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Many people from all walks of life have and do enjoy the vast pleasures of anal.
Since anal is such a ‘taboo’ topic and activity, introducing anal training into your BDSM life can be a truly bonding experience, strengthening the emotional as well as sexual closeness between you and your partner.

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An entire book could be written about the myths surrounding anal sex. But if you are still having troubles with the idea of stepping into anal training, let’s get those out of the way.

IT’S ONLY FOR FREAKS OR FOR GAY MEN

Anal is the act of playing, stimulating or training the outer and/or inner anus. What many people don’t realize is, the anus has millions of nerve endings that produce pleasurable feelings when properly and safely stimulated. Which is why this is a fetish and sexual act that is enjoyed by many people within the BDSM community including but not limited too:
There are still laws on the books about sodomy in some areas of the world, but that actually doesn’t mean that it’s immoral. It just means that some people deemed it immoral, so they went ahead and created a law to forbid it.
And mainly, this has been a reaction to the idea of homosexuality and the ‘deviance’ that this causes in society.
But the choices that people make for their pleasure and for their love lives are not something that anyone can label as ‘wrong’ or ‘right.’ As long as everybody involved in your play is abiding by safe, sane and consensual BDSM practices if it works for you than why should you not be able to enjoy it?
In truth, every part of your body is something to be celebrated and explored.
Natural? Is that for any of us to say?
Having not designed the human form lately, I’m not sure that anyone can say what is natural and what is not. Since anal sex does provide pleasure, it stands to reason that you were meant to use anal sex for sexual purposes.
Just like the clitoris, why else would this be an area have so many nerve endings that create such intense of sexual gratification.
The more you take the time to explore how your body works with your partner, the more you can discover about yourself. Could you not say exploration of ourselves is in every way without question natural. Therefore sexual exploration is natural. But must be done with consent, knowledge, respect and communication.
It’s a matter of trusting each other to be respectful of each other’s boundaries and limitations; keeping the communication open, and mutually consenting to try something new. Sounds like the natural healthy progression of a relationship to me.
For those on the receiving end of anal intercourse, this tends to be the biggest concern. You might be afraid that it’s something that will be painful for you to experience or you’ve had experiences in the past that have indeed been painful.
While it’s true that the anus can be tighter than the vaginal opening, with practice and some basic tips, you can make anal play an explosively pleasurable experience for everyone involved.
You just have to be a bit more careful and patient when you’re first getting started.
Setting the mood, proper preparation relaxation and stimulation are necessary. Having the receiver’s anus relaxed and wanting will help to make the experience far from painful for both parties.
In fact, many people can orgasm from anal stimulation alone – men and women.
Can anal sex be dirty? Absolutely. When you’re talking about the opening on the body that is involved in defecation, yes, you have the chance of things getting a little messy. But this doesn’t mean that it HAS to be dirty, just that you need to be aware of how to properly prepare yourself for the experience.
Cleaning the area, bathing, enema s, and avoiding anal sex when you’re sick are all be ways to lessen any ‘dirtiness’ that might happen during the actual act.
In truth, there is far less bacteria in your anal area than you might think.
And since you’re (I assume) someone that showers regularly, changes their underwear and cleans their bum properly after a bowel movement, it’s much less of a problem than you might think.
True, you do need to be a bit more aware and take some extra precautions to help avoid STIs and keep you and your partner safe and clean. For the most part condoms make this transition much less awkward and far cleaner and safer.
Overall, anal sex is really not as dirty as others have led you to believe.
To further bastardize anal sex, those that have handed down criticism and condemned anal sex have created a link between ‘wrong’ and anal sex, but it’s simply not accurate.
As stated previous, all different people from all different walks of life enjoy anal. Having anal sex, does not mean you are going to turn into some weird sexual deviate or other such ignorant term for people who enjoy a little anal adventure.
Anal intercourse is simply another way to enjoy sex, expand your BDSM Training and intensify the love you share with your partner. You are increasing the fulfillment and satisfaction for both of you in relation to sex and intimacy. There is nothing abnormal or freaky about that.
Getting ready for anal requires a little understanding about the anal area and how it works.
The anal opening consists of the external sphincter that is closest to the outer opening of the anus. This is the area that you can contract and relax during a bowel movement or simply whenever you decide to do so. If you tighten your asshole right now, that is the muscle your are feeling tightening.
There is also an internal sphincter that relaxes and contracts on its own, not controlled by you. This is a bit further inside the anus.
What you will want to do is start recognizing when your sphincter muscles contract and relax so that you can learn to have more conscious control them.
There is also the anus itself that leads to the anal canal where the bulk of the sensitive muscles reside. This canal is only about two inches in length, but it extends into the rectum which is five inches.
The rectum actually extends and curves toward the belly button making it the part where many people begin to have troubles with pain. By learning how to take your time to extend into this canal, you can avoid uncomfortable pressure and pain.
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Kayla Lords

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August 26, 2021

Anal isn’t inherently kinky, but anal training is something that comes up in plenty of power exchange dynamics. Partly to prepare for future anal sex and partly for the control and “training” aspect between a Dom and their submissive.
Anal training is a slow progression in anal play that allows the bottom (literal and figurative) to get used to penetration. Training helps prevent pain and (usually) makes anal play better over the long term.
If you’re new to the idea or you know you want to do it but don’t know where to start, here’s what you need to know.
Simply put, anal training is the act of getting your anus used to and comfortable with penetration. Anal training often takes place in stages over time as a precursor to anal sex (with a dildo or a penis). Though it doesn’t have to end with sex. Anal training can be great simply for using bigger butt plugs, prostate massagers, or anal beads.
Not everyone considers anal kinky. For many it’s simply one way to engage in sex. But anal training often occurs in power exchange relationships, especially if anal is a shared desire of both partners. In this way it functions as both a sexual thing to do together and a form of submissive/bottom training.
In general, anal training follows a few basic steps, depending on your previous anal sex experience. For those who have never engaged in any form of anal play, it tends to look like this:
For those who have tried anal already, you can typically skip the first step of external play and go straight to the smallest size you know you enjoy without pain.
Why start with external play for newbies? For anyone who’s never had anything more than toilet paper (or soap and water) near their ass, the first touch can be overwhelming (in good and bad ways). There are a lot of nerve-endings in and around the anus. Sometimes the surprise of that first sensation causes everything to clench up — making penetration more difficult. Getting used to external sensations is a gentler beginning for many newbies.
Safety Tip: Anytime you engage in anal training or sex with a person who has a vulva, do not use a body part or sex toy in the vagina that’s been in the anus first. You can switch from vagina to anus BUT you can’t switch back without introducing (potentially) harmful bacteria from the booty into the vagina! Wash up before you switch from booty to pussy, y’all. The vulva in your life will thank you for that.
Okay, so you know to start small, and progress until you’re happy with the size of the body part or toy in your ass. But what do you use, and how do you make that happen? Here’s what you need for anal training.
The one thing you never, ever want to skip is lube.
Lubricant is the one constant in any form of anal sex. You need it from start to finish, and you’ll likely add more while you play. From fingers to butt plugs, never, ever, EVER do anything anal without lube.
The kind of lube you use will depend on what else you’re playing with. If you’re using your hands and fingers (see below), any lube will do. When you use a sex toy, you need to choose a lube that’s compatible with the material of the toy.
In general, remember these lube rules:
As with anything sexy or kinky, you can always go wild with gear and sex toys. And if you’ve got the budget for it, have fun! But the cheapest, easiest way to get started is with your own hands (or your partner’s).
If the idea of touching your own butt squicks you out a bit, you can always wear gloves or take extra care to make sure your butt is clean. But, in general, you’re not going to get poop on your fingers — there are exceptions to that, usually based on timing of your bowel movements or if you feel like you’ve got to GO right now.
Since you’re going to need to lube up, especially if you explore anal training alone at any point, get used to putting your hands on your anus. It’s part of the experience.
But it’s also the cheapest way to explore anal sex without the need for a bunch of gear.
Anal training is all about slow progression from a little to a lot. Here’s what that can look like with your fingers:
This also works if your partner does the penetration, too. They can start with their pinkie and ultimately move up to their thumb, though some people start with the thumb.
Of course we’re going to mention sex toys. The important thing to remember about anal training is that you start small and work your way up. Your end goal might be your partner’s massive cock or a huge dildo, but that’s not where you’ll start.
The best sex toys to use in anal training are those that allow for a gradual increase in size. Meaning you start with a small one and work your way up through larger sizes. Here are a few suggestions.
Anal training kits : Training kits tend to include multiple anal toys of varying sizes or the same type of toy (like a butt plug) in multiple sizes. This allows you to make one purchase and have several toys to progress through. Check out these anal training kits from Stockroom.
Anal beads : Anal beads do what a kit does but in a single sex toy. Beads are a great way to play even if you’ve been doing anal for a while, but to train, you insert the beads up to the largest size you can handle without pain. Your training progresses through larger and larger beads until you can handle the entire thing OR until you’re happy with a specific size. Check out these anal beads from Stockroom .
Butt plugs : Plugs are fun for showing off for your partner, wearing in public without anyone knowing, and yes, they’re great for anal training. Start with the smallest, most slender butt plug you can find if this is your first one. If you think it’s too small, and you’ll “barely feel it,” it’s probably just right, and it might feel huge. When you’re ready, go up a size. You might try a different design completely or you may stick with the same style just in a bigger size. Check out these butt plugs from Stockroom.
Other than the squicky poop factor, the thing that keeps a lot of people from exploring anal is the idea that anal always hurts. While pain during anal sex is common, it’s not required. You don’t have to brave the pain as part of your booty fun. In fact, pain is a sign that something has gone wrong and that you should probably stop. Also, the anus is really delicate so pain may indicate an injury. And yes, butt injuries are a thing.
Lube, lube, lubity, lube . When you’re new to anal, there’s no such thing as too much lube. If you feel pain with penetration, try adding more lube first.
Start small . For newbies, you’ll probably be shocked at how large your fingertip feels if its the first thing you’ve ever put up your butt. Don’t get overly confident and buy the “medium” butt plug instead of an extra small. The smaller you start, the better.
Give your body time to adjust and relax. If the first bit of penetration feels good, stick with that size as your body adjusts. For a little b
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