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Positions for pleasure, not performance.

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Rachel Thompson on July 11, 2019


The poses we see in porn aren't always what works for people.
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Sex Education's depiction of Aimee's masturbation spree was refreshingly accurate.
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Porn isn't exactly famed for its realism. Women masturbate with legs splayed and backs arched, orgasming after a few minutes of frantic rubbing and moaning.
But in reality, those positions aren't necessarily the most conducive to pleasure for women. What might seem hot in a male fantasy — which informs much of the porn we watch — isn't always close to what actually gets women off.
I must admit, it hadn't occurred to me that the way I masturbate might have been influenced by the porn I was privy to growing up. Given that many British women received little or no information about female self-pleasuring during sex ed lessons, many of us have been left to fill in our knowledge gaps with porn. A global survey of over 10,000 people by sex toy company Tenga found just 14 percent of British women learned about sexual pleasure during sex ed at school, and 17 percent of women learned about masturbation.
In March, during a London-held 100 Women I Know panel discussion about sex and power, Africa Brooke — founder of The Cherry Revolution , a movement aiming to "break societal norms surrounding women, identity and sexuality" — talked about being cognisant that the arched-back masturbation pose we see in porn isn't always what works for people — and that sometimes hunching over is better.
As sex educator Alix Fox — a script consultant on Netflix's Sex Education — puts it to me, "Porn often shows women rubbing themselves so frantically they look like they’re trying to start a campfire in their coochies."
"In much mainstream pornography, the act of women touching their own genitals is depicted — and choreographed — as something that’s primarily intended to serve men: both those they’re having sex with, and those who are watching, she continued. "Women are positioned in ways that purposefully splay and display as much of their pussies as possible, rather than to maximise their pleasure."
Sex educator Ruby Rare says that much of mainstream hardcore porn shows female masturbation in a very performative way and perpetuates a trope of "a woman lying down with her legs as far wide as humanly possible."
Always eager to unlearn habits formed because of the male gaze, I spoke to sex educators and women who masturbate about female self-pleasure positions that aren't shown in mainstream porn. Positions that might not necessarily make our bodies appear lithe and elegant, but will maximise the amount of pleasure during your solo sex sessions.
I asked women on Twitter to DM me their favourite masturbation positions — and my inbox was flooded with women telling me how much they love rubbing one out while lying face down.
"My fave is on my stomach so I can put weight and pressure on my hands," one woman — who preferred to remain anonymous — tells me. "I use both hands and I like to have the covers over my head to keep the light out (it’s usually morning) — the sunlight distracts me from my dirty deeds."
"Face down is my favourite I think, the easiest to come from," says Charlie, who prefers to be identified by her first name only. Face down is a popular position because the added body weight creates more friction against the clitoris, heightening sensation.
Fox — who's currently working on Season 2 of Sex Education — tells me that Aimee's face-down masturbation scene proved to be a real hit with viewers. "I got a lot of emails from viewers telling me how refreshing it was to see the character of Aimee orgasm whilst laying on her front, masturbating face down on her bed," says Fox.
Just as we switch up positions during partnered sex, why not shake things up when you masturbate?
"Lots of women automatically lay on their backs while self-pleasuring, but in the same way that different positions can change the way intercourse with a partner feels, altering your stance can change the effect of masturbation, too," says Fox. "Experiment with getting on all fours, or kneeling as though you were straddling a partner; leaning backwards activates your core and pull your pelvic area slightly more taught, which can make sensations in the genitals feel stronger," she explains. For extra comfort and added friction, you can perch yourself on top of a few pillows.
Megwyn White — advisor for adult toy brand Satisfyer — recommends rotating the legs inwards to "help add a deeper stretch for the muscles around the clitoris and rear of the pelvic floor.
Next time you're touching yourself, try clenching your muscles.
"Because so many parts of your body are interconnected with fibres and nerves, squeezing different muscles as you masturbate can enhance sensations, add pressure or pull against the genital region in ways that can be quite surprising," says Fox.
"The pubococcyygeus muscles — AKA the ‘PC muscles’ or ‘pelvic floor muscles’ — can have a strong effect upon sexual pleasure. They’re the same ones you squeeze when you’re weeing in order to stop the flow of urine. Try clenching in the same way while you touch yourself; you should feel a tightening, lifting sensation inside your vagina," she adds.
She recommends tightening then releasing the muscles that curl your toes. You could also try clenching your fists or butt, or stretching your legs so they're taught. "It might feel good to hold the squeeze, or to clench then release in a rhythm," says Fox.
"Often people enjoy masturbating while lying on their back in bed, however what might be different from porn is that you'll have the covers covering you. Some people really like to feel warm or hot and having your head under the sheets can be nice," says Rare.
One thing Rare enjoys is finding a sunlight spot in her bedroom and lying in that patch while she masturbates.
A lot of us are guilty of falling into a masturbatory rut when it comes to what we do with our hands and fingers. Sometimes it feels like you're in a frantic rubbing race to get to an orgasm-shaped finish line. Fox recommends trying a bunch of different things with your fingers — the possibilities really are endless here.
"You could try tapping motions; tickling; flicking; lightly slapping; going v-e-r-y-s-l-o-w-l-y; pulling on the labia or cupping the whole area with your hand; pressing down; varying between light and firm touches; hovering your hand above your genitals without touching them to build your sense of anticipation, before landing the lightest fairy-fingertip-kiss on your hot spots; making tiny circles with a fingertip," she says.
Keep your labia majora and mon pubis (the outside bit of your vulva) in mind too, advises Fox. "Try keeping your legs closed for a while and just stroking your flesh and pubic hair, and focusing on the sweet sensations there before you fully open the cookie jar," she says.
One woman, who prefers to remain anonymous, told me her favourite position is lying on the sofa, which she describes as "missionary for masturbation. "As a disabled woman, it’s the easiest too," she says.
In a somewhat similar position, White suggests lying in a bathtub with either one or both feet propped against a wall. If you happen to have a detachable shower head, you could incorporate water clitoral stimulation too. Just make sure the water's not too hot.
Sex blogger The Other Livvy is a fan of using furniture to get her solo-sex kicks. "If I’m in a chair then leaning far back in the chair with my arse on the edge of the seat to get as close to that same position as I can," she explains.
Propping one leg against a wall or piece of furniture can help you to move back and forth and create a rhythm.
Sure, you've heard of the G-Spot, but what about your U-Spot? "The ‘U’ here stands for ‘urethral opening’ a.k.a. the pee hole, a zone universally ignored in porn unless it’s a specialist golden shower video," says Fox. "The area is surrounded by spongy erectile tissue that can become '‘plumped up' or stiffer when a woman is aroused, and very sensitive to touch." Fox says that the U-Spot feels best when a featherlight touch or stroke is used and when the area is "copiously slippery and wet."
As Rare points out, there's really no such things as a "best position" — it's all down to personal preference and what you feel comfortable doing. "I would recommend people change up their habits with solo sex every once in a while just because it's nice to experience something new," says Rare.
One thing we could all do with unlearning from porn, however, is the notion that we need to look good while masturbating.
Embrace the "double chins and your body being in weird and wonderful angles" — as Rare puts it — and just focus on getting off. Enjoy.
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Masturbation is for everyone , but it takes a special hand ( heh heh ) to masturbate like a wellness editor. While it's true that all you really need is your own body — and maybe some lube — there are quite a few products that make the act all the more pleasurable. However, there are also so many out there that it can be hard to tell what's right for you.
Well, have no fear. I get sent products daily to test out, and only some of them come out on top (so to speak). Check out this guide to my favorite lubes, sex toys, lingerie, and other products I've been sent during my tenure as wellness editor at Allure . You might just find a new trusty standby of your own.
Water-based lube is the best kind for use with silicone toys, and Kush Queen's Ignite Lube is a CBD-infused version that's now become one of my favorites. It feels cool and refreshing (which I've found has a really nice stimulating effect), and it also plays well with latex.
While water-based lube is great for use with silicone toys and latex, it doesn't last that long, and it also won't really do you much good in the shower or bath . If you're looking to take your fun into the tub, try out High on Love's Stimulating Orgasm Oil , which is another CBD-infused option. It lasts for a while and feels incredible — and if you're in states where cannabis is legal , snag one of the bottles with THC to take your fun up yet another level. I had one sent to me and let's just say it's a mainstay on my bedside table.
If you're looking for a recommended lube option without CBD, Überlube comes to mind. It's great for solo or partnered play, works well in water, and lasts a long time (just keep in mind that it's silicone-based, so you don't want to use it with silicone toys). The bottle is also beautiful, so you'll be totally cool with keeping it on your nightstand. It is made of glass, though, so make sure it's out of the way if things get passionate. A friend dropped hers on the ground once and, needless to say, it was a mess to clean up after it shattered.
There's a reason this thing is called the Cadillac of wand vibrators . The Hitachi has a rich history of getting people off , and ever since it went rechargeable, it's only gotten easier (and more convenient) to use. While this isn't my only wand vibrator, it's definitely my favorite. It has multiple speeds and four vibration patterns (though I'm not really one to change up the pattern — I'm more into a steady vibration) and the controls are easy and intuitive. Be aware that it is a hefty baby, though, so your forearm might cramp up after holding it for a while. You can rest the end on a pillow to relieve some of the weight.
For people with clits, the Satisfyer Pro 2 is just... chef's kiss . This sex toy uses suction to surround the exposed part of your clitoris and stimulate oral sex. Personally, I have a bit of anxiety when it comes to receiving oral from a partner, which makes it hard to relax enough to actually feel pleasure. Using the Satisfyer Pro 2 has been super helpful when it comes to getting used to these particular sensations without having to feel worried about another person in the bed and what they might be thinking or feeling. And even if you don't have anxiety, it just feels really, really great.
Unbound's Oh! To Go bag is cute as fuck. It was made for the on-the-go masturbator and includes a ton of goodies, including a condom, regular jelly lube, two different kinds of stimulating gel, and a flushable wipe for easy clean-up. Then, of course, there's the super fun bullet vibe, which has a targeted tip for use wherever you'd like stimulation (I use it on my clit, though it would feel good anywhere that's particularly sensitive). Though it only has one setting, it's not messing around, and it'll get the job done both at home and on vacation, and while it's not exactly the quietest, it's not super loud, either. And it all comes in an adorable holographic zip-up bag that you can use again and again, either for sex toys or for makeup — whatever you choose.
Whenever I wear lingerie , it's like 20 percent for the benefit of my partner and 80 percent for me. I just really like to feel like I look good during sex. That's why I also often put on something cute when I'm going to masturbate, too (during solo sessions, though, it's obviously 100 percent for me). I'm a big fan of matching sets, like this cute one Journelle stocks from Else. I'm especially into sets with high-waisted briefs. This set comes in a gorgeous periwinkle color, and if you're not into the style of the bottoms, you can pick it up in a thong option instead.
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Teddies. TEDDIES. I'm a huge sucker for them, and Fenty x Savage has quite a few good ones. Not only does the brand have delicate lace teddies, mesh teddies , and sporty-as-all-hell teddies , but the sizes range from XS to 3X. Hot and inclusive.
If you're anything like me, you need the right atmosphere to get in the mood — even with yourself. However, my tiny apartment (complete with a heavily-trafficked trash alley right outside my bedroom window) doesn't always set the right scene. This baby helps drown out the noises of my neighbors so I can tune out and get turned on.
OK, speaking of setting a vibe, there's almost no better way to change your mood than through fragrance. And though I may be gay as all hell, I find Boy Smells absolutely intoxicating — in candle form, at least. This candle from Kush smells of suede, cannabis, white musk, tulip, and amber. Light the wick and you'll instantly start feeling yourself.
Let's talk porn for a minute. Though I only watch it about one out of every 10 or so times I masturbate (or fewer — I'm honestly fairly imaginative on my own), when I do, it's important to me that the people I'm watching have been treated well and are getting paid. That's why I'm into Queerporn.tv . It features people of all genders and with all types of bodies engaging in pretty hot sex, and the site also has educational videos. Read more about it and other great sites on our guide to finding sex-positive, ethical porn here .
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