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And a few tips for making it less...uncomf.
If you've ever had shower sex that made you feel like a wet chihuahua—shivering, uncomfortable, awk AF—you're not alone. Getting dirty in the place that gets you clean is far more complicated than any rom-com (side-eyeing you, How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days , Friends With Benefits ) or porno suggests.
For one, it's slip central (tile + water + bouncing bodies = you better have health insurance). Two, water is not (I repeat, NOT) a lubricant—in fact, it can actually make you feel more dry than wet (I know, the irony). And last but not least, there is absolutely nothing sexy about accidentally taking a gulp of hot water up your nose or in your mouth when you're trying to get your O on.
But before you cross shower sex off your sex bucket list for good, you may want to give it another go. "Shower sex can be really hot because it has a sense of urgency to it—you're not going to stay in there for an hour," says Janet Brito, PhD, a clinical psychologist and certified sex therapist in Honolulu, Hawaii. "Plus, hot water is relaxing and sensual, and seeing each other naked and wet can be a huge turn-on."
Shower sex may be the one time parents have enough privacy to indulge in a quickie sesh, Brito explains. If you've got kiddos constantly running around or if you're living with roommates, parents, etc., hopping in the shower might be the only time you can fit in your interruption-free, one-on-one time with bae.
Ready for some steamy shower sex? These tips will make shower sex hotter—and safer:
Now that you know how to have hot shower sex, here are the best shower sex positions to tackle tonight (and tomorrow morning, and the next...):
This position gives you tons of G-spot and clitoral stimulation, so you can get in and out of the shower (read: reach orgasm) fast. You can either place your hands onto the shower wall for support—or if your partner has good traction (that grippy bath mat, people!), let them grip your wrists to up the ante.
Do It: With both your and your partner’s feet planted firmly on the mat, turn away from your companion and lean into the wall, pressing your palms against it and tilting your butt upward and out. Your partner should enter you from behind, thrusting with their hands anchored on your hips, breasts, clit, whatever. Option to remove your hands once you find your balance (it's just like yoga).
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Are you lucky/fancy enough to have one of those seat-shelves in your shower? If not, did you take my advice and buy one yet? You need to: This seated rear-entry position is the perfect shower choice if you like girl-on-top .
Do It: Have your partner sit on the bench with feet on the floor. Facing away from them, sit on their lap, straddling them (you choose how wide to spread your legs based on your stability). As you pump up and down, your hands will be free to play with your clit or any other erogenous zones. You can even have your partner hold your wrists so you can lean forward and go at it at an angle. Fun!
Here’s another position that'll help you make good use of that shower seat.
Do It: With your partner sitting down, straddle them, facing forward with your knees and/or shins on the bench for leverage. Grind against your partner, bracing the wall for balance if need be.The pressure of his pubic bone against your clitoris should feel pretty darn stimulating—but if your knees or legs start to hurt, try pretzeling them behind your partner's back.
This position might also be easiest with a shower shelf seat, but that’s not completely necessary. That said, you may not want to start with this position—think of it more like your finale.
Do It: With your back pressed against the wall, have your partner enter you from the front: You can wrap both your legs around their waist, or if that’s too slippery in the shower, try dropping one foot to the floor and leaving one lifted.
When in doubt, lying down and bracing yourself against a surface is a safe strategy for shower sex. You have to have a thicker-rimmed shower/bathtub situation for this position to work, but you could also bring in a temporary bench. Do It: Rest on your hip and forearm on one side of the tub, shower shelf, or bench, and press your thighs together. Have your partner stand behind you and enter, keeping your legs closed for a tighter hold as he thrusts.
For another fun front-facing position (that requires a little less balance on your partner's end), this is a great option.
Do It: With your partner standing and positioned to enter you from the front, bring one leg up to brace against the edge of the tub or your shower wall for extra support and thrusting leverage.
The change in angle adds a stimulating twist to a shower standard, and the added sensation of warm water on your back definitely doesn’t hurt.
So this move might look a little blah, but trust—it isn't. You get some deep P-in-the-V action (go ahead and touch your clit, or have him reach one hand around to do it himself), he gets to rest (a bit), and you both get a break from all the weird wet kissing. Because let's be honest...warm water never tastes good (nope, not even during sex).
Do It: Have your partner sit on the edge of the tub or your handy bench, then sit on top of him, facing away. Simple!
No one in their right mind would tell you to have sex lying down in the shower (hello, drowning?). But there's no reason you can't have sex sitting down, on the shower floor. In fact, there's every reason TO go for it: You can't fall if you're already on flat ground.
Do It: Position the shower head so that it will hit your bodies (not faces), then have your partner sit on the shower floor, hands behind him to prop him up. Then sit in front of him and scooch your hips until you're sitting on top of him.
Note: You'll be the one doing most of the riding (and pro tip: circular grinding) here, since his tush hitting the hard tile over and over won't feel so good.
One thing that makes shower sex (and standing sex in general, tbh) harder? A big height difference. So to make up for any gaps, this should be your go-to.
Do It: Prop yourself onto the tub ledge or bench and have your partner enter you while you hold onto the closest surface. If you're completely stable, place your feet on his chest, in front of his shoulders, to better control his tempo and depth of thrusts.
If you're feeling a little more ambitious (and #WHstrong), consider the wheelbarrow position. Word of caution, though: You definitely want that non-slip bath mat and to point the water away from your head. (So you can breathe...okay, pant.)
Do It: Get on your hands and feet, and have your partner pick you up by the pelvis. Then, wrap your thighs around their waist for support as your partner thrusts. This position allows for some super-deep penetration, and the warm water hitting your body at the same time will feel ah-mazing.
Another way to tackle the shower is by trying out new ways to give oral, or as Brito calls it, the ‘bullseye.’ (Get it? The clitoris is the bullseye, hah.) TLDR; this position takes face-sitting to a whole new level, so if you’re a clit-haver you’re going to be obsessed.
Do It: “If you have a tub to sit on or a shower chair, and a shower mat to reduce falls, have your partner lay on the edge and then gently sit on your partner’s face in an angle where your clitoris rests on their lips,” Brito says. You’ll be sitting pretty upright, so you can move your hips and direct your partner’s tongue where you need.
Want to make shower sex less slip-prone? Join the club. The key here is to try out more standing-based positions. But hey, standing doesn’t mean just a wet version of penetration from behind. Instead, get creative by incorporating parts of the shower itself for some major clit-stimulating action.
Do It: “In this position, one of you leans against one of the shower walls, while the other comes from behind and provides clitoral stimulation with their hands or the shower head,” Brito explains. Want to face each other so you can see your beautiful faces? You can also use the shower head to stimulate each other while facing each other, too.
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If you’re gearing up to have anal sex for the first time, you’ve probably got some questions. Chief among them: Is anal sex poop a real thing?
Ready for it?...Yep, it might happen. But before you freak out, rest assured that there are things you can do make it less of a, well, messy affair...and something you really enjoy. (Related: 15 Anal Sex Positions To Try, From Beginner To Advanced )
First, let’s get real about what anal sex is: A penis or sex toy is going up your butt, so the fear that you might poop is common and normal. "Remember, the anus is designed more for things going out than in," says Taylor Sparks, erotic educator and founder of OrganicLoven.com . #Facts.
It's also worth getting into a bit of an anatomy lesson: The colon processes waste, then sends it through the rectum (where it stays temporarily), then the anus (where it leaves the body). If you don't actually feel like you need to poop, there shouldn't be a huge issue here, as your rectum is probably empty, but it's still possible your partner will encounter some fecal matter with deep penetration. I mean, that's the game you're playing when you're embarking on this journey, and there’s always the likelihood of a little leakage.
“If there’s stool in the rectum, and there is stimulation to the rectum, it will increase the chance of having a bowel movement,” says Lauren Streicher, MD, medical director of the Northwestern Medicine Center for Sexual Medicine and Menopause .
But this is also why anal sex can be pleasurable—“it gets your pelvic floor stimulated and contracting, which in turn will get you to poop,” she adds. If there’s poop there, there’s a chance it’ll make its way out. (Psst... Here's What Anal Sex Really Feels Like, According To Women Who've Tried It )
What’s more, weak anal sphincter muscles, which control your bowel movements, may make you more likely to leak during backdoor play, explains Alayne Markland, DO, an associate professor at the University of Alabama Medicine. (More on that in a bit.)
If you remember one anal sex mantra, let it be this: “Make sure you’re not due to poo,” says sexologist Juliet Allen , M.A. You don’t want a full bowel, so try to empty the pipes beforehand. And, she adds, if you know you might have anal later, don’t eat foods that will go through you—like anything spicy or fatty—since it may increase your chances of pooping during anal (soooo, definitely don’t order the chili fries!). Some people will try enemas to clean things out, and this is generally safe when used on occasion, says Dr. Streicher.
You can also try shallower penetration to reduce the risk. And if your partner naturally has a penis with a large corona [head of the penis], be prepared that it’s more likely to, um, take poop out with it. If you're new to anal sex, start slow and gradually. There's no need to go as deep as possible on the first try if you're not comfortable with it!
In fact, some experts say to start reallyyyyy slow. "Warm up your partner first with a lower back massage and extend it to the top of the butt crack, also known as the sacrum,” says Sparks. “Then, using your fingers or tongue, touch, massage, rub around the anal area to stimulate those nerve endings. Once your partner is comfortable and/or excited, start with just inserting one well-lubed finger gently into the anus.”
If you're concerned about the aforementioned weak sphincter issue, doing kegels regularly can help strengthen those muscles. And yes, I'm talkin' about butt kegels. Who knew?!
Allen explains that you’ll probably feel like it’s happening anyway. Being penetrated causes the muscle there to move in the same way as it does during a BM.
So even if there’s nothing in there, you’ll still get that sensation without anything coming out, verifies Dr. Streicher. Your best bet is just to try to relax and enjoy the moment.
Truth is, you have to be prepared to tap into your inner shruggy emoji. “The reality is, when we choose to have anal sex, we choose to put something up our bum, which is where poo comes from," says Allen. "So it’s a risk we take." (Simply put, but so, so true.) If you leak (or more) and you feel embarrassed, remind yourself that sex can be a messy affair. Hop in the shower together to wash off, and you’ll hardly notice.
Importantly, don’t let the chance of poop scare you away from trying anal sex if you're otherwise interested. “You shouldn’t be afraid to try sexual practices that you enjoy,” says Markland. Keep in mind, it’s also about who you do it with: “Choose amazing partners/lovers to have sex with," says Allen. "And then you’ll be with someone who won't make it a big deal." That's just good advice in general, no?
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