Bachelorette Party Whore

Bachelorette Party Whore
Bachelorette parties are highly stigmatized as hypersexual, rowdy events. The first image of bachelorette parties that pops into people’s minds usually involves alcohol, strippers, and infidelity.
Bachelorette party cheating is a common and understandable source of anxiety for partners. Unfortunately, it does happen — research has estimated that 2.6 percent of women cheat at their bachelorette parties. This may seem like a small figure, but it is still more than what is acceptable.
More information about cheating at bachelorette parties is given below, including an answer to the question, “Is it okay to cheat at a bachelorette party?” Tips for what to do before a bachelorette party are then enumerated. Moreover, tips for what to do if your bride-to-be cheats on you during her bachelorette party are also provided.
According to Statistic Brain, only 2.6 percent of women cheat on their partners during their bachelorette party. However, this figure should be taken with a grain of salt. Not only is the study already several years old, but statistical approximations always have a margin of error. Respondents might also be dishonest about their answers.
Regardless of the actual figure, cheating at bachelorette parties does happen. Plenty of people have already attested to this; friends of the bride, distraught fiancés, sex workers, and brides-to-be have shared stories of infidelity during a night out.
Many people view bachelor and bachelorette parties as an engaged person’s “last fling before the ring.” In other words, these pre-wedding events are a “free pass” to do anything they would normally not do. This includes cheating on their partner.
Cheating does not always have to be a one-night stand. Touching or groping a stripper, making out with one, and any other sexual act can be considered cheating. Moreover, becoming emotionally connected and intimate with another person may be viewed as emotional cheating.
There are several reasons why a bride-to-be might cheat on her partner during a bachelorette party. This includes:
However, even if a certain number of people do it, that does not make it okay. Likewise, no reason or motivation behind the act will make cheating okay. Cheating is never acceptable and justifiable in any situation.
If your partner is involved with the planning of her bachelorette party , talk to her about it. Ask her what the itinerary includes, where it will be held, and other pertinent details. If she is not involved in the planning, talk to those who are.
During this conversation, setting boundaries must be a priority. If something makes you uncomfortable, let them know about it. The planners of this pre-wedding event should consider your comfort.
For instance, you may find that you are okay with them having strippers at the party. However, you do not want any physical contact between them and your partner. This includes lap dances, kisses, and other gimmicks.
Trust is an essential part of any relationship; you have spent months, even years , cultivating and strengthening it. Rely on this trust while your bride is out at her bachelorette party. Trust that if ever something does happen, she will be upfront and transparent about it with you.
A bachelorette party’s guest list only consists of several people. You may not know all of them well, but you still have to put your trust in them. Trust that they will keep your bride in check and not overindulge her. If it will make you feel better, ask someone from the guest list to update you if anything happens.
Contrary to popular belief, what happens at a bachelorette party does not always have to stay at a bachelorette party. If you were present at a bachelorette party and witnessed the bride-to-be cheating, speak up about it. The responsible thing to do is tell her partner; you might spare them from a marriage filled with distrust, pain, and anger.
By informing the groom, you are also looking out for his health. The person the bride cheated on him with may have a transmissible disease. If the infidelity goes unchecked, the bride-to-be may also infect him with the disease.
You might be branded as a “snitch” if you do this. However, staying silent implies that you condone and support that behavior; do not enable cheaters. Know that if you speak up, you are doing the morally right thing.
Understandably, finding out your bride-to-be cheated on you is overwhelming. Instead of reacting at the moment, take a step back and give yourself some time. Doing otherwise might result in a fight. Process your emotions, organize your thoughts, and initiate a conversation once you are ready.
If you are finding it difficult to cope with or process your emotions, consider speaking to a therapist. They are equipped to help you deal with the conflicting feelings you have.
It is also worth visiting a couples’ therapist before the bachelorette party takes place. They can facilitate the conversation of setting healthy and realistic boundaries. They can also give you exercises to improve your trust and openness to each other.
Upon reflection, you might determine that irreparable damage has been done to your relationship. Trust is difficult to build, but it is easy to destroy. Infidelity is frequently cited as a reason for the disintegration of relationships, as it ruins the trust between partners.
You are free to cancel the wedding altogether. This is easier said than done, as societal, parental, and personal pressures might compel you to do otherwise. However, entering a marriage where you cannot trust your partner never ends well.
It is worth stressing that cheating is never okay, even and especially during a bachelorette party. Trying to justify it as her “last night of freedom” is also factually incorrect; this freedom has been gone since she agreed to enter a monogamous relationship.
If your bride-to-be cheats on you during her bachelorette party, know that your feelings are valid. It is overwhelming, upsetting, and infuriating. However, be mindful of what you do with your anger; release it healthily and productively.
If you are a friend of the bride-to-be, or simply a witness to the act, inform the groom. Doing so is in everyone’s best interest. More importantly, you are making a stance that cheating will not be enabled nor tolerated, and cheaters need to face the consequences of their actions.
Marisa Jenkins is a wedding planner and event coordinator. Her main goal for WeddingFrontier.com is to simplify the wedding planning process by sharing her years of expertise in the industry.

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My bachelorette party was EXTREMELY nasty. We had it at a hotel suite with about 20 girls there and three GORGEOUS strippers. Needless to say, things got really bad. What's even worse is that it was the night before my wedding. Don't ever do that. Anyway, these strippers were gorgeous, hard-bodied, and HUNG like donkeys (much bigger than my fiancee). After a few hours of dancing, fondling, and bumping, I wound up nude on all fours on the floor with one stripper in front of me, burying his massive meat down my throat, and another stripper kneeling behind me, F****** the living S*** out of me with his monstorous tool. They took turns and did this for about an hour. And yes, some other girls were still at the party watching. I swear it was the best s** of my life. I never knew I could come so hard, so many times, or that my p**** and a****** could take so much meat. It gets worse. The three of us laid down to go to sleep at about 4AM. When we got up a few hours later it started all over again (NO condoms, although there probably aren't ones big enough to fit these horse-hung wonders). Well, at about 10AM, I'm riding the s*** out of one stripper while the other one is f****** my a****** . I then realize, "Oh my God, I have to be walking down the aisle in an hour." I rush to the church to get ready and my mom is p***** as h*** . After I get my dress on and am all ready, you'll never believe what happens. ONE OF THE STRIPPERS SHOWS UP. He comes in and I'm terrified. He then says, "I just wanted one more piece before you get married." He bends me over a table, lifts up my wedding dress, and proceeds to ram his ENORMOUS s****** into my p**** again. After he comes buckets into me, he runs out. I'm still half in a daze and looking for my underwear (which I never found). I get myself together and meet my dad at the rear of the church (bear in mind my fiancee knows NOTHING of this; he thinks we girls just went out for a couple of drinks). As I'm walking down the aisle, my p**** is as sore and stretched out as h*** and I feel come dripping down my leg into my shoes. I couldn't have s** with my fiancee for the first five days of our honeymoon because I was so stretched out.

I bet he would have really enjoyed your loose used c** filled p**** and a****** . I know I would have!!

Girl you should have gave that p***y up to him on your wedding night, he would have felt like he died and went to heaven. Don’t you know that sloppy seconds and more fell the best. Too bad he didn’t get to lick that creampie

If I were marrying you I would have loved to slide into your sloppy p***y on our wedding night

True story, my wife and I went to Las Vegas to get married and we have had a pretty open relationship several threesomes and she was concerned that all Would end. So to prove it after we got married that night 10 of us were out in the bar and I had her go to my friends hotel room he and his wife had a threesome with her and sent her back to me and we had wild s** as she told me how they f***** her. I continue to share her beautiful p**** 3 years later!

Sounds like complete bullshit to me.

I would have loved to seen that I got a 18 inch c*** but I would love to put in your p**** in your ass

I'm not sure what's nastier: strippers or s**** who f*** them. Really.

Why are you guys commenting like this is real? This is clearly a fake story, prolly by some fat old desperate f*** who jerked it whole writing this. There's literally no substance or even the slightest feeling of truth to this bullshit. Giaratee you 100000% this s**** made up and prolly by a dude. People will do anything for attention, lemme tell ya.. Especially a weirdo Greek (probably pedophile). Get yoyr c**** outta your hands boys.. You're whacking it to a totally lame and unbelievable story and more than likely another DUDE! Read this garbage again and tell me it don't sound like someone with a p*** poor excuse for a fantasy!? Probably was thinking this s*** up at his moms weeding or some bullshit lmao what a f****** lame

That's a perfect wife I would let her do that before I get married but I would do the same i would f*** 2 female strippers then on our honeymoon while where f****** we can say all the nasty stuff we did 😍😍

Well, that's all women are good for anyhow

You're just a bad person. Nuff said.

You had the gall to get married in a church? I do find the story hard to believe, but if true there are numerous grounds for annulment. And when your spouse, or anyone else finds out, and they will, that's exactly what's going to happen.

I now this story was posted along time ago but how has this affected your marriage? Are you faithful to your husband or do you cheat on him?

My thoughts EXACTLY..I posted my comment before reading this but mines the one on top. Cleeeearly a fake wanna be s** novel!

Hahaha fake.... the ending was unnecessary and only sounded like how a fantasy is written. If you legitimately believed this, I'm sorry, but you're probably autistic.

Probably some 45 year old loser living in mommys basement with j*** all over everything in sight

Just saying you're a f****** cheating s*** if you were serious about your man you wouldn't do that if I knew you did that I'd go Chris brown Rihanna on you and then go stick up 3 d***** the strippers ass

So I'm guessing you wont let your husband do even half of the nasty s*** you let some strangers do to you before you got married. Did you even have the decency at least feel like somewhat of a wretched s**** while your soon to be was looking at you with love and admiration in his eyes while youve got s**** running down your leg. Disgusting pig of a woman.

OK d*** hard...I just opened up black diamond Ds ...hmu I do parties as well as private events.. N yes I'd have done the same thing...lol we love it show up get paid f*** the living shyt out of a Lil white princess sometimes we meet dads say hi to bro then go f*** mom love my job this 9inches has got me a mile lol

Your probably one of those people marrying your cousin. #justsaying.

God, you are sooooooo filthy! I love you!!!!!

Yep. I've never met a girl who talked like that

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I don’t know, I left when the guy in the bear suit got his dick out.
I was a former male stripper. Bachelorette parties are, by far, way worse than bachelor parties. There’s nothing hornier than a stay at home mother when she gets an opportunity to hang out with her friends, drink, and have some random stripper rub up all over her….just saying….from experience.
In a non-bachelorette party friendly bar, and one shows up. Totally stereotypical party too. Sashes and tiaras, lots of shrieking, etc.
They were doing one of those scavenger hunts where they have to get a guy to go to the bathroom and take off their boxers.
I’m standing at the bar and they come up to this dude standing near me and ask for his boxers. He says, “if I do, will you leave?”
They say yes, and the dude sets his beer down, drops his pants right there at the bar, takes off his boxers, hands them to the girls in the party, who are losing their minds, puts his pants back on and returns to his conversation.
The dude didn’t have to buy another drink the rest of the night.
Male stripper here. I’ve done a few bachelorette parties and one I did happens to be one of the most drab experiences in my life while another is probably the craziest fucking night of my life.
I did a house call in Highlands Ranch, a wealthy suburb just outside of Denver. This young woman (probably 24 or 25) was marrying a very wealthy older man and he gave her and her girlfriends the house for the weekend.
I show up, and it’s business as usual. They asked for the military theme so that’s what I was wearing. I got offered a drink and accepted it because I normally enjoy myself and then have a cab pick me up and take me to a hotel when I do shows in Denver.
Anyways this particular drink seemed stronger than normal but I didn’t think anything of it. Music starts playing and I’m putting on my opening show, tips are flying at me in the middle of the living room, a couple women throw their panties at me, all still pretty normal. The routine ends and I’m rocking a mankini. The women were very receptive so I figured this was a good time for lap dances. On my third dance, I started noticing that everything was kind of heightened, and I began noticing just how much alcohol these girls were pounding. The third girl was the first to start kind of sucking me off a bit and I noticed it felt wayyyyy better than normal. That’s about the moment when I realized they slipped something in my drink. The fourth girl was super touchy feely and I realized they were on whatever the hell it was that I was on, so instead of freaking out and leaving I decided to just go with it.
I stopped giving personal dances after the fourth girl and changed into my sailor outfit for the second routine. I could feel the music moving through me and I knew I was rolling off my ass, but the girls were way into it and I thought I gave a more intimate performance. The bride to be got up just after I gave a sneak peek to the whole crowd. I finished up that routine and was again in that awful mankini so I started giving out lap dances again. I was doing a double for two women who seemed to be just as into each other as they were into me when I heard the bride to be call out my performing name. I turned and I shit you not this girl is standing in the doorway with nothing on but a whip cream bikini. Just like that scene in Varsity Blues. She has a fat stack of Benjamins in her hand and announces that it’s her turn to play with me. I put my mankini back on and walk over to her while the other girls are cheering at the top of their lungs, and she throws the hundreds into my bag on the table and walks up to me and is just kissing the fuck out of me. Normally this is a HUGE no no, but:
So I started licking the whip cream off her, then she sucked my dick to get it completely hard, while the other women chanted for her to fuck me. So we Fucked. When we finished she gave me her phone number and told me to keep playing with the other girls. So I did.
This basically ends like one of those stories no one would believe. I ended up fucking 17 of the 23 women there, with all but one of those 23 at least sucking my dick, came in two
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