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If your girlfriend is bitchy and disrespectful then you need to know how to handle her the right way. If you don’t deal with her the right way, then the bitchiness will only get worse. This article will show you exactly what you need to do to deal with a disrespectful girlfriend.
But first, let’s take a look at an email from a reader who is going through this problem in his own relationship:
Hello Chris! I was seeing my girlfriend for 8 years until she dumped me one month ago.The first two years were fantastic and everything was great until we had our first argument that escalated with her crying and locking herself inside the bathroom for a couple of hours. Basically the fight was that she wanted to go back out to party after just coming back from a club and I told her that I was tired and she did not like that calling me all sorts of names which alarmed me.
(Her behavior where she called you all sorts of names was definitely something to be concerned about. A big red flag. You were right to be concerned. In this situation, it’s always best to rip into your girlfriend and tell her that her behavior is completely unacceptable. But words without action are meaningless, so a punishment reward system must be implemented. More on that later…)
During the 3rd, 4th, 5th and 6th years our relationship was up and down. When my father got sick 4 years ago I had to concentrate on him a bit more so it took away some time from her. She then complained that I didn’t see her enough and that I was ignoring her but she was just used to being with me all the time. That bothered me because she couldn’t see I was struggling to make sure my father was taking care of and on top of that I was going to college. During these years outbursts as the one in LA would happen from time to time with her saying foul language to me and even giving me the middle finger in a couple of instances because I’d disagree with her about something.
(Her behavior is completely unacceptable and disrespectful towards you. Excessive drinking and an abusive personality are two traits that will definitely destroy a relationship. If you’re taking care of your sick dad and also going to college, then your girlfriend needs to appreciate the demands and the stress that you’re under. However, love can be selfish and many women are ruled by their feelings and emotions— these emotions don’t care if you’re under stress, women are going to let you know when they’re unhappy. A reward/punish strategy needs to be implemented again in this circumstance.)
At one point I got to thinking and noticed a common theme in these altercations and that is when she drank alcohol, we argued. Sometime during the 6th and 7th year she talked about marriage and having a family but I told her until you stop drinking, and arguing with me about stupid stuff and start being a better girlfriend, then we’ll talk. I told her what I needed from her but she didn’t listen and failed to entice me to ask for her hand in marriage.
(This is a very important point. Notice how you say, “she failed to entice me to ask for her hand in marriage!” Why is that? Because you knew she was acting in a toxic and unattractive way. You knew that she was bad wife material at that point. It’s important not to forget this feeling and ask yourself if you really do want this girl back in your life. You can probably do a lot better.)
Finally she gave me an ultimatum last year and if I didn’t propose to her by the beginning of the year she would leave. She became distant around May she broke it off with me. Chris, I begged and pleaded for her to take me back, which we both were crying, but she said she didn’t love me anymore and for me to move on.
(Begging and pleading to a woman are the ultimate signs of weakness. Once you start doing this you lower your value significantly. A woman will only put up with so much weak behavior before she will leave.)
There is only one reason why a man’s girlfriend will pull away from him and that is because she’s lost attraction for him.
So if you really do want to get your girlfriend back, then you need to know what you can do to get her attracted to you again. However, dealing with a bitchy and disrespectful girlfriend can be a huge problem and is something that a lot of guys must learn to deal with because it’s becoming such a big problem in modern relationships.
Why does a woman act bitchy and disrespectful? A girl does this because she knows she can get away with it. She knows that her boyfriend isn’t going to actually punish her and stop her from acting this way (University of Ottawa) .
Every time that your girlfriend acts in a disrespectful way towards you she’s testing you. And every time you fail to pull her into line and backup your words with actions, your girlfriend will lose attraction for you.
When this happens, your girlfriend will inevitably pull away from you and eventually she will start looking for a way out of the relationship.
A girl wants a man who can keep her in line and control her, not someone who she can walk all over and manipulate through bitchy behavior.
Whether your girlfriend is naturally moody and bitchy, whether she’s testing you or whether she’s genuinely upset about something, how you respond to your girlfriend’s bitchy and disrespectful behavior is very important.
Any man that fails to put his girlfriend in her place after she constantly disrespects him, will soon lose his girlfriend to someone else who is more capable of handling her.
The following scenario is based on true events: Peter had been dating Jane for three years now. What started out as a beautiful and loving relationship, slowly deteriorated into an abusive and horrible relationship.
Jane used to be such a sweet girl, Peter thought to himself. What happened? The first time Jane was bitchy and rude to him was six months into the relationship. Peter had been lying in bed in the early morning when Jane, as a joke, had said to him, “get out of bed you lazy sack of shit.”
Peter had been instantly taken aback and confused. He didn’t realize that Jane was joking and he felt that he must have done something wrong. Peter jumped out of bed and apologized to Jane. “What’s wrong?” he asked her, terrified. “Sorry, I was so tired.”
What started out as a joke, slowly escalated into two and a half years of abusive bitchy behavior from Jane. From that moment on, Jane started to lose all respect for Peter. He’s so weak and needy she thought to herself, I can pretty much do and say whatever I want to him and he’ll take it.
After three years, Jane had enough fun abusing Peter and decided to leave him one day without even saying goodbye.
If you let your girlfriend be disrespectful and bitchy towards you, it is only a matter of time before she’ll leave you for someone else. If you don’t address the problem head on then your girlfriend is only going to get more and more difficult.
I’ve seen this problem occur so often with my own clients that I developed a solution to help deal with this problem. This is solution is called PIP (which stands for Progressive Increased Punishment ).
Progressive Increased Punishment is one of the most effective ways to deal with a bitchy and disrespectful girlfriend.
Whenever your girlfriend is acting in a way that is rude and offensive towards you, then you need to implement a punishment as fast as possible.
It’s not enough to accept that your girlfriend is acting bitchy and let her get away with this behavior. So, for example, if your girlfriend starts being abusive and swearing at you, you could tell her that you won’t see her for one week as a punishment.
(It is crucial that you actually stand by your words and implement the punishment. Don’t fold and tell your girlfriend that it’s okay and disregard the punishment altogether.)
Now here is the important part. If your girlfriend acts bitchy and disrespectful towards you again, you would increase the punishment and tell her that now you won’t see her for two weeks as punishment for her behavior.
You also need to tell your girlfriend that “this is the second time you’ve shown complete disrespect, it’s completely unacceptable. Now you can’t see me for two weeks…” etc.
You keep on increasing the punishment this way, so your girlfriend actually understands that you won’t tolerate her bad behavior.
In my experience, Progressive Increased Punishment will usually eradicate your girlfriend’s bitchy behavior completely, unless the girl your dating actually has mental problems—and that’s a whole different story (1 in 3 women actually have mental illness, Oxford University ) .
The following scenario is based on true events: Paul had been dating Jane for six months now. Everything had been going great, then one day Paul was lying in bed in the early morning when Jane (remembering what she had said to Peter all those years ago) said to Paul, “Get out of bed you lazy sack of shit.”
Paul was completely surprised by what she said. He laughed, she must be joking he thought to himself. Jane kept a straight face and wondered how far she could push Paul before he caved in like Peter.
“I’m serious.” She continued. “Get out of bed stupid.” She said this with a stern voice. The smile completely disappeared from Paul’s face and he sat up in bed. “Come here,” he said to Jane.
Jane strode over to the bed, pretending to be mad. Paul grabbed hold of Jane and pulled her onto the bed, lying her face down across his lap. Paul quickly pulled Jane’s panties down and slapped her ass.
“That’s for being a bad girl!” Paul told her with a cheeky grin. Jane began to squirm and giggle like a little girl. Two minutes later Paul and Jane were making love on the bed. After they made love, Paul leaned in and told Jane with a smile, “Next time you talk to me like that, you’ll get an even bigger punishment.”
Jane closed her eyes with a dreamy smile and wrapped her arms around Paul. Unlike Peter, Paul was exciting, strong and unpredictable. She might be bitchy and rude to Paul again, but only because she loved his punishments so much.
(Note: if Jane had refused Paul’s playful punishment and remained bitchy, Paul would have had to implement a more serious punishment. My recommendation is to always withdraw from the relationship for a set period of time, for example “1 week” and increase the punishment from there.)
If you need an urgent response to fix your situation, please don't hesitate to book an email or phone consultation with me and I'll get back to you ASAP.
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There are some people who are just meant to have a significant other in their lives, and then there are people who simply aren't. Let's be real, if you clicked on this article you're either a) somebody's girlfriend who's paranoid about how they are as a bae, b) somebody's boyfriend who's confirming how shitty their girlfriend is (don't worry, no one's judging) or c) someone who is nobody's girlfriend at the moment but would like to learn how not to be a shitty one. Regardless of your reasons, you're looking for answers and luckily we've got 'em!
Here are a few signs indicating that you are, in fact, a shitty girlfriend and should stick to being single:
It's normal to be clingy when you're in a relationship but if you can't function by yourself without your man by your side the problem isn't that you're a shitty girlfriend but you need time on your own being single to learn how to be independent.
If you've been dating for more than 10 months and for some reason you still don't trust your man then there's definitely a problem. The basic foundation of a healthy relationship is trust and if you don't at least have that then the whole relationship will crumble sooner or later.
There's a saying that the person you love's pain will half and their happiness will double when they are share both with you. However, it doesn't work if you're constantly undermining both his problems and his successes. Being happy for him shows support and if you can't be happy simply for the fact that he is happy then maybe he isn't making you happy enough to be happy for him.
His friends and family are the two closest groups of people to him and whether you accept this or not you will always be #3 to them. That shouldn't be taken as a bad thing, but if you can't connect with the two most important group of people in your man's life then he'll have to pick between them and you sooner or later and it's clear who it'll be... (hint: it won't be you).
Guys get a bad rep for being known as perverts and flirts but girls are just as much to blame. Yeah you're only playing around and flirting, but knowingly leading somebody else on is equivalent to kissing somebody else. After all, you haven't slept with them yet but you've still started something behind your S/O's back.
Going back again to trust issues, you need to learn to trust your man especially when it comes to him interacting with other females. You can't keep your man from expanding his social circle and completely shutting him out in a gender bubble where he can only interact with other guys. He's going to have friends with boobs but that won't mean that he's sleeping with them.
Talk about double standards. If you're self conscious about your man potentially cheating on him then show him the same courtesy and show him that you've got eyes for him and only him. Sure you can't help that Paolo over there is hot AF but at the end of the day your man is your man that you only have eyes for.
We're told that lying is a terrible habit but it's definitely not cool if you're keeping stuff from him. This also leads back to the whole trust issue.
If you don't remember what exactly opened your heart to him in the first place, you need to take a step back and reevaluate if what you initially fell for is the same or if you're staying because you're comfortable.
It's not cool when your parents compare you to your cousins or your siblings. So what makes it any more acceptable if you're comparing your BFF's boyfriend to yours? Yeah sure he got her a $900 necklace but your man's efforts and love should be evaluated all on its own.
That's just rude. If you can't take the time to listen to him then he shouldn't have to listen to what you have to say. But obviously that's what you guys are there for so if nobody's listening to each other than is this really what you would call 'relationship goals'?
The thing about relationships are that you are going to fight--it's only natural. That being said, at this stage of the game it's time to pick your battles and choose what you're really going to risk your relationship for. If you're holding a grudge on him because he forgot to put down the toilet seat then you need to reevaluate how much your relationship is worth saving.
Hey, it was your decision to get into a relationship with your man. Even if you're perfectly content with him, if you're afraid to post pictures with him or walk around holding his hand in public then it just shows how much you really want to be with him.
He took the time to make you dinner and listen to you complain about Becky from work. The least you can do is take the time to say thank you and repay the favour back to show that you do in fact appreciate his efforts.
It's one thing to forget important dates, but if you show no guilt or simply that you're not affected by it then there's a red flag. It may not be as big of a deal to you but showing no interest in these important dates hurt your S/O and demean what he holds important.
The thing about relationships is that you two are equals. There is nobody in charge or nobody in the submissive-- you are equals. That being said, there is one thing to be assertive and another thing to boss him around. That makes him feel unappreciated, unimportant and below you which should not be the case in any relationship.
Nothing's going to change the fact that your friends might not like your bae. But at the same time you've got to at least try to get them to like each other or stand up for your bae if they talk shit about him to your face. You being the bystander makes you the bully by omission and nobody wants to date a bully.
In relationships there always needs to be a middle. If you don't listen to him and insist on what you think is right then nothing is going to be solved and you just keep yourself ignorant to his needs and wants.
Every girlfriend wants to be treated like a princess, yeah I admit I do too. But it's another thing to completely expect him to spoil you simply because you are the girl in the relationship. Pay for the bill once in a while and treat him the way he treats you.
Is it not the most annoying thing when you make a promise with someone and they never follow through with wha they say? Yes it's annoying and it's even more annoying coming from someone who you could potentially spend the rest of your life with. Don't be an asshole and fulfill one or two of your promises once in a while because, yes, true love is unconditional but true love is also honest and consistent.
Never mind what I've said in #5 of list, now you've crossed a line. Yes there are times where you give into temptation but remember that thing about trust that's been mentioned a few times? Yup, whatever trust that was established between the two of you will be lost for awhile. Nobody initially enjoys a cheater, especially when it's your S/O. I'm not gonna lie, no matter what the circumstances are you kinda look like a piece of shit but hopefully it puts an end to your shitty ways and strengthens your relationship.
It's gonna take some work, but you've made your bed--- so it's time to lay in it sistah.
Not gonna lie, sometime's the bae can be annoying at times. So yeah, it's normal to dish the dirt with your BFF over what the latest fight was about and some of the stupid things he says. However, it's one thing to share your problems, it's another to completely bash your boyfriend by straight up dissing him. If you really loved him like you say you do to him you'd try to have a little respect and keep some of his dirty laundry between the two of you and not with your best friend.
The thing about using people is that it dehumanizes the person being used. This guy might really, really like you but little does he know that you don't see him for what he is-- you see him as a bank. If that doesn't say shitty girlfriend to you, then I don't know what will.
Everyone thinks that relationship is give & take. To some extent it's true but at the same time it really isn't. The theory of give and take kind
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