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If you were completely self sufficient then yes, working part time and taking unpaid time off work following bands would be totally your call— but you’re not self sufficient. You’ve never had to provide for yourself. She wants you to work full time so she can quit her full time hours? So essentially, she’s expecting you to work more and then what? You’ll have to pay more bills because you make more money? Look at the red flags OP. She will only expect more as the relationship progresses. AITB for not going back to work full-time after becoming a single mom? Serious As some background: my ex and I got pregnant about a year and a half into our relationship. I already had a decent savings, but I saved up to 15k while I was pregnant just to have some cushion because I planned on being a stay-at-home mom. Rechercher un diplômé. L'annuaire rassemble tous les diplômés depuis la création du diplôme. Seuls les cotisants peuvent accéder aux profils complets des diplômés. 1 janv. 2024 · Stack Overflow Public questions & answers; Stack Overflow for Teams Where developers & technologists share private knowledge with coworkers; Talent Build your employer brand. 29 oct. 2019 · You can see the data frame above consists of three groups "ABC", "DEF", and "GHI". I know the complete (`Business Group`, Month) function isn't behaving as I'd expect because it's not completing the data frame with missing combinations of data for Business Group and Month. We told him "No, you're not getting conversion therapy, we're OK with you being gay". As it is, we completely accept him being gay, but he's insistent he needs conversion therapy. He's told us explicitly he wants us to help him find someone who can kill the gay urges he has and give him conversion therapy. My son, 16, told me he'd been chatting to this Norwegian woman online, he'd contacted her via a government website asking for info for his school project (geography had an assignment about Europe) but then it got into chatting about day-to-day life and other things, even movies, he said he'd been talking to her online since Thanksgiving and now. My son is 16, and got into WoW 6 months ago. My husband paid for the subscription for his 16th birthday. Anyway, my son has told me he's met this man, Jonathan (fake name) who's 33, online, and lives in Chicago, and Jonathan's offered to meet him in Chicago and take him back to an apartment for a meal. My son said he's spoken to. AITB for telling my (16M) dad (oldM) all of the stuff my mom (oldF) and sister (14F) talk about behind his back? Sorry for the old in the title I just dont know how old my parents are, they are immigrants and dont know theyre real birthdays and both just picked January 1st like everyone else in our community. AITB for telling my son that next semester he’s going to show us his notes and every grade he makes because he lied to us about his grades? My son (20m) attends the local college (University of Missouri) where I used to work at. My husband works there too so son gets free tuition. I 28 (m) have a 14 year old son. About 14 years I had a female teacher who did a few "unwanted things". when the school found out they informed my. As far as I am concerned, J is my son. I’m on his birth certificate, I fell in love with him the moment he opened his eyes. I love him like I do my daughters. I have never sat J down and told him that I’m not his dad. I have been married to my new wife for the last 18 months. Her son (W 15M) moved in with us 6 months ago. He used. They asked me how dare I taking away their grandchildren after they lost their only son. They said my husband would be disappointed and he'd want his children to grow up in Australia. I had to leave because I couldn't handle the situation. AITB for taking my children away from their grandparents after my husband died UPDATE It's been nearly 3 weeks since my last post. A lot has happened since. First off, we're back home in Switzerland, the kids are okay. As planned we moved in with my family. The kids are bonding with their grandparents and cousins and the animals. UPDATE AITA for taking my children away from their grandparents after my husband died? It's been nearly 3 weeks since my last post. A lot has happened since. First off, we're back home in Switzerland, the kids are okay. As planned we moved in with my family. The kids are bonding with their grandparents and cousins and the animals. Your new wife and you are having a kid together and your first daughter can feel pushed away and you’re making this worse by taking away her room for your new son. She feels replaced and you’re confirming that by your stupid actions. You’re making her feel like your son is your new, favourite child and she doesn’t matter anymore. You. Your PIL basically said it is more reasonable to take away the kids from their mom, than to take away the kids from their grandparents. They also said it is better for your kids to have a mentally exhausted or even ill mother, so the grandparents are happy, who -- as morbid as it sounds - wont be around forever either. [deleted] AITB for not actually parenting my children and leaving my 18 year old to deal with her younger sister? r/AmItheButtface • 2 yr. ago AITB for not grounding my youngest daughter and telling my older daughter I would’ve punched her too 296 upvotes · 417 comments Locked post. New comments cannot be posted. Archived post. AITB for taking away my son's anime collection? This has been building up for awhile. Kind of a last straw situation. My son's been into anime for a very long time. But in that time, i've started monitoring what he looks at recently and seen some things that were very concerning to me. Some Adult's Only material. But not just that, something worse. AITB for not telling a stranger the time? Serious Last night I had just finished my shift at Walmart and sat by the bus stop. There was a girl on one side and two guys on the other smoking. I just to sit as far away as possible to avoid the smoke. But I sat down quietly and started scrolling through my phone. I didn't say "he is" mentally ill (how could u or i possibly know for sure?), but said that he sounds like it's possible. I found ur comment rather rude personally and extremely confrontational. Not considering that behaviour to be a possibility sounds more "stupid" to me . Have u ever been around some that suffers from. 21 votes, 12 comments. I live in a smaller town. We have a social media “town” page. A person who was charged with a heinous crime was released on. AITB for telling off a stranger on facebook? Backstory: When my wife and I were first dating, her parents disowned her after I asked their blessing because (among other things), I play Dungeons and Dragons and they believe that D&D is satanic. I often couldn’t hang out with friends on weekends because of this. I was like a parent to her for years. Why does this irritate me? Well, when my mother is home and I am, she will become furious with me for telling my sister to do what mom says. We got into a large argument over this. She told me I shouldn't do that, because It's. Our mother was always home, but she paid most of her attention to my sister. One time when I was 8, I asked my mother to play Monopoly with me. We started playing but my sister comes into my room a few minutes later and asks our mom to play dolls with her. Mom told me that we'll finish that round later and went to my sister's room to. Hello reddit, I'm (17F) and my half-sister (20F) wants to cut contact with our mother (38F). So, my situation is a bit interesting as both me and my sister Mia (not real name) don't live together, there are legal curcumstances for this which were beyond my mum's control. But, when my sister turned 18, I had gotten into contact with her. AITB for telling our mom my sisters bf basically cheated and went on a date with his STALKER? So my sister, Em, has been dating her boyfriend, Wyatt, since high school. They’re both best friends with Jay. Em is obsessed with Wyatt. She’s always talking about how he’s so handsome, and so knowledgeable about women’s rights, and. I don’t think it’s weird, my sister (from my mum’s first marriage) is 13 years older than me and my favourite person in the whole world. She looked after me when I was little and she loved me and cheered me on in a way my mum couldn’t. She’s married with two kids now but she told me a few years back I’d always be her first baby and. AITB for making my mom repeat what I tell her back to me? My mom has this bad habit of twisting things around to make the other person "wrong" or putting words in your mouth. She does this all the time. She will call and say "what are you doing?" Me: "putting these 5 plates in the dishwasher, before I leave". I (22 f) have a sister (39 f) who we’ll call Zara and a nephew (14m) who we’ll call Jay It’s important to mention that we are a Muslim family by. They asked me how dare I taking away their grandchildren after they lost their only son. They said my husband would be disappointed and he'd want his children to grow up in Australia. I had to leave because I couldn't handle the situation. I feel guilty because my husband did want to stay in Australia but mainly because that's where we settled. AITB for taking my children away from their grandparents after my husband died UPDATE. It's been nearly 3 weeks since my last post. A lot has happened since. First off, we're back home in Switzerland, the kids are okay. As planned we moved in with my family. It was ugly. They asked me how dare I taking away their grandchildren after they lost their only son. They said my husband would be disappointed and he'd want his children to grow up in Australia. I had to leave because I couldn't handle the situation. My husband and I aren’t taking my older daughter’s car yet but she’s only allowed to use it to run errands for us or drive her sister at the moment and if she continues to treat her sister this way, I will take the car until my youngest daughter gets her license then she’ll get the car. They said my husband would be disappointed and he'd want his children to grow up in Australia. showed how awful and manipulative they already were. That's an absolutely terrible thing to say about someone's dead spouse. DirtyPiss • 5 hr. ago. Original post here. My husband (35m) and I (35f) have been together for 14 years, 4 married with a 5 year old daughter. Since Covid we’ve had two seperations due to emotional abuse and infidelity but decided to try and make it work for our daughter through counseling. But my mom thinks I went too far and told me to not take my kids so that their half siblings don't hate them, my brother suggested that I pay half the price and let my ex pay the other half (which I know he will never listen). I rejected both the ideas. There is no way I would leave my kids for days to go on a holiday in another. She laughed and said she was glad they didn’t work, I told her I was, too, because she’s awesome. It just kind of hit me that I told my kid she was an accident. AITB? Note: not really serious but I couldn’t find a better flair. My 14 year old daughter was recently involved in an incident at school. For the past 2 weeks, she started this thing with some of her friends where. I (36f) have a daughter in middle school. "Casey". Casey is the light of my life and the only kid ive been able to have. I love her no matter what and i will always be in her corner. She's a bit of a jokester and likes to pull pranks on her family members and friends. She doesn't mean any harm by it and shes just trying to make people smile. My daughter is not popular but she has a few friends and is not systematically excluded. Her younger sister has been saying that my 16yo is autistic quite a lot lately. I do not know where she got that from and I have put a stop to her saying it. Although I have never told my 13yo about her sister's condition, she is adamant that her sister is. My daughter excelled in HS, but had some more problems with extracurriculars. She started swimming at age 12 for general fitness and exercise, but then told me and my wife that she wanted to be on her HS swim team. We told her no way and to do Academic Decathlon (AD) instead - she was and is more brains than brawn. She had progressed. I've been asked for an update by a few people so I thought I'd share. It's headed in the positive direction mostly. My daughter ended up moving to my parents house last month. And while my husband and I were upset, the space definitely helped ease the tension at home. AITB for telling my daughter I don't know how to fix my mistakes? I was very hard on my daughter since she started kindergarten at age 5. I pushed her to get straight A's and excel, and she met my expectations by 3rd grade. I never did well in school. I wasn't able to complete my nursing degree because of it and have worked a low paying job since. Serious. Hello everyone throwaway account, the past few months my brother (24M) has been working hard in order to become a police officer. He graduates this week, while I (21M) am proud of what he has accomplished. He announced something that felt like a pretty big betrayal of not only me, but the rest of the family. My mom couldn’t work a job because she always had to be with my brother in the ER after he would overdose or have drug-induced psychosis. He would steal from us, urinate in our food, use abusive language, run away for days to do drugs. Every 3 days there would be a police squad and/or ambulance at my house because of him. We tried. My mom calls me at 7 and asks me to go to this movie with her and my brother and his friend. I said no because it was the haunted mansion movie and stuff like that wasn't really my thing. I also didn't want to go to some movie with my brothers friend, Ihadn't met this one but lots of his friends had been annoying or outright mean or. Sorry for the essay - TL:DR at the bottom. My (32M) wife's (31F) parents live abroad and her younger brother (20M) - let's call him Joe - has moved. I think I could be an AH for threatening to call the police on my brother after he dropped his daughter off at my place to babysit her for the night, even tho I already told him that I don't want to do it multiple times beforehand. Context: Me (13M),my little brother(12M), my dad(52M), and his girlfriend(48F). We All went to a comic con over the weekend, on the day before and. My older brother's wedding is soon. I was intending on going but after I found out that my stepson was not invited, we started having issues. My brother explained that it's the nature of the wedding they chose which is child free but my fiancee was upset that this rule was forced on family as well. Romantic. My boyfriend and I are long distance and see each other once a month. Recently, he flew to see me and on our last day, his return flight got delayed a few hours, so he texted me to ask whether I wanted to come downtown and spend a few extra hours together once I got off of work. My boyfriend and I are long distance and see each other once a month. Recently, he flew to see me and on our last day, his return flight got delayed a few hours, so he texted me to ask whether I wanted to spend a few extra hours together once I got home from work. AITB for not hanging out with my long distance boyfriend during his flight delay? My boyfriend and I are in a very long distance LA to NYC relationship. We see each other one wknd a month. He does a lot of the traveling, which I appreciate. I have flown to see him too, but I'm also very independent. AITB for not picking up long distance boyfriend from airport? My boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship. We typically visit each other once a month. Recently, he came to visit. He had a very bad month—his brother had a heart attack that sent him to the hospital for a week, and my boyfriend was a wreck about it and took. My boyfriend and I are long distance and see each other once a month. Recently, he flew to see me and on our last day, his return flight got delayed a few hours, so he texted me to ask whether I wanted to spend a few extra hours together downtown once I got out of work. As fun as it sounded, I worried traffic (about an hour to get to. Go to AmItheButtface • by My boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship. We typically visit each other once a month. Recently, he came to visit. He had a very bad month—his brother had a heart attack that sent him to the hospital for a week, and my boyfriend was a wreck about it and took care of him. AITB for not wanting to be in a long distance relationship. Romantic | Judged. My (25M) girlfriend (27F) of six months was recently offered for a job in another state. She surprised me with the news, and didn't tell me beforehand or anything as she intended for it to be a surprise. As part of this effort, we're expected to include our preferred pronouns in our email signatures. For example, "Alex Lastname (she/her)". I've refused to do this so far because I enjoy a serious professional benefit from my androgynous name and I don't want to lose that. AITB for refusing to use someones pronouns (it/it's) because of childhood bullying? Firstly; this is not a "ooh, pride troll". I'm (30) bi, 100% support the LGBTQIA+ community; and aim to understand and not judge anything that anyone does (provided it's safe, legal and consensual and if necessary private). Yes I’m aware, “hi my name is _ my pronouns are _. What’s your name and what are your preferred pronouns?” See how easy that was for the person to ask not only ops name but also his pronouns not just his pronouns. Thats why I agreed with op. It’s not the pronoun thing it’s the rudeness of not asking someone’s name, thinking. People with multiple pronouns or people who are pronoun indifferent will likely directly tell you if they are giving their pronouns exactly what they are comfortable with. Telling you my pronouns are they/them does not make it ok to ask if you can use he/him or she/her because you are uncomfortable using they/them for me. I gave you my pronouns. AITB for not correcting my parents on my pronouns? I (18AFAB) am non-binary, and I came out to my parents (44M and 44F) three years ago. However, my gender has basically been ignored by both of them, and I didn't have the guts to call them out on it until a month or so ago. I do have one co-worker, however, who flat-out refuses to use my preferred pronouns and claims to actually find them "offensive". WIBTA if I report her to HR for refusing to use my pronouns, which are asshole/asshole/asshole's/assholeself? I kind of feel like I would be the asshole, but being asshole is actually what I want. AITA for not using my friends preferred pronouns? I, 15f, have recently been told by my friend Lucy, 15f, that they wanted to go by the pronouns Bun/Bunself. At first, I thought it was some kind of joke, but when Lucy saw my expression they grew very upset at me and demanded I call them what their comfortable with. We agreed before we moved that the smallest bedroom would be my office since I work from home most of the time. I mentioned that since the office is mine, I will be the one clearing and tidying it and that when the door is closed that means my gf doesn't come in which she agreed to. My gf started coming into the office on a weekend and dusting the desk and moving things on the desk and I asked her not to do that. She just replied that the room is too untidy. I pointed out we've agreed it is my room so it doesn't have to be up to my gfs levels of tidiness. She then bought a basket to put any loose wires in for. Then I got a new job where I'd be traveling, and the home office would also be in a different city and state I'd have to move to (florida). It was literally my dream job, and was so much better than the job I had before. She and I talked about the new job, and being that it was a fairly new relationship, I wouldn't say her and I were "serious." I mean, I was serious about trying to make things. I mentioned to my girlfriends a while ago that I wouldn't really be able to make any plans for a few weeks since I'll be spending the weekends studying. I said we could still go out on evenings but just nothing during the day which she said was fine. We then had a lot of movie nights, games nights etc on the evenings. • 6 min. ago SGdude90 AITB for attempting to force my date into a relationship? Serious My maybe-ex Holly is 22F and I am 24M We chatted on a dating site for weeks before we met up for 3 dates. I thought we had chemistry, so I asked her to be my girlfriend. She was hesitant as she felt we had not known each other long enough. Sit your girlfriend down and make this something you’re gonna work through together, not fight each other on. Tell her you understand she wants the house clean and you appreciate that but that you will get to those things when you are ready and unless a guest is literally about to walk in the door, it can all wait till you’ve.