All My Mother's Love (Part 2)

All My Mother's Love (Part 2)

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From that experience I decided to begin looking for my biological mother, though with no luck because I had a closed adoption. It felt like my dream would never come true. On May 6, 2009 I decided to do a simple white pages search in the phone book. All I had was her maiden last name. I knew she was born in Delaware and so I hoped she still might have some relatives in the state. There are approximately 63 listings in the phone book with her last name. I picked up the phone and dialed the first number. An elderly man answered and I asked him if Donna was there. He said “No.” So then I asked him if he might be related to a Donna Smith, and he replied, “Yes I am… that is my daughter.” My heart began to race and I got chills all over my body. I told him that she might be my birth mother. He was quiet for a few moments. He then informed me that yes, his daughter did place a baby for adoption a number of years ago. By this time I was crying. I had miraculously found her, and I ended up calling my grandparents’ house, the place where she grew up. It was only one hour away from where I lived. When my grandmother got home, she called me back and said that she just got off the phone with my biological mom, and she wanted to meet me. That she had been praying for this for a really long time. She told me that every year on my birthday she would think about me.
As an adopted child, it is natural to wonder where you come from. Just knowing is a natural thing to want. I never thought that in a million years this day would come for me because the chances are very slim to almost impossible to find biological families when you have closed records. There are millions of agencies and private investigators that would have helped me, but they wanted a lot of money that I, as a college student, did not have. So through dedication and determination, I met my biological mother on May 8, 2009, and she said it was the best Mother’s Day present she has ever received. She told me that placing me was the hardest thing she has ever done. I was able to relate to her. Even though it was the hardest choice, many people’s lives were blessed because of it. Now we are forming a bond of friendship that can never be broken. There were a lot of answered prayers that day. The void in my heart is now full because of her. There is no more wondering. I am so thankful for the gift of adoption, and I want the world to know just how bittersweet adoption can be. My life has truly been blessed by adoption. I want to thank my biological mom for doing the right thing for me, even though it was the hardest thing for her.
I have been sealed for time and eternity to an incredible man for three years now. We have two beautiful, intelligent, funny 27-month old twin girls and a baby due in July. They have blessed my life tremendously. There is no higher calling on earth than to be a mother, and I am so thankful the Lord has given me a second chance to be a mother again, under the right circumstances.
This story was written and submitted by the birthmother, and the photo is property of Jori Reid Photography. Names have been changed to respect the privacy of those involved.

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by Ilana Masad

Intimacy has always eluded twenty-seven-year-old Maggie Krause—despite being brought up by married parents, models of domestic bliss—until, that is, Lucia came into her life. But when Maggie’s mom, Iris, dies in a car crash, Maggie returns home only to discover a withdrawn dad, an angry brother, and, along with Iris's will, five sealed envelopes, each addressed to a myster
Intimacy has always eluded twenty-seven-year-old Maggie Krause—despite being brought up by married parents, models of domestic bliss—until, that is, Lucia came into her life. But when Maggie’s mom, Iris, dies in a car crash, Maggie returns home only to discover a withdrawn dad, an angry brother, and, along with Iris's will, five sealed envelopes, each addressed to a mysterious man she’s never heard of. In an effort to run from her own grief and discover the truth about Iris—who made no secret of her discomfort with her daughter's sexuality—Maggie embarks on a road trip, determined to hand-deliver the letters and find out what these men meant to her mother. Maggie quickly discovers Iris’s second, hidden life, which shatters everything Maggie thought she knew about her parents’ perfect relationship. What is she supposed to tell her father and brother? And how can she deal with her own relationship when her whole world is in freefall? Told over the course of a funeral and shiva, and written with enormous wit and warmth, All My Mother's Lovers is the exciting debut novel from fiction writer and book critic Ilana Masad. A unique meditation on the universality and particularity of family ties and grief, and a tender and biting portrait of sex, gender, and identity, All My Mother's Lovers challenges us to question the nature of fulfilling relationships.
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May 26th 2020
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(ISBN13: 9781524745974 )

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Jul 26, 2020

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Uneven. Excellent premise. Interesting protagonist. The novel soars when the story is told from Iris’s point of view. Pacing is way too slow. It takes too long for the real action to start. I liked the small twists throughout. Overall, this is a great book. But the last line is terrible. Throw my phone terrible. Why would you do that to your awesome book? WHY? Worth reading regardless.

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Emotionally powerful and thought-provoking, Ilana Masad's debut novel,
All My Mother's Lovers
, is a look at family dynamics, secrets, motherhood, sexuality, marriage, and grief. How can you not be pulled into a book that starts, “Maggie is in the midst of a second lazy orgasm when her brother, Ariel, calls to tell her that their mother has died”? Maggie is thrown by news of her mother’s sudden death. They hadn’t been particularly close in years, as Maggie felt Iris never accepted her sexuality
Emotionally powerful and thought-provoking, Ilana Masad's debut novel,
All My Mother's Lovers
, is a look at family dynamics, secrets, motherhood, sexuality, marriage, and grief. How can you not be pulled into a book that starts, “Maggie is in the midst of a second lazy orgasm when her brother, Ariel, calls to tell her that their mother has died”? Maggie is thrown by news of her mother’s sudden death. They hadn’t been particularly close in years, as Maggie felt Iris never accepted her sexuality, always seeming to insinuate it was some sort of phase. But she always assumed they’d get past this and work things out. Still, Maggie’s grief is palpable, and she has trouble navigating her father and brother’s feelings as well. Going through her mother’s papers, she finds envelopes addressed to five different men whose names she doesn’t recognize. In an effort to escape the stifling environment of a house in mourning, she decides to deliver these letters by hand to the men. Along the way, she discovers a side of her mother she never knew existed, secrets she (and in some instances, Maggie’s father) kept, and she starts to understand things her mother did and said which never had context before. How well do we truly know our parents? How do we know the things that make them react the way they do to circumstances in their lives? How do our parents’ relationships impact our own relationships?
All My Mother's Lovers
was a really well-written and thoughtful book. Narrated by Maggie in the present and Iris at various junctures in her past, it’s a fascinating commentary on how the people we love often hide their true selves from us, and how that affects our interactions with them. I didn’t get to finish this before the end of June but this was my last Pride Read of the month. Check out my list of the best books I read in 2019 at https://itseithersadnessoreuphoria.blogspot.com/2020/01/the-best-books-i-read-in-2019.html . Check out my list of the best books of the decade at https://itseithersadnessoreuphoria.blogspot.com/2020/01/my-favorite-books-of-decade.html . See all of my reviews at itseithersadnessoreuphoria.blogspot.com . Follow me on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/the.bookishworld.of.yrralh/ .
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Jul 09, 2020

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A really astonishing debut w/ a very clever, fun hook. I'll be talking about it with Masad TONIGHT for Litquake - would love to "see" some Goodreads friends in the virtual audience! https://litquakeyearround2020.sched.c...
A really astonishing debut w/ a very clever, fun hook. I'll be talking about it with Masad TONIGHT for Litquake - would love to "see" some Goodreads friends in the virtual audience! https://litquakeyearround2020.sched.c...
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3.5-4.0 I can't quite decide where I fall so I'm rounding up because this is a debut and I absolutely will read this author's next book. Plus, I loved her writing. I really enjoyed this story, however it kind of dragged at times? I feel badly because it took me FOREVER to read this book - and it wasn't for a lack of wanting to. I had other books I had to get to, so I had to put it down for a few months. I then put myself on the wait list for the audio because I really wanted to get back to it! To
3.5-4.0 I can't quite decide where I fall so I'm rounding up because this is a debut and I absolutely will read this author's next book. Plus, I loved her writing. I really enjoyed this story, however it kind of dragged at times? I feel badly because it took me FOREVER to read this book - and it wasn't for a lack of wanting to. I had other books I had to get to, so I had to put it down for a few months. I then put myself on the wait list for the audio because I really wanted to get back to it! To help flush out my feelings on my journey with this book, here is the breakdown of how I read it: 0-25% Reading 25-80% Audio 80-100% Reading I struggle sometimes with audio because it feels like I'm on a hamster wheel. I only have a little bit of my day to listen (versus no time to read), and with the nature of this particular plot (daughter of deceased mother finds letters to four strangers to be sent if she dies - there by creating a journey for the daughter to deliver these letters) made things a little repetitive. Yes, each circumstance around the person who received a letter was different, but the pattern kept repeating itself...so I switched back to reading because I wanted to finish the book. I mentally needed to move on to something else. Please don't misunderstand this as me not liking the book, but I hope provide insight into why I rated this down a little. (It being slightly repetitive.) What I absolutely loved about this book was how unique it was. I can't honestly think of another book like it! (A good thing.) It's told mostly from the perspective of a twenty-something lesbian, Maggie, who had a complicated relationship with her mother, Iris. Iris made it known that she struggled with her daughter's sexuality and this has a lasting impact on Maggie's life. As we spend time with Maggie, we see how she processes her feelings and past and current decisions in the shadow of this complex relationship. When Iris suddenly dies, Maggie grapples with past interactions they both had and tries to understand the woman she learns more and more about. I think if this were a book club choice or group discussion, there would be a lot to ponder about parents being people with lives prior to having children and how those lives continue once children come into the picture. While I'm not gay, I found a lot to identify with here because of our similarity in age. It's not at the forefront, but there definitely is a coming of age aspect to this book - particularly in a time that is very unstable and scary (2017 - we haven't even gotten to COVID yet!!). Maggie very much is trying to figure out who she is as a person still and how that role might change now that she lost her mother. I highly recommend this as something to pick up. Maybe you will feel differently than I did regarding it being repetitive. I think the book could have been a little shorter, but that's just me. This book overwhelmingly provided value to me as a reading/listening experience and I can't wait for Ms. Masad's next book. Thank you to Edelweiss, Dutton Books and Ilana Masad for the opportunity to read this and provide an honest review. Review Date: 09/16/2020 Publication Date: 05/26/2020
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Jun 01, 2020

Marie

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I’m giving this book two stars instead of one because it’s competently written, but I pretty much hated it. The author has managed to write a character that is completely selfish, annoying, rude, clueless, and irresponsible. There’s little that’s redeeming here. She buries her feelings in pot and booze, is incredibly rude to her younger brother (they’re both adults), dismissive of her mother, and pandering to her father. She’s wasted a lot but you never really feel empathy for her, you must feel
I’m giving this book two stars instead of one because it’s competently written, but I pretty much hated it. The author has managed to write a character that is completely selfish, annoying, rude, clueless, and irresponsible. There’s little that’s redeeming here. She buries her feelings in pot and booze, is incredibly rude to her younger brother (they’re both adults), dismissive of her mother, and pandering to her father. She’s wasted a lot but you never really feel empathy for her, you must feel like, sheesh, what a jerk. She goes off on this wild goose chase to find the men her mother left letters to, and when she finds them she’s abusive to them. My thought on the opening scene of this book, in which the main character and her girlfriend are having sex and interrupted by a phone call, is that I don’t want to walk in on people having sex in real life, and I don’t want to meet a new character that way, either. Let me get to know her first, let me ease into her sexual life as I ease into her life in general. Starting a book with a sex scene was off-putting—way too much, way too soon.
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Jul 01, 2020

Katie

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Whew, I really wanted to love this book. A book about grieving a difficult parent, where the main character is a millennial lesbian? Yes. Please. Relatable content, hello. Unfortunately, I gave this bo
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