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"The second the orgasm came, I was terrified I had done something really wrong and my parents would know."
People of all ages, genders, and sexualities came through with their bumbling, awkward, and hilarious first times. Here are just some of their responses:
I was a young and eager learner. I had a major back surgery when I was 12 that left me bedridden for almost a month, so I was staying with my grandmother who was very much a part of the local church. Her bible study felt bad for me having to be stuck in bed, so they all chipped in and bought me a mini laptop. Long story short, within a day I was feeling myself to porn I had found. I discovered the clitoris and never looked back. Thanks church ladies!
My first? I was like 12, it was late. I scratched my balls, worked my way up, and supercalifragilisticexpialidocious! I was a man.
I was having some relatively steamy thoughts as a late tween laying in bed and I thought, “It feels weird down there. I wonder what would happen if I touched it." So I did, and I exploded immediately. I honestly had no idea what happened the first time — it actually kind of freaked me out. After I familiarized myself with my body and my orgasms however, it was heaven from then on.
My first orgasm was actually during a basketball practice four years ago. At the beginning of the practice we had to run around the court for about fifteen minutes. I started to feel a hot, tingly sensation between my legs, so I started to run faster because it felt so good and I didn't want it to stop. I kept running until it "exploded." I really wanted to moan, but of course I had to be quiet so that my team mates wouldn't realize what had happened. Ever since then I have orgasms while doing exercise, but I have to say those are less intense than the ones I have from intercourse.
I was probably about 10 years old and was laying down napping in the back of an RV. The vibration of my thighs from the movement of the vehicle started to feel really nice and I remember moving my body along with it until suddenly I orgasmed. Of course, I had no idea what had happened, but let's just say I was a fan of car-ride napping from then on.
I was 7 and I was climbing up a really tall pole and it was rubbing against my clitoris, so when I was getting to the top I had a clitoral orgasm. I was shaking so hard and I almost peed myself. I've never had one like that. RIP.
I think I was about 11 or 12, and I had just discovered porn when no one was at home. I had no idea what I was doing, but I sat in front of the TV and rubbed one out. The second the orgasm came, I was terrified something wrong happened and immediately stopped. I thought I had done something really wrong and my parents would know. I still masturbated after that though.
Wrestling with a friend and well... There was inadvertent rubbing that ended in a surprise. Had no idea what cum was until then. I was losing, too. Guess I've always been quite a sub.
When I was a kid, I had a lot of friends who were very sexual to say the least. One day, one of my friends dared me to hump one of my big stuffed animals. I didn't do it, but when she left I got curious. I took off my pants and underwear and started humping my biggest stuffed animals. I kept doing it until I felt this weird, but amazing sensation. Right after, I got this sense that I was doing something wrong. But it felt so right.
I was reading sexy fanfiction as a young teenager and liked the feeling it gave me. Eventually, after some research, I began to touch myself while reading a favorite piece. The romance/sexiness of the situation in the story really did it for me. Super embarrassing to think about now.
I was 9, maybe 10. I found a vibrating back massager in my house (basically a Hitachi wand, but not meant to be a sex toy) and decided, “Hey, why not try putting it down here?” I had no idea what an orgasm was, but I definitely had one. I remember thinking it was the coolest thing ever, like I had discovered something new and amazing. I hid that sucker in my toy box (not a euphemism) and had it all the way through college before it finally stopped working.
I would always put a little washcloth between my legs kind of balled up, then I would cross my left leg over my right leg, and the pressure from that on my clit gave me an orgasm. I liked the sensation, but I was pretty young so I didn't know what I was experiencing. I just knew I liked it and I would do it when my parents weren’t home.
I was 14 years old and I had read so much on Cosmo about masturbation, and I knew I just had to try it. I tried with just fingers, but I wasn't quite doing it in the right place so I decided to try the shower head method. When no one was home, I got into the shower and turned on the removable shower head. I put one foot up on the ledge and turned the stream to the highest and most direct setting. I just sort of pointed it down there and moved it around until it felt good. It tickled and I kept holding it there until I felt a super euphoric and relieving feeling. I was so astonished. I felt bad about it for the rest of the day but started doing it regularly (and now can finally do it with fingers) because honestly, what's so bad about it?!
Jacking off in the shower. Didn't know what I was doing at the time. Freaked out when I finally came. Thought I'd discovered something previously unknown about the human body until a google search basically had the sex talk with me my parents had been neglecting.
Late one night at 14, I had been reading a lot of feminist literature about masturbating, and decided to finally give it a try as I was half asleep. Through my thick, fleece pajama pants and underwear, I rubbed myself until I O'd, and it felt so intense I couldn't wait to do it again. I still felt gross and nervous about actually touching myself without underwear, so I got off that way for forever, and now that's the way I still orgasm, although I love touching myself totally naked.
—18/Woman/Possibly bi and most likely not straight
When I was 12 I stole my brother's electric toothbrush as a revenge for being mean to me and I really wanted to make him mad so I put it in my pants and turned it on. Let me tell you, I didn't know at the time what I was feeling, but it definitely was memorable. I was addicted after that and he never found his toothbrush again.
I first orgasmed on my own with a vibrator when I was 20. I hadn't known women were even capable of orgasm until I got to college and no one I'd encountered in my limited dating experience had ever given a thought to my own pleasure, so I had just assumed women weren't really supposed to get anything out of sexual encounters pleasure-wise. My college roommate helped me pick out my first vibrator and gave me a brief rundown on what to do.
I was 13 and home alone. I had spent the whole day on an online chatroom secretly, until some girl started messaging me how she wanted to devour me. I didn't really know what exactly masturbation was, but somehow my hand ended up in my pants and I was just rubbing my entire hand all over the place. Eventually I came and I shit you not — my entire body bounced up and down and shook for half an hour after. I masturbated every single afternoon for the next month.
Honestly, I had to learn about my clit (and, by extension, how to orgasm) from porn. I was hiding out in my room after school watching (would you believe) some shitty VHS tape with bad acting and worse hair, and I could not for the LIFE of me figure out why this chick was rubbing the other chick that way. Still, they both seemed to know something that I didn't, so I gave it a shot. Suddenly, I was seeing stars. It was such a fantastic discovery that I wound up masturbating my way through the next four years.
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"I was 18, and my college roommates thought they'd buy me a cheesy glow-in-the-dark vibrator as a joke. They never thought I would use it, but I was curious—who wouldn't be? I waited for them all to leave and shut myself in my bedroom. Needless to say, I was hooked at first jolt.' Several, and I do mean several, vibrators later, I'm a truly satisfied girl."
"I always thought I was having orgasms during sex, but it wasn't until about 19 years old that I really had one. It was the very first time my boyfriend and I tried this position where we were both seated, me in his lap. It's still my favorite position! As for all the orgasms I thought I had before—well, I figured out really quickly they weren't the real thing, because…wow!"
"Even though I started having sex at 19, I didn't have my first orgasm until I was 28. Now I know why: I was with partners who were far more concerned about their own gratification than mine. One boyfriend did absolutely nothing to pleasure me, then actually sent me to a hypnotist to work on my problem'! It finally happened when I was with a man who focused completely on me. Just a little bit of attention was all it took. After that, I became pretty addicted to sex, which my current boyfriend doesn't seem to mind at all!"
"It happened just this year and with the greatest man I know—my husband! It was such a release, and I'm so happy I married the man who gave it to me."
"It happened at 16 with my first boyfriend, and I wanted another one right away!
"I could never have an orgasm during intercourse until I learned how to reach down and help myself along. To this day, that's the only way I can climax during sex. But honestly, what's most important to me is the intimacy of having sex with my boyfriend, orgasm or not."
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Our sex-obsessed society *guiltily raises hand* is incredibly orgasm focused. For some reason, many of us see it as The End Goal and the whole point of having sex. This puts a huge amount of pressure on women to either climax (which BTW is not the optimum atmosphere for actually coming) or fake it so their partner doesn't feel bad or like they can't please them.
Here, 11 women share the age at which they first had an orgasm. It ranges from very, very young to legit adulthood, proving that when it comes to orgasms, there is no 'normal'.
1. " I was really young , idk, pre-teen. At the hospital when I was staying for a couple weeks, a girl our age told us it felt good to rub a pillow 'down there' and I did it and... it happened." [via]
2. "I was 11 and it was the result of weeks of effort of figuring out how to do it, lol." [via]
3. "8/9ish, something like that. My dad had this back massager that I discovered felt good in my pants . I eventually faked a neck injury so I could keep it. A few years ago I told my dad about that and he nodded sagely and said, 'I knew, darling. I always knew.' Thanks for not making it weird, pop." [via]
4. "I was around 13/14 and I had stumbled upon a video on Tumblr of someone touching themselves and I mimicked it and it felt amazing. But I didn't orgasm [until] I was around 15 because I didn't know there was more to it, and I was scared because I always felt this weird rush and I stopped because I didn't know what was gonna happen. But, one day I was like let's see what happens and ~wow~ it was amazing." [via]
5. " My first orgasm was with my fingers and it was really really good at around 17. I would rate it pretty high on the scale. Unfortunately however, I was only able to stimulate myself that way. I never had an orgasm through penetration and sometimes I get sad about it because I do have a boyfriend and he has never once gotten me to orgasm through penetration." [via]
6. "I was 18 or so but it was rare and not amazing. My boyfriend and I weren’t terribly sexually compatible, I prefer being very submissive sexually and he wasn’t dominant enough to make it enjoyable for me. I didn’t orgasm during sex until I was 20 with my now husband. I went from a couple of orgasms over three years to having five plus with my husband every time we have sex." [via]
7. "Was 9 with an underwater pool jet ." [via]
8. "I was in middle school, so I guess 12 or 13. I was fantasising and humping my bed cover, and boom , I had an orgasm. It was awesome." [via]
9. "I was pre-teen and it happened from humping a pillow. I didn't know orgasms existed, I was just trying to mimic what the couple on the TV was doing and figure out why the woman was screaming. I didn't have my first orgasm with a partner until four years after becoming sexually active." [via]
10. "Was 36, at least the first time I recognised I had one. I'd been married and sexually active for years by that point, but while I enjoyed sex, it wasn't about the orgasm for me. When it finally happened, it was during a periodic try at masturbation ." [via]
11. "Most people probably figured it out by themselves. I had my first orgasm at 16 from oral sex by my first boyfriend. I didn't even know where my clit was before , now I don't understand how could I be so dumb. I used to think that the clit was somewhere inside the vagina (confused it with the G-spot?) and that the little nub at the front was for peeing (because it kinda looks like a tiny dick?)." [via]


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Whether it happens intentionally or by accident, most women remember the first time they hit the orgasm jackpot.
In my own case, wriggling round in bed one night started things tingling.
Further exploration led to a truly OMG moment, after which I became a big fan of early nights – no doubt much to the confusion of my parents.
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