Being Sissy

Being Sissy

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Fetishes & Kinks , For sissies , For submissives

June 1, 2018 December 15, 2018

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June 1, 2018 December 15, 2018
You are a weak boy. You once dreamt of achieving male Alpha status so you could get the attention you crave but have fallen significantly short. You no longer dream of turning the heads of the women you pass on the street: you now dream of being made into a sissy.
You know you can’t compete with most men, so you want to try something different.
You want to feel sexy and feminine. You want a smooth, sultry, and soft body. You want to wear lingerie and women’s clothes. You want to wear makeup and be a man’s bitch. You want to suck as many cocks and please as many men as you can. The problem is, you don’t know where to start. Luckily, I can help.
You are currently fantasizing about being feminized but you’ve never even experimented. How can you know you truly want that? The most common shared female fantasy is to be raped, yet no woman has ever truly wanted to be raped (to be truly raped means sex without your consent so it is impossible to consent to rape).
The simplest way to start is by trying on your girlfriend’s/sister’s/cousin’s/mother’s panties or bra. While highly unethical (and kinda gross in my opinion), it is how most sissies and crossdressers get started.
I do not condone this but I understand most sissies aren’t exactly brave enough to go buy their own lingerie at the store. I also understand a lot of sissies that do this aren’t necessarily attracted to that person, just the lingerie itself.
Another easy way to get started is by buying your lingerie from Amazon. This is the best way to start since you aren’t being a thief or a creep. You also will need to buy your own stuff somewhere down the line so shortcutting here saves some time.
Once you’ve tried it on, you should know if being a sissy is for you. If it is, proceed to step two.
Now that you’ve confirmed your suspicions, you can begin your transformation. Let’s start with your mind.
You probably already think a lot about cock. You think about having them fill your mouth, jerking them off, and having them stretch your boi pussy. That is a good start, though it is not sufficient.
Cock needs to fill your mind. You need to dream about getting fucked. When your mind begins to wander, it should go to dick. If you’re thirsty, you should want to satiate your thirst with cum.
Your role as a sissy is to please men as best as you can. Sissies are mindless automatons of sorts. Whilst crossdressers retain their free will and individuality, sissies give theirs up. You no longer are to think of your own pleasure for it comes in distant second to all men. The only time when your pleasure should be taken into consideration is of your Dominant allows you to release your cummies (men cum, sissies make cummies). If you orgasm, it should be from having your prostate massaged and pounded by dick.
If your Dominant wants you to eat their ass, you eat their ass. If they want you to suck a cock, a cock you shall suck. If a Dominant wants to leave you tied up in a sauna, expect a sore ass in the morning. (These limits should, of course, be discussed much before they happen)
Another important factor for sissies is a feminine mindset. To be the best sissy you can be, you have to adopt and nurture a feminine persona, especially when it comes time to dress up. You may well work in construction but when it’s time to be a sissy you must abandon all masculine pretense, if only for a session.
Many sissies do this by creating and naming an identity that suits them. A good question to ask when going through this phase is “what is my sissy style?”. Are you a pretty princess? Are you preppy? A diaper brat? An emo gurl? Do you want to wear beautiful dresses? Are you a naughty secretary? Do you just want to be in lingerie?
Once you have that question answered, you’ll have an idea of where to look for inspiration for your particular identity.
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Yes, I want to be a gurl. I also want to have a partner who wants me as a gurl. I want to be the best woman I can possibly be for him/her. If only I could please him/her for the rest of my life, wear dresses and other pretty things and be everything they want from a gurl like me! Oh, pleae let me! Roxanne Lanyon
I am at mcanoe84@yahoo.com . Let me be your girl! Please?
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I love spending most of my life as Joanne, along with being with men. I never new a girl could love the taste of cum as much as I do. I don’t know why I ever wasted my time with women
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Are you ready to go “ Down The Sissification Rabbit Hole?” Then read this…
I f you’ve ever wondered if you really are a sissy, or contemplated on how much sissyness is trapped inside of you, you’re not alone darling. It’s completely normal for questions such as these to pop up into your pretty little head.
Some would say that if you have to ask, then the answer is apparent. But just in case you are experiencing some gender identity confusion, the following 10 questions may help to clear things up for you.
This question will take you back to the roots of your sissyness. Trying to figure out why you had this overwhelming desire to enjoy the feel of soft, silky, feminine garments next to your skin is an exercise in futility.
It might have something to do with the way you were raised. Or… maybe you were just born that way.
The only thing that really matters is to not place any judgements on nor have feeings of guilt about your dress-up-desires. Society may say otherwise, but our narrow-minded culture can be kind of fucked-up in this area.
The important thing is that if you did feel inspired to put on something feminine, you get sissy bonus points for actually following through and trying on that cute little dress!
Sweetie, this is a seriously submissive act, and we both know that sissies are submissive by default. A true sissy loves to perform oral servitude on women—and sometimes, even men.
Sissies also fantasize about eating their own cum, so if you’ve answered the above question in the affirmative, you’re corroborating your apptitude for sissiness.
In addition, if you enjoy eating out a girl more than actually fucking her, then I believe you can take this to mean that your inner-sissy quotient is pretty damn fucking high.
C’mon, any delusional claims you may have as to being in any-way-shape-or-form an alpha male would be seriously offensive to a real man.
A sissy’s focus would obviously be on her nails and heels… along with her makeup, hair, fashionable clothes and jewelry.
Although a real man would be peripherally aware of these feminine attributes, his main interest would be on her body. He would want to rip all those beautiful clothes off her and fuck the shit out of this georgous woman.
A sissy, on the other hand, legitimately holds a high amount of admiration for how this feminine creature has artfully put herself together. There’s even a bit of envy on the sissy’s part of how captivating this girl looks.
Sure, a sissy would maybe like to fuck her, if she (the sissy) could get it up, but she would probably get more enjoyment out of being fabulously dressed-up herself and getting fucked. Following along with that same sissified mindset…
This scenario is most often attributed to approach anxiety and being generally unconfident around women. But why are you fearful and anxious when it comes to women? Is this a problem that needs to be overcome, or is it just that you’re a spineless sissy by nature? It’s a valid question that you need to be honestly asking yourself.
It’s quite possible that your less-than-large dick (or sissy clitty) is frightened of pussy.
If, as a sissy, you don’t feel worthy enough to fuck this girl, then you will subconsciously self-sabotage any attempt to apporach her, the gorgeous goddess that she is. Maybe you would be more content to be her sissy slave instead? Just asking.
If you do, that means that you’re a crossdresser , but not necessarily a sissy. Sissies are submissive and subservient. Their role in life is not only to look pretty, but to be obedient and have a penchant for providing pleasure.
But, if you have already started putting together your feminine wardrobe—lingerie, pretty dresses and high heels—then these other questions will help you to acertain whether you possess the aptitude required for taking things to a different place… and become a full-fledged sissy.
Since sissies are crossdressers that have a decidedly submissive nature to them, then this question will be an acid-like test to determine how docile and subservient you really are.
If you get off by having someone giving out orders as to what they want you to do, then you have the submissive qualities necessary for being a serious sissy. If you gain even greater enjoyment by obeying these orders, then that is further proof of your meekness.
Does being a sissy slave to a dominate woman do it for you? Would you like her to fuck you up the ass with a strapon while you moan in ecstasy? How about being kept in chastity 24/7 and serving as her cuckold slut—your primary role being to fluff up her lover?
Does being dressed up in somthing girly while all of this is happening make your little sissy dick twitch? We can stop right here sweetie… you’re definitely a sissy.
Since I broached the subject of you serving as a ‘fluffer’ for your mistress, we might as well take this matter a bit further. Yeah, since most crossdressers are straight the thought of sucking on a cock might not do it for them. But as a sissy, well that’s a different story. When sissies are all dolled-up, a psychological shift takes place.
In the quest to validate her femininity, she suddenly becomes a submissive fuck toy to be used by either a woman or a man. A sissy slut is pretty much required to become a capable cocksucker.
I suggest you get out your dildo—hopefully you have one—apply some lipstick and begin a regular practice schedule. Soon enough you’ll have the opportunity to have your pretty lips wrapped around the real thing… and you won’t want to dissapoint.
BTW, if you’re looking to buy a dildo, make sure you read this article first.
You don’t need me to tell you this but that is boda fide, ladylike behavior.
The more important question is, why do you do feel the urge to do it? You most likely already know—it’s one relatively small, seemingly insignificant form of behavior that makes you feel like a girl.
But is it really that trivial of an act? If you haven’t yet began to flush-out your feminine feelings, maybe it’s time you do so.
I realize that many men shave their legs for sports and stuff like that. They may even shave their underarms for hygienic reasons. But if you do shave, it’s time to be totally transparent with yourself—what’s your underlying motivation? Might there be some subtle, secondary benefits you are receiving?
Do you enjoy the feel of pulling on a pair of nylon stockings over your freshly shaved legs? TooTimid.com has some really sexy ones. Or perhaps it’s the smooth, silky feeling you experience when sliding between the sheets at night.
Let’s face it, being hairless feels oh-so feminine. Maybe it’s time to go all the way and keep your entire body shaved?
Now-a-days it’s not all that uncommon. You could get away with it if you really wanted to. Plus, every time you shave yourself smooth, it has the effect of affirming your sissyness.
If you do, then you already have effeminately embraced being a sissy. If you don’t, I think it’s time to start. Not too many things will make you feel more feminine than keeping your toenails painted.
If you’re not quite ready to show them off to the world, then it’s easy enough to keep them covered-up in the winter. During the summer months, you can paint them a neutral color. There are other creative strategies—for example, I wear special yoga socks when I attend yoga classes.
Hopefully, the question “Are You a Sissy?” is now as straight forward for you to answer as it is for me. Something can be said for surrendering to who you truly are sweetie. It’s an intoxicating feeling to wake up in the morning, climb out of bed and look down.
The first thing I see is a view of a flat, feminine front—a pair of panties covering up my tucked-back sissy clitty. As my gaze moves further down, my eyes are directed to a pair of smoothly shaven legs followed up with my prettily polished toenails.
What a way to start of the day! Am I a sissy? It sure does look like it. The more important question is… are you?
Sissification is a process. It’s a matter of taking consistent, dainty, high-heel-like-steps in order to arrive in Sissyville (maybe that could be a real place someday).
In the meantime, I wrote a popular article about Your Sissification Process . You might find it interesting.
Are you ready to go “ Down The Sissification Rabbit Hole? ” Then you’ll want to read this…
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Sure you can watch your tv shows of the Real Housewives of ‘whatever city’. Gorgeous women, with luxurious lives. You, my sissy, can be a gorgeous sissy but your luxurious life will be much different.
The lifestyle of outtings and parties is for the enjoyment of your Mistress. SHE is the one that regularly attends A-List social gatherings…and you as the sissy…if you are lucky – will get to join her as her servant.
You could see this as a sissy maid type role but I see a sissy made as someone with a uniform and one that would sleep in separate quarters.
The housewife would actually get to sleep in the house and even though there would most certainly be a separate bed situation going on.
Your duties as a housewife are similar to that of a sissy maid. You do the cooking and cleaning, the chores and make sure that your Mistress comes home to a glass of red wine and foot massage, on especially hard days, an already drawn bubble bath.
Your hair must ALWAYS be in tip-top 50’s style shape and you must always be prim and proper. You DON’T look like the maid, but you certainly have the duties of one.
When you’ve done your chores you only hope that the latest soiree so that you can be shown off as a top Sissy Housewife by your mistress.
And yes, just like a housewife is expected to perform certain marital duties – you will have those as well.
Let’s just see how you fair as the housewife first. This is another way that you differ from JUST the sissy maid. A Sissy Housewife has extra privileges that a sissy maid, may never encounter.
If you are a prim and proper Sissy that is devoted to your mistress in a special way, perhaps you would fit the roll of a Sissy Housewife. You are an Owned and Kept Sissy Housewife . Your Mistress doesn’t have to lift a finger when you are around, you are hopelessly devoted to her and you are going to look fabulous while doing it – you don’t get to be an ugly housewife.
Don’t worry dear, if you are new to the housewife sissy duties, Mistress Lillith is here to show you the way.
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Nadia-Maria

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I look for info about sissies.
What it is being a sissy ?
Are every submissive T.Girls sissies ? Or it needs more ?

What kind of extra pleasure do you find being a submissive sissy ?

Are sissies more often gay or not ?

Sorry I don't want offend nobody there. Just curious.

Kisses to all sissies

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I think the short answer would be that sissys are CD males who want to be dressed up in some cute way (usually pink, frilly, dresses and underwear, often maid aprons, somewhat tarty appearance etc) and treated as silly 'little' girls, made to work as maids, humiliated and punished for bad performance etc. It is a little different from simply acting as a maid who has a decent uniform, usually in black, with cap, apron etc.

I wouldn't know exactly what it's like being a sissy as that is not my interest even if I am a CD male and have performed as a uniformed maid.

I don't think that gay males are particularly in sissy stuff. I would imagine rather the contrary, that is, it is the straight males that are more interested in CDing and being sissys. Google for 'sissy' and you should get a lot of information.

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Electra is very close about who they are. They are TG's and you won't find many gay guys doing it. Sissy's are more of a fetish along the lines of S&M, into spankings and such. Some of the outfits are cute and some are meant to be humiliating. In a way, for the ones whom do it for the spankings, it's their punishment for felling TG. Another, it's the only way they can express their TG. Since we do not have any way, at this time, to survey the population concerning all things TG we do not know how many do it and why on any issue dealing with TG.
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fluffy_kingston

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I am a sissy, and TG. I do like to please men. Some humiliation is also stimulating.

insearchofme

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Check out: http://www.clubsissy.com/

I'm sure this will help you.

epsxyblkm

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I do have to say that when I am dressed, I almost always find myself seeking out men. Part of me likes feeling submissive, which is what real women sometimes have to deal with.

I dont know if that makes me a sissy, but if it does, then I wouldnt want to change a thing

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I living with a SO for a while and she enjoyed having me dress, we did a little b&d, but that doesn't require cd'ing. Khelli is a very self confident gal, been around long enough to know the score. Very feminine, not a sissy.
All of the sissyboys or pantyslaves I have known are into the "losing control" aspect of it. Unless they have a woman to tell them what to do, most of them never dress on their own. I agree that they seem to be into the frilly, silly style of clothing.

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Threads like this are kind of interesting because they bring out the stereotypers and sissyphobes.

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