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unfortunately, it's only selfbondage !
So like a couple of days ago I got an email from YouTube. I have like less than half a dozen videos up on there. I used to use it to edit my videos (rotate/trim/color balance) before I finally broke down and bought a copy of Photoshop. This video has been removed from YouTube for being 'Pornographic or sexually explicit content that is meant to be sexually gratifying'!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Ya know, I am like so proud to finally say I have made my very first porno! I am considering appealing it on the basis that watching me is more sexually frustrating than gratifying! I have amended the title of this clip accordingly. All kidding aside, it is so awesome that Flickr has never told me off for this video, 'cause like I'm not really some sexually adventurous wild cat, I'm just a fairly repressed, very vanilla Tgirl who is kinda curious about all the things she is too timid to try in real life, and likes to play pretend and share it with her friends on Flickr. As much as people complain and gripe about the site, they have been like awesome to deal with and incredibly supportive of the LGBT+ community, providing us a safe place to hang out and share our pictures and videos.
Original pointless description that's not actually worth reading neither:
So like the stars have aligned and I'm getting some Tabitha and Flickr time!!!!
Two of the big projects I've been working on came to a successful completion recently, and the third is gonna be held up for the Columbus Day weekend (love dealing with government departments - way too much bureaucracy but loads of reasons not to come to work), so I can actually spend the next few days doin' like nothing! It's what I'm best at - I spent most of my time at university applying all my efforts towards it :)
These are like clips from a bunch of videos I've done but never put up, or only kept up for a while. I have some more, but Flickr doesn't like too long videos, so I am having to split them.
They have like a self-bondage theme, so if that's not your thing, don't bother with them. The last bit though is like this lil' kitty cat on heat. Anyone wanna make her purr?
I love being bound in cuffs, chains and gagged.
I know I promise one more but I couldn't help myself. I just love being in bondage and almost helpless.
A little self bondage goes wrong when I dropped the keys. Picking them up is going to be quite difficult while bound.
One of my favorite places for being bound.
On my way to the cell block that's going to be my new home for the next five years.
Ariel Anderssen tries out the entire Restrained Elegance gag collection!
Chained rubber walk. Latex slave. Latex crossdresser walk. forced public walk. public bondage latex sissy walk.
some very amateur bondage - but I had fun
"Sometime even she needed the closeness of her ropes"
When I saw the Rogue Players and Flickr Group Roulette had converged to wanting pink stripes, I knew just the thing to wear. The problem was how to NOT just make another self-portrait of a man wearing age- and gender-inappropriate clothing. I may have accomplished that.
I love my mum for having taken this pic before helping me out :) Well seems I knew young what I wanted *g*
Let's face it - Shibari in Second Life has been a sad thing at best. It works - but capturing the intricacy of the ropework is very difficult.
I think Bhadra has come far closer than anyone else has. This set includes a lot of struggle animations and it is suited for partner AND self-bondage play.
Best of all, it integrates with her B'Horny Hud and her Dragon Ring Relay. And all this for 500L$ - about half what I expected her to charge.
Two moddable shapes are included. Here's some shots I took as I was working on the one I made. It gives you an idea of how lovely the rope looks in matte hemp.
Multiple Columns legs rig with Suspension Spine Variation
Multiple Columns legs rig with Suspension Spine Variation
multiple Legs Columns with Hanging Spine
multiple Legs Columns with Hanging Spine
Today i tried some selfbondage shots, it was pretty exciting being gagged and tied with cuffs. Wish somebody would tie me for real ;-) Hope you guys like it and let me know if you want more pics like this :-)

Guide Me, My Love
Ramblings from a married submissive

For this first post, I want to talk about acceptance of self. One of the greatest reasons that M and I did not keep our D/s dynamic alive since our beginning was that I often doubted myself. I doubted if this was safe for our marriage. I doubted if I was normal. I worried about the implications it could have on our family and children. Instead of being honest with myself that I am a true submissive that has an innate desire to be dominated, I ran away from the lifestyle that I very much enjoyed. He accepted it at that time, but we now know that after having D/s work so well in the past, vanilla life just doesn’t cut it anymore.
With the help of M as my Dom over the years, I’ve learned to accept that this is a part of me that cannot be changed. My professional background is in mental health, so I have always tried to figure out why I am like this and what it means…the only answer I’ve ever found is that I will probably never know. I will never understand why the urge to be spanked and disciplined is so strong in me. I will never understand why I love pain and pleasure together so much. I don’t know why I love the bruises, but they make me happy and feel grateful that I have a partner that loves these things just as much as I do. Although I was originally the one who found D/s and brought it to him, he very much so has always been very sexually dominant. We have always been kinky people and loved our play, but now that we’re 24/7, he has established himself well as my Dom and has earned my submission fully.
M never questions if this is a “normal” lifestyle, and because of him, I don’t anymore either. I don’t feel guilty about the things I like, or rather need, to be fully fulfilled as his wife and submissive. I actually feel saddened that I ever felt guilty for living this way in the first place. D/s enables us to deepen our relationship everyday, completely embrace our true selves, and have A LOT of really fun play. Submission for me now is such a beautiful thing, I only wish I could have realized this about myself sooner.
We all only have one life to live, and if in that life, getting spanked, living a life of servitude to your lover, and being kept and owned makes you tick, then go for it.
A few years ago, I would have never characterized myself as living a BDSM lifestyle and feeling very positive about it, but I love that I’m passed that now and can just do what we do with a smile.
I’ve never spoken to anyone in my personal life about being M’s submissive, and I’m not certain I ever will, but I’m also at peace with that as well. I used to feel a little sad that I couldn’t be open about our relationship, but now it just feels more intimate that way anyway. I plan to share a lot about our D/s daily life and experiences in future posts, but initially, I just wanted to introduce myself. I’m a submissive that loves to be dominated, used, tied up, choked, and spanked to the point of bruises. I’m also a submissive that is powerfully loved, cherished, and protected by an amazing man who I’d literally do anything for. He’s earned me forever and shows me his commitment everyday. I’ve accepted myself because he accepted me and wanted me as is, desire for “not normal” things and all. I’ll spend the rest of my days making him as happy as possible.
-Marie

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Hello, curious people. Welcome to my page! I am a 30 year old, married submissive to my husband of 8 years. I’ll refer to him as “M” for the sake of this blog. I have recently decided to start blogging again regarding our 24/7 D/s dynamic. When my husband and I were very brand new to D/s a few years ago, I had a blog, but ultimately decided to delete the work once we stepped away from D/s for awhile. I have been wanting to get back to writing about one of my favorite things, so here I am!I I found D/s by means of reading other people’s blogs, and without the insight, stories, and guidance, my husband and I would not be where we are today. Almost 6 months ago, we re-vamped our relationship and are in an incredible place as Dom and sub, and I couldn’t be happier.
In Reflection Of Where We Are Now September 12, 2016 In "BDSM, Submission"
Why not? 30 days of kink Day 1 August 17, 2016 In "Alternative Marriage"
Mindful Kink June 15, 2016 In "Alternative Marriage"
Thank you for sharing. It is uncharted territory for some, and your journey and insights can help quite the noise and focus on submission.
Thank you for the encouragement. I love being back in the lifestyle and of course, writing about it.
Acceptance of self has to come first. The mind is a curious place and as long as submission does not veer into self-destruction then anything that centers you is good.
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Something I really enjoy is sewing. I am now working on a service dress. It is somewhat fifties inspired. It is basically a wrap dress, all Master will have to do is take off the belt, and the dress will fall open.
Perfect when He needs an easy access.
I will make more of this type of dresses to serve Him in.
I never used to be a very social person. When I was younger I had a bunch of friends, and I would always go to the same club, with the same people, hanging in the same corner of the club, drinking the same beverage, every. single. saturday.night.
That was my life, nothing unexpected, nothing unpredictable, not neccessary to converse with people that I didn’t know. But that group fell apart, we did not go to that club anymore. Actually I kind of stopped going out at night all together. I was to tired from work to stay up late, *insert any other excuse to stay in the comfort of my parents home*
Master likes to go to BDSM parties. I came with Him to a few, but I am terribly shy. I am afraid to start a conversation with anyone I don’t know, because I am afraid to sound or say something weird. So I usually just sit there, kind of looking at the table, or the floor, or slightly hiding behind Master, listening to His conversation, trying not to make eye contact, because ‘what if someone asked me something’ *oh the horror*
The last party we went to, ended in a disaster. I was very anxious that evening, Master was chatting with some people He just met, and I just couldn’t. I just sat there, hating myself for being so bloody shy. We left early because I felt very bad and upset, and at home I broke down in a major panic attack.
The strange thing is, I work in shop, a jewelry shop for that matter, and I have to give a lot of personal advice to my customers. I have absolutely no problem with chitchatting in my shop. Probably because, to me, those conversations are very unpersonal, I don’t really care about the nice weather, or if a certain ring will make some lady’s finger look bulky. I only care about making a sale, and the more sales I make, the higher my bonus will be, so no problem conversing there.
But as soon as it gets personal, that’s a whole other story. Why would any one care about what I have to say ( weird that I have actually started a blog, but hey, I can’t see the readers faces, so it doesn’t matter) But Master taught me that it does matter, and that I should not be so hard on myself. Still it is difficult. I often can not think of myself as important at all. But I am working on it with Master’s help.
So I have to work on my social skills. I do not want to stay a wall flower for ever. Master told me about the trick to “fake it until you become it” but while still staying true to myself. I think this could work really well. Now I just have to find the right occassion to try it out.
i read a few blog posts from submissive women, who wrote about how they balanced their submissive side with their vanilla side. This got me thinking about how i achieve that balance.
First and foremost, i am Master’s slave. This fact is something that comes before anything else.
In contrast, at my job, i’m an almost fulltime store manager with a team of six employees under my command and the head office breathing down my neck. Perhaps you sense the chasm between my job role and my submissive life at home. But think i have found a pretty good balance. This is how my life as a little house slave looks like, in a nutshell:
i always wear a bracelet Master gave me with His autograph engraved in it. This always reminds me to whom i belong and what i am. When i text Him, i make sure to always address Him properly and try to be as submissive as possible in my messages. This is also fun, and keeps me from getting bored at my job. It is also a reminder of what awaits me at home.
i attend a yoga class once a week to relax and become more flexible for any difficult position Master wishes to see me in.
Something i really love to do is design and make new garments. Right now i am working on some dresses that can be worn during the day at home or when Master and i go out. They look pretty innocent but are designed to give very easy access and to be taken off in one movement.
And then of course, on my days off, I do house work. Cleaning, washing, anything that needs to be done really. i don’t expect Master to do anything in the house even though He does like cooking a lot, and therefore does most grocery shopping.
i started an accountancy course that i can do from home. So on my days off, or about three nights every week i do a few hours of studying. Master encouraged me to take this course, and i am very grateful He did. It’s great to learn something new, and maybe have better opportunities for jobs in the future.
i visit friends and family occasionally, and when i do, i still wear Master’s bracelet to remind me and i text Him where i am and what i am doing. That way i keep Him updated, and i can still feel submissive even though i am talking to very vanilla people.
– i get up at about 7.30, after the alarm goes off, and after Master and i had our dose of cuddling. i get dressed and ready for work
– Then i make coffee for Master and breakfast for myself
– i clean up the breakfast dishes and make the bed
– Then i’ve got to run, kiss Master goodbye and jump on my bike to work
– i work eight hours a day, play the dominatrix at work (not really though, i’m quite a laid back manager) deal with shitty customers and nice ones to of course
– Go home, and watch Matser, cook, or do some house work when necessary
– wash the dishes, feed the pets, vacuum clean the kitchen
– Study, sew or do Master’s bidding.
– Then when it is time for bed, i have to work over a checklist Master made for me, to make sure everything is neat and ready for the next day. i am not allowed in bed until every task on the checklist is completed.
Sometimes it’s hard. Especially if i had to be very bossy at work, it’s difficult to make the switch then between being in control and letting it go. It is getting easier though. And more fun too. Master and i have a great relationship. We love each other a lot, and being His slave just feels very natural.
i think i have found a pretty good balance, but i will continue to tweak it, i don’t think it will ever be 100% perfect. Well i hope it won’t be, because then it might become a drag, and that’s no fun either. And fun is basically what this lifestyle is about i think. Do you as well?
That is my back in this picture. I love the Lolita look. This dress is my first dress ever, and I have had it for about 10 years or so. It is still beautiful. My Master likes the style too, … Continue reading →
Soon I will start blogging about my life as a slave and other things. Please stay tuned.
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