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Women have become more verbal about their desires and one study has even found the most common fantasy of a married woman
We live in a post- Fifty Shades era where sexual fantasies are more openly discussed and in many cases, practiced too. Taboos are finally eroding and couples are learning the art of sexual communication. Thanks to these changing times, women have become more verbal about their desires and one study has even found the most common fantasy of a married woman. 
As per the research titled ‘What Exactly Is an Unusual Sexual Fantasy?’ the most common fantasy of a married woman or women in general is — submission and dominance.
In their paper, the researchers shared that “Submission and domination themes were not only common for both men and women, but they were also significantly related to each other.” 
They also found seven other common sexual fantasies of women. So if you’re married and haven’t been able to share your sexual fantasy with your husband still, its time to come out and share your desires openly.
Scroll down to see which one is on your list and which ones you’ve already ticked off. Either way, it’s totally normal. 
Sexual fantasies are completely natural and allow us to explore our sexuality. But more often than not, we refrain from sharing them with anybody, including our partners. However, these fantasies are extremely common and in case you feel shy to share them, know that you are not alone in wanting them. 
Giving or receiving head is one of the top fantasies of a married woman. While this is not a very “out there” act, it is still not your conventional missionary position and is viewed differently by different people.
Some women consider it to be a submissive position, while others feel pampered to take what’s there’s. There are also those who secretly want it, but refrain from going ahead because…OCD!
Either way, if this has been on your list its certainly something you need to try before you completely dismiss it. 
Yes, you read that right. Sometimes the idea of being with somebody other than your partner may excite you. It could be the danger of getting caught or the newness of a new connection.
But as with most fantasies, have one doesn’t mean you need to act on it. And if you do, make sure to explore the ethical non-monogamy factor in your own relationship first. 
Over the many years you’ve lived with your husband, perhaps he’s been the one to initiate sex. Or perhaps he’s been the one taking control each time. So there is a chance that you fantasise about being the one in-charge for a change. 
It can be incredibly hot to call the shots in the bedroom, especially since we still live a world that systematically tries to strip us off our powers both inside and outside the bedroom. 
From ribbons to ties à la Christian Grey, to ropes and cuffs, many women find bondage extremely hot. Being unable to move or being restricted while your partner pleasures himself or you can be both painful and pleasurable. 
But do your research on it before you start tying yourself or your partner into ropes you can’t get out. Some might find this act claustrophobic or traumatising, so communicate with your partner before you go ahead. 
Your partner might be used to seeing you in certain types of clothes. But when you get out of your comfort zone and try something suggestive unexpectedly, you can certainly turn the heat on in your bedroom. 
Maybe you’ve fantasised stripping for your partner or teasing them by masturbating in front of them. Whatever your exhibitonist fantasy, try it. 
This is perhaps one of the most common fantasy of a married women. After years of living with the same person and indulging in the act in the same way, a sense of routine kicks in. But you can spice your love life with roleplay. 
It may have already been in your list of fantasies and if so, there is no better time than now to try it. Play the sex kitten, slutty nurse or the boss and secretary, there is a lot to explore.  
This may seem strange at first, but lets be honest, once you get married, sex becomes and feels more like a chore. You have to work on making it hotter. And what better way than to infuse a bit of romance into your bedroom. 
If you like roses and champagne, lay them out before you go to bed. Gaze into your partner’s eyes and whisper sweet nothings in his ears. Gently caress his body and slow down your movements. No matter the manifestation, reconnect with the partner you’ve been banging. 
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Turns out, some people explore more AFTER marriage
B oth my husband and I are highly sexual people, and luckily, we are well matched in that regard. But while my husband cut a swath through his twenties and took a lot of chances to explore, I was very much concerned about being a “good girl,” and held on hard to the idea that sex should/needed to be an extension of love. I didn’t explore all I could (and probably should) have before I got married. I definitely think back and wonder what exactly I was thinking when I didn’t enjoy my twenty-three-year-old body a bit more! While my first sexual partner (my long-term college boyfriend) was a generous and experienced lover who initiated me well, and while my husband is the most skilled, exciting, and creative lover I could possibly imagine, I came into our marriage with a lot of pent up fantasies, and a little bit of fear that I would never get to play them out.
So my husband and I made a pact: Our marriage was going to be a place where fantasies come to live, not die. But that’s not as simple as it sounds. First you have to figure out what your fantasies are, and then you have to find a way to talk about them before you ever think about whether they can (or even should) become a reality. None of those things are as straightforward as they might seem.
Sexual fantasies are funny. What you think turns you on, or what you think should turn you on, might not be what actually turns you on. So I have found that the first step to cultivating a vibrant fantasy life involves suspending judgment of myself, and then playing with options.
Suspending judgment can be hard. I have found that if I bring the full intensity of my feminist self to my fantasy life, that things record-scratch pretty fast. My inner sex goddess is very femme, likes to be spanked sometimes, and talks dirty about what she wants. She can be really loud, likes to kiss girls, and longs to know what it would feel like to be between two men (cops and helicopter pilots can come to the front of the line). And that’s the tame stuff. I had to give myself permission to be turned on by the things I am turned on by, and approach it with curiosity—even things that feel uncomfortable at first. Otherwise I won’t give myself fantasy options to play with, and may cheat us out of some awesome hot times that could be edgy, affirming, loving, and completely consensual all at the same time.
Playing with options is the fun part. It involves proactively exposing myself to erotic things—and things that might be erotic. I listen to sex podcasts during my commute (including one by feminist sex workers), and then pursue things that I hear about that sound interesting. I read erotica collections, and romance novels, and I look at Tumblr. I also watch some porn and instructional videos made by porn stars. I read Come as You Are and Mating in Captivity , The Ethical Slut , and much more. In our more adventurous moments, my husband and I have visited the red light district in Bangkok, a sex club in our area, and a sexy boudoir-themed New Year’s Eve party in the city. All of it was in the spirit of exploration and adventure—figuring out what’s out there, suspending judgment, playing with the idea of it, and trying it on mentally, for size. The mind is a very powerful sexual organ! Some things I have had a visceral “no!” reaction to, but thinking about “in what conditions could that be comfortable and hot?” has led to some fantastic fantasies and fun.
Another fun game I play with myself is based on the idea of “sexual archetypes” that I heard about on Sex Nerd Sandra ’s podcast and LOVED. The idea is that we can take on different internal personas that represent different facets of our sexual nature. It’s not exactly like role-playing or cosplay (thought that stuff is awesome too, and it could definitely go there!), but more about figuring out an energy system around a sexual persona. I have several sexual personas that I love to play with in my mind.
For example, Lover Girl is sensual and loving. She loves massages and deep, connected sex with lots of caressing and intimacy. She loves satin and silk and sexy clingy cotton nightgowns. Russian Spy has more of an edge. She has smoky eyes and hot lingerie under her leather pants and stilettos. Russian spy would love to have a pair of devastating Louboutins and crotchless panties made of black lace. She wears Chanel No. 5 and is rather dominant. Bombshell is my inner Marilyn Monroe meets Joan Holloway. She is sultry and curvy and retro, full of class and a little sass. Think Benefit cosmetics. She wears thigh highs with a seam up the back and red lipstick. Bombshell loves diamonds and (faux) fur and long gloves and seduction. She wants to dance to jazz and smoke a hookah and rub a stockinged foot up his thigh. I have Southern Honey (a Texas girl, connected to my cowboy-boot wearing youth), Boss Lady, and even Renaissance Wench in the mix, not to mention Burlesque Beauty. I can imagine an endless set of personas: Earth mother, surfer girl, French Architect… the list goes on and on. I make art journal pages for these alter-egos, but I can see a Pinterest board, a vision board, or aesthetic collage variations. Even narrative character sketches would be fun. Channeling these characters in bed (and around it—during date nights) is fun, y’all!
The third part of making our marriage a place where fantasies come to live has been sharing them with each other. My partner and I have some practical tactics we’ve cultivated, or heard about, over the years. Please steal!
I think sometimes it can feel scary to open a Pandora’s Box. What if your fantasies leave you feeling scared or inadequate? What if they love something that isn’t you at all ? What if you find out something about your partner you don’t like? What if you awaken fantasies that can never become reality and that breeds resentment? I have definitely been afraid of those things, and there have been some uncomfortable moments. But overall, we have found that opening up our minds, exploration, and communication has been wildly positive.
I was afraid that when we got married my husband and I would slip into a humdrum routine of good sex, but that our passionate connection would cool to companionate comfort. But for us—eleven years in—married sex has proven to be the exact opposite. The wild infatuation and insatiable desire of our first years has deepened into an intense, deeply trusting partnership where we are more skilled, more open, and more dedicated than ever to exploring pleasure together. And that feels like a sexy dream come true.
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