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Best Sex Nights
Written by Chiara Wilkinson Thursday 7 July 2022
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Searching for some seriously sexy club nights and specialist parties? From steamy saunas to full-on fetish nights, here’s our guide to the sexiest nights in London
If you’re looking for adult nights out in London, you won't be disappointed. Whether you're into fetish nights, kink nights, BDSM nights, rubber nights, queer sex parties, or anything in between, the capital has you covered. Here’s our pick of the grown-up London clubs that are fun, friendly and full of surprises. Fasten your seatbelts... it’s going to be a bumpy night.
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The big one. The world’s largest fetish and fantasy club, started in 1990, a visit to Torture Garden (affectionately referred to as TG) is considered a rite of passage for those wishing to explore and expand their sexual horizons.
It’s worth going just to look at the fashions; the dress code states that attendees shouldn’t even bother queuing for entry unless they’re wearing something that would turn heads and elicit stares on the street, so partygoers’ costumes will have your eyes on stalks (although that’s not where the ‘Garden’ name comes from; it’s a reference to a dark French novel about a sadist who likes to watch such horrors as flayings and crucifixions, juxtaposed against a beautiful outdoor setting in China).
Music is varied, more smoothly mixed than a masterchef’s crepe batter, and guests actually dance in addition to playing in the dungeons and dark rooms; look out for TG founder David on the decks, as well as manager Charlotte and the excellently energetic Rockit Riyad.
The stage shows are the stuff of lewd legend: Dita von Teese made her UK debut at TG; there are frequently hardcore body modification and manipulation demonstrations featuring everything from extreme piercings to contortion to people being suspended from ropes attached to hooks poked through their skin; and it’s not uncommon to see fireworks been set off from performers’ orifices, paint and milk being shot out of vaginas, and lasers shining from the bumhole of a trapeze artist.
There’s all sorts growing in the Torture Garden. We could make all manner of sexual/gardening puns about rooting and shooting here, but we’ll just say that TG offers top class alternative adult entertainment in spades.
A queer techno rave and sex party, Klub Verboten takes inspiration from the Berlin fetish scene. Creating an environment that centres respect and consent, their community offers BDSM practice, immersive experiences, and platforms emerging artists – all soundtracked to some killer underground electronic music.
Killing Kittens events take their name from the saying that 'Every time you masturbate, god kills a kitten.' If that were true, the RSPCA would have shut down KK’s decadent, hedonistic sex parties a long time ago, as a whole lot of tugging and rubbing goes on at them – plus a great deal of sucking, licking, flicking, moaning, groaning, pumping, humping, and people going down on each other goes down, too.
KK is aimed at ‘the sexual elite’: if you want to attend, you have to apply for approval before you can buy a ticket. The club claim that they 'don’t want supermodels – just people who take care of themselves' in order to maintain an exclusive, indulgent, 'Eyes Wide Shut'-type atmosphere (and attempt to weed out weirdos).
They also aim to be ‘female-oriented’: no single men are allowed to the parties, which take place at a variety of penthouses and swish London locations, and women are very much in charge of making advances to initiate play. There’s a posh ‘masked ball’ feel to events (and plenty of unmasked balls on display, too); guests don fine lingerie, suits or eveningwear; oysters and champagne are served; and rooms are lit by candles and chandeliers, with luxury sex toys and condoms provided.
Now a household name for London’s club kids, Crossbreed was set up in 2019 by resident DJ Kiwi who wanted to create a middle ground between the capital’s fetish, queer and dance music scenes. It’s a space designed for ‘more marginalised queer people’: for trans people, people of colour and those who have traditionally struggled to access spaces to explore their sexuality and gender identity.
Get your rocks off while listening to rock. Or industrial, punk, metal, 80s, alternative anthems – anything but the standard fetish club staples of hard house and funk.
Club Antichrist is an extremely friendly kink, dancing and live music event that’s fiercely and loyally loved by the young and smiley crowd it attracts. It has an informal and fun party vibe, featuring live bands – from steampunk groups and comedy ukulele troupes to gothic, hardcore or vocal harmony acts – and performers ranging from the silly (Smurf burlesque) to the stunning (fire hula hooping, magicians, bellydancing with swords) to the shocking (catheter shows, a chap wearing a dead swan on his back, and a bloke being covered in cold vegetable soup and fisted before having certain parts of his anatomy sewn together with a needle and thread).
Every night opens with the now legendary ‘Satan’s Strip Show’: an amateur striptease where anyone can take to the stage and perform either a practiced or impromptu routine in return for £50… but only if they get 100% nude. The uproarious, supportive applause that greets each participant reflects Antichrist’s accepting, body positive outlook and community spirit. The last time we attended, a man on crutches dressed as a rasher of bacon performed a dance that involved spanking himself with a spatula and spinning his man-sausage in a helicopter dick finale. Afterwards, we felt strangely compelled to go and buy a hot dog from the food stand in the main room.
There’s a dungeon and play areas; a couples’ darkroom; happy hours at the bar; ushers carrying trays of free sweets, condoms and lube; and a themed photobooth. If you find some other fetish clubs a bit serious or snooty, Antichrist is the antidote.
With spanking benches and strip shows, bondage beds and Shibari artists who tie up guests using Japanese rope bondage, One Night has been on London’s kink scene since 2019. Taking place at Inanna Studio, an intimate private sex dungeon in north London, the events centre completely on the female experience: meaning cis women, trans women, and non-binary people who are exploring their femininity are all welcome.
The Fox Den offers intimate, approachable, sex-positive events. From 24-guest hedonistic dinner parties (complete with a four-course meal cooked by a private chef and after-dinner ‘play’ for dessert), to live music and performance, there’s something for everyone – and it’s a great option for beginners to the scene.
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The capital offers plenty of adults-only fun – and it doesn’t have to be seedy. Our guide to naughty London
In the era of post-no-contact London, there’s never been a better time to explore the capital’s raunchy side. There’s plenty of kink, fetish and polyamorousness in our big, expansive city. Soho may be a little smarter than during its seedy red-light heyday, but that’s not necessarily a bad thing. From sex shops to clubs to private events, here’s our guide to sex in London. Some of it’s probably NSFW, but frankly, WFH has solved that particular dilemma.
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A sex scene in a movie has to accomplish a lot. Far from just depicting two characters (or more) doing it, a love scene should progress the story in some way, or tell the audience something new that they didn't know about a character before. Ideally, a good sex scene should also be hot, without being exploitative of the actors, or perpetrating demeaning tropes and cliches about sex. It should also just be fun and entertaining in all the ways a sex scene should be.
For filmmakers, writing and directing sex scenes can be like walking a tightrope, with "too explicit" on one side, and "cringeworthy" on the other. Here are several moments from film which we feel thread that needle expertly, including a number of handpicked scenes from porn star and director Joanna Angel.
Atonement is a film about war, love, class differences, and regret, but mostly it's a film about two people who are incandescently horny for each other. The scene in which Robbie and Cecilia finally consummate their long-simmering attraction in the library during a fancy dinner party is one of shadows and muted gasps, which heighten the sense of intimacy as well as the scandalous nature of the act—which will be tragically misinterpreted by an onlooker.
Joanna Angel: It’s always about 10 to 20 degrees warmer in the Valley than it is in the rest of Los Angeles. In 2 Days in the Valley ( featuring a young Charlize Theron in her first lead role), James Spader uses the heat as an excuse to put ice cubes all over Theron’s nipples and thighs. The movie itself isn't great, but the scene features Charlize Theron in an all-white lace bodysuit, so there's that.
We'd be remiss not to include the E.L. James series which birthed so many steamy sex scenes, we could not possibly count them all. From moments in the Red Room to shower sex of all kinds, here's a look at some of the best.
Not only does this scene sell the hell out of Charlize Theron and Seth Rogen's sexual chemistry, it also subverts expectation by having Theron's character (a workaholic politician) by the one who is freaky in the bedroom. It's rare for rom-coms to be so bawdy, and even rarer still for the female character to be the one who gets to express their desires and expectations in the bedroom.
Joanna Angel: As a porn director, I know there are many, many logistical issues that come with shooting sex in a swimming pool. If there's too much sun, it can cause unflattering reflections; if there's not enough sun, that's a problem, too. (Who wants to see people getting it on in a pool on a cloudy day?). Plus, there's inevitably going to be at least one girl on set who's like, "I hope this isn't a problem, but I can't get my hair extensions wet." (You're shooting a sex scene in a swimming pool. Of course it's a problem.)
But in the 1998 classic Wild Things, Neve Campbell and Denise Richards have the perfect pool sex scene, all without freaking out about their extensions. After almost beating the crap out of each other, they make out under the perfect moonlight before seamlessly segueing into a steamy sex scene. It's Hollywood. Anything can happen.
Ennis and Jack's first sexual encounter in the tent is urgent and raw (in every sense), and is a pivotal moment in the story. It also sent out some pretty inaccurate information regarding the act of anal sex to viewers, many of whom had never seen it depicted on-screen before.
At this point in the movie, Quincy and Monica have known each other since they were kids, and their first love scene encapsulates that culmination of years of attraction, as well as the sheer awkwardness of crossing that line with your best friend. Set to a sultry rendition of 'This Woman's Work', the scene gives the two characters time and space to be naked in front of each other, both figuratively and literally, before they have sex.
Joanna Angel: The ideal English major jerk-off material, this sex scene featuring Gwyneth Paltrow and Joseph Fiennes as Viola de Lesseps and William Shakespeare is truly something special. It’s "making love" in the truest sense of the word: it's just two people passionately melting into each other's bodies.
In Meet Joe Black , Brad Pitt's body is taken over by Death himself, and Pitt plays the character as one who is full of mystery and secret knowledge. Claire Forlani, meanwhile, is 100 percent human, and it is she who guides Pitt through what is essentially his first sexual experience in this scene which explores the innocent, loving side of Death.
Joanna Angel: When I was a teenager, I can’t tell you how many times I scribbled in my diary, threw it at the window…. and hoped for a handsome charming murderer to be waiting on the other side of it. Alas (or, I guess, thankfully?), this never happened. But I'll always have this adorable scene featuring disgruntled teen Veronica Sawyer (Winona Ryder) and equally disgruntled yet also psychotic teen JD (Christian Slater) in the cult classic Heathers.
Sure, this scene doesn’t show any actual sex, but it does show a smidge of nudity, some incredibly intense first-base action, and Winona Ryder's panties hanging off Daddy’s croquet set—which, in some ways, makes it even hotter.
Not only does this montage feature two incredibly sexy actors—Ryan Reynolds and Morena Baccarin—but it also serves as a highly efficient piece of storytelling. By checking in with Wade and Vanessa's sex life on every major holiday (including International Women's Day), the movie grants their relationship more weight than a lot of other superhero flicks, where the love interest often feels like an afterthought. It also gets to have the kind of R-rated fun that would feel out of place in The Avengers .
Is there anything sexier than a game of cat-and-mouse between two people who are undeniably hot for each other? In this remake of the classic heist movie, Rene Russo has been investigating Pierce Brosnan for weeks—but the chase becomes real when she shows up to a black and white ball (wearing RED) and neither of them is able to keep up the pretense any longer.
Joanna Angel: Directed by Adrian Lyne (the same guy who also made erotic thrillers 9 1/2 Weeks and Fatal Attraction ), Unfaithful does a great job of capturing the sexual intensity you can only have with someone you're not supposed to be attracted to. This scene between bored housewife Diane Lane and sexy foreign stud Olivier Martinez features some highly emotional and very, very sexy infidelity, which culminates with Lane crying and having an orgasm at the same time.
Spoiler alert: Lane's husband (Richard Gere) later finds out about the affair and murders Martinez with a snow globe, but hey, that doesn’t change the fact that for one brief moment, this guy rocked Diane Lane's world.
The sex scene in Don't Look Now , adapted from the novella by Daphne Du Maurier, famously caused controversy when the film was first released. Shots of the married couple (played by Donald Sutherland and Julie Christie ) having sex were interspersed with footage of them getting dressed to go out to dinner, making the scene in some ways a macrocosmic portrait of a marriage
Joanna Angel: This 2009 Notorious B.I.G. biopic features a scene where Lil Kim (Naturi Naughton) rides Biggie (Jamal Woolard) like a big roly-poly dildo. (Did we mention she's wearing a schoolgirl outfit in this scene?) But the real money shot is when Lil Kim seduces Biggie by spitting some rhymes—while she’s still in her underwear.
While not technically a sex scene in that neither of the characters makes physical contact, this exchange from Bent is charged with desire. Max and Horst (Clive Owen and Lothaire Bluteau) are gay men in a concentration camp who are unable to touch or even look at each other—an obstacle they overcome in this scene by finding another way to be intimate.
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