Best Sex Positions To Make A Girl Cum

Best Sex Positions To Make A Girl Cum

Medically reviewed by
Dr Juliet McGrattan (MBChB) and words by Christine Webber

Why can't I come? An expert explains
These are the best times of day to masturbate
The essential orgasm guide for women
Vaginismus treatment tips by a sex therapist
Dr Juliet McGrattan (MBChB)
Dr Juliet McGrattan
Dr Juliet McGrattan spent 16 years working as an NHS GP.

Advertisement - Continue Reading Below
Anal sex: is it safe and what are the health risks
Advertisement - Continue Reading Below
Can mutual masturbation transform your sex life?
Female ejaculation: can you learn to squirt?
9 reasons why it hurts when you masturbate
Why you’re bleeding during or after sex

©2022 Hearst UK is the trading name of the National Magazine Company Ltd, 30 Panton Street, Leicester Square, London, SW1Y 4AJ. Registered in England. All Rights Reserved.

About Netdoctor
Disclaimer
Terms & Conditions
Privacy Notice
Cookies Policy
Contact
Complaints
Sitemap
Advertising

Cookies Choices

We earn a commission for products purchased through some links in this article.

Techniques to help you have a more exciting and orgasmic time.
Struggling to hit the high notes in the bedroom and hoping to reach orgasm at the same time as your other half? Or perhaps you're looking for tips to help your female partner climax when you do? Either way, the fact you're asking this question at all is a good start!
Great sex is all about experimentation, communication and fun, and if something isn't quite hitting the spot, the best way to boost your sex life and quadruple your chances of achieving mind-blowing orgasms is trial and error.
Therapist, broadcaster and health writer Christine Webber explains how to find the best positions to get you (or your female partner) coming like a steam train:
If you're a woman who finds climaxing easy and can have orgasms during intercourse with little effort – even in a position where it's difficult for your partner to access the clitoris with the fingertips – then you are very lucky indeed!
For the majority of us, 'ringing that bell' is not nearly so simple. Even women who can masturbate to a climax with no difficulty can feel quite anxious about 'coming' with a male partner.
This doesn't seem fair, because apart from the small minority of men who have psychological difficulties with sex and who cannot relax enough to ejaculate into their partner, most males have no problem at all in climaxing during sexual intercourse.
But of course, in a man, the penis is the pleasure-provider. And clearly a penis gets a lot of stimulation during intercourse.
Women, as you probably know, get their pleasurable feelings mostly from the clitoris.
Women, as you probably know, get their pleasurable feelings mostly from the clitoris – which is the bit of them that would have turned into a penis had they developed into a baby boy in the womb, instead of into a girl.
For that reason, most women need the clitoris to be stimulated during sex – and in many positions this simply doesn't happen. Now, please don't feel bad if you'd never really realised this before, because you are not alone.
In my consulting room, I've seen many successful women – including lawyers, bankers and TV presenters – who were quite unaware of what it takes for most women to climax and who, as a result, had spent ages blaming themselves and feeling inadequate. But the truth is that:
So, how do you learn to climax? Read on...
If you're having trouble in reaching climax, the best thing you can do is to start by learning how to orgasm on your own through masturbation. Once you can climax easily on your own, you'll find it much easier to have really exciting times with a partner.
Once you can climax easily on your own, you'll find it much easier to have really exciting times with a partner.
But even if you are the queen of masturbatory techniques, you might still find it tough to climax during full sex, and this will almost certainly be because your clitoris is not getting sufficient attention.
Here are four sex positions to try with a partner that might help you to enjoy intercourse more and to have fulfilling orgasms at the same time.
Basically this is a face-to-face position, but the man 'rides much higher' than he would in the missionary position so that his shoulders and head are about six inches higher up the bed than normal.
What this means is that his penis doesn't go all the way into the vagina. Instead, the stem or root of it is pulled hard against the clitoris – producing great sensations in that all-important little organ.
🐱 CAT stands for Coital Adjusted Technique, but don't let that technical and boring title put you off!
The other difference is that instead of taking his weight on his elbows, the man should simply let his bulk rest on his partner's upper chest. Clearly if he's a heavy bloke, this might be a problem!
You can experiment with this position to get it absolutely right for you. Some people do it with the man's legs outside the woman, but you can also try it with his legs inside yours.
Many couples find they can't thrust much in this position so they kind of 'rock' together. The CAT certainly produces very different sensations from many other positions, so it's worth a try, and it might just take you to the heights of ecstasy. I hope it does.
The man lies down on his back. The woman faces the other way and sits down on his penis. Then, in her own time, she gradually lowers herself so that – with his penis inside her – her back is lying fully outstretched on the front of his body.
The woman can feel genuinely weightless and free-as-air – which is quite a novel sensation. Another bonus is that either partner can touch the clitoris easily. So it's different and fun – and usually a great time is had by all.
This is a particularly good position if you feel nervous about touching your own clitoris. You shouldn't be of course because it's yours – and you should feel perfectly free to stimulate it yourself if you want to.
But the thing about this position is that many men can't really tell if you are touching your clitoris or not.
✔️ You lie flat on your front and he lies, face down, on top of you. He then penetrates you from behind.
✔️ But because you are flat on the bed, you get very different sensations from any rear-entry position where your bottom is up in the air.
✔️ And you can slip your hand in between the bed and your body and rub your own clitoris.
✔️ Plenty of women who have never 'come' during intercourse have found that they climaxed in the Pinner position.
Then there's 'the spoons'. This is the position where you lie on your side and your man lies curled up round your bottom (like spoons in a drawer) and penetrates you from behind.
Lots of women like this, though not all of them find it easy to orgasm on their sides. But the great advantage here is that either partner can reach down and rub the clitoris. Also, neither of you is having to take the weight of the other.
There is no right or wrong way to have sex with a partner. Every couple has to experiment to find out what works for them.
But I hope that trying out these positions will be fun – and that they may help you to have an exciting and orgasmic time.
A step-by-step guide to tantric massage

Lone Wanderer

My Besties are Coming

Beach Bum

Get Me Off the Grid

Bae-cationer

Family-Style

First Class Farer

Backpacker

Adrenaline Junkie

International Jetsetter

City Slicker

Resort Hopper

Cruise Connoisseur

Stay-cationer

Service Nomad

Frequent Flyer

Self-Care Devotee

Meet up with friends

Grab a bite out

Get my sweat on

Get gourmet in my kitchen

Craft a cocktail

Crack a beer

Enjoy a glass of wine

Stream my favorite show

Hang with my dog

Disconnect & meditate

Get crafty

Self-Care sesh

Curl up with a book

Keep up with classes

Tackle that home improvement project

Select your favorite footwear brands
Select your favorite automaker brands
By clicking here you agree that your In Touch Weekly, Life & Style, and Closer Weekly accounts will be deleted

Yes, please send me the Us Weekly Daily Newsletter with the latest news and photos of my favorite celebs!

Yes, I also want to receive information about promotions, events,
sweepstakes, giveaways, and other offers from
UsMagazine.com and trusted partners!

Yes, I’d like to receive the Stylish by Us Weekly Newsletter packed with the latest celeb trends, product picks and more!

Yes, I’d like to receive the Shop With Us Weekly Newsletter to stay up to date with the latest celebrity shopping trends!

Yes, please send me the Mens Journal Offers and Promotions

Yes, please send me the Mens Journal Whiskey Wednesdays

Yes, please send me the Mens Journal Newsletter

Yes, please send me the In Touch Weekly Newsletter with
the latest news and photos of my favorite celebs!

Yes, I also want to receive information about promotions, events,
sweepstakes, giveaways, and other offers from In Touch Weekly
and trusted partners!

Yes, please send me the Life & Style Newsletter with the
latest news and photos of my favorite celebs!

Yes, I also want to receive information about promotions, events,
sweepstakes, giveaways, and other offers from
Life & Style and trusted partners!

Yes, please send me the Closer Weekly Newsletter with the
latest news and photos of my favorite celebs!

Yes, I also want to receive information about promotions, events,
sweepstakes, giveaways, and other offers from Closer Weekly
and trusted partners!

Receive emails from Us Weekly Marketplace

I agree to the terms of the Terms and Conditions and the Privacy Policy

*
Please note that this form cannot be used to reset your Google or Facebook password. Visit Google or Facebook to do that.

Best Sex Positions for Women: 8 Positions for Female Orgasm
Some areas of this page may shift around if you resize the browser window. Be sure to check heading and document order.
By clicking Sign Up, you agree to our Terms and Conditions and that you have read our Privacy Policy .
Guys, there’s something you need to hear: If your girlfriend has trouble orgasming during sex, she’s not alone. Two out of every three women need clitoral stimulation (and sometimes lots of it) to orgasm, which means most women don’t orgasm through sex alone.
Luckily, hope isn’t lost. You may love doggy style for the deep penetration, but you might have to tweak it to ensure she’s getting clitoral stimulation. When aroused, blood flow increases so the clitoris becomes engorged and more sensitive, increasing her odds of climaxing. That’s why missionary position is such a great position for a woman’s orgasm: There’s constant contact and stimulation.
Here are the best sex positions for women. Prioritize her pleasure and both your intimacy and sexual health will benefit.

For access to exclusive gear videos, celebrity interviews, and more, subscribe on YouTube!

The classic spoon position is usually a go-to when you’re being lazy and don’t really feel like putting the effort into sex. Unfortunately, it’s not great for female orgasm.
Try a variation instead: the open-legged spoon. It’s still easy, but with better clitoral access.
Doggy-style looks really sexy and makes many of us feel pretty hot when we’re doing it. Just not hot enough to orgasm (most of the time). Instead of sticking to all fours, try a 90-degree doggy instead.
The 69 position is awkward, and I honestly don’t even know why we do it anymore. There are very few women out there who will actually get off during 69. You’re face-deep in your boyfriend’s junk, trying to concentrate on a blowjob while also trying to focus on your own pleasure. It’s hard, causes us to gag, and it’s kind of exhausting.
For a woman who doesn’t orgasm easily, it’s almost impossible to get off this way. With less head bobbing, there can be a lot more orgasming.
Missionary is the unsung hero that never gets enough credit. If done properly, it also happens to be a killer position for a g-spot orgasm. The trick is to elevate her hips. Your lady’s g-spot is located inside the vagina, right behind the pubic bone. If you can get your penis to hook under there, she will be coming in no time.
Sign up for our newsletter to get the latest adventures, workouts, destinations, and more.
Men’s Journal has affiliate partnerships so we may receive compensation for some links to products and services.

Presenting: Your Official Guide to Voting by Mail
Lotsa People on TikTok Relate to Demi's Song "29"
These Vaccine Card Holders Are a Travel Must-Have
Lip Balms That'll Make My 💋 Smooth? Yes, Pls
The Best Fall Books to Snuggle Up With
Jill Hamilton
Jill Hamilton is a contributor for Cosmopolitan.com and writes the blog In Bed With Married Women.

Carina Hsieh
Sex & Relationships Editor
Carina Hsieh lives in NYC with her French Bulldog Bao Bao — follow her on Instagram and Twitter • Candace Bushnell once called her the Samantha Jones of Tinder • She enjoys hanging out in the candle aisle of TJ Maxx and getting lost in Amazon spirals.

Advertisement - Continue Reading Below
The Best Sex Toys That Belong in Your Top Drawer
Here’s How to Have a Vaginal Orgasm
Advertisement - Continue Reading Below
Can’t Tell If You Had an Orgasm? Right This Way
18 Sex Positions That Help You Orgasm
My Boyfriend Never Has an Orgasm When I Go Down on Him
Things Guys Don't Understand About Female Orgasms
How 1 Woman Is Trying to Teach Guys to How Give Better Orgasms
Yep, Men Fake Orgasms Sometimes Too. Here's How.

We may earn commission from links on this page, but we only recommend products we love. Promise.

Featuring oh-so-many ways to put that sex toy collection to use.
Anyone who’s ever had sex will tell you that orgasms, sadly, aren’t always guaranteed. But the first rule of getting there? Don’t think about it. "Acknowledging the fact that orgasms aren’t the sole purpose of sex can actually help you climax quicker and with greater ease,” says Sarah Riccio , queer sex educator and co-founder of Delicto.com . “Taking the focus away from the concept of a grand finale can ease your mind and relieve performance anxiety, which, coincidentally, can help you cum. So before you and your partner hit the sheets, take a moment to prioritize pleasure and connection over orgasming.”
Basically: Cuming isn’t the end all, be all of sex with your partner. It’s about the ~journey~, not the destination. And yet, orgasms are freaking delightful, and if you want to increase your chances of having one (or, you know, multiple orgasms ), there is stuff you can do to accomplish your goals (while simultaneously, somehow, still not thinking about said goals!). Here’s how.
Repeat after me: If it takes you awhile to orgasm, that’s okay, do not feel bad. You and your body deserve patience from your partner, and they should want to take their time to make you feel good! “More than 80% of women can’t orgasm from penetration alone,” says Niki Davis-Fainbloom , sex expert for Keepler . “I highly recommend taking your time with foreplay , including manual stimulation , oral sex , and using sex toys , as it takes most women 10-12 minutes to get sufficiently aroused. Penetration feels infinitely better when you’re turned on.” (Emphasis on “arou
Top Free Porn Streaming
Blonde Pornstars Naked
Czech Orgasm

Best Sex Positions To Make A Girl Cum

Report Page