Am I Bi Curious

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10 Questions - Developed by: Angel - Updated on: 2021-06-15 - 1,089,206 taken - User Rating: 4.2 of 5 - 73 votes - 267 people like it

Would you feel comfortable being with someone of the same sex?
Have you kissed, or do you plan to kiss, someone of the same sex?
Could you like someone from the opposite sex, as well as from the same sex?

YES! I'd be totally cool with that.

Have you ever fantasized about being with someone of the same sex?
Have people (friends, family, relatives) ever questioned your sexuality?

No, everyone knows I'm fully straight

Do you care what people would or might say if you were bisexual?

No way! I'd be proud of the way I am!

I'm actually quite anxious about it.

Have you been confronted with homophobia already?

Not directly, but I've witnessed it.

Do you ever feel the urge/desire to have sex with the same sex?

No, I haven't thought about it too much.

Do you ever check out people from the same sex?
Would you say it is an emotional attraction as well as physical?

No, I'm not even really sure about the physical attraction.

SO CONFUSED! (32240)

Plus, I have a crush on my bestie's TWIN BROTHER someone help

SO CONFUSED! (32240)

I am definitionally bi, but I was like "Oh, I'll take this quiz!" Then I was shocked to find out: You're in the middle between being bi-curious and actually bi. Me: What the-

I did the quiz as I have been questioning my sexuality after watching heartstopper. I didn’t know if I was BI or not but the label didn’t feel right until I heard that bi-curious was a sexuality and it feels about right! Although I would like to do a bit more thinking as I’m still not sure but bi-curious sounds right! It would be great if anybody is bi-curious if they could tell me their personal experiences.

Eclipse6789 (88861)

I'm inbetween bi- curious and actually bi... I've always thought I was straight until I met my BFF

Am I Bisexual, Bi-Curious or Just Confused? Quiz You're in the middle between being bi-curious and actually bi. Do what you feel is best for you - what you're the most comfortable with. Don't be afraid of following your heart! Not being straight is becoming less and less of a big deal in the mainstream. Go for what you feel is right! Even if it is unlikely that you are fully bi-sexual, there is no shame in trying different things and having a bit of fun! As long as you're honest with your partner, you'll be fine. So go on, be as curious as you want

I had to make sure if I was actually bi and I am I’m so happy about it:)

I'm bi! well i already kinda knew that because I dated a boy (we broke up now) and well now i am in love with my friend that is the same gender as me but her whole family is homophobic and she has to be straight but she said if she could she would be lesbian BUT SHE CAN'T FROM HOMOPHOBICS WHYYYY.... I really don't know what to do with my life now :( But anyways don't let people decide what/who you want to be it's your choice

Going in to see (12015)

I don't know what I am. I've only dated guys, but I've been jealous when one of my female friends had a boyfriend and another time when she has had a girlfriend. The only problem I'm having is if I'm just curious or I am actually Bisexual. I also think that I'm scared to potentially find out that I'm Bisexual because I am raised to like guys, it's not that my parents are homophobic, I'm scared that I won't be seen the same or that I won't like who I am. I'm also scared to be bullied just because I also like girls. I guess I'm scared to be alone. Writing this comment has made me feel more comfortable about myself, if you need help or are anxious about it, I suggest writing or commenting about it :)

I'm literally dating a woman this quiz just said I'm not bi. Lmfao

im bi! second quiz and im still bi. I thought i was, just wanted some clarification (i found out this year when i started fantasizing about kissing my best friend whose the same gender as me, i also still like boys)

i'm bi :) you're all valid—remember that!!

I don't really know if I'm bi or just curious, but sometimes I imagined myself getting in a relationship with a girl and even planning my future with her.

I'm between bi-curious and bisexual, everything is still confusing for me though. As a girl, I have always liked men than women but I'm always okay with dating a girl.

I am between both bi curious and actually bi. But it would be fun😘

I am bi I think but I am also genderfluid. HELP PLEASE!

Um.. I like a girl and a boy at the same time and when I play episode I always choose to be with a girl. I admit, I keep looking at breasts and eyes and hair… Igh I need help

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SuicideGirl (Dissipointment) (57517)

I'm bisexual :) I have a crush on 5 females and 1 male. But im pretty sure all my female crushes are straight. :( I think I like woman a little more than men.

Help me! I'M SO UNSURE IDK IF I'M IN LOVE WITH MY BESTIE I'VE NEVER MET HER IRL I'M IN ONLINE SCHOOL. I'll know in the spring but I'll admit, I keep looking at her breasts...

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To the unfamiliar, the terms associated with the sexuality spectrum can be confusing. While some would argue that labels are unnecessary and a societal construct, others find that labeling their feelings and experiences is actually helpful, affirming, and useful in figuring themselves out.
One of these identification markers is the term "bi-curious." Bi-curious and bisexual are similar but not quite the same, and bi-curious might identify as straight. In contrast, someone who identifies as bisexual will not simultaneously attach the term "straight" to themselves. So what does it mean to be bi-curious?
A bi-curious individual is someone who may experience attraction to people of both sexes but does not identify as bisexual. Not identifying as bisexual has many possible reasons; for some, coming out as bisexual is far too daunting due to family, social, or cultural pressures.
For some, the term "bisexual" feels too set and doesn't allow for experimentation without the commitment of identifying with that sexual identity. For still others, bisexual feelings are fleeting and extremely uncommon, and labeling yourself bi-curious feels like the most accurate and apt way to describe how you feel.
Someone who is bi-curious might be actively experimenting with people of different genders to determine whether or not they are bisexual, or they might be people who have only just begun to evaluate and ruminate on their sexual preferences.
Although many people seem to feel intense pressure to identify themselves in concrete terms, many men and women do not have definitive, concrete definitions for their likes and preferences in any aspect, let alone their sexuality. The term "bi-curious" leaves plenty of room for experimentation and interpretation, which offers some comfort to individuals who are not altogether certain of their sexual preferences.
The greatest difference between someone who is bi-curious and someone who is bisexual lies in their resolution. A bisexual individual knowingly experiences sexual or romantic attraction to people, both male and female. Conversely, bi-curious might suspect they are attracted to people of both sexes or who occasionally experience attraction to both sexes but do not experience a consistent or resolute attraction to people of both sexes.
Determining whether you are bi-curious or bisexual can occur over a matter of months or might be a long journey. You might experience an interest in someone who is not of the same gender you generally are attracted to-but only once, which begs the question: are you bisexual, or are your sexual interests relegated primarily to personality, without interference from gender?
Is bisexuality something you find yourself regularly associating your feelings with, or is it only an occasional, fleeting thought? For some, bi-curiosity will linger for a brief time and dissipate. For others, being bi-curious is their window into exploration, which leads them to determine they are bisexual-or to identify with another form of sexual attraction altogether. Although it may seem as though they are intimately related, being bi-curious and bisexual are not two points on a continuum.
The pressure to figure out your sexuality may be great, but it is important to remember that your life is your own, and you do not have to be in any rush to define yourself-unless; of course, you want to. You can go as quickly or as slowly as you want in experimenting to determine who and what you like, including whether or not you are sincerely attracted to both sexes or you have felt attraction for one person whose sex deviated from your norm.
For some, the next step is to begin reaching out to people whose sex you suspect you are attracted to and investigating further. Although people are not objects to be experimented with at will, some form of experimentation is often involved.
Pursuing several dates and establishing a romantic connection could be part of determining whether or not your bi-curiosity is leading you somewhere, or you could focus entirely on sex and sexuality and use that as your guide and gauge. It is important to take your time and be honest with the people you involve in your search.
For others, further investigation is required before any actual action is taken. Reading others' accounts of their own experiences, investigating how you feel while out and about, and even putting your name, photo, and some information about yourself on dating sites can all help you determine how you feel and how you would like to proceed.
As with any sexual encounter, though, safety and communication are necessary, both for you and for anyone you might be with. Letting the person you are with know that you are inexperienced and unsure of your attraction is paramount ; some people might welcome experimentation, while others might feel used or abused at the notion.
Being upfront with your partner allows both of you to feel safe, comfortable, and considerate as you explore. Safety is also important about protection and letting at least one person close to you know where you are; while you might not be ready to come out to family and friends, it is best to let at least one person you know and trust know where you will be and why, should anything go awry.
Although the term "bi-curious" can be extremely helpful and useful, some possible pitfalls are associated with its use. The most common concern is the erasure of bisexual individuals. The bisexual community has long come under fire by people who identify as homosexual and identify as heterosexual. It has often been suggested that bisexual individuals are either homosexual or heterosexual and eventually choose one gender they are ultimately attracted to. Marrying someone of one gender is often used to establish this narrative and argue against bisexuality as a sexual identity altogether.
Unfortunately, using this term has the potential to feed into this erasure; if you experience attraction to both genders, even in fleeting moments, it could be argued that you are, in fact, bisexual. Because sexuality exists on an extremely broad spectrum, it is inaccurate and unrealistic to portray bisexuality as a 50/50 split between the attraction for one sex and attraction for another sex. Instead, people might find themselves attracted to one gender 98% of the time and another gender 2% of the time-but both instances indicate bisexuality. Adopting "bi-curious" as an identity can perpetuate harmful stereotypes and negative associations.
Using this term can also keep you stagnant in your sexual identity and preferences; if you force yourself to stay within the framework of bi-curious, you may not feel free to explore with love, sex, and relationships as thoroughly as you might if you wholeheartedly identify as bisexual; many men and women who only consider themselves bi-curious willingly refrain from engaging in long-term relationships or overt sexual encounters, so as not to "tip over" from curious to an actual identity of bisexual, which once again reinforces unhealthy and unkind stereotypes about people who identify as bisexual, who have long had to work against outdated and inaccurate notions regarding sexuality.
Being bi-curious is simple enough: you are curious about multiple genders rather than experiencing only heterosexual or homosexual sexual attraction. The term is usually differentiated from bisexual because it is not as thoroughly established; bisexual is typically used to denote someone who is settled in their sexual preferences. This term is used to describe someone who is merely interested in exploration or further investigation.
For some, being bi-curious is a welcome state, wherein experimentation is expected and even necessary. For others, being this term is embarrassing or shameful and is kept carefully hidden. Whichever of the two camps you fall in, many men and women have found therapy a helpful tool in determining their sexuality and figuring out how such significant shift factors into daily life. Bi curiosity is not something that needs to be ashamed of, hidden, or ignored, but gathering help before definitively coming out can give you greater comfort and confidence in your decisions and identities.
Being bi-curious might be a quick-stepping stone on your way to finding a more concrete identity in bisexuality, or it could give you the freedom to experiment and explore and determine that you are actually only interested in one gender o you identify as pansexual, rather than bisexual.
Because sexuality has such a large and varied spectrum, experimenting is often a vital part of figuring out what terms and types of attraction you best identify with. Having an in-between phrase for what you are experiencing may prove useful. Be careful not to get stuck in this in-between, though, as it can actually halt useful, healthy expressions of sexuality.
A bi-curious person is considered someone who is experimenting with bisexuality. WebMD specifically defines a bi-curious person as “someone who typically has sexual relations with one gender, but is curious about having sex with a different gender.” They’re most likely curious about exploring their sexual orientation but aren’t comfortable identifying as bisexual yet. Typically, a bi-curious person has had sexual relationships with a person whose sex is opposite of theirs but is considering a lesbian or gay sexual experience. However, their sexual orientation may also identify as lesbian or gay and considering a straight sexual experience.
The bisexual community flag has three horizontal stripes: dark pink above lavender above blue. According to the LGBTQA+ resources at Old Dominion University , pink is for the same-sex attraction (lesbian or gay), blue is for the opposite-sex attraction (straight), and lavender is the mixture of the two for sexual or romantic feelings.
However, a bi-curious flag is commonly depicted to have several horizontal stripes with pink at the top, white in the middle, and blue at the bottom. There ar
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