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BDSM Rules and Ideas for Punishment
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Oooh, punishment! It is possibly the most exciting, yet quite misunderstood aspect of power exchange relationships.
Before getting into rules and ideas, it’s important to highlight what this tactic actually is and when it’s appropriate to use it:
Punishment is a tool that may be used for discipline and training of a submissive or slave.
There is a difference between discipline and punishment.
Discipline is the umbrella term that involves training a submissive to carry out tasks and holding themselves exactly the way the Dominant expects using tools such as rewards, correction, and punishment.
Since any type of D/s relationship involves some type of service or submission, you could say that discipline (training a sub) is a must within any power exchange dynamic, whereas retribution is completely optional.
Disciplinary action in this context is not something hot or sexy. It is used in order to deter bad behavior .
The type of punishment used may be positive in nature (adding adverse stimuli such as inflicting pain or corner time) or negative (taking away positive stimuli such as privileges and toys).
You don’t need to incorporate penalties in order to have a satisfying D/s relationship. It is completely optional . Some people cannot tolerate being punished so it may be a hard limit for them.
This should be discussed before entering into any dynamic.
If chastisement is an essential tool for a Dominant, they may not be wanting to dabble with a sub who imposes this as a hard limit.
What can you use instead? Or in addition to negative consequences? Rewards (positive reinforcement) provide an effective incentive to be good, obey, or to change behavior.
No punishment should ever be administered without first negotiating. It’s best to specify and agree in detail what penalties are allowed at the outset of the relationship or dynamic.
Potential sanctions are not just limited to spanking. It can be anything that the sub does not enjoy; a consequence to teach them a lesson .
It is done for an intended purpose, not for fun or enjoyment (as opposed to “funishment”).
Typically, neither the Dom nor the sub will actually enjoy punishing the submissive. It may however help a sub alleviate feelings of guilt associated with disappointing a Dominant and therefore act as a cathartic event.
In this way, you can even play out that it’s a privilege for the s-type and make them beg for forgiveness and to be punished for a contravention.
Non-corporeal examples such as corner time, writing lines etc. are very effective tools at your disposal (subject to consent of course).
Whatever tool is used, consistency is key.
Compare the above to a scene – where spanking, caning, or some other impact play is an enjoyable experience for both parties. In this case, it shouldn’t be referred to as “punishment”. You are not punishing the sub for something they’ve done. Instead, it is negotiated play; a scene for enjoyment . Your sub shouldn’t feel like they’ve done something wrong when you’re just engaging in s/m play.
Funishment (the fun kind of punishment) is a sort of mock retribution. It’s fun to use when you are playing around with each other and the Dominant asserts themselves in a frolicsome way.
Being playful and poking fun at your Dominant is completely different from openly defying their authority .
So, for example, when I’m given an order that I don’t really want to do, sometimes I’ll jokingly pout and show my displeasure at the task in a way that’s fun and lighthearted but will always follow through with commands . When I pout and comply, for us, it reinforces Sir’s authority. It makes Sir feel like, “yep, I’ve still got it. I can still make her do things that she doesn’t really want to do and she’ll obey”.
Mucking around like this may not be acceptable to other Dominants so be sure to talk about the type of power exchange you are both seeking.
Here are some rules and ideas for punishment within a power exchange relationship:
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Here are some some quick rule ideas for behavior training in D/s relationships.
They are written in a formal way so you can simply add them to your contract or agreement if you have one. If not, use them for ideas any way you wish.
Immediately prior to (or following) punishment, the Dominant shall explain to the submissive why he’s being punished.
Before using punishment, the submissive will be given a chance to “get out of jail free” if she makes the Dominant laugh.
Master may in his absolute discretion postpone any punishment to a later time or date. slave will always be informed of an impending punishment and its reasons.
The Dominant will never punish when angry or in the heat of the moment.
If need be, the Dominant may take a step back from the situation to collect themselves for a few hours or even days.
The sub shall be advised of the Dominant’s feelings and intentions of punishment. (Plus, anticipation adds to the severity/intensity of the impending punishment).
After punishment has been administered, the Dominant will have a conversation with the submissive to make sure they are okay and that they understand why punishment took place.
If in at any time, slave feels she is being punished unfairly, she shall advise Master immediately.
Master shall then take the time to assess whether:
(a) slave was advised of the rule she has breached; and
(b) whether Master’s instructions were clear enough in the circumstances.
Where the submissive commits a breach outside of the Dominant’s presence or knowledge, the sub shall confess such transgression to the dominant without delay and shall await the Dominant’s decision for punishment.
The Dominant shall take into consideration the severity of the crime together with the period of time that has elapsed between the time of the breach to the time of confession.
The parties agree to create a list of allowable punishments. When punishment is warranted, the Dom will always keep negotiated limits and allowable punishments in mind when creating a punishment for the sub.
Within 48 hours of receiving punishment, the submissive will write a journal entry about the breach of rules (from the time the contravention occurred to now writing the journal).
The journal entry will be handed over to the Dominant within the 48 hours, who will then read it and arrange for a loving and tender conversation with the submissive.
Once the parties have finalized a punishment event, through discussion, journaling and closure, neither the breach nor the act of punishment may be raised for discussion other than for constructive reasons.
Constructive reasons include requesting changes to the current dynamic or relationship rules.
I keep track of the number of spankings in a notebook she has the responsibility to keep.
If she funny, pleasing, … or some other nice reason, I add one.
But, if she is bratty or has done something bad, I remove a certain number of spankings.
Spanking (hand, whip, cat) is a pleasure for her and for me.
And it has to stay that way. Punishing with something which is a pleasure is a bad idea. Keep it fun and sane.
The current ritual I currently like is my sub using obedience. Now this comes in multiple parts. Although it’s an app it is now a big part of our dynamic.
Beforehand I had a number of tasks for my submissive to do daily and weekly, but she would either forget or just not do them because I wasn’t there to hold her accountable.
Now if she doesn’t do something, she obviously still gets punished, but if she does it and doesn’t mark it, she also gets punished. Something both of us like as it gives her a sense of control even when I’m not around as she still has things that she has to prove she did.
Punishment involves the withholding of pleasure from the submissive; other forms of “punishment/discipline”, such as caning, are actually a pleasure for the submissive. Withholding is a better motivator for correcting behaviour.
my Daddy hates when the gas in the car gets too low, and i am the type that will run it down to the last drop, so one of our different rules is that i am not allowed to run the vehicles below a quarter tank of gas, otherwise the punishment is a caning, and i hate the cane.
It appeals to me because it keeps Him happy, and it prevents me from ever getting close enough to run my car out of gas!
A quick punishment for submissives whom I have a LDR with is writing lines. However, there’s a small twist. Whatever the sub is being reprimanded for it must write out while holding the pen with its asshole. Record it for an extra giggle.
My favorite is using random chance games for choosing reward or punishment. Either slips of paper in a bowl to choose from, spinning a wheel, rolling the dice, etc.
Dice are fun, because you can add additional variables. Roll a two and you are to be in chastity for a week.
Roll a five and I will bind you and edge you for 45 minutes.
Or maybe when you roll an odd number, you must roll again, and now there is a consequence or reward for each roll. (You rolled a five, so roll again. Next is a two, so I will bind and edge you for 45 minutes, and then put you in chastity for a week! Fun!)
The reason this appeals to me? I find the element of chance to be exciting on occasion. Though most times, your reward or punishment is of my own choosing.
If I do not wake up and present myself first thing for at least 10 wacks with a paddle or similar device on a daily basis I will be punished.
This appeals to me because I get to start the day in the right frame of mind.
Last time I forgot it was 24 hour in the cell so I remember to start the day properly.
If my little disobeys a duty or chore that daddy gives her, she has to spin a wheel that gives me or her the choice of punishment (just to make it interesting).
I want my little to be strong and by giving her a chance to make her own punishment sometimes I feel makes things interesting rather than recycle old punishments.
I would find detailed house cleaning and cooking rules to be agreed to and if any are not followed in detail daily a punishment would put in place. Once the daily check list is checked, depending on the number of failed rules, the punishment would be in place:
miss one: you are made to sit in the toilet room for 1 hour without any phone or other tools to speak to anyone.
miss two: you are tied to the foot of the bed and not released till morning.
miss three: you are bound gagged and blindfolded for 3 hours however the punisher wishes.
miss four or more: you are strictly bound and gagged and some extra devices are used to make you suffer for the punisher’s entertainment till they feel you have learnt a lesson, then you are bound to the bed till morning.
This is a very effective rule that can be used in addition to or instead of punishing a submissive.
“We have rules for a reason and when you break them […]
When my Mistress invites Her friends, i have to serve dinner and almost every time i have to do it completely naked. Moreover, She often orders me to submit to Her friends and they are free to use me the way they want.That’s really humiliating, but She enjoys my embarrasment. At the other hand, it makes me live in the “now” and in a way i feel good by proving this way my devotion to Her.
Her Highness does not wish to be seen, only to see. She does not wish to touch, and is several hundred miles away so both her absence and her touch are a form of discipline.
I loved reading your “Punishment Guide”. I can tell that it was written by someone who has in depth knowledge of Domination. I can’t say that, as a submissive. I agree with everything written. But the majority of the post really peaked my interest. Thank you so much. I hope to read more. Larry
Thanks again. I enjoy reading your advice. It makes good sense. I don’t always think things through in such depth.
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I am very excited to share my BDSM punishments with you all, whether you’re a sub reading this or a dom, my list will give you inspiration, ideas, and a set of new and refreshing punishments for you to explore with your partner. It can be difficult to think of new ways to get your sub under control so I am here to save the day. If you have any punishments that you want to add, leave them down in the comment section below!
Before we begin, I feel like I need to just quickly outline a few things:
Know your subs limits : A lot of the punishments below require you to know your subs limits without even asking them, so make sure that’s something you thoroughly discuss before doing anything in the bedroom.
Consent : I shouldn’t have to say this, but you always need consent for any of the punishments below. If your sub doesn’t like spanking don’t just suddenly introduce it because you think they might like it that one time, no, only do what you both consent to at all times. To make sessions flow a lot easier a lot of subs and doms have an agreement that they go over outlining their do’s, dont’s, and limits.
I also want to make it clear that everything mentioned below is part of BDSM/bondage and is enjoyed by people who embark on this kind of lifestyle. People ‘punishing’ their partner do it consensually and during sex and foreplay, a lot of trust is shared between them, and in no way am I promoting anything other than consensual adult fun to people who understand the kink.
Aftercare : Something a lot of sub/dom relationships love is the aftercare, so it’s vital you know exactly what your sub wants after playing with them. Some choose cuddles, some a soapy bath, some want to be waited on hand and foot, whatever it is, discuss it and make sure you make aftercare a priority.
Now we have that cleared up, let’s get onto the punishments that I have lined up for you!
These punishments are all concerned around the big ‘O’. Some punishments deny it, some encourage it, and some overload your sub with it. There’s something for every sub here and it’s a great time for me to mention that orgasm punishments are some of my and my boyfriend’s favorites.
This BDSM punishment involves denying an orgasm to your sub no matter how good they have been. You can experiment by getting them all worked up and then just leaving them desperate and needy, it will drive them wild and have them begging for that sweet release.
Ruining your subs orgasm is tremendous, ( I ruin my boyfriend’s orgasm all of the time !) all you need to do is get your sub right on the brink of an orgasm, and at the very second that they begin to cum, stop what you’re doing and just watch as they wriggle and complain as you deny them something they were so on the cusp of.
If your sub is female, just keep ruining their orgasm, if they are male, do it as many times as he can take. After you’ve ruined their orgasm, they should thank you like they had the best orgasm of their life.
Chastity is a great way to restrain your subs intimate areas, this is how I train my boyfriend and it’s so simple. Just lock your sub up, keep the key safe and keep them locked away until further notice. This can be for a few hours, days, or even longer. I like to tease my boyfriend when he’s locked up, masturbating in front of him, getting off, and watching his cock strain to grow hard inside of the small cage, this is the one I use and then you can mix it up with these cruel chastity punishments .
Another thing you can do is only allow your sub to have an anal orgasm when they are locked up. It gives them a release but it’s certainly a punishment to be locked away and only allowed to resort to one hole.
Pure torture and so much fun, strap your sub onto a sex machine and watch them cum again and again without stopping. The pleasure they will feel is immense but they will feel exhausted and overly sensitive after a while. It’s a great way to spend an afternoon, turning your machines on and off again and again all to punish your silly sub. These are the sex machines that we use the most:
Milking time! During this punishment, you only get to come once you have produced enough precum/pussy wetness. You achieve this by fingering or penetrating the ass or pussy and waiting for their milky juices to come pouring out and once you are satisfied (if ever!) that’s when your sub can cum.
For this punishment, you set a goal for your naughty sub. Maybe they can only cum once you have had a total number of 5 orgasms, you can spread these orgasms over days, weeks however long you want, but they are not allowed to cum till your order is complete.
You can also use tasks from further on in this list, once for instance the whole house is clean they can cum or once they have begged for long enough, use your imagination and keep ahold of your subs pleasure.
Get a remote control sex toy, put it inside or on your sub, and leave it on for an hour, ( I recommend this toy for her and this one for him ) tell them they can’t cum, if they cum ruin their orgasm, and add another [insert time] minutes to the timer for disobeying your commands. Make sure to also read this guide on having a hands-free orgasm for added expertise on this kind of torture.
Once your partner has cum, don’t stop the pleasure, keep going, don’t stop, see if you can get him or her to the point of a dry orgasm. They will wriggle and moan but forcing their orgasm out of them is giving up all control to you and they will shudder with an overload of sensory pleasure.
These next punishments are my productive punishments, things that don’t involve anything sexual but get your sub to work before they can get any kind of pleasure or as a punishment for misbehaving during play. It shows the power dynamic between you both and has your sub actively trying to please you and get back on the right track.
Have your sub clean the whole house before you even think about doing anything sexual with them, this could be because they broke some rules or just because you want to make them wait and serve you before you let them cum.
A pointless task, one that takes ages but one that will make them understand what they did wrong. It’s a great punishment for a sub that needs
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