Anal Finger Pics

Anal Finger Pics
By Zachary Zane Published: Oct 26, 2020
Zachary Zane is a Brooklyn-based writer, speaker, and activist whose work focuses on lifestyle, sexuality, culture, and entertainment. He was formerly the digital associate editor at OUT Magazine. His work has been featured in Rolling Stone, Washington Post, Playboy, and more.
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It's time to take your pleasure up a notch.
In 2020, anal play is on the menu. By now, we know that liking butt stuff has nothing to do with gender or sexual orientation, and everything to do with achieving earth-shattering pleasure. This is thanks in large part to the prostate , a walnut-sized gland located two to three inches inside the anus that is jam-packed with nerve endings, making internal stimulation feel heavenly. When you ejaculate with something in your rear end, you typically end up having a much stronger, full-body orgasm that puts regular penile orgasms to shame.
Even though they don't have a prostate, women can also immensely enjoy anal stimulation because the rectum and anus are chock-full of nerve endings. Additionally, it’s possible to stimulate the internal clitoris through the back door. The so-called G-spot (located on the front wall of the vagina) and the A-spot (also on the front wall, but closer to the cervix) are both reachable through anal penetration .
One of the best ways to get the booty involved during sex is to engage in anal fingering, which is exactly what it sounds like: inserting one or multiple fingers inside the anus to enhance sexual pleasure. While sex toys such as prostate massagers , butt plugs , and dildos can all stimulate the inside of one's behind, anal fingering can more directly hit the prostate or the internal clitoris through the rectum. (Think about it: You can wiggle your fingers, but you can’t wiggle a butt plug.)
But there's an art to anal fingering. You can’t just go ahead and ram your digits inside your or your partner's behind. Do that, and you're going to cause—or experience—a world of pain. To learn how to anal finger correctly so that it’s both safe and pleasurable, we reached out to sex and pleasure educator Luna Matatas and Dr. Evan Golstein , founder and CEO of Bespoke Surgical and The Future Method . Here are their expert tips on positions and techniques that will help you finger like a pro.
If you’re the top (i.e., the person doing the fingering), you need to cut your nails hella short and file them. If your nails are long or jagged, you can accidentally scratch or tear the inner walls of the rectum. “This will not only be painful, but it can also lead to issues like hemorrhoids or infections,” Goldstein says.
If you’re the bottom (i.e., the person getting fingered), you want to make sure your anus is clean. How thoroughly you clean will depend on how much you plan to take. If you’re new to anal play, and your partner is just going to put in a pinky, you don’t need to wash your insides for 50 minutes. Just make sure you haven’t had a bowel movement in the past hour, and then go ahead and shower to wash your external anus with antibacterial soap.
If you plan on taking multiple fingers, or are using anal fingering as foreplay for anal sex involving a dildo or penis, then you should consider cleaning your rectum with an enema, douche, or shower hose . Remember that feces isn’t stored in the rectum. It’s stored in the intestines and then is pushed through the rectum when you defecate. So it’s not as “messy” as you likely think it is.
There are two traditional positions ideal for anal fingering. The first is when you’re on our stomach in a starfish or doggie-like position. The second is when you’re on your back with your legs up in the air.
“I recommend positions [like these] that give you or your partner a clear view of the hole,” Goldstein says. “If you can see it—and I mean all of it—then you have a better chance of understanding the angles and anatomy to make the experience most pleasurable.” It’s also easier for the top to finger from these positions without uncomfortably bending their wrist.
Lube is not optional when it comes to anal fingering. It’s mandatory, and no, spit does not cut it. You specifically want “long-lasting lubes like silicone-based or oil-based lubes,” Matatas says. Water-based lubes tend to dry out too quickly with anal play because the anus is not self-lubricating like the vagina is. You want to put lube both on your finger(s) and directly on and around the anus, Goldstein adds. Reapply lube generously and frequently as needed.
“The most common issue that can happen with anal fingering is tearing, otherwise known as anal fissures,” Goldstein says. This can happen when you thrust or insert too much too quickly. That’s why, before even starting with a finger, you should massage the external anus “as if you’re petting the butthole,” Matatas says. This helps the anal muscles relax.
After you’ve teased their hole with external play, you can insert a finger before eventually working your way up to two or more (if you ever reach that point). “Always be aware of your limitations,” Goldstein says. “No one is counting how many fingers you can take up your bum.”
Whatever you do, don’t start by quickly thrusting in and out. Instead, begin by inserting a third of your finger, then half, and then all of it. Once your finger is fully inside, let it rest there for a little without any movement. Let the anus get used to the sensation of having something inside of it.
“The anus doesn't only get pleasure from depth, so try moving your finger so you're massaging the sides of the anus in a horizontal motion,” Matatas says. And remember, the prostate is two to three inches inside your anus. That’s the money maker and what feels really good when stimulated. So you want to focus on that part of the region when fingering or getting fingered.
“Fingerplay should be more about gentle massaging, which will create better nerve stimulation in that region,” Goldstein adds. “The skin in this region is quite thin, so any jerky or sudden moves can cause significant tearing and trauma.” So really, you want massage as oppose to thrust .
Both Goldstein and Matatas make clear that there should be an open line of communication for the entire experience. If you’re the top, ask your partner if what you’re doing feels good. If you’re the bottom, don’t be afraid to tell your partner to reapply more lube or go slower. With anal fingering, as with any new sexual experience, communication is crucial.
You want to wash your hands when you’re done with anal fingering. You can wait until you’re done with your sexual session except if you want to transition from anal fingering to vaginal fingering. You don’t want to transfer bacteria from the anus to the vagina, Matatas says. So in that situation, you want to wash your hands before touching your partner’s vagina.
It's an intense experience to have something inside of you, especially if you never have before. If you were the top, check-in with your partner after the sexual experience to see how they’re feeling and if there’s anything you can do to support them.
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