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Ah, anal sex . To some, it’s considered extremely taboo, whereas to others, especially queer men, anal sex is just how you have penetrative sex. For booty lovers and those who like a particularly tight hole, anal sex can feel absolutely divine. There’s also something “naughty” about having anal sex—something arousing about doing an act that’s traditionally considered more “devious” or "taboo."
But anal sex doesn’t just feel great for the insertive partner (a.ka. the "top"); it can also feel fantastic for the partner being penetrated ( a.k.a. the "bottom" ), especially if you’re a cisgender man. That’s because cis men have prostates , which are jam-packed with sensitive nerve endings making it feel incredible when properly stimulated. Prostate orgasms actually differ from regular penile orgasms and tend to be much more full-body, meaning that the orgasm isn’t just localized to your genitals. Instead, you feel the orgasm everywhere, from your head to your toe.
But you need to find the right position in order to experience all that pleasure, for both the top and the bottom! You may think, “Oh, duh, doggy style is where it’s at." Don’t get me wrong, doggy style can be a ton of fun, but there’s so much more to anal sex than that one position. And if you don't try anything else, you might be missing out on some of the mind-blowing sensations that come with exploring your or your partner's back door.
So, if you're looking for some creative new ways to have butt sex, we've got you covered with this list of the 20 best anal sex positions that aren't doggy style. This list describes how to pull off each position from the perspective of the person doing the penetrating, but I'd like to note: All of these anal sex positions have been tried out by yours truly as both the top and the bottom.
Remember that lube is your friend for all things butt sex (and all things sex, in general). So before you test out these positions, check out our picks for the ten best lubes for anal sex . And if your partner has a vulva and wants to try penetrating you in any—or all—of these amazing anal sex positions, you might want to check out our comprehensive guide to pegging . (And hey, here are some great condom recommendations while we're at it.)
How it works: While seated in a chair (or at the end of the bed), have your partner straddle you, facing towards you, and wrap their legs around you.
Why it’s good: This is an intimate position that allows for making out, caressing, and holding. All too often, we think of “taking them from behind” for anal sex, but face-to-face positions can be very romantic.
How it works: Oh captain, my captain! Have your partner lie on their back and hold their legs up straight in a V-shape. This grants you access to the booty. Enjoy!
Why it’s good: You’ve probably figured out by now that angles are the name of the game when it comes to anal. For one, you don’t want it to hurt your dick. Two, you don’t want your dick constantly slipping out every few seconds. (I purposefully did not include positions that often cause “falling out.”) This position allows for great angles, and it’s really hard to slip out if you'er the one penetrating your partner.
How it works: Your partner starts by lying on their side. Their arms are raised above them and their legs are bent. You then wrap one of your legs around your partner’s torso, keeping the other one straight. From there, it’s simple to start anal penetration.
Why it’s good: This is the perfect position for lazy, morning anal. (Yes, that’s a thing–ask any gay man ever.) It doesn’t require a lot of work. Your limbs are intertwined. You can kiss each other's necks. It’s the perfect way to start your day.
How it works: Have you partner hop on top of you, facing the opposite direction, like it’s reverse cowgirl. Then have them lean back, planting the palms of their hands by the sides of your shoulders (or face) depending on the height of your partner.
Why it’s good: Typical reverse cowgirl is actually tough to pull off in anal because of the angle. Most penises are fairly straight when erect, so typical reverse cowgirl will pull the penis forward, which can be painful. Extended reverse cowgirl solves that problem.
How it works: To start, get into regular doggy style, meaning your partner should be on their hands and knees in front of you. You should then get on your knees behind your partner with your knees inside their legs. You then raise one of your knees to a bent position. This will automatically raise your partner’s leg on the side. Their thigh will then be resting on yours. When done correcting, it looks like your partner is a dog peeing on a fire hydrant.
Why it’s good: This position really is great for self-identified “leg men” because it feels like your partner’s legs are all over you while in this position.
How it works: Have your partner lie face down on the bed with their knees slightly bent and hips slightly raised. For comfort and to increase the angle of their hips, you can place a pillow under their lower abs. From here, enter them from behind and keep your weight off of them by propping yourself up with your arms.
Why it’s good: You can go really deep in this position, and it feels so damn good.
How it works: Sit on the bed with your legs straight. Have your partner sit on top of you. They should bend their knees on top of your thighs, then both of you can lean back, planting your palms firmly on the bed. From there, get to business.
Why it’s good: This position is different because it’s easy for both of you to work together to get the motion going as unit, instead of either you or your partner controlling the motion and speed.
How it works: While your partner’s lying on their back, have them throw their bent legs up into the air. Their legs should be slightly past shoulder-length apart, and for this pose to really work, they need to grip the soles of their feet with their hands. (This will help them with stability.)
Why it’s good: Happy Baby Pose not only allows for deeper penetration, if your partner is a vulva-owner, it’s also an ideal position to engage their clitoris too. With one hand you can stimulate their clitoris, and with your other free hand, you can hold onto them for support.
How it works: Have you partner squat down by bending their knees and leaning forward, so their hands are firmly planted on the surface in front of you. (They should look like a frog who’s about to take a leap!) Then you get on your knees behind them.
Why it’s good: Squatted positions like leapfrog and squatting cowgirl are great for anal because they allow for deep penetration, even if your partner's booty is on the bigger side.
How it works: While they’re on their back, have your partner drape their legs over your shoulders. The angle of their body should be roughly 90-degrees.
Why it’s good: The legs on shoulders position should be considered a staple, as it allows for deep anal penetration.
How it works: You slouch down far in a chair, to the point where you head is resting on top of the chair itself. Your partner then sits on top of you, riding your reverse cowgirl, with their feet firmly planted on the floor. They actually hold your legs to better angle you.
Why it’s good: There’s something weirdly arousing about being squished by your partner while you’re penetrating them.
How it works: In this staple, your partner lies on their back, and you crawl on top of them. From there, you can easily penetrate your partner's behind.
Why it’s good: It’s hot for all the reasons that P-in-V missionary is hot. It’s intimate, allowing for plenty of kissing and eye contact.
How it works: Whoever came up with the name of this position did a great job because it really just describes what you’re doing here. Your partner should be on their back, their legs completely thrown behind them, so their body is in a C-shape. You then position yourself over your partner’s booty and start “pile driving.”
Why it’s good: You are getting suuuper deep in this position.
How it works: You two sit on the bed, face-to-face and close together. Your partner is straddling you, with their legs planted next to your side or wrapped around you. Your legs are resting next to their side.
Why it’s good: This position is up close and personal. Your chests can touch. You can kiss. You can wrap your arms around your partner, holding them tightly. You'll fall in love with this position and each other.
How it works: You should be seated upright at the end of the bed. Then have your partner get into position with their hands firmly planted on the floor in front of them. Grab your partner by the hips to position them over you. This position is slightly strenuous for the bottom, but you can help them by holding most of their weight. They shouldn’t be fully supporting themselves on their hands. Their hands should only be used to steady themselves.
Why it’s good: When done correctly, this position allows for incredibly deep penetration. You can also really control their movement by moving their hips.
How it works: While you’re standing upright on the side of the bed, your partner lies on their back, but they have the legs resting on your shoulders. (Their body should be at a 90-degree angle)
Why it’s good: This is yet another position that allows for really deep penetration. Pro tip: Put a pillow under your partner’s back, so you can angle their anus upwards, more towards you.
How it works: You sit on the edge of the bed with your feet planted on the floor. Then bend back slightly, supporting your upper body on your elbows. Have you partner then sit on your lap with their back towards you. They should put their legs on the corner of the bed for support. You can hold onto your partner's hips.
Why it’s good: The person being penetrated has control in this position. They can give you a little lap dance—it’s a great way to really tease the top.
How it works: While you’re both lying on your side, effectively spooning, enter your partner.
Why it’s good: It’s easy to increase intensity in a spooning position by wrapping your arms around your partner. If for some reason you're noticing that you’re unable to penetrate as deep as you both want, try leaning away from your partner.
How it works: It’s similar to traditional cowgirl, where you’re on your back, and your partner straddles you. Only instead of having your partner’s knees besides you, they have their soles planted on the bed in a squatting position.
Why it’s good: With this position, you can grab them by the butt and thrust deep. Even though your partner’s on top, you’re still in control of the speed and motion.
How it works: Stand at the edge of a bed or desk while your partner lies back and raises their legs to their chest. Their knees are bent as if they’re doing a "bicycling" exercise. Grab their ankles and enter them.
Why it’s good: This one's also great for people who love deep penetration.

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Good news: Anal sex is becoming less and less taboo. And by that, I mean GREAT news, because women can actually enjoy butt play just as much as men do. Seriously. "I've come across plenty of women who love anal play," says Gigi Engle , sex coach and sexologist (she's legit a sexpert for the Womanizer sex toy brand). Anal sex provides a different kind of fullness and can be really, truly intimate (especially if it's a first for both of you). Another major perk? Some women even experience full-on anal orgasms . With the right positions and a few helpful pointers, you could be one of them.
But if it's your first time, there’s a few things you want to keep in mind. “Go slow and go small,” says Joanna Encarnacion , a sex and relationship coach. Play around with fingers first working your way up from small to big. Start with the rim of the butthole before going all the way in with a penis, strap-on, or dildo. Remember: Lube is your absolute best friend (do NOT pass go without it) and never switch from butt to vag (because bacteria, people!).
But most importantly, don't forget to check in with yourself and your body during penetration. "There’s no shame in taking it back out and coming out of the whole situation until you’re a little bit more comfortable,” Encarnacion says.
Okay, now that that's all been covered, here are the best 15 anal sex positions to try when you're ready.
This position is perfect for people who are relatively new to anal sex because it's easy to pull off (but still hot). "Use hand play first to ease into it and see how this position works for your before slipping in the penis," Encarnacion says. Once you decide it's a go, you can control how far down you sit onto your partner, which means you can go as deep or as shallow as you like. If you're looking to spice up the position, reach your hands around the back and grab your partner for more contact. You can also simultaneously play with your own clitoris or their balls for added stimulation. "Don't be afraid to get handsy with this one," Encarnacion says.
Do It: Have your partner sit on the edge of a bed or a chair. With your back to them, slide down on top of them.
The Lying Doggy is perfect for shallow penetration—which you should definitely try if you haven't already. Most of the nerves in the anus are in the first two inches of the opening, so this is a great way to get that stimulation even if you're an anal sex beginner. Pro tip: Play around with teasing in this position. "It's great for beginners because you don't have to commit to the whole thing (literally!)," Encarnacion says. But you still get allll the stimulation. If you want more though, add a vibrator to the mix and use it on your clitoris while lying down, she suggests.
Do It: Lie on your stomach, and have your partner lie directly on top of you, entering from behind. Have them balance on their elbows for optimal comfort.
Anal sex positions are often a face-away-from-each-other kind of deal, but this one allows you and your partner to get some eye-contact in during sex. That adds to the whole intimacy thing. You can also kick things up a notch and calm your nerves with a little nipple sensation from your partner. "This will add a different sensory experience and take away some of the pressure on your mind around the anal play that's occurring," Encarnacion says.
Do It: Have your partner enter you from the missionary position. Keep your knees pressed against his side to control how deep they go, putting your hands on their chest for extra resistance. You can also add a pillow underneath your hips, to get the pelvis in the perfect place for penetration.
Don't you love that this position is called the Caboose? While it's a must-try for regular penetration, it's a really sweet one for anal. "Have them grab their hands on your ass and slowly lower you down," Encarnacion recommends. This will start the intimacy off on a high note. And once you're in the position, you'll be attached from the torso to your legs and can kiss each other to up the romance even more.
Do It: While he sits on the bed or a chair, back yourself into his lap and spoon each other while seated.
If you’re interested in standing anal sex positions, this is a great choice. It's ideal for shallow penetration, giving your nerve-rich anal opening plenty of attention. Encarnacion recommends playing around with a sex wedge or pillow to switch up the depth or direction of penetration.
Do It : Have your partner kneel against the bed and you lie across the edge, leaning on one side with your back (and obviously butt) facing them. Lean back into his penis. Swivel your hips to control the speed and motion.
Oh, spooning—the lazy girl's move for vaginal, and now anal, sex. This position is great when you don't want to make eye contact (sometimes, especially when your partner is up your backdoor, you don't want to) or feel like busting out crazy moves. Plus, skin on skin is hot. And if you're worried about the position feeling too simple or mundane, add some build up. "Rub your partner's penis against your clit, pulling it downwards before it goes in," Encarnacion suggests. You'll get both clitoral stimulation and create more of a tease before diving into full anal.
Do It: Both of you lie on your sides, facing the same direction. You bring your knees up slightly while your partner slides up behind your pelvis and enters you from behind.
Anal sex in the cowgirl position is especially hot because it gives the person on top all of the control. It's also super easy for you and your partner to reach around and finger your vagina or rub your clitoris . And remember—there's more than just up and down movement. Rock back and forth too to provide yourself with another stimulation option, Encarnacion says.
Do It: Have you partner lie down faceup, then straddle them. Slowly slide yourself down at your own pace. Lean forward, placing both hands on your partner's chest or shoulders.
Regular Lotus is touted as one of the most intimate and romantic positions there is. Make it the anal version, and you take that intimacy up a notch (okay, several). Here, you're as close to your partner as possible, and you get some eye-contact time that can be o
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