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As a Dominant or Dominatrix, you have a special role in the development of your slave. You can utilize a variety of tools and training to encourage their full potential, and enable them to fully serve you and your needs. For some slaves, they require a certain sort of breaking down of their current state of mind. One way to inspire their feeling of being in a submissive state is to use humiliation training. Though not all slaves will want this sort of training, some do want it and can benefit tremendously, allowing them to sink into their role and serve you in the best way possible.
**Please Note** Humiliation training should never be conducted unless it has been previously discussed and agreed upon by both partners. Humiliation training will not work if the submissive has not consented to it. Much care and attention should be spent on understanding the submissive’s past and knowing what forms of humiliation are completely off limits, so it can be avoided at all costs during training. Caution and common sense must be used at all times.
At the core of humiliation training is the creation of a lesser than headspace. This occurs by humiliating the slave’s central state of mind and putting them into a vulnerable state. This requires starting by identifying what makes the slave feel humiliated. This might include:
How they feel about themselves – A Dominant or Dominatrix can also identify what the submissive feels is the worst part of them (at this time, anyway). This might include how they look, how they sound, or how they behave when under stress. By talking about what the slave might be easily humiliated by, then that information can be used in a scene or as part of a longer-term training.
How they respond to certain words – There might be key words that a slave will find most humiliating. Some might respond to derogatory words, certain swear words, or certain labels that might be applied to them. Depending on the slave, you will need to find out what has the greatest possibility of generating true humiliation. Because every slave is different, it is essential to get to know your slave and to find out what they will benefit the most from in their training.
How they are impacted by certain goals – You might also choose to find certain goals that are nearly impossible to achieve. In doing so, there will be multiple points at which the slave is not going to succeed. For a slave who has issues with wanting to please their Master or Mistress, they will feel humiliated each time they try to reach the goals…and can’t. You might choose to point out all of the times they make a mistake, further humiliating them and making them think they are never going to please you.
How they respond to certain dress or punishments – Some slaves will feel humiliated by having to wear certain items (e.g. a diaper, the opposite gender’s clothing, etc.). By simply being in these garments or being punished in their most vulnerable areas, they will sink deeply into the headspace of being the object of humiliation. A Master or Mistress can then remind the slave of their position again and again, further enforcing the idea that they are less than their trainer.
How they have been treated in their lives – You can also explore the ways in which a slave has been humiliated in their everyday lives. Perhaps they did not do well in a work situation. You might find a way to act these sorts of real life scenarios out to feel the humiliation again, though with the lens of power exchange. The Dominant might be the mean boss, for example, and enact that to see how the slave will respond.
There might be other situations in which a slave will feel humiliated, so having detailed conversations about the slave will enable a more personalized approach to this training method.
Many mistresses and masters will use humiliation training to encourage:
The trick with humiliation training is that it’s best for slaves who already have a strong foundation in being submissive. Though some masters and mistresses might want to start with this hardcore training, it’s not always well-suited for those slaves who are just finding their place.
Humiliation is a tool of expansion for a slave. It is a practice of being able to follow through with commands and scenes, while their mind and body is overwhelmed by the stimulation of being humiliated. Over time and with practice, the slave will simply drop into a scene, accept their humiliation, and act accordingly.
No matter the reason why humiliation training is chosen for training, the master or mistress has a sacred responsibility to ensure the slave is well cared for in each scene. Though the scene might be harsh and difficult, the dominant or dominatrix needs to find some way to ensure the slave sees their progress. No one will be perfect, but the attempts of the slave to be their best will need to be recognized and appreciated.
And thus, the training will be a success.
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**Please Note** Humiliation training should never be conducted unless it has been previously discussed and agreed upon by both partners. Humiliation training will not work if the submissive has not consented to it. Much care and attention should be spent on understanding the submissive’s past and knowing what forms of humiliation are completely off limits, so it can be avoided at all costs during training. Caution and common sense must be used at all times.
As a Dominant or Dominatrix, you have a special role in the development of your slave. You can utilize a variety of tools and training to encourage their full potential, and enable them to fully serve you and your needs. For some slaves, they require a certain sort of breaking down of their current state of mind. One way to inspire their feeling of being in a submissive state is to use humiliation training. Though not all slaves will want this sort of training, some do want it and can benefit tremendously, allowing them to sink into their role and serve you in the best way possible.
Humiliation Training
At the core of humiliation training is the creation of a lesser than headspace. This occurs by humiliating the slave’s central state of mind and putting them into a vulnerable state. This requires starting by identifying what makes the slave feel humiliated. This might include:
How they feel about themselves – A Dominant or Dominatrix can also identify what the submissive feels is the worst part of them (at this time, anyway). This might include how they look, how they sound, or how they behave when under stress. By talking about what the slave might be easily humiliated by, then that information can be used in a scene or as part of a longer-term training.
How they respond to certain words – There might be key words that a slave will find most humiliating. Some might respond to derogatory words, certain swear words, or certain labels that might be applied to them. Depending on the slave, you will need to find out what has the greatest possibility of generating true humiliation. Because every slave is different, it is essential to get to know your slave and to find out what they will benefit the most from in their training.
How they are impacted by certain goals – You might also choose to find certain goals that are nearly impossible to achieve. In doing so, there will be multiple points at which the slave is not going to succeed. For a slave who has issues with wanting to please their Master or Mistress, they will feel humiliated each time they try to reach the goals…and can’t. You might choose to point out all of the times they make a mistake, further humiliating them and making them think they are never going to please you.
How they respond to certain dress or punishments – Some slaves will feel humiliated by having to wear certain items (e.g. a diaper, the opposite gender’s clothing, etc.). By simply being in these garments or being punished in their most vulnerable areas, they will sink deeply into the headspace of being the object of humiliation. A Master or Mistress can then remind the slave of their position again and again, further enforcing the idea that they are less than their trainer.
How they have been treated in their lives – You can also explore the ways in which a slave has been humiliated in their everyday lives. Perhaps they did not do well in a work situation. You might find a way to act these sorts of real life scenarios out to feel the humiliation again, though with the lens of power exchange. The Dominant might be the mean boss, for example, and enact that to see how the slave will respond.
There might be other situations in which a slave will feel humiliated, so having detailed conversations about the slave will enable a more personalized approach to this training method.
The Purpose of Humiliation in Training
Many mistresses and masters will use humiliation training to encourage:
A submissive mindset at all times – The more you can keep a slave in the state of feeling like they are less than their master or mistress, the more they will stay engaged in the training process. If it’s clear they are going to be humiliated for any small infraction, the more they will remain submissive at all times during your scenes together.
A more focused slave – This sort of humiliation training also encourages focus and determination. While the slave might not be able to avoid humiliation, as they may never be perfect, they will realize it is their job to keep trying to please their trainer.
A slave that is willing to do whatever their master/mistress wants – Just as exercise builds stronger muscles, humiliation training will help a slave become more focused on attending to the needs of their master or mistress. Whether they are trying to avoid humiliation or not, the slave is better equipped for any scene in which they find themselves.
A slave who is empowered to face their fears – At its core, humiliation training helps to empower slaves against their fears. While they might find the beginning of this training to be challenging, they will slowly become stronger and better able to adapt the humiliation and the feelings that develop from it. They will be able to strengthen their mind and do what is asked, without being afraid.
The trick with humiliation training is that it’s best for slaves who already have a strong foundation in being submissive. Though some masters and mistresses might want to start with this hardcore training, it’s not always well-suited for those slaves who are just finding their place.
Humiliation is a tool of expansion for a slave. It is a practice of being able to follow through with commands and scenes, while their mind and body is overwhelmed by the stimulation of being humiliated. Over time and with practice, the slave will simply drop into a scene, accept their humiliation, and act accordingly.
No matter the reason why humiliation training is chosen for training, the master or mistress has a sacred responsibility to ensure the slave is well cared for in each scene. Though the scene might be harsh and difficult, the dominant or dominatrix needs to find some way to ensure the slave sees their progress. No one will be perfect, but the attempts of the slave to be their best will need to be recognized and appreciated.
And thus, the training will be a success.
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Humiliation kink play can be an incredible way to push sexual boundaries and bring you closer with your partner. But for some people, the idea of erotic humiliation is confusing or even a turnoff. I’m going to explain exactly what erotic humiliation is, what it’s not and how to humiliate your partner erotically (or be humiliated by them) in a way that avoids negative consequences.
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What it is – Erotic humiliation is just one type of kinky game you can try in the bedroom . It involves humiliation and degradation, not to actually harm anyone, but because it can be a turn on . Like other kinky activities, humiliation play requires consent. Otherwise, it’s not a sexy game ; it’s just plain mean.
Boundaries – Erotic humiliation needs to happen within agreed-upon boundaries. These boundaries define when and where your erotic humiliation games take place and what you can say or do in them. The things that can be erotically humiliating for you or your partner can vary wildly. Also, keep in mind that outside of agreed-upon rules for your erotic humiliation sessions, saying degrading things to your partner can be a form of emotional abuse, even if you don’t have bad intentions.
While you can skip straight to the tutorial on how to erotically humiliate your partner , you may first want to learn why people are into it…
Although no research has looked into what types of submissives like erotic humiliation, why, or how this interest developed, we can make a few educated guesses. Many kinks involve taboo activities that are frowned upon by society. Pushing those boundaries can be thrilling.
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Masochistic reasons – Often, those who enjoy being erotically humiliated have a masochistic streak or like to be submissive . They enjoy receiving pain. And what is humiliation if not a type of pain?
Furthermore, humiliation is a strong emotion, and like anxiety, fear, and shame, can arouse the nervous system. This doesn’t mean sexual arousal. Rather, your body is at attention. But for some people, that might pave the way for erotic arousal.
Sadistic reasons – On the other hand, being the person who erotically humiliates their partner can make you feel dominant and powerful . That’s an important component of sexual sadism. Knowing how to craft the perfect humiliation scene without actually harming your partner can be a form of creativity that gives you the satisfaction of caring for your partner’s desires and needs.
Wanting your partner to take control – Erotic humiliation can also help you get over sexual hangups. After all, if your partner “forces” you to do something, then what choice do you have? And who is to blame if you like it?
A note on self-esteem – Rest assured that you’re not alone if you’re interested in erotic humiliation, either as a giver or receiver. It doesn’t mean that you’re unhealthy or that you have self-esteem issues. However, if you do struggle with self-esteem, you should tread carefully when it comes to erotic humiliation and perhaps reconsider this type of play.
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As you can probably guess, combining two or more forms of erotic humiliation can make it that much more intense. However, if erotic humiliation that takes place over the phone or online may be different from in-person degradation.
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Degradation kink is slightly different – Technically, a degradation kink is about being treated as something other than human–an animal or object, for example–while a humiliation fetish focuses on causing someone embarrassment and shame. However, it’s easy to see how these two things work together.
If you’d rather not hear degrading words and just want to focus on the humiliation kink, make sure to let your partner know before you try anything out. And if your partner expresses that they don’t like dehumanisation, then it’s up to you to respect their boundaries.
Before you jump into an erotic humiliation scene, talk about it . Define your boundaries and needs.
Just because you agree to erotic humiliation doesn’t mean it’s a free-for-all. Keep in mind insecurities or past experiences that could be triggering.
Start small – We always advise to start smaller and proceed slower than you think you should with any kinky activity. You can always ramp up the intensity, but you can’t take back a word that has actually harmed your partner and can leave them wondering how you actually feel about them.
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