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A teacher who engaged in sexual acts during and between classes with a 14-year-old student has been jailed for at least two years and five months.
Monica Elizabeth Young was 23 when she first began messaging the teenager on Snapchat during Sydney's first coronavirus lockdown.
When his geography classes resumed, the boy acceded to Young's dare to hug him, District Court Judge Kate Traill said on Wednesday.
She was sending the boy nude photos within days, then organising meetings on school grounds.
Monica Elizabeth Young (right) has been jailed for engaging in sexual activities with a 14-year-old. Source: AAP
In a classroom during a lunch break, she said he "didn't have the balls" to engage in digital sexual intercourse and, after sexual contact occurred, she kissed the boy on the lips.
Sexual acts also occurred during a movie screening with other students nearby, one afternoon on a staircase and in a public carpark.
The "very serious" crimes involved taunts, encouragement and Young physically assisting the boy's hands, Judge Traill said.
The teacher must have recognised the boy's sexual immaturity and she'd "egregiously" breached the trust of the boy's parents.
"The offender was a figure of authority, she exploited his vulnerability and manipulated him," Judge Traill said.
Young outside the John Madison Tower Courts in February. Source: AAP
Young, now 24, had only been at the school for a few weeks before the country plunged into lockdown in March 2020.
Having scored an ATAR of 44 and only qualified in physical education, she said she was overwhelmed with teaching geography and science classes.
But Judge Traill agreed with the Crown that "hundreds, if not thousands" of teachers were unqualified in some subjects but didn't abuse their students.
The rookie educator only stopped after the victim's family saw her pick up the boy.
The victim's mother had earlier learned of the teacher's contact when grabbing her son's phone and seeing a Snapchat photo of Young, lying fully clothed on her bed, with the caption "I'm waiting for you".
In a written statement to the court, the boy said he thought Young was a "cool teacher" but now realised he'd been abused.
The court heard Young contacted the boy via Snapchat. Source: AAP
He couldn't return to school, had lost his only friend and now had fractured relationships with family he believes view him "as a failure".
"He says he struggles to smile about anything any more," Judge Traill said.
Young pleaded guilty to three counts of aggravated sexual intercourse with a child and admitted other sexual crimes related to sexual touching and inciting sexual contact with a minor.
In a sentence hearing in June, she spoke of her regret and apologised for breaching the boy's trust.
"I studied for four years ... to guide young people ... but the lines got blurred," the now-registered sex offender said.
Judge Traill accepted Young was immature, hadn't entered teaching to access young males and was in a poor relationship with an adult man at the time of the offending.
The judge found she was unlikely to reoffend and had special circumstances warranting a reduction in non-parole period.
Backdated 36 days to include time on remand, Young will be eligible for parole on November 1, 2023.
Her full term - four years and nine months - expires in 2026.
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My 14-year-old daughter is having sex. She lied to me and I had to confront her to get the truth. I have talked to her about this many times as I am old school and believe you wait until you are married to have sex. She knows how I feel. I do not condone her doing this, yet she went behind my back and swore to me tat she and her boyfriend were not having sex. So now that I know, what should I do? I am hurt and feel disrespected. I have no one to talk to and when I try talking to her she screams at me and tells me that she doesn't want to talk about it and to leave her alone. Please help. I am 57 years old and do not want to raise a baby.
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Thank you for reaching out. I understand your exasperation. It must be dreadful to feel helpless and to have no one to talk to. I believe that I can help you with this tricky situation.
I agree with you that 14 is way too young to be having sex for even the most mature young teens. I strongly believe that young adolescents do not have the tools to make important decisions about sex. Additionally, they are unlikely to be able to handle the consequences of such intimate behavior. In my practice, I see many teens who have gotten sexually involved before they were emotionally ready and have then struggled with a variety of difficult feelings they did not anticipate. And many of them were surprised when they realized how emotionally connecting sex is and was. I have also worked with teens who have struggled with pregnancy fears and it is clear that they are not ready to deal with these potentially life-altering issues.
You share that your daughter lied to you about her sexual involvement. This must hurt but I am sure that she was afraid of both disappointing and angering you. Teens are susceptible to peer pressure and, as you know, often make poor decisions. Their struggle to be independent is often associated with engaging in behavior that they feel is synonymous with independence. Sadly, they often make risky decisions as they try to feel grown up and more independent.
Regarding what you should do: I suggest that you take your daughter to her pediatrician and a gynecologist. If she is going to engage in sexual activity, she should be speaking to both of these doctors. They should educate her about sexuality and all that goes along with it. As your daughter's mother, you also have the right to set limits on her behavior. You can set earlier curfews and do your best to know where your daughter is at all times. I know that this is no easy task but you can simply do your best.
I certainly understand that you are not prepared to raise a baby. You must share this with your daughter in a place and at a time when she will listen to you. Perhaps you can have this conversation with a trusted adult present such as a good family friend or even a health care professional. Try to stay calm during this conversation. As I am sure you are well aware, teens shut down when parents become emotional. Staying calm under these circumstances is a lot to ask but it's necessary.
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I have another suggestion: Perhaps you might consider getting your daughter on birth control. This will be a painful decision but it might be preferable to all that comes along with a pregnancy. Think about it.
I wish you luck and peace as you consider your options.
Barbara Greenberg, Ph.D., is a clinical psychologist who specializes in the treatment of adolescents and their well-intentioned but exhausted parents.
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