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There's no denying that butts are all the rage: From toning your glutes to admiring Kim Kardashian's booty , butt stuff is a hot topic. And the final frontier of this booty-mania? Anal.
There's no doubt that anal sex still comes with a bit of (albeit sexy) taboo. Perhaps that's because stepping into the anal arena for the first time can be intimidating, to say the least.
What the heck are you supposed to do down there? Is it painful? Enjoyable? And most of all: Is it actually possible to have an anal orgasm?
For starters: Yes, anal sex can be enjoyable. And yes, anal orgasms are totally a thing.
Simply put, an anal orgasm is a climax achieved by stimulation of high-density nerve spots in the anus. "Orgasms are essentially the sudden release of sexual tension," says Sheila Loanzon, MD, an obstetrician and gynecologist, and a fellow of the American College of Obstetrics and Gynecology. "And there are different ways that an orgasm can be reached." Including anally.
"There are shared nerves from the anterior wall of the rectum to the vagina," Dr. Loanzon explains, "so for vagina owners, it may be possible for sexual arousal to occur from rectal stimulation." Plus, the legs of the clitoris extend all the way back into the anus, so it could result in some clit stimulation, too. And for anyone with a penis, anal stimulation triggers pleasure in the prostate area (that walnut-sized gland located between the bladder and the penis).
Kimberly Langdon, MD, an obstetrician and gynecologist at Medzino , breaks it down further, noting that anal intercourse stimulates the region called the P-spot in men and produces an orgasm. For women, anal intercourse applies pressure to the anterior wall of the vagina (located right beneath the bladder), deeper and closer to the cervix, in an area known as the anterior fornix. “This is the A-spot and produces similar wave-like contractions.” For both men and women, Dr. Langdon says prolonged pushing in one place versus continual thrusting can help some people achieve orgasm.
To locate these sensitive areas, try pushing up towards the belly button (with a finger, dildo, or penis) the same way you'd target the G-spot in the vagina, says Alicia Sinclair, a certified sex educator and the CEO of b-Vibe. "You have the same possibility of stimulating that central nerve area."
Whatever way you slice it, "an orgasm is an orgasm," says Sinclair, "but they may feel different if they originate from different parts of the body."
Also worth noting: If one method isn’t working for you (sex toys, fingers, tongue, penile penetration...), others may still be enjoyable!
When you’re traveling to the back door nether regions, here are some solid tips for hitting that anal "O."
A lot of times, when it comes to anal play and sex, we put a lot of stress and strain on ourselves, but as somatic sexologist Jaiya Ma puts it, “as soon as pressure enters the scene, arousal usually goes down.” Taking some deep breaths, playing relaxing music, or even picturing calming scenery can make a world of a difference before you journey south.
"It helps to feel comfortable in terms of cleanliness, body position, and your own mindset,” says Ma. To that point, Ma recommends her Erotic Blueprint™ quiz, which can help each partner zoom in on what makes them the most comfortable and aroused in bed.
Sinclair strongly cautions against going from "zero to penis" (or dildo). Instead, start small and solo, something she refers to as "anal training."
"The best place to start is always your own finger so you can be the giver and receiver," Sinclair says. Alternatively, you can use a slim plug or anal beads.
Invite a partner to join once you've accustomed yourself to the new sensations, having pinpointed what you like and what you don't, says Sinclair.
You stand the best chance of anal orgasm if you incorporate the routine that usually gets you to the finish line. Do you like vibration on your clit? Great, keep that vibrator stationed between your legs while your partner stimulates your anus. Do you like getting tied up before being penetrated? Grab the handcuffs and have your partner do their thing.
While it's great to stick with what you know, it also doesn't hurt to add new things to your sexual repertoire. For example, try incorporating anal play into penetrative sex, recommends Sinclair. A butt plug or finger can feel pleasurable to both partners too.
The anus doesn’t self lubricate (more on that in a bit), so it’s vital you take it at a tortoise pace when you start any penetrative play so you can make certain your partner is comfortable. “Talk about what feels good, and most importantly, get consent to continue in specifically desired ways, or stop,” says sexuality educator Ericka Hart, MEd .
Even with anal masturbation, lubrication is key: You need to keep things slick, Sinclair says, because unlike the vagina, the anus does not self-lubricate. Without lube, "you will experience friction that doesn’t feel good, and it may also cause small tears inside the anal canal." While these aren't necessarily serious sex injuries, they're certainly not comfortable: If anal orgasm is the goal, you're going to want (read: need ) to lubricate liberally.
Just make sure your lube doesn't contain a numbing agent, Sinclair cautions. For anyone who's anxious about an anal experience, a product that promises to spare your sensitive sphincter probably sounds great. But numbing your anus not only means you won't experience any of the orgasmic pleasure, it also means you won't register a rough session until it's too late. Ouch.
For non-heterosexual duos, or straight couples who want to try something different, Ma says lying on the belly with one leg frogged up and a pillow underneath your torso is a solid option. “It can make it easier for your partner to access your back door.” Other great options? Lying on your side with your knees curled into your chest, or doggy-style.
The hottest sex is safe sex. Some guiding principles from our experts:
The bottom line: Anal sex can be fun, pleasurable, and O-worthy—and you have plenty of options in terms of toys and positions. As always, be safe!

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It should be fairly common knowledge (at least to readers of Men's Health ) that people with penises can stimulate the pleasure-inducing prostate gland to create earth-shattering orgasms. But did you know that women can have anal-based orgasms, too?
Yup, anal orgasms are open to anyone down to explore them. If you and your partner are down to unlock a whole new realm of pleasure, you might both want to do some exploratory butt stuff.
Here, we’re going to break down the male and female anatomies that lead to anal orgasms—basically, how the heck these things work—and provide some tips to help you and your partner(s) achieve that monumental climax.
The prostate is a walnut-sized gland tucked roughly 2-3 inches inside the anus, between the bladder and rectum. Its main function is to produce fluid that is expelled as part of semen during ejaculation. The prostate is surrounded by thousands of nerve endings that feel very good when stimulated just right. In fact, some people can ejaculate from prostate stimulation alone .
“The parasympathetic nervous system is active during arousal and erection,” explains Michael Ingber , MD, a urologist and urogynecologist at Garden State Urology. “After stimulation of the prostatic nerves, this can result in the activation of the sympathetic nerves, resulting in a powerful orgasm and seminal emission (cum).” Really, the mechanism by which it happens isn’t that important to understand fully. Just know that it feels damn good when stimulated, and you can have a really amazing orgasm.
The prostate—a.k.a. the "P spot"—can be stimulated in a number of ways, Ingber explains. Direct stimulation via manual massage can be done by gently inserting a finger roughly two inches into the rectum. “Make sure your nails are trimmed and that your hands are clean or use a glove,” suggests Ingber. The last thing you want is to actually scratch the inside of your anus with your nails.
If you're lucky enough to have a partner helping you out, just lie on your back and have your partner insert a finger inside you, making a “come hither” motion. Another way to stimulate the prostate is if you’re on your hands and knees. Then have your partner insert their finger gently (make sure to use lots of lubrication) and pressed downwards toward the floor, says Ingber.
There are a few possible ways for people with a vulva to experience an orgasm through their butt.
One possibility is through stimulating the sensitive nerves around the anus, including the pudendal nerve. These nerves tend to be located near the sphincter—which is why rimming can feel so good. We'd recommend blending anal and external clitoral stimulation for a mind-blowing blended orgasm experience.
Another path to anal orgasm involves stimulating parts of the internal clitoris through the back door. The so-called G-spot (on the front wall of the vagina) and A-spot (also on the front wall, but closer to the cervix) are both reachable through anal penetration. It's a good idea to ease into it gradually, starting with external stimulation around the anus, Ingber says: “Work up to a finger, and you can also use toys to help.”
If your partner is enjoying stimulation from a sex toy and/or your fingers, then maybe you can think about inserting your penis. Of course, always use a lot of lube— silicone lube is typically better for anal sex because it’s thicker—and go slowly . And remember, if your partner is into it, keep the external clitoral stimulation coming, whether it's via a toy or your fingers.

I tried everything to have orgasm, I couldn't get it masturbating , touching myself , and having normal penetration.. I tried anal sex with my boyfriend and it was first time I had orgasm, I can't even describe how intense it was I even started crying it was so good! But I don't think it's something normal anyway? I'm very strange right?
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Well you can stimulate the clitoral stirrups from the anus since the vaginal canal shares the same wall. Then they say that a penis inside the rectum gives the muscles something to squeeze down on which in turn increases pressure on the vaginal canal and clitoris (it goes a decent way into the body) so perhaps this is why you where capable of orgasming. I don't think its necessarily normal to not orgasm any other way but anal but orgasming from anal (when it is done right) is fairly normal. I don't think there is much to worry about.
Anal usually hurts for a lady ..so make sure you take care of your health back there ...hope you continue to explore the regular ways . ' As for strange.. well... just do what you like ...
Its normal. During anal you can stimulate the g spot inside your vagina. Its rare for women to orgasm that way but its very normal. Good for you for finding something you like
G spot is on the other wall of the vagina that cannot be stimulated during anal sex.
Sorry but you are very wrong dragan. You can stimulate the gspot through anal sex. Its been verified through sex therapists that it can be hit during anal intercourse.
when I have sex normal way I don't feel so good like while anal , maybe my vagina is insensitive or I have any problem with it?
only 25% of women can actually orgasm vaginally. Its not easy to do. I can't orgasm vaginally only orally. You don't have a problem its normal. Every women has different sensitivity levels @dragon.. Don't believe me then do your research. You will find out you are wrong
but I don't even feel much pleasure having it vaginally, I am not even close to orgasm, I enjoy only fingering what is maybe also strange, and for me anl feels definitely the best
same here. I don't get pleasure vaginally either and I never come close not even in the ballpark lol.. You aren't alone. Its very frustrating!
It is possible that someone loves anal. Impossible is to stimulate the G spot through the anus. I know all about the G spot and female ejaculation. G spot is stimulated through vagina.Through anus is stimulate some other spots.
Yet you continue to be wrong about that This is from a website "Many people find anal sex pleasurable, and some may reach orgasm through anal penetration by stimulation of the prostate in men, indirect clitoral/G-Spot stimulation in women, and associated sensory nerves (especially the pudendal nerve)
It goes on to state "Besides the shared connections of the aforementioned sensory nerves, orgasm by stimulation of the clitoris or G-Spot through anal penetration is made possible because a thin membrane is all that separates the vaginal cavity from the rectal cavity, allowing for indirect stimulation"
Through the vagina can not? and G spot is there, and through anus is better. Nonsense. Anal sex you like for other things. G spot can not be stimulated in that way.
ok dragon. You are right that you cannot orgasm that way even though a medical doctor just states how possible it is to stimulate the gspot indirectly through the anus through anal sex and how thin the membranes are to cause indirect orgasm in that area. I'm guessing you can compare your views to a medical doctor who has years of experience in the human body, case studies and a medical degree but you, a regular guy on gag has his input but thinks he is right but it actually incorrect LOL
I don't know really where G spot is but I know for sure that I can orgasm with anal sex and I can't with vaginal - that's for sure ! so there must be any super spot there! It's flustrating , I would like to have this pleasure normal way, if vagina is naturally made for sex why nature didn't make me enjoy it more .
The clitoris is the key for female orgasm. He has 8000 nerve endings in the vagina has several. The clitoris is indirectly stimulated during intercourse. Penis moving inner lips, inner lips move clitoris. For 30% of women it is sufficient stimulation, for 70% did not. Clitoral stimulation by finger during intercourse helps. Deep rapid breathing (inhalation and exhalation should be one second or less ) faster orgasm. With that breathing is easier to achieve orgasm.
so you basically just ignore the fact that you are wrong by posting this? You completely ignored the fact that you were proven wrong so you ignore the fact that the gspot can be stimulated by posting something on the clitoris LOL... you are funny
Do what feels good for you. Don't worry about the norm.
The clitoris is the key for female orgasm. He has 8000 nerve endings in the vagina has several. The clitoris is indirectly stimulated during intercourse. Penis moving inner lips, inner lips move clitoris. For 30% of women it is sufficient stimulation, for 70% did not. Clitoral stimulation by finger during intercourse helps. Deep rapid breathing (inhalation and exhalation should be one second or less ) faster orgasm. With that breathing is easier to achieve orgasm. link
so you basically just ignore the fact that you are wrong by posting this? You completely ignored the fact that you were proven wrong so you ignore the fact that the gspot can be stimulated by posting something on the clitoris LOL... you are funny
Anus is most important for you. and that is not true. For female orgasm, clitoris is the most important.
Everyone's different. But, once you understand more about what gets your motor running, you should be able to orgasm in different ways. In the mean time, just keep on going with the anal. I'm sure your boyfriend is happy!
With sex, nothing is normal and everything is normal. My wife can't orgasm without my **** or finger in her ass. Don't feel bad about it...just enjoy it!
It is normal believe it or not. It may be a rare thing for the general population of women but I know some women that come only that way or come harder that way

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