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Have you ever found yourself trying to figure out how to play with his balls during sex ? You're not alone. The problem with men’s balls is that they’re hiding behind the main event. Even sex experts don’t know what the hell to do with balls. Like, do we touch them? Just gawk at them? Do men want us to put them in our mouths or what? And, just as it is with penises, every set of balls is different.
Once you get a handle on penises, they’re fairly easy. You know you’re doing something right when they get erect, and you know you did something really right when a guy climaxes. Of course, technique is everything, but you’re likely to find far more women who feel comfortable handling a penis than they do handling a man’s scrotum. Like, how do you know if they’re happy with what you’re doing to them? It’s not like they’re going to get erect and eject some sort of mystery happy sauce.
So what are you supposed to do with them? Well, for starters, don’t ignore them. Testicles have a layer of muscle over them that extends upward towards the stomach, so when you play with them, it’s not just genuinely appreciated, but creates for an all-over body sensation. But holding them in your hand as if they're some precious stone isn't the only thing you can do when you have a set in your midst. Here are five things to do with his balls:
Balls are really sensitive, so if you just reach down and cup them during sex , you’re giving them the attention they crave. You can even squeeze them a bit, while the cupping and light massaging provides enough pleasure to give some extra stimulation to the sex you’re having.
Because the balls are so sensitive, giving a little tug , and I mean little , right before he’s about to climax can intensify his orgasm. Not only does pulling his scrotum away from his body make for a deeper orgasm, but it will prolong his release, too, giving him an extra rush of intensity at the end.
A great blow job means including the balls in the whole thing, too. I have friends who swear by the figure eight move, in which you circle your tongue in and around the two balls, creating a swirling motion. Licking the seam of the scrotum (there are so many nerve endings there!) especially makes for an amazing experience and one hell of a blow job.
This in no way means rubbing ice all over his balls and/or penis, because OMG, no thanks ! But according to sex educator and author Lou Paget, alternating between warm and cool with ice in your mouth is a really big turn-on for men. You can even ice them and then lick them immediately afterward. Just don’t be surprised if you see them recede a bit from the ice. But don’t worry, your warm mouth will relax them again.
With a slight sucking technique, you can easily take one of his balls in your mouth . What next? You can swirl your tongue around it, continue to suck a bit, or try to get the other ball in your mouth, too; you know, if you feel like a challenge. Of course, depending on the size of his ball, this could be a struggle, so if that’s the case, you can just move on to the second ball after you’ve played with the first one long enough. Also, humming while having a ball in your mouth creates a great sensation, and the best part is that you don’t even have to be in tune.
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Interested in putting a rubber band around your balls as a DIY sex toy? In this article, we’ll discuss why you might put a rubber band around your testicles, if it’s safe, and what you can do instead.
There are a few reasons you might put an elastic band around your testicles.
If you put a rubber band around your balls and shaft when erect, it functions like a cock ring . A cock ring essentially keeps blood “trapped” in your erection, making it bigger, harder, and sometimes more longer-lasting.
Many people enjoy an element of pain during sexual encounters. One kind of pain you may be interested in is cock and ball torture, more generally termed genital play .
The constriction of the testicles with a rubber band is a form of bondage and can introduce an element of erotic discomfort to sexual encounters, much the same way that testicle cuffs or a testicle cage might.
Some people may be interested in using a rubber band around their balls as a DIY ball stretcher , to stretch your scrotum down. Using a ball stretcher frequently, especially with weights attached, can make the scrotum hang down lower permanently. Some people do this for cosmetic reasons because they prefer the look of a lower-hanging scrotum. Ball stretching just during intercourse can also delay orgasm, leading to a more intense release.
Those are the main reasons you might put an elastic band around your balls. But should you?
While there are times when DIY sex implements might be safe, this is not one of those times. Putting a rubber band around your balls is extremely dangerous!
Here are the harmful consequences of using a rubber band around your balls, from most to least serious:
Rubber bands tend to be far tighter and more constrictive than devices that are actually designed for your genitals. They may also be difficult (and painful!) to remove once the penis is erect.
If left on for more than a few minutes, a rubber band could cause all circulation in the penis to cease completely. This could cause permanent tissue damage and even penile or testicular gangrene. (There’s a reason why farmers use rubber bands to castrate farm animals! )
Additionally, even short time periods of hyper-constriction caused by a rubber band around your balls could cause nerve damage. 
Testicle or penis bruising is a risk with any device that involves constricting these areas, especially if they are left on for more than several minutes at a time. However, because of the extra-constrictive nature of rubber bands, the risk of bruising is increased. 
On the less-severe end of things, un-lubricated rubber is really rough and uncomfortable against skin and hair. This can lead to irritation and chafing and also result in pubic hair being ripped off, especially when the rubber band is put on and removed.
Thus, you should not under any circumstances be putting a rubber band around your balls. Luckily, you can buy safer products actually designed to be used on the genitals. 
When buying a cock ring , testicle cuff, or ball stretcher, you want a fit that is snug, but not too tight. (Certainly not rubber-band tight!) It should only have a slight constrictive effect and you should still be able to remove the device when your penis is erect.
For this reason you may want to stick with models made of adjustable leather or softer silicone . Metal cock rings or testicle cuffs may be very difficult to remove when the penis is erect, which can become a serious problem: even a properly fitted cock ring, testicle cuff, or ball stretcher should only be worn for a short amount of time—20 minutes max. Otherwise, you risk tissue and nerve damage.
If you feel intense pain, tingling, or numbness, remove the device immediately.
You may also want to use lube to put on and remove the device.
The bottom line is that you should never put a rubber or elastic band around your testicles that isn’t specifically designed to go there. (This also applies to things you tie, like shoelaces and string). The risk of constriction and tissue damage is too high.
Instead, use devices that are actually designed to go on your genitals. Make sure they aren’t too snug, and never wear for more than 20 minutes at a time.


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Do you own a scarf? Then you’re ready.
If you're looking for a surefire way to spice things up in the bedroom, your mind might jump to handcuffs. But I'll do you one better: Try using rope.
ICYDK, if you're looking to dip a toe into kink , bondage is a great place to start. Most of the tools you need to fulfill your BDSM fantasies are lying around your house already. But, before you grab the nearest bandana and strap your partner to a kitchen chair, there are a few things you should know.
Establishing how to approach rope bondage might be an intimidating process if you've never tried it. Before you and your partner get into it, many experts suggest it’s a good idea to agree on your desired roles and boundaries. For example, figure out whether you'd rather be the dominant partner who takes on more leadership and control, or would you rather be the submissive one, who prefers to give up that control to their partner.
You should also talk to your partner about what you do/don't want done to you, how much pressure you’re into, and what safe word will signal when one of you has had enough.
If this isn’t your first time incorporating BDSM into your partnership, then this process might be second nature to you. But either way, preparation beforehand is always necessary. Here’s a few things to keep in mind before getting started.
Research is a must if it’s your first time using rope. Get familiar with what positions you want to try out and how to execute them properly. There are plenty of websites you can check out dedicated to explaining rope play. Elle Chase , CSE, ACS, a certified sex educator, recommends Remedial Ropes as a good place to start learning. Doing sufficient research will give you a better sense of where to tie, how tight, etc., says Chase.
If you’re interested in trying rope play or any other form of BDSM, consent should be an ongoing conversation. "Consent, communication, and trust are essential for a strong relationship—sexual or otherwise," says Chase. "Incorporating consensual bondage into sex play builds and fortifies essential trust between partners, and requires that communication be deft and clear."
Aside from doing your own research, there are also classes and workshops you can attend to get some real hands-on experience, says Francesca Gentille , PhD, clinical sexologist and professor at the International Institute of Clinical Sexology. Rope bondage is never risk-free as there is the possibility for nerve damage amongst other things, so it’s best for all participants to familiarize themselves with any safety issues that can pop up during practice. "Think R.A.C.K. (Risk Aware Consensual Kink)," says Gentille.
With safety being the priority, it doesn’t hurt to create some sort of escape plan in the event of an emergency. A good option is keeping the ties that bind the wrists and ankles loose until you get comfortable, says Chase. As you get better with the ties and make them tighter, you can also have a pair of safety scissors handy just in case, adds Gentile.
If executed correctly and with caution, a strong bond of trust can be formed between you and your partner. " When the rope tier, rigger, or dominant listens well, notices beautifully, and attunes to the one being tied, there is a sense of growing intimacy, anticipation, and arousal," say Gentille.
Aftercare is always needed after a scene and is usually negotiated before you start a scene. The purpose of aftercare is to make sure both participants level out mentally and physically. For scenes that can be physically depleting, Gentille recommends a blanket, snacks, and a bottle of water. She also adds that it’s a good idea to check in with your partner a few days after to see if anything other thoughts or feelings have come up. “Aftercare (done well), both immediately after a scene or session, and days later, is an opportunity to deepen your relationship, build trust, and hold space for any triggers and healing,” says Gentille. “If not handled well the opposite can happen. [You] can break trust or rewound and trigger feelings of abandonment [in your partner].”
Once the specifics are out of the way, then it's finally time to play. If you don't have any rope casually laying around your home, don’t worry. Plenty of other household items, like a scarf or a tie, can serve as great alternatives. Whatever tool you've got on hand, get ready to explore these 18 best bondage positions:
How to: Missionary is the easiest possible position for beginner bondage. Simply lie on your back with your arms above your head and your legs spread, then have your partner bind your wrists and ankles to the bed frame.
Licensed sex therapist Vanessa Marin recommended Sportsheets’ under-the-bed restraint system ($29, amazon.com ) in a previous interview with Women's Health , because its velcro cuffs are easily removable for a quick escape if/when you decide you no longer want to be bound.
How to: Have your partner lie on their back and bind their wrists and ankles, either together or to the bed frame, with a silk scarf, a tie, or heck, even your own underwear. Once they’re adequately restrained, straddle them facing forward or away, whichever you prefer.
Because they’re tied down, you can switch it up as often as you see fit—playing with your clit, or maybe pulsing a bullet vibe on your partner's perineum, nipples, or clit (try the Tenga Iroha Stick, $20, amazon.com ). Basically, you get to do whatever you want—you’re in charge.
Whether you opt for standard or reverse cowgirl, woman-on-top positions provide a perfect opportunity for you to take complete control.
How to: Lie with your stomach flat on the mattress (or wherever you’re going to be having sex) and have your partner bind your wrists together over your head. Maybe have them blindfold you , too, because why the hell not?
Then, have them lift your hips to enter you from behind, keeping your shoulders down and your knees rooted while he (or she) thrusts.
How to: Bend over and have your partner bind your wrists to your ankles, with your feet anchored shoulder-width apart for better balance.
Have your partner enter you from behind, keeping their hands on your hips to make sure you don’t topple over. Try a hands-free couples vibrator, like the Eva II ($135), for added clitoral stimulation.
How to: Lie down with your back flush to the mattress and then lift your hips into the air, as if you were doing a bridge in yoga. Then, have your partner bind your wrists behind your back and grab your butt, so you can wrap your legs around their waist as they thrust. (This one is like the leap frog, but in reverse.)
How to: For this one, grab a sturdy chair and park your partner’s butt in it. Then, tie their wrists and ankles to the frame, and once they’re ready to go—after a little oral sex , maybe—straddle them and pump up and down. Whether you face them or turn away is entirely up to you.
How to: First, grab two ties, one for your eyes and one for your wrists. Have your partner blindfold you and bind your wrists in front of you, so they hang down by your hips. Once you’re all tied up, they can take the reins in foreplay, before rolling you onto your side and entering you from behind. As they rock into you, they can surprise you with nipple tweaks and strokes, keeping stimulation on your clit. The best part: You get to lie back and enjoy the feels.
A big part of what makes spoon sex such a winner: Easy access to the clit and nips.
How to: Have your partner kneel and sit back on their legs. Loosely bind their wrists together behind their back and sit with your back facing your partner's front. From there, straddle your partner's thighs, bending your knees so that your legs are alongside your partners. Your partner can then use their hips to thrust, without using their arms or legs.
How to: Have your partner sit in an armless chair with their ankles loosely bound together and their wrist tied together behind the back of the chair. Face your partner and straddle their lap. For extra leverage, hold onto your partner's shoulders while you ride.
How to: To best introduce bondage in a knees-to-chest position, have your partner bind your ankles and calves together. Then, while you’re lying on your back, drape your legs over his shoulder as your partner penetrates you. You can also make use of those restraints or even cuffs, and have your partner bind your wrists above your head.
How to: For this one, assume roughly the same position as leap frog, but have your partner handcuff your wrists behind your back and spread your legs. They should kneel between your legs and enter you from behind while your body is flat against the mattress, ground, kitchen table, wherever. Then, have them reach a hand around to stroke your clitoris —because to neglect it would be very rude indeed.
How to: Lying on your back with your legs spread wide, have your partner straddle you while facing your toes. Once they’re situated, wrap your legs around their waist and tip your pelvis up, allowing them to slide back and enter you.
Then, grab your anal toy of choice, lubricate it generously, and work it while your partner rides. (Please note, anal always goes better when the receiving party is really aroused, so preface this position with plenty of foreplay.)
Because the butt is right there, other teasing options include slaps and pinches. If your partner has balls, Snow Angel also gives you prime access: Consider some light testicular tugging, whatever your partner is comfortable with and enjoys.
How to: First things first, ready your restraints, whether that’s the aforementioned under-the-bed system or simply scarves or rope. Have your partner bind your wrists, either to the bed frame or above your head, while you lie in missionary position. Then, spread your legs in a V-shape and lift them toward your head. Have your partner help with this, pushing your ankles back (as far as feels good for you) and holding them in place while they thrust.
Easy to execute without too much maneuvering, the Valedictorian remains a classic because it offers solid G-spot stimulation in combination with a good stretch.
How to: For this position, bend over the bed and have your partner bind your ankles, and then wrists together. Have your partner stand behind you
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