Being Fingered For The First Time

Being Fingered For The First Time
I just wanna know bc my boyfriend keeps hinting that he wants to finger me but I feel too young but all my friends say their boyfriends finger them and eat them out all the time. My boyfriend doesn't mind if I wanna wait but I just wanted to know what age was the average.
Thanks everyone! You have really helped to settle my nerves
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I had a girl piano teacher. She used to massage my head ( my real head ) while she laid me on the couch. This was after 5 mins of playing a few notes on piano. I could never figure out what that had to do with my lesson. I was so relaxed while she rubbed my temples and looked forward to lessons. My bro and sis hated lessons. Not me. Any way one day as she massaged my temples and i closed my eyes I heard the tone of her voice change. I opened my eye and peeked. She was rubbing herself between legs in skirt with panties pulled to the side. I didn't see much. Just hairy. I then got a hard on. I kinda moved my hand closer to her and before I knew it she grabbed my hand and put it between her legs. I pulled away at first because it was wet. Opened my eyes then she spread wide and said its ok. You can touch it. So I did. I rubbed then she pushed my fingers in then grabbed my hand and moved it in and out ! That was so much fun ! Can't remember how old exactuly but I think I was around 11 or 12 yr old. We continued these sessions. Later she started sucking me a bit and tought me how to lick her. To this day I can't play a thing on the piano but do jerk off thinking about her now and again. Other time I fingered a girl when I was 13 usher. She was 11 I think. And watched a girl finger her self when I was baby sitting at 12. She wanted to show me her hole when she opened her pussy. Very weird for me. I got a hard on but didn't touch her even tho she wanted me to touch it. True story's
I was 13 when I did fingered a girl for the first time, from what I can tell it's pretty great. But if you still feel like your too young then you should wait until your ready. Don't let anyone make you feel like you should do something you'r not ready for just because they all do. That's what they call peer pressure and it only leads to regret.
I was around 13-14 and my boyfriend was 14-15. You are hitting a new point in your life where you are finding out about sex and what feels good and what doesn't. If you don't feel comfortable with it then wait, if you want to try it then that's your choice, just make sure you read up on the consent laws in your state.
I was 15. Looking back I should've waited and not let my boyfriend pressure me into that. We eventually had sex then we got pregnant he took off after we graduated and I've not seen him since. Not trying to scare you but be careful doing what you're not ready to do. Take it from me, been there done that.
I was 15 when I did, I had the biggest negativity towards it but after it happened I wanted to slap myself for being so stubborn, it does feel good. And if you feel like you're not ready don't do it!!. And also make sure his hands are absolutely clean!
We were in the 8th grade, she was 14 and I just turned 15. After lunch we both went into the bathroom together. I went into the stall, pulled down my shots and already had an erection. She took her panties off and then sat on my lap. I pushed my erect penis inside her. Only thrusted 3-4 times and had an ejaculation.
15 or 16 (she was the same age)... but really it doesn't matter what age anyone else is. When you feel you are ready try it. Dont rush just because someone else wants you to.
Looks like I'm a bit behind if it comes to this. Seems like most guys did that at 16. I haven't fingered any girls yet.
I was 16, she was 14 or 15. Wait until you are comfortable with fingering and oral.
I was 20 before I did anything really sexual, which includes being fingered. I made out with a guy when I was 18, but that's about it.
Anything over 16 I think is up to you but if you're not ready then that's your choice just don't be pressured into it
I was 13 years old, but if you're not ready don't let your boyfriend talk you into doing things you're not ready for
Okay, my first partner was girl, the second was a guy, but I as sixteen when I fingered her. And I was 18 when I fingered him. (They both fingered me as well)
I think I was around 15 or so. Maybe 16. I can't even remember.
My first time was all at once , Then after like 3 weeks i got head for the first time
i have sex since im 14 and i finger girls since im 13
I was 16 and very scared to move on to this big step in my relationship. Fingering quickly leads to other experimenting.
I fingered a girl for the first time at 15-16
As young as 14 or 15 are are saying they did. At that time I was all about Spiderman comics

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Hello, yesterday my boyfriend and I were making out and he started to play with my vagina. It was really good until he tired to slide one finger inside of me. I felt pain, he saw that and he stop right away. I'm virgin, I've never fingered myself before and I've never used tampons.
When I went to the bathroom, there was blood on my panties and today I'm still bleeding, it hurts to sit down and it hurts to pee.
Is there anything I can do? I'm concerned and worried that I did something wrong. I want the both of us to feel good in this situation, but he's really upset with himself for making me feel pain.
Please help me.
Thank you very much!

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Try to always take a hot bath or shower before engaging in any sexual activities. Relax. Breathe deeply. Avoid alcohol. Commit to leisurely playful, whole-body, massage caresses.
Basically, when men make love the way women prefer, women have fewer complaints, and men have fewer sex problems.

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So my boyfriend and I have started to talk about sex and be more sexual around each other. It's been really great so far - the conversations about sex, touching nipples, etc.

He asked if he could finger/masturbate me too, and I said I wasn't ready for that tonight, since it was a lot to process. However, I do want him to do it in the near future, so we agreed to do it later this week.

I'm actually looking forward to it a lot. I just have a lot of questions about what to expect. He and I are both virgins and we've never touched each other's genitals before.

Will it hurt a lot if he puts his fingers inside my vagina? (I masturbate a lot but I've only managed to go inside myself a few times and it's been uncomfortable. I'm hoping with him it will feel good though because I'll be more aroused. Is this a realistic expectation?) Also, will this mean I'm not a virgin anymore, if we finger/masturbate each other?

I'm nervous because I've never done this type of thing before but I'm really excited as well because I really trust my boyfriend and we have really good, open communication. I want this to be a really good experience and I just would like some tips on how to accomplish that. Thanks!
Hi Hel,

In terms of comfort and pleasure during manual sex (fingering), there are a few things you can do. One is to make sure you're using lube, since that decreases the chances of discomfort, and to make sure you're aroused and relaxed before he tries inserting his fingers. Another is to be really active in communicating with each other; that means him checking in with you about how things feel, and you letting him know if something is uncomfortable (or if it feels good). Does that make sense?

The question of virginity is a little trickier. Virginity isn't a concrete, physical state, it's actually an idea, one that different people define in majorly different ways. Heather does a really good job of explaining why that is here: https://www.scarleteen.com/article/advi ... l_a_virgin .
Yes that definitely makes sense. Communication definitely is key. Is it okay if we don’t use lube? Like, if I’m aroused and wet would it still be okay? Since it’s our first time doing something like this, I’m not sure how far we’ll go - if he’ll just touch me or actually insert his fingers. Depends on the mood I guess.

I’ll read up on the article. Thanks for the tips!
You're welcome, I'm hope they help!

I always encourage folks to keep lube handy, even if they're not sure they'll need it. Sometimes the body produces enough lubricant for things to feel good, other times you can be really turned on and still need an little extra lube. Too, even if he sticks to external touches, lube can help prevent discomfort in those areas too (think about someone rubbing your skin with lotion versus without; the lotion cuts down on unpleasant friction).
Okay, I’ll talk to him about lube. I’m sure we can get it at the local pharmacy.

I also wanted to ask: how can we make sure I’m extra aroused and wet? I know he and I have just started being this sexual with each other so maybe that’s why I’m nervous about trying to get aroused - I’ve been aroused with him, but just not at times when we’re intentionally trying to be sexual. I want to be wet and I don’t know if that will come from making out or dirty talk or what.
What's going to make you the most aroused is really only something you can figure out through experimentation and experience, the same way you'd figure out what feels best during any kind of sex. Are there things you already like to do together that turn you on a lot? Anything you're really excited to try? I will say that worrying a lot about arousal can actually make feeling relaxed and aroused more difficult, so that's something to keep in mind.
I’ll definitely talk to him and come up with some things he and I are both willing to try. Are there any tips for being relaxed?
Hey, Hel. That's often pretty individual, and depends a lot on what you find helps you to relax in general, and then sexually, and with this particular partner.

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