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Not to brag, but I am an anal aficionado . I love putting sex toys (among other things) up my butt and up the butts of others. That's because it feels damn good, thanks to human anatomy—and of course, a healthy dose of lube . “There are about 2,000 pleasure-sensitive nerve endings around the anus,” explains Megwyn White, clinical sexologist and director of education for Satisfyer . “So, there’s ample opportunity to excite the body, regardless of your gender, with a little touch and pressure around this area.”
Personally, I like to use an anal sex toy such as a prostate massager during sex, which stimulates the so-called "male g-spot." “Cisgender men and people assigned male at birth have an added opportunity for stimulating the prostate—a walnut-sized gland that sits within the groin just behind the bladder and penis,” White says. When properly stimulated, it can feel “heavenly,” she adds.
Now there is a wide range of anal sex toys depending on what you’re hoping to get out of the experience and which sensations you find most pleasurable. So before giving any recommendations, I want to break down the most common toys to help determine which one is right for you.
Butt plugs are teardrop-shaped toys, typically made of silicone, metal, or glass. Some vibrate; others have rotating beads at the base of the toy to simulate rimming. Pop a butt plug in your rear end and let it rest there for a satisfying feeling of fullness.
Anal beads look kind of like rosary beads, except chunkier, and instead of praying with them, you put them in your butt. While you absolutely can use anal beads for solo play, they’re fun to use with a partner since they’re more interactive. “Anal beads are designed to stimulate the anal sphincter through movement,” explains Alicia Sinclair, founder of anal sex toy company b-Vibe . When pulled out, each sphere delivers a quick burst of intense sensation. Part of the fun of anal beads is seeing how many of them you can take, but it’s also relinquishing control to your partner. They can pop each one out and watch you shake with pleasure.
Prostate massagers are curved toys that target your prostate and deliver earth-shattering, toe-curling, full-body orgasms. (Typically they vibrate, too!) There are two main types of prostate massagers: ones with and ones without perineum stimulation. (The perineum, aka the taint or grundle, is that strip of skin between your testicles/vulva and your anus). Those with perineum stimulation are typically V- or C-shaped; not only does the extra arm provide added pressure to the often ignored erogenous zone, but it also helps keep the prostate massager in place.
Now that you have a sense of the different anal toys, I’ve compiled a list of the best 30 anal sex toys. Don't worry, I made sure there are things on this list for folks who’ve never had a pinky up their rear end, as well as for men who’ve taken a fist. Have some fun, my dudes.
This butt plug actually simulates the sensation of analingus (a.k.a. rimming). It feels euphoric to have something vibrating inside of you while your anus is stimulated, too.
"The Satisfyer Booty Call plugs are made of soft silicone with three ascending sensual shapes for targeting pressure points like the prostate," White says. "You can use these plugs as a wonderful intro to anal play, and in combination with vaginal penetration, which can add a huge boost to sensations."
I'm well aware the Hugo isn't cheap, but if you want quality, there's no better prostate massager currently on the market. The Hugo's remote control is what separates it from the pack. By simply tilting the remote, you control the intensity and placement of the vibrations.
The people who love unicorns really freakin' love unicorns. If you or your partner wants to feel like the mythical horse, get this butt plug, which has a magnetic attachment of a long rainbow tail!
This 4-inch vibrating butt plug is one of the best inexpensive vibrating butt plugs available. It's made of soft silicone and is a great option for folks interested in a medium size plug.
Given that the toy is girthier, the Desire prostate vibrator is a great option for men who are a bit more experienced with anal. It also has really strong vibrations, which feel stupendous.
The Pure Plug is a stainless-steel anal plug that is available in three size options. "This unique plug offers both fullness and weight to the experience of anal play," White says. "The smooth stainless steel allows this plug to be used for temperature play and can easily hold safe hot and cold temps for added excitement. It also means that you can utilize it with a silicone lube, which many people prefer for anal play as it has a thicker viscosity."
You get a two-for-one deal with toy: a vibrating butt plug and a cock ring. The vibrations from the butt plug are actually so strong that you feel them in the cock ring !
Not for the faint of heart, these meatier anal beads feel divine when "popped" out of the anus one by one. They feel particularly pleasurable when removed during orgasm.
If you are new to anal play, but just know you're going to be obsessed with it, then go ahead and get the anal training kit from b-Vibe. It comes with multiple butt plugs. (You start with the smallest and work your way up to the biggest.) It also comes with a lube shooter, anal douche bulb, and education manual to answer all your booty-related questions!
This is a vibrating prostate massager made of glass. Typically, glass toys do not vibrate, making this prostate massager extremely unique. (I actually didn't know they ever vibrated until this toy.)
Ergonomically designed to hit the prostate and the perineum, Tap It is different from other anal toys because it features an oblong-shaped tip on the head. It pops back and forth, creating a tapping sensation that sends vibrations throughout your entire body.
I like this vibrating anal plug because of the ring at the bottom. It makes it much easier to control when engaging in solo play, but it's also great for partnered play too.
Glass toys are underrated. They really give you a "full" sensation, since there's no give to them, but you can also put them in the refrigerator and use them while cold for additional sensation. (FYI: glass toys are made from special glass so they can't shatter inside of you. You don't need to worry about that!)
"The Love Beads are a great intro to anal play for all genders," White says. "There’s no need to insert the entire length of the beads. Having a few inside and pulling the retainer ring from right to left or in a circular motion will set off muscle relaxation and trigger an arousing effect."
These look more intimidating than they are. I actually have (and reviewed ) the BASICS 10-inch anal beads. (These are the 8-inch.) The top few beads are so tiny, you really don't feel them until they're deep inside of you.
This unique metal plug features three inches of insertable length and has a faux fur tail at the end. "Perfect for role play, this plug allows you to use the soft tail end as an added source of sensorial fun," White says. "Safe for use with all lubricants, you can enjoy this flirty anal plug for a fantasy-filled night and primal romp."
Typically, if it vibrates, it feels better. The same holds true for anal beads. These vibrating anal beads feel fantastic when inside of you, and really get up in there!
This classic butt plug from Doc Johnson is great for the man who wants a high-quality plug without any bells or whistles.
Another anal training kit, if you're looking to work your way up to bigger and better things.
This wolf tail butt plug actually comes with ears too. It can be a cute little thing either you or your partner wears during sex (or while out at a sex club ).
I wrote a full review of the Duke Prostate Massager where I make clear that this toy is not for beginners. It gets really up inside your rectum, while also stimulating your prostate and perineum. It's definitely a great option for people who have more experience with anal play.
This powerful, waterproof massager is perfectly angled to hit your prostate. The grip makes it easy to use by yourself when on you're back.
If you or your partner are into " pup play " where one of you dresses up and acts like a puppy, then this butt plug puppy tail is perfect for you!
This toy is on the smaller side, making it a great intro toy for people who are interested in prostate play, White explains.
"The comfortable flared base with added ribbing texture at the stem offers stimulation to both the perineum and the Kundalini spot (K-Spot) just above the upper cheeks," White says. "The combination of pressure in each of these areas is said to help support the ultimate hands-free orgasm for cisgender men or people with prostates."
This product features a slim insertable plug that expands inside your rectum with the use of an attached pump. "It’s a great product if you want to work on stretching the muscles inside you," White says. "The erotic fullness feels amazing and the quick valve release allows you to easily decrease the pressure inside safely and quickly."
You'll notice that the Vector has a more bulbous head that really hits the prostate. The bottom section of the toy hugs and stimulates your perineum for added pleasure.
I wrote a full review of the Vice 2 where I mention how fantastic it felt due to its shape. It hits both the prostate and further back inside your rectum.
This snug plug is weighted, so you feel a nice heaviness when it's inside of you. Some folks, like myself, love the weighted feeling because it adds pressure and makes you feel "full"—but in a good way.
This is the ultimate anal training kit if you're looking to increase what you can take inside your behind. The extra small plug starts with a 1-inch diameter, 3-inch circumference, and is 3.5 inches in length. The fifth and final extra large plug ends with a 2-inch diameter, 6.25-inch circumference, and is 5.1 inches in length. (That will really stretch you out!!)

20 Anal Sex Toys That Are Perfect for Beginners
Anal play can feel great, especially when you have the right toys.
Adult sex toys and accessories and strawberries on pink background. Anal dildo, butt plug in paper bag. Top view, flat lay. Nadin Panina / Getty Images
First of all, let’s take a minute to appreciate why butt stuff can be so awesome.
When you’re going to try the big A, experts recommend taking it slow and starting with a little finger or mouth play.
Ready to play? Here are 20 expert-approved anal sex toys to try for first-time anal play.
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ICYMI: Anal play can be a whole lotta fun (and lead to a completely new world of orgasms). But venturing into the world of anal sex toys for the first time can also be pretty intimidating, which is why we tapped experts for their advice on how to get started—and how to get the most out of it. Here’s what they have to say.
For starters, the anal region is rich in sensitive nerve endings that can make it a pleasure gold mine . And since the tissue between the rectum and vagina is so thin, sometimes anal pressure stimulates the front wall of the vagina, where the G-spot is. That makes it a surprisingly effective way to get that elusive G-spot stimulation. And if you’ve got a prostate, anal play can be a great way to target the “P-spot,” a walnut-sized gland inside the pelvis between the bladder and rectum.
Lisa Finn, a sex educator at the sex toy boutique Babeland , says relaxation is key to enjoying anal play. “The rectum holds a lot of tension,” she tells SELF. “We naturally tense up when something new is introduced to that area. So if you’re feeling a bit anxious about anal play, those muscles may not be as willing to open to allow for penetration.”
You can start by stimulating the outside of your anus with your fingers or a vibrating toy . The external stimulation alone may feel great, so you can leave it at that, or continue to relax as you work your way up to penetration.
If you’re with a partner, Finn suggests asking them to stimulate the area with their tongue or give you a relaxing full-body massage before making any other moves. Let your partner know what feels good, what doesn’t, and what sensations you’d like to explore further. Communication is key.
And if something hurts, stop. Finn says anal sex should never hurt or feel uncomfortable. She also warns against using numbing creams. “Numbing creams [can temporarily dull] pain receptors, which are our body’s way of telling us something is not right,” she says. “You can potentially create lasting damage to your body if you continue to force your body through something it is trying to warn you is not okay.”
Since the anal region doesn’t create its own lubrication, using lube is a must—and according to Finn, saliva won’t cut it. Finn recommends using a thick, long-lasting silicone-based lube that will reduce friction between bodies and toys, and are also great to use with condoms. Which brings me to an important point: If you’re sharing toys with a partner, or using toys both anally and vaginally, it’s essential that you use a fresh condom between each new insertion.
But wait! If you’re using silicone toys (which some of those included below are), you should opt for a water-based lubricant. Silicone-based lubes erode silicone toys, which means you’ll have to replace them more frequently. You can still pair water-based lubricant with condoms, and you’ll still want to switch an old condom out for a new one between insertions.
You’ll probably notice that these all have one thing in common: a flared base. And that’s deliberate. Not to freak you out, but it’s possible for things to get lost in your rectum , which is why you should never use anything as an anal sex toy that doesn’t meet this criteria.
And one last thing: Each toy’s instructions vary. Check with the retailer to see what material the toy is made of (it must be body-safe), which lubes it pairs best with, and how to best clean it.
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A toy that has a rigid curve to it, like this one, is excellent for target G-spot or P-spot action, Finn says. Plus, the flared base will keep the toy from getting lost anywhere it shouldn’t.
Adam & Eve representative Katy Zvolerin suggests starting small and working your way up to bigger toys, and what better way to do that than with a sex toy kit? This anal sex starter kit comes with a bullet vibrator and a multi-speed vibrating probe, so you can play around with different sensations and see what you prefer.
This anal bead stick is shorter and more rigid than the other anal beads included in this list, so it’s great for beginners looking for something easier to insert, according to Zvolerin. The beads increase in size from 0.25 inches to 1 inch around, allowing you to customize your play. Not to mention, the vibrations provide additional stimulation.
Since the shape of this plug mimics anal beads, it’s great for introducing sensation bit by bit. Finn says it gives a kind of “pop” feeling when put into or taken out of the body—hence the word bubbles in the name.
The beads on this toy start very small and gradually grow in diameter, so you have full control over how intense the penetration gets. Lovehoney representative Sammi Cole recommends pulling the beads out when you’re about to climax to intensify the stimulation. “But do this slowly,” Cole tells SELF. “You aren't starting a lawnmower.”
Start by putting your finger through the ring-shaped base of this toy. From there, you can enjoy the added stimulation a finger vibe has to offer while experimenting with external anal play or penetration, Zvolerin says.
Because of their simple design and sturdy shape, butt plugs are a great toy for first-timers, according to Cole. Plus, this toy’s slender, tapered end makes it easy to insert.
This ultra-smooth stainless steel butt plug is designed to stay comfortable inside you, even when worn for hours at a time. “The base is thin,” so as to fit between your buttcheeks, explains sex educator Bex Caputo . “Butt plugs with round bases make me mad, because that’s not what butts are shaped like. It’s just not.” Like all met
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