virginity, Kathy and Michelle have now set the personal goal of saving sex for marriage. They also no longer pick apart boys or girls who are sexually active by calling them "sluts" or "pimps" but instead focus on the deeper consequences of such behaviors and on what promiscuous girls and boys must be lacking in their lives.
My sister and Michelle have recently asked two of their friends to join us in our discussions. I've also shared my project with the parents of these girls. These parents are beginning to realize that abstinence-based sex education is more beneficial than the model now used at their daughters' high school.
A pdf version of this article is available here .
Jessica Burberry. "Teaching my younger sister about sex and love." excellence & ethics (Summer, 1998).
Reprinted with permission. Excellence & Ethics , published by the Center for the 4th and 5th Rs , is the education letter of the Smart & Good Schools Project. It features essays, research, and K-12 best practices that help school leaders, teachers, students, parents, and community members do their best work (performance character) and do the right thing (moral character).
excellence & ethics is published twice a year and may be subscribed to, without cost, here .
Jessica Burberry (a pseudonym) is a first-year elementary school teacher and a graduate student in education at SUNY Cortland.
© 1996-2022 Catholic Education Resource Center | Privacy Policy | Disclaimer | Sitemap

Faster & complete healthcare experience

I got my little sister pregnant

Share this page

Dr. Dyuti Navadia

Gynecologist/Obstetrician | Pune

2 /2
people found this helpful

Dr. K Supriya

Gynecologist | Bhilai

Dr. Sunita Kothari

Obstetrician | Jaipur

2 /2
people found this helpful

Dr. K Supriya

Gynecologist | Bhilai

0 /1
people found this helpful

Dr. Manju Kumari

Obstetrician | Hyderabad

Dr. Samuel Rajkumar Pilli

Sexologist | Hyderabad

Dr. Suresh Kumar Yadav

Pediatrician | Lucknow

1 /1
people found this helpful

Dr. Nikitha Murthy

Gynecologist | Bangalore

Dr. V.Suguna

Gynecologist | Hyderabad

Dr. Priyanka Suhag

Gynecologist | Delhi

Dr. Pushpa Gour

Gynecologist | Bhopal

1 /1
people found this helpful

Dr. Lavina Batra

Gynecologist | Pune

0 /1
people found this helpful

Dr. Vinod Kumar Verma

General Physician | Gurgaon

Dr. K Supriya

Gynecologist | Bhilai

0 /1
people found this helpful

Dr. Manoj Kumar

General Physician | Dehradun

0 /1
people found this helpful

Dr. Swaroop Karumuthil

ENT/ Otorhinolaryngologist | Meerut

Dr. S K Wadhwa

Gynecologist | Lucknow

0 /1
people found this helpful

Dr. Lavina Batra

Gynecologist | Pune

1 /1
people found this helpful

Dr. K Supriya

Gynecologist | Bhilai

Dr. Mukesh Kumar Gupta

Urologist | Kota

Dr. K Supriya

Gynecologist | Bhilai

Dr. Apoorv

General Physician | Saharsa

Dr. Lavina Batra

Gynecologist | Pune

1 /1
people found this helpful

Dr. Vivek Singh

General Physician | Delhi

Dr. Arpita

Dermatologist | Ahmedabad

Dr. Sai Dhuri

General Physician | Ratnagiri

0 /1
people found this helpful

Dr. Ujjyani Sengupta Pawar

General Physician | Mumbai

Dr. Gunjan Saini

Sexologist | Haridwar

Dr. Rajeev Kumar Verma

Ayurveda | Saharanpur

Dr. S K Wadhwa

Gynecologist | Lucknow

My period cycle is 32-34 days.I had intercourse on day 13th and 17th. My period is due in 1-2 days.
I had
...
Read More

Hi I usually get pain after ovulation till my periods but this month I have no breast pain instead its be
...
Read More

Hai
I am pregnant, I have hypothyroidism and also PCOM. Early pregnancy scan was done in which it was fou
...
Read More

I had protected sex with my partner on 20th november.. my period ended on 19th!
On 25th i started feelin
...
Read More

Hello everyone and happy new year
I am really concerned if i might be pregnant. I had unprorexted sex o
...
Read More

Disclaimer : The content is not intended to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your physician or other qualified health provider with any questions you may have regarding your medical condition. Never disregard professional medical advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have read on this website.

Copyright © 2017, Practo. All rights reserved.

Asked for Male, 29 Years

317 Views

v

Asked for Female, 30 Years

141 Views

v

Talk to experienced doctor online and get your health questions answered in just 5 minutes.

Asked for Male, 23 Years

3815 Views

v

Asked for Female, 30 Years

254 Views

v

Asked for Female, 33 Years

159 Views

v

Asked for Female, 22 Years

204 Views

v

Asked for Female, 2 Years

87 Views

v

Asked for Female, 28 Years

578 Views

v

Asked for Female, 30 Years

184 Views

v

Asked for Male, 32 Years

24 Views

v

Asked for Female, 27 Years

24 Views

v

Asked for Female, 31 Years

56 Views

v

Asked for Male, 23 Years

52 Views

v

Asked for Female, 25 Years

106 Views

v

Asked for Male, 26 Years

31 Views

v

Asked for Male, 26 Years

28 Views

v

Asked for Female, 19 Years

105 Views

v

Asked for Female, 29 Years

138 Views

v

Asked for Female, 39 Years

93 Views

v

Asked for Male, 18 Years

21 Views

v

Asked for Female, 36 Years

115 Views

Porn Brother Fuck Sleeping Sister
Horny Gang Community
Pawg Pussy Clap

Bioshock Sister Sex

Report Page