A Proper Spanking

A Proper Spanking
How long should a proper spanking be?
Answered Apr 8, 2022 · Author has 55 answers and 493.1K answer views
What is the length of your spanking? Is it a serious spanking?
What are some spanking punishments?
What is it like giving a serious spanking?
What happened to the Spanking (corporal punishment) page?
Updated Jan 5, 2022 · Author has 270 answers and 92.3K answer views
What is the length of your spanking? Is it a serious spanking?
What are some spanking punishments?
What is it like giving a serious spanking?
What happened to the Spanking (corporal punishment) page?
How hard or how long should I spank my child (if I would do it) without leaving marks, and is a redness on the bottom already too much? What is the "normal" spanking so to say?
Have you ever been spanked as a punishment? How did it feel physically and emotionally before and after getting the spanking? Feel free to tell the story
What was the worst spanking you have ever gotten from your parents?
What is a good spanking (not sexual)?
I argued with my mother and she said that I'm disrespectful. She said I'm going to get a hard spanking. I don't want to escape from the punishment, but I'm scared. Will it hurt? What can I do?
Is spanking a good punishment, and until what age?
My hand is brushed after giving a spanking. What should I do to prevent this next time?
What is your reaction when your partner says “get your pants down, you're getting a spanking”?
Have you ever witnessed a teenage girl get a bare bottom spanking?
What is the length of your spanking? Is it a serious spanking?
What are some spanking punishments?
What is it like giving a serious spanking?
What happened to the Spanking (corporal punishment) page?
How hard or how long should I spank my child (if I would do it) without leaving marks, and is a redness on the bottom already too much? What is the "normal" spanking so to say?
Have you ever been spanked as a punishment? How did it feel physically and emotionally before and after getting the spanking? Feel free to tell the story
What was the worst spanking you have ever gotten from your parents?
What is a good spanking (not sexual)?
I argued with my mother and she said that I'm disrespectful. She said I'm going to get a hard spanking. I don't want to escape from the punishment, but I'm scared. Will it hurt? What can I do?
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I always get six whacks with the paddle each one about 30 seconds apart as my dad waits until I am back in position.. So including taking off my jeans and pants I guess it lasts about four minutes followed of course by ten minutes nose against the wall
I would say it depends on the child and how much he/she cooperates during the spanking and does what there told and learns to behave from now on myself I have rules that must be followed during a spanking and if not followed then the spanking continues until they do it's up to the one being punished…..(spanked)
I would say it depends on the child and how much he/she cooperates during the spanking and does what there told and learns to behave from now on myself I have rules that must be followed during a spanking and if not followed then the spanking continues until they do it's up to the one being punished…..(spanked)

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Spanking is f*cking hot. Here are the best ways to do it.
The way pain and pleasure can collide during sex is intriguing. When practiced with care and good timing, they can complement each other nicely. There’s nothing quite as erotic as being in the middle of a super hot sex session and having your booty slapped . The sharp sting of a spanking can heighten the charge between partners, feeding into the animalistic quality of the sex session.
If you’ve been interested in trying some BDSM-style play , erotic spanking is a great place to start for kink beginners . It’s something everyone can do with a bit of training and understanding.
“One of the best parts of spanking is that you don’t need any fancy (read: expensive) BDSM props to partake—only a hand and a willing bottom,” says Charyn Pfeuffer, sex and relationships writer and author of 101 Ways to Rock Online Dating .
Like all things in BDSM (and sex in general), erotic spanking should only be practiced between consenting adults who are super into it. If it isn’t a “HELL YES” from both you and your partner, it’s a “no.” Here is everything you need to know about erotic spanking for beginners.
Erotic spanking is exactly what is sounds like: "You’re spanking someone or getting spanked for the erotic and sexual pleasure it brings,” says Kristine D’Angelo , a certified sex coach and clinical sexologist.
The types of pleasure that come from a spanking session are varied, and will depend very much on the mood of the moment. Erotic spanking can be gentle, rough, painful, and even romantic at times. “For the body, spanking releases endorphins and causes blood to flow to areas of impact," explains Daniel Saynt , founder and chief conspirator of The New Society for Wellness , a private members Open Love club for the adventurous. "The release can be euphoric. For those who like more aggressive forms of spanking, the appeal may come from the longer-lasting pain—sitting down and still feeling the impact from the night before can be a major turn-on.”
During erotic spanking—also known as consensual impact play—the top (or giver), spanks the bottom (or receiver). The spanking is usually relegated to the buttocks, but can also move to the upper thighs and other areas with fatty tissue. Spanking can happen once, a few times, or repeatedly throughout a sexual encounter. “It can be performed as foreplay or during sex,” Pfeuffer says.
But there's more to erotic spanking than the physical mechanics. There's often a power dynamic that comes into play as well, wherein the bottom is willingly giving their power to the top in the form of accepting a spanking. “There’s a psychological component added to it that is part of a consensual [dominant/submissive] dynamic," says Kenneth Play , international educator and creator of the Sex Hacker Pro Series . "It can be a punishment, a form of humiliation, or another way to display dominance."
What does this boil down to? Spanking is f*cking hot.
You should not just go in and spank someone without first knowing if this is something they’re interested in trying. Have an open and honest conversation about how you’d like to be spanked (or give a spanking).
Here are a few ways to bring up erotic spanking:
Here's what to say when setting boundaries:
Adding in some spanking before you’ve even gotten into bed can spark erotic energy, setting the wheels in motion for a very hot sex sesh. “Using your hands, swat your lover's bottom while clothed, aiming for the middle of the buttocks, also known as the ‘sweet spot,'" says Taylor Sparks, erotic educator and founder of Organic Loven , the largest BIPOC-owned online intimacy shop. "It is enticing to many because the nerve endings of the genitals end at the bottom of the bottom (pun intended) and that gentle but firm tap/slap can stimulate them."
Communicate while you're spanking or being spanked. If something isn’t working for, speak up! Simply say, “Babe, I love that you’re super into this, but your hitting me a bit too hard. Can we chill a bit?” If you’re loving it, an encouraging “Yeah! That’s so hot!” is always great. Honest dialogue during sex is how we make sure everyone is having a good time.
Safewords are non-sexual words that alert our partner when we’re not liking something, feel uncomfortable, or want the play to stop altogether. They are extremely helpful when you don’t feel comfortable advocating for yourself during sex. Sparks suggests using the “traffic light” system: "red" means stop; "yellow" means slow down; and "green" means you're loving it.
If you're new to impact play, spanking should be restricted to the buttocks or the upper thighs. "[If you] hit above the peak of the upper buttocks you risk injuring the kidneys or the tailbone area," Sparks says. "A very hard hit can do damage, especially for those who do not have a lot of ‘meat’ on their backside."
Once you’re feeling comfortable with your practice, stocking up on toys can be a fun way to continue exploring impact play, Saynt says. "My personal favorites are thick, leather floggers,” he says. If you need a tamer suggestion, Unbound makes a very adorable crop called “Tsk” that is perfect for beginners.
Play also suggests investing in high-quality leather gloves to add some extra padding against a bare bottom. Bonus: The leather gloves can also help to invigorate that dom/sub dynamic that makes spanking so hot.
One of the best ways to become a truly fantastic spanker (or spankee) is by doing some research. Sparks recommends a book called Spanking For Lovers by Janet W. Hardy. You can also check out workshops from Dame Products , O.School , or your local sex shop (like The Pleasure Chest ).
Spanking makes for a great addition to role play—it can bring you into a heightened sense of fantasy. It’s ideal for teacher/student, boss/secretary, or really any dynamic that involves a dom/sub dynamic. For example, if you’re doing a teacher/student scenario, you could say: “Well, Jen. I’m very disappointed that you didn’t complete the homework assignment. I may have to give you a spanking. Come bend over my knee, you naughty girl.”


Obviously you know the basics of how to give a spanking over the knee or
bent over a piece of furniture; that is not what I am talking about. In a
cooperative spanking environment like we discuss on this site it is
important that a spanking be more than just swats to the backside.


Take the person to be spanked to a private place, such as his or her
bedroom. We do not condone 'public' spankings in front of other family
members as it changes the effect from behavior modification to
humiliation.

Have them get to the state of undress you have agreed upon (usually
bare-bottom, but may be underpants if nudity is an issue.) and put them in
the position to be spanked. (Over the knee, bent over the bed, etc..) With
them in position calmly explain what he/she is being spanked for and what
needs to be done to avoid it in the future. "I am going to spank you
for missing your curfew, and expect you to be home on time for now on.

Deliver the spanking with no games. Counting licks and stupid chants like
"please sir may I have another" distract attention away from the
spanking and reduces it's effects. Ideally the spanking should be given in
silence, allowing the smacking sound to be the only noise.. an audible
reinforcement of the discipline. You should only speak to give necessary
commands, such as adjusting the spankee's position if he or she has moved.

After the spanking, you should hug the person you just spanked, and
forgive them for what they did to earn the spanking with a reminder to
avoid that behavior in the future. Then allow them some quiet time to
think and recover from the discipline session.

Ideally spanking therapy should take place at a set place and time,
allowing the therapy recipient to anticipate the coming discipline between
sessions. At the start of a session you should both sit down and
discuss anything the spankee feels he or she has done to deserve a more
harsh or lighter spanking, and then you should go over the things you want
to remind him or her of, and the things you think they need to continue to
work on. For example, for an unmotivated adult you may say, "I want
you to continue to focus on your work, as well as keeping your personal
life in order." Remind them of any goals set that have not been fully
attained (weight loss, stop smoking, etc.)

Following the verbal therapy, the spanking should be given as described in
the punishment spanking session above.

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