Bicurious Vs Bisexual
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Bicurious Vs Bisexual
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By most social standards, if you have consistently dated the opposite gender and intend to continue to do so, but are considering dating the same sex and have not yet done so, you would most likely be considered "bicurious" - you're curious, but haven't acted on your curiousities yet, and are thus still undecided. Being bisexual is typically defined by someone who has accepted their attraction or acted upon said attraction to both genders.
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I think that I'm bisexual. I've never thought of myself feeling this way, but I do. My new friend has admitted to being bisexual although she knows that I've never been. Lately I've felt somewhat attracted to her. I've even had dreams about her, but I still find guys attractive. Would you consider me bisexual or bicurious?
We are often called to label ourselves as purely sexually inclined one way or the other, either to be attracted to guys or to girls only, end of story. But in actuality, most people fall somewhere on a spectrum of attraction, fantasy, desire, and action with people of all genders. The curiosity your friend has sparked in you could be just that — same-gender wonderings — or it could be the impetus for discovering that you are bisexual, and may be attracted to other women in the future.
Your dreams about your friend fall well within the range of normal sexuality. Fantasies can be a powerful vehicle to discovering new facets and depths of your sexuality — some people feel ashamed of dreams or fantasies that do not fit into their waking lives or partners, but even taboo-feeling fantasies may teach us something about who we are attracted to and why.
The pioneering sex researcher Alfred Kinsey broke from popular thinking on sexuality in the 1950s, theorizing that bisexuality was in fact far more common than previously thought. Kinsey is perhaps most famous for his sexual-orientation scale, which represents exclusive heterosexuality with a zero and exclusive homosexuality with a six — bisexuality is regarded as an approximate three, when a person is equally attracted to or has had sexual experiences (including fantasies) with both men and women.
Most humans experience erotic desires, act on those desires, and have relationships in a social context. Kinsey's research showed that bisexuals had more sexual experiences with one gender or another depending on their social environment. In other words, factors that we might not think of as sexual per se, like political and social ties, can in fact influence those who we choose to be with and whether we identify ourselves as straight, gay, bi, queer, etc.
In the 1980s Kinsey's scale was updated for use in clinical studies by researcher Eli Coleman. Coleman's research broke new ground in understanding human sexuality, showing that while some people identify as either gay or straight consistently throughout their lives, a sizeable proportion of people do not. Many rate themselves as bisexual on questions of desire (or near a three on Kinsey's scale) but maintain exclusive gay or straight relationships. In addition, some people identify as a certain sexual identity as one point in their lives, and as another later on. In other words, sexual behavior and identity are not written in stone, and may shift as we encounter new people or life circumstances.
In your search for understanding your true nature, you may want to ask yourself what it is that attracts you to your friend. Given what we know from Kinsey about social context and sexuality, what factors of your friendship do you think is driving the attraction/dreams? Would you be comfortable talking to your friend about the spark you're feeling? You may wish to make an appointment with a therapist where you can talk to someone about your sexuality wonderings in an open way. Also check out the Continuum Complete International Encyclopedia of Sexuality , put together by The Kinsey Institute , with loads of information on bisexuality and new sexuality research.
Whether you're a solid three on the Kinsey scale or your scale reading is a little cloudy right now as you question and seek answers, you are certainly brave for digging deeper into yourself and learning more about your sexuality.
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10 Questions - Developed by: Angel - Updated on: 2021-06-15 - 1,089,226 taken - User Rating: 4.2 of 5 - 73 votes - 267 people like it
Would you feel comfortable being with someone of the same sex?
Have you kissed, or do you plan to kiss, someone of the same sex?
Could you like someone from the opposite sex, as well as from the same sex?
YES! I'd be totally cool with that.
Have you ever fantasized about being with someone of the same sex?
Have people (friends, family, relatives) ever questioned your sexuality?
No, everyone knows I'm fully straight
Do you care what people would or might say if you were bisexual?
No way! I'd be proud of the way I am!
I'm actually quite anxious about it.
Have you been confronted with homophobia already?
Not directly, but I've witnessed it.
Do you ever feel the urge/desire to have sex with the same sex?
No, I haven't thought about it too much.
Do you ever check out people from the same sex?
Would you say it is an emotional attraction as well as physical?
No, I'm not even really sure about the physical attraction.
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Plus, I have a crush on my bestie's TWIN BROTHER someone help
SO CONFUSED! (32240)
I am definitionally bi, but I was like "Oh, I'll take this quiz!" Then I was shocked to find out: You're in the middle between being bi-curious and actually bi. Me: What the-
I did the quiz as I have been questioning my sexuality after watching heartstopper. I didn’t know if I was BI or not but the label didn’t feel right until I heard that bi-curious was a sexuality and it feels about right! Although I would like to do a bit more thinking as I’m still not sure but bi-curious sounds right! It would be great if anybody is bi-curious if they could tell me their personal experiences.
Eclipse6789 (88861)
I'm inbetween bi- curious and actually bi... I've always thought I was straight until I met my BFF
Am I Bisexual, Bi-Curious or Just Confused? Quiz You're in the middle between being bi-curious and actually bi. Do what you feel is best for you - what you're the most comfortable with. Don't be afraid of following your heart! Not being straight is becoming less and less of a big deal in the mainstream. Go for what you feel is right! Even if it is unlikely that you are fully bi-sexual, there is no shame in trying different things and having a bit of fun! As long as you're honest with your partner, you'll be fine. So go on, be as curious as you want
I had to make sure if I was actually bi and I am I’m so happy about it:)
I'm bi! well i already kinda knew that because I dated a boy (we broke up now) and well now i am in love with my friend that is the same gender as me but her whole family is homophobic and she has to be straight but she said if she could she would be lesbian BUT SHE CAN'T FROM HOMOPHOBICS WHYYYY.... I really don't know what to do with my life now :( But anyways don't let people decide what/who you want to be it's your choice
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I don't know what I am. I've only dated guys, but I've been jealous when one of my female friends had a boyfriend and another time when she has had a girlfriend. The only problem I'm having is if I'm just curious or I am actually Bisexual. I also think that I'm scared to potentially find out that I'm Bisexual because I am raised to like guys, it's not that my parents are homophobic, I'm scared that I won't be seen the same or that I won't like who I am. I'm also scared to be bullied just because I also like girls. I guess I'm scared to be alone. Writing this comment has made me feel more comfortable about myself, if you need help or are anxious about it, I suggest writing or commenting about it :)
I'm literally dating a woman this quiz just said I'm not bi. Lmfao
im bi! second quiz and im still bi. I thought i was, just wanted some clarification (i found out this year when i started fantasizing about kissing my best friend whose the same gender as me, i also still like boys)
i'm bi :) you're all valid—remember that!!
I don't really know if I'm bi or just curious, but sometimes I imagined myself getting in a relationship with a girl and even planning my future with her.
I'm between bi-curious and bisexual, everything is still confusing for me though. As a girl, I have always liked men than women but I'm always okay with dating a girl.
I am between both bi curious and actually bi. But it would be fun😘
I am bi I think but I am also genderfluid. HELP PLEASE!
Um.. I like a girl and a boy at the same time and when I play episode I always choose to be with a girl. I admit, I keep looking at breasts and eyes and hair… Igh I need help
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I'm bisexual :) I have a crush on 5 females and 1 male. But im pretty sure all my female crushes are straight. :( I think I like woman a little more than men.
Help me! I'M SO UNSURE IDK IF I'M IN LOVE WITH MY BESTIE I'VE NEVER MET HER IRL I'M IN ONLINE SCHOOL. I'll know in the spring but I'll admit, I keep looking at her breasts...
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10 Questions - Developed by: Angel - Updated on: 2021-06-15 - 1,089,226 taken - User Rating: 4.2 of 5 - 73 votes - 267 people like it
Would you feel comfortable being with someone of the same sex?
Have you kissed, or do you plan to kiss, someone of the same sex?
Could you like someone from the opposite sex, as well as from the same sex?
YES! I'd be totally cool with that.
Have you ever fantasized about being with someone of the same sex?
Have people (friends, family, relatives) ever questioned your sexuality?
No, everyone knows I'm fully straight
Do you care what people would or might say if you were bisexual?
No way! I'd be proud of the way I am!
I'm actually quite anxious about it.
Have you been confronted with homophobia already?
Not directly, but I've witnessed it.
Do you ever feel the urge/desire to have sex with the same sex?
No, I haven't thought about it too much.
Do you ever check out people from the same sex?
Would you say it is an emotional attraction as well as physical?
No, I'm not even really sure about the physical attraction.
SO CONFUSED! (32240)
Plus, I have a crush on my bestie's TWIN BROTHER someone help
SO CONFUSED! (32240)
I am definitionally bi, but I was like "Oh, I'll take this quiz!" Then I was shocked to find out: You're in the middle between being bi-curious and actually bi. Me: What the-
I did the quiz as I have been questioning my sexuality after watching heartstopper. I didn’t know if I was BI or not but the label didn’t feel right until I heard that bi-curious was a sexuality and it feels about right! Although I would like to do a bit more thinking as I’m still not sure but bi-curious sounds right! It would be great if anybody is bi-curious if they could tell me their personal experiences.
Eclipse6789 (88861)
I'm inbetween bi- curious and actually bi... I've always thought I was straight until I met my BFF
Am I Bisexual, Bi-Curious or Just Confused? Quiz You're in the middle between being bi-curious and actually bi. Do what you feel is best for you - what you're the most comfortable with. Don't be afraid of following your heart! Not being straight is becoming less and less of a big deal in the mainstream. Go for what you feel is right! Even if it is unlikely that you are fully bi-sexual, there is no shame in trying different things and having a bit of fun! As long as you're honest with your partner, you'll be fine. So go on, be as curious as you want
I had to make sure if I was actually bi and I am I’m so happy about it:)
I'm bi! well i already kinda knew that because I dated a boy (we broke up now) and well now i am in love with my friend that is the same gender as me but her whole family is homophobic and she has to be straight but she said if she could she would be lesbian BUT SHE CAN'T FROM HOMOPHOBICS WHYYYY.... I really don't know what to do with my life now :( But anyways don't let people decide what/who you want to be it's your choice
Going in to see (12015)
I don't know what I am. I've only dated guys, but I've been jealous when one of my female friends had a boyfriend and another time when she has had a girlfriend. The only problem I'm having is if I'm just curious or I am actually Bisexual. I also think that I'm scared to potentially find out that I'm Bisexual because I am raised to like guys, it's not that my parents are homophobic, I'm scared that I won't be seen the same or that I won't like who I am. I'm also scared to be bullied just because I also like girls. I guess I'm scared to be alone. Writing this comment has made me feel more comfortable about myself, if you need help or are anxious about it, I suggest writing or commenting about it :)
I'm literally dating a woman this quiz just said I'm not bi. Lmfao
im bi! second quiz and im still bi. I thought i was, just wanted some clarification (i found out this year when i started fantasizing about kissing my best fri
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