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24/7 Master/slave. With added ethics.
Control and no compromise: that’s my m.o. I am the Boss, they are my slaves. Sound unfair? Don’t care. It’s who I am. But, and it’s a big but: I am an ethical dom.
Control is intrinsic in all aspects of my daily life. The 24/7 master/slave dynamic is a lifestyle I wouldn’t trade for anything. What’s point in turning it off and on at a whim? That wouldn’t be true to the needs of myself or my bois. When I am in control I expect to be so for life.
I’m not here to control those who don’t wish for it. I own two slaves (one in containment) and have three in training, each committed to a life of submission. All have dedicated themselves to serving my wants, my needs, my whims; pledging to love, honour and obey. For life.
My slaves entered into this relationship under full negotiation and consent. I respect their limits and they respect mine. Compromise may test my patience – it’s a waste of time. But it’s a necessary evil, when developing new relationships with potential slaves. If I have to compromise too much with a prospective slave, it is not for me. A little bit of compromise goes a long way. My bois know that once they submit to ownership, the compromise ends and their work begins. Limits, strengths, weaknesses, the inner workings of its submissive self: these are all known to me before I accept a slave as property. It is then branded, collared and accepted at my feet.
In return, I see the human being behind each of my slaves – this is where my ethics kick in. I don’t treat any one of my bois the same. They are all submissive, yes. They are all here for the same thing, yet each of them got here through singular means and not one of them are the same. You could say that through adaption comes compromise, but I am willing to adapt my style when it comes to my bois. That is my job, to know them inside out. It doesn’t mean they get much of a say. They get downtime, they are free to live the lives they wish outside of my house, as long as they fulfil my needs first.
We are a family. We function as a single unit with me at the top. I control everything: appearance, finances, social interaction, what they eat, et al. I’d like to think, on an unconscious level, that I choose what they think and believe.
This blog is here to document the inner workings of our lifestyle. Making connections within the wider BDSM community is another plus.
I have some exciting plans for the site, which we will reveal in the coming weeks and months. The bois have instructions to introduce themselves in due course. Hope you enjoy the experience.
You can reach out to us at theboss@theethicaldom.com and find our social media here .
May I ask where is this house located Sir?
Sir thank you for the insight to your lives and the Master/slave dynamics that obviously work so well.
Sir this slave wishes it was part of your stable Sir.
Sir this is a excellent site, wish I was Your slave
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This is amazing, I wish this could be the standard of social norm. I can’t wait to see you and your family grow Sir
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June 11, 2012
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Shinzo Abe, Former Prime Minister of Japan, Is Assassinated
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Once a week, Daily Intel takes a peek behind doors left slightly ajar. This week, the Submissive Man Who Isn’t Allowed to Orgasm: Male, 43, South Carolina, college professor, heterosexual, in an open marriage.
6:30 a.m. I wake up, still in bondage, as I am almost every morning. This morning, my ankles are in leather cuffs locked on and to each other, which leaves about two inches of play between them. My hands are locked in padded leather mitts, which force them into fists and make the fingers completely useless. These, too, are locked to each other. Last night, my wife and dominant, DR , set the wake-up time for 7 this morning. I am not allowed to awaken her before then, short of bathroom needs or urgent distress. I have few other options, so I try to doze some more.
7:02 a.m. I wake again, and reach over to DR and start waking her with gentle kisses on the forehead, ear, neck, and, when she stirs and offers it, her lips. We say good morning and I stroke her arm as best I can, moving both hands together. She reaches for the keys and begins to let me out. I am getting quite hard at this point, but I know nothing will happen. This is the ninth day since my last orgasm, and she told me last Sunday that she had decided that I would not come again until she could feel my need for it, and she did not know when that would be.
10:06 a.m. DR went back to sleep after freeing me, so I’m surfing porn on Tumblr. The porn is mostly either female domination, bondage, chastity (male or female), or fetish (latex or leather clothing) photos. My favorites tend to be combinations. Though I’m submissive to DR and love bondage, I’m not a masochist (or sadist) and tend not to watch blogs that have a lot of pain imagery. It’s a turnoff.
10:40 a.m. DR is starting to awaken. After I make her tea, we lie naked, intertwined, talking about mundane things. I start caressing her breasts. This isn’t likely to lead to anything, unless she wants me to finger her, but it’s part of our connection. DR mentions that we need to try out the latest tweaks on my chastity belt. Yes, chastity belts are real, and they are made for both men and women. I never know in advance when she’s planning to put it on me.
12:10 p.m. We are back in bed. She hooks her fingers through the heavy steel ring that clasps my chainmail collar, and comments that she likes to use it as a handle. She reaches down toward my cock. As she masturbates me, sometimes she pauses and rubs her thumb on the head for a different sensation, and to make sure she doesn’t do any one thing long enough for me to come. As I roll onto my back, she climbs on top and reaches for the lube. After some more strokes with her hand, she lowers herself onto me. “Instructions?” I ask. “Don’t come. And let me know if you’re about to.” “Yes, ma’am.” After nine days, it doesn’t take long to reach that threshold. She’s ridden up and down about six or eight times when I say, “Getting close.” She stops and climbs off, then we lie in each other’s arms a bit longer. I so want to masturbate now.
1:05 p.m. We shower together. After she’s washed my penis, I say, “I don’t know if it was an explicit decision not to, but you haven’t said anything about the repercussions of an accident.” “It would depend on the situation.” We agree that it would never be a rule I’d break intentionally but that the longer this goes, the easier it will be to misjudge an edging (bringing myself close to orgasm). I’m quite hard again thinking this through. She also suggests the chastity belt might be handy.
5:29 p.m. I browse Tumblr. The first thing that shows up is a teasing handjob, with the caption, “Don’t you dare. Not without my permission.”
6:50 p.m. Another quick Tumblr porn check. I send DR the link to one I liked, just a collar chained to the bedpost, not in use.
9:25 p.m. I just had a snack, and porn check. I tend to prefer pictures of women bound to pictures of men, even though I enjoy being tied more than doing the tying. With written erotica, I enjoy either.
10:15 p.m. I lie in bed, winding down, and think I’d like to masturbate, anticipating tonight’s restraints. Not in the cards, I know (unless I want to edge, which I don’t). The last period of ordered denial was fourteen days. I’ll be surprised if this one is shorter.
11:10 p.m. DR starts physically and verbally teasing, about how far she wants to push me in the denial. I don’t know whether I want her to keep stroking me, with me knowing she’s just teasing, or not.
11:35 p.m. Time for tonight’s chains. My ankles are again cuffed together, this time with a short chain tethering them to an eyescrew in the end of our bed, which is built for bondage. My hands have more slack, so I can roll over, but are also chained near the headboard.
6:25 a.m. I find stories I like online, about being buried in sand, and start masturbating. I am just edging myself, but I am required to do so a certain number of times per week. I read and pump (as best I can with the chains) and pause just before coming. Again and again. That’s all I can take without risking orgasm, so I stop for now.
6:47 a.m. DR releases me (though leaving the individual cuffs locked on my limbs), and now I take a quick Tumblr check, finding some cool photos of women in latex.
7:36 p.m. I’m getting somewhat jaded since discovering Tumblr, but I still pause at the panel of animated GIFs of women mummified in tape, wrapped neck to toe, and squirming. Tape mummification is one of my favorite things, though it is time-consuming to do well.
8:05 p.m. I come upstairs and kneel beside DR in her chair. After some kissing, she tells me to sit in my chair. She then gets out cuffs and chain. She locks a leather collar on my neck (our “play collar,” as opposed to my 24/7 chainmail collar that signifies her ownership of me) and cuffs on my wrists. She asks if I’d prefer to be naked. Since the answer is yes, she lets me undress before finishing. She chains my wrists together behind my back and locks the connecting chain to one hanging from my neck. “No instructions, you’re just in the situation you’re in. I’m going to make dinner.” And she leaves. I maneuver to get the TV remotes and set up a movie. It’s a very arousing situation, but of course no masturbation, even if I could reach. I manage to twist my arms over my head to get my hands in front, at least.
8:42 p.m. DR comes up with dinner and looks unsurprised. “I wondered if you’d be able to do that.”
11:18 p.m. I am ready for bed, still chained. DR puts my ankle cuffs on and locks them together, part of “tucking me in.” She mentions that she expects some manual orgasms from me in the morning. I am having trouble slowing my mind. Finally, she reaches under the covers. I am expecting her to tease me, but she instead moves my wedding band from my left hand to my right. This signifies that I am to speak only when spoken to. I don’t think she is annoyed, just helping me calm myself. And it always leaves me turned on, just from yielding control.
6:02 a.m. I’m awake in my chains. The alarm is set for 7, but one of the terms under which I can wake DR early is bathroom needs. She unhooks the wrist and ankle cuffs, leaving them locked on and the chain dangling from my collar.
7:08 a.m. I go to wake DR again, cupping her breast and nuzzling her, how she wants to be awakened. I very much want sex. It’s not exactly horniness, since I’m not even hard, but I want the connection. I say as much, and she wants me to tell her how I feel. I do my best to describe the physical longing.
8:20 a.m. I am not feeling my best physically and she decides to wait on the fingering until I am more on my game and can give her proper attention. She tells me this while cupping my crotch. She does a little massaging, then takes off my cuffs and collar and sends me to shower.
2:35 p.m. A coupon for one of our favorite online kink stores comes in e-mail today, and DR and I discuss whether we can afford a pair of locking, leather thigh cuffs. When she is in the mood to have me bind her, she usually wants her legs stretched and tied wide open. Thigh cuffs would make that much easier.
10:30 p.m. DR locks me up for the night. My wrists and ankles are closely linked again. This is the most common position, letting me feel cozily constrained, but little interference with sleep.
5:48 a.m. It is not easy to read porn on the computer and masturbate at the same time while my wrists have about two inches between them, but I manage. I am just edging myself, of course. I cannot stroke myself much anymore without coming though. It’s day twelve since my last orgasm.
6:10 a.m. I awaken DR . She unhooks my wrists and says she’s horny. I ask if she wants help, and she says yes. I start by playing with her breasts, then move my hand down. I am pretty good at finding what works for her. This is very arousing to me, but it’s about her right now. As she comes down from the orgasms, she says, “I’ve been needing that for a day and a half!”
9:20 p.m. DR locks the cuffs on and together. As we snuggle, she starts masturbating me. Out of desperation, I ask if she needs anything before sleep, which causes her to burst out laughing. She resumes stroking. When she asks me to describe what I’m feeling, I tell her that I am missing hope. We play teasing games frequently, but I always have the hope that I’ll get to come this time. Right now, there is none. She tells me that when this is over, she may go to the other extreme — to have me have sex with her and come as often as physically possible.
6:03 a.m. I wake up trying to figure out my third masturbation/edging for the week, to meet the requirement. I consider this morning, because I am traveling and staying at a friend’s this weekend, so I don’t want to mess up their sheets. Now I remember I won’t be ejaculating anyway, so that’s not an issue. I guess I’ll save No. 3.
10:05 p.m. DR tucks me in. I have a drive tomorrow, so she doesn’t do anything stringent, just the usual linked cuffs. There is no teasing either.
6:18 a.m. It is almost time to wake DR , and I again think about using the third masturbation. But the same logic as yesterday takes hold. I will conserve it for when I am sleeping alone.
11:10 a.m. I’m thinking of getting on the road and say something about getting myself together. DR hooks two fingers in the ring on my collar and simply says, “No.” We snuggle for awhile. She teases me again, grabbing my penis, stroking it, squeezing it, and asks what “the count” is. “Twelve days since the order, fourteen days since the last orga
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