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By Ola Peter
Last updated Dec 22, 2017

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If you take the time and make the right moves, you will find yourself loving the pre-game as much as you do the grand finale. However, there is more to foreplay than first, second, and third bases.
We spoke to real women to find out how to make foreplay creative and exciting, and what moves really get her going.
I love a dude who can communicate during foreplay. Moaning and groaning is cool, but dirty talk is fun for both parties and typically you end up getting more/less of what you actually want in the bedroom when you can be vocal about it in a playful way. It’s a great way to get me going. –Kelly, 26
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Here's something that might surprise you:
Most women secretly wish that guys would spend more time on foreplay.
And in fact, if you're not good enough at foreplay… there's an almost zero chance that a girl will sleep with you again.
That's because foreplay does something huge for women:
It makes them feel desired, and turned on enough to enjoy sex–both physically AND mentally.
Those are the two keys that will make your sexual experience feel like it's on another “level” (for both you and her).
So today I'm going to show you 5 simple yet “out of the box” foreplay moves, that will consistently impress every hot girl you take home.
These are moves that my buddies and I personally use all the time, and I have to say they work incredibly well if you want to get a girl to sleep with you again.
I think my favorite move is #5 to be honest… but first things first. Let's get started with move number one:
Did you know that 85% of women can't come from sex alone?
And in fact, most women need a little “extra” stimulation to reach orgasm.
One of the easiest (and fastest) ways to give her this extra stimulation is with your fingers…
And there's one move in particular, that can give almost any woman multiple orgasms, using only your 5 fingers.
It's called “5 Finger Tantra,” and here's how it's done:
When you're making out, and the clothes are coming off, you can start touching her like this…
And then you do this with your middle and ring finger… and make a motion like THIS.
By then she should be just about ready to explode…
And then there's only one thing left to do… but it's kinda hard to explain:
It's not always easy to get a girl to “let loose” when you're with her.
Especially when things are starting to get sexual… a lot of girls can be timid, and this is particularly true if you haven't slept together a lot.
So in my experience, when a girl always waits for you to make the first move, or never seems to initiate the action herself…
You can easily get her to open up by touching one of her “hot spots.”
These are small, “friendly-seeming” areas all over her body… NOT in sexual places like her boobs or her a**…
… yet because these spots are chock-full of sexual nerve-endings, that few men know about… when you touch one or two of these “hot spots,” she'll get turned on REALLY quick.
And 9 times out of 10, she'll be the one to jump on top of you, start unzipping your jeans and ask if you want to go to the bedroom:
This move is a little experimental, because you can use it in public without getting caught.
It's called the “Swedish Slide” … and it was discovered by a short, fat Indian man who wanted to sleep with really hot Swedish girls.
He went on a trip to Sweden to see exactly what he could do to sleep with these hot Swedish chicks…
And he tried everything (lines, buying girls drinks, even gimmicky “routines” )…
But none of it worked… until he saw a guy using this one-finger touch trick in a bar one night.
The guy would just walk right up to these tall, gorgeous blonde girls… not say much of anything… use the trick with his left pointer finger… and then a few minutes later?
At least one (if not more) of these girls would be all over him for the rest of the night.
And he got to choose which one he wanted to go home with.
Well anyway, this short fat Indian man was really impressed by this one-finger trick…
… so he brought the “Swedish Slide” back to the states with him, to share with his close inner circle of friends.
Well, this “short fat Indian man” also happens to be my mentor Magic…
We've all heard about the 50 Shades of Grey phenomenon… and survey after survey has proven it to be true:
Of course, even though most women desire this kind of sex… it doesn't mean they're used to it.
So sometimes you have to “ease” a woman into it, with a few simple “safe,” yet highly pleasurable rough moves.
My mentor Ruwando is the pioneer of these simple rough sex moves… and these 3 are a great place to start:
This last trick isn't really a “move,” but it is experimental… and I consider it “foreplay” because it starts before sex, but makes sex way better too.
It's this combination of 5 bloodflow-boosting foods, that you can eat for harder, longer-lasting erections that hot girls love.
No matter how good you are at foreplay…
No matter how many amazing sex moves you have in your back pocket…
If your parts *down there* aren't operating at “full mast” once it's time to do the deed?
She's gonna notice. And more likely than not, it's gonna be a big turn-off.
They boost your bloodflow, so you'll be able to get harder quicker… last longer… and as an added bonus, you'll be able to blow bigger loads too (I've found that hot girls really love this haha)…
And because they make you feel “fuller,” odds are the girls you sleep with will notice, and want to have sex with you more often because of it. 😉
[ Note: This post was updated by Gotham Club on October 16, 2019.]
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Trust, hitting these spots can be better than sex.
Foreplay is like an appetizer to the main course. Sure, your medium-rare filet mignon will taste okay alone. But wouldn’t it be even better if you started off your taste buds with a bread basket, Caesar salad, and some prosciutto? That’s an absolute yes.
And well, sex works just like food does. Appetizers don’t take away your hunger, they enhance it—as does foreplay with actual P-in-V sex. Sometimes, it can even be better than the sex itself. So when things are getting hot with your partner, don’t skip right to the sex. Here are 15 places to definitely stimulate during foreplay to make the grand finale taste extra yummy.
I don’t know about you, but I giggle every time someone touches me here. And if some area makes you ticklish, that’s almost a surefire guarantee it can be a hot spot on your body when you’re in the ~mood~.
Not only is it super sensitive, which can be extremely erotic, but it’s also an easy pleasure point to stimulate. “Make circular motions with your tongue lightly enough to stimulate the area,” says Danny Becker, sexologist at TheEnhancedMale.com . “The skin gets thinner when you get closer to the inner elbow, so use that area to drive your partner wild.” And psst, the lighter the pressure, the better it feels.
Besides the normal parts of your body most often sexualized as erogenous zones, the area around your peepers can be just as sensual and sexual. “Use your thumbs to gently stroke their brows and place gentle kisses on their lids,” says Jill McDevitt , PhD, CalExotics’ resident sexoloist. “There’s a ton of intimacy that can come from deep eye contact and gentle face-stroking like this.”
“The clavicle and the grooves below it can be highly responsive to light touch,” says Jess O’Reilly , PhD, Astroglide’s resident sexologist. Although it’s a random part on your body, your partner can use it to stimulate you in ways you didn’t know existed. “Run the backs of your fingers over the bone and use your tongue along the underside of them,” says O’Reilly.
Full disclosure: You need to check in with your partner to make sure they’re okay with any foot/toe play before you go shrimpin’ since you low-key might get kicked in the face if you don’t. But once you get the go-ahead, “licking or sucking them can be extremely erotic because toes are very sensitive,” says sex expert and relationship therapist Jane Greer, aka Dr. Greer .
Xanet Pailet, author of Living an Orgasmic Life , says the ears and earlobes are extremely sensitive for many people. “Nibbling on the earlobes, licking behind their ear, and blowing gently in someone’s ear or telling them sexy things can be a huge turn-on.” She adds that there are even some women (herself included) who can have eargasms just from this sort of stimulation.
Pailet also points out that the scalp has a ton of nerve endings and should definitely be on your list of ~sensitive spots~. After all, who doesn’t love a good head massage? She suggests running your hands through their hair or lightly grabbing their hair at the nape of their neck.
Continuing down from the scalp to the nape of the neck brings us to the back of the neck and shoulders. Pailet says that lightly tickling this area can prove extra sensitive. If you and your partner are up for it, some light nibbles or love bites can also help ramp up arousal.
Susan Kaye , PhD, a sexologist in Texas, says your hands are also a very important body part to focus on during foreplay. “Our hands have the same amount of nerve endings as our genitals,” she adds. She suggests closing your partner’s eyes, taking their hands, and slowly guiding them to brush your face with their fingertips, down over your neck, your shoulders, your breasts, and to any other sensitive spots. Use touch to show them exactly how you like to be touched.
According to Genevieve Duarte, a tantric massage expert at White Lotus East in New York City, the start to a truly arousing tantric massage lies with stimulating the surrounding areas of your partner’s body before going straight for the genitals and orgasm. Duarte previously explained that gently massaging the pubic bone can unlock lots of erotic potential. If you’re ready to work in more erogenous zone stimulation, you can go for lightly massaging the perineum—the area between the penis and butthole—with a couple fingers. Duarte suggests holding his penis upward against his body in place while you try this one.
The buccal nerve, which surrounds the edges of the mouth, has untapped potential to stimulate when you’re kissing. “This area is extremely sensitive to touch, but it’s often overlooked since most people focus on the plump part of the lips,” says clinical sexologist Rachael Ross, MD, PhD. If you try lightly tracing the tip of your finger around the edges of your mouth (like you’re putting on lip liner), you’ll experience a tingly, almost ticklish feeling.
When you’re making out, you don’t need to lick around his entire mouth to get the benefits—that would be weird. Instead, kiss your partner as you normally do, then use the tip of your tongue to trace the edge of his upper lip lightly. Pull back and playfully kiss him again, then trace the border of his bottom lip.
Patti Britton, PhD, Los Angeles–based clinical sexologist and author of The Complete Idiot’s Guide to Sensual Massage , previously explained the value of nipple play. This goes doubly so for men, because according to Britton, “their nipples are uncharted territory—an erogenous zone they haven’t experimented with.”
What’s more, you can show him exactly what you like done to your bod by acting it out on him. Gently flick them with your tongue, bite them, stroke them, whatever gets those nips a-poppin’.
The entire area between your jawline and shoulders is an erogenous zone, but there’s one particular destination that’ll spark more goose bumps than any other part. “It’s that little indentation where the neck connects with the collarbone,” says Leah Millheiser, MD, director of female sexual medicine at Stanford Medical Center. “The skin is thinner there and there’s not as much fatty tissue underneath, so the sensations are stronger.” In other words, touching this area feels damn good.
As you kiss down his or her neck, trail the tips of your index and middle fingers from one shoulder to the dip in the center, lingering to swirl your fingers in a slow, circular motion. Then move your mouth over the spot and kiss it, using your breath to warm the area.
Snaking from the bottom of the rib cage to the hips is a powerful nerve that, when stimulated, connects directly to your clitoris and your partner’s penis. “When you touch this area, it reflexively causes the pelvic-floor muscles to contract in both men and women, which increases arousal,” says Dr. Ross.
You’ll want to use a firmer touch here, since it’s more ticklish than other spots. Start on one side, just underneath the rib cage, and either stroke the area with your hand or alternate between kissing (apply more pressure than usual with your lips) and lightly nibbling your way down to the hip bone.
The knob at the base of the spine is rife with nerves and therefore arousal potential. To take advantage, give each other a massage.
Start at the shoulder blades and work your hands down in a kneading motion. At the lower back, switch to a softer touch, and lightly spiral your fingers over the base. “This area is so receptive, just the softest touch will send chills throughout the body,” says Dr. Ross.
You can also lightly graze your cheek against the area—the unexpected skin on skin sparks an increase in the excitement hormone dopamine. Then softly kiss and trace your tongue along the same spot (just make sure he’s shaved before he tries this on you). Try brushing the tips of your hair against the skin and then switch to raking your fingernails gently across it to deepen the sensation.
One of the most explosive nerves in the body is located at the top of the inner thigh. “It’s called the ilioinguinal nerve, and it’s incredibly sensitive to touch,” says Dr. Millheiser.
In fact, it’s best to save it for last and work your way up to it. Start by licking your finger (the wetness increases the stimulation) and slowly drawing it from the mid–inner thigh to the top. Then follow the path you just traced with your tongue, teasing your way to the upper region.

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