14 Year Old Guys Phone Numbers

14 Year Old Guys Phone Numbers
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Pluck up your courage. When you spot the guy away from his friends (if preferred) and in a quiet spot where you can't be misheard, gather your wits about you and head in his direction.

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Be cool and confident. There is no need to pretend you're there for any other reason than to ask for his number. He'll respect your confidence and chutzpah if you make it clear you made a beeline for him just for this purpose.
Some people advise pretending to go up for some other reason, such as wanting help with a forgotten homework question or wanting to know something. That might work if you're feeling really timid but it can also backfire in that that's the only thing you'll end up asking, as your courage fails you. Moreover, it'll soon become clear to the guy that asking for his help was just a ruse, which can show you're able to lie. Not a great start.

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Ask the guy for his phone number. Avoid beating around the bush, seeming coy or making a joke about it. All you need to do is get to the point. Guys are taught to get to the point early on, without resort to wiles and in the twenty-first century, it's somewhat odd that some gals feel they still have to play the game of coyness. So you can do this too, it's not unreasonable to get to the point.

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Be casual in asking. You don't need to be blunt but you do need to be clear, and by being casual, you can achieve a smooth request.

Say something casual on the lines of "Hey, can I have your number to text you sometimes?" Simple. Then say thanks, and walk away. At this point, he'll anticipate your text, and you'll have his number.
You don't need to explain the request but if you want to, keep it simple, such as "it'd be super helpful if I could reach you by text"; or "I'd just like to be able to reach you easily to ask you to some of the dorm parties we'll be throwing soon".
If he asks you why you want his number, keep it simple. For example, say something like "I'd like to keep in contact with you, I think you're really cool" or "You give me good advice" or "You're good fun" .

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Be a chicken. If it is really, really hard for you to be open about getting his number, use studies or work or something to get the number. Ask if you can review test subjects with him and he will most likely give you his number.

Or, approach the guy casually and show him your phone. Show him your contacts and then say: I really want to beat my friend and see who has the most contacts by the end of the day so.. can I get your number? (Don't sound pushy or greedy or excited, act as if you're telling this to your parents.)
The problem with using any ruse is that this is all he'll probably expect you to text about, unless he has made it openly clear he fancies you. If you start texting constantly about anything unrelated, he's likely to be unimpressed.

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Don't be devastated if he says no to giving you his number. There are lots of possible reasons, from wondering why you're asking out of the blue to not being allowed to give his number to people. Or he might not know you that well and feels that this is awkward.

Get to know him before you ask for his phone number again. There is another chance!
Say thanks for his consideration. End politely with something like: "No worries, just thought I'd ask. I can understand if you feel it's a bit much from someone you don't really know yet. Maybe another time."

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Have a friend pass the number to you. This is fraught with the potential annoyance this guy might feel towards his friend or even a sense of betrayal but if you work with it carefully, and don't abuse having the number, it might be okay sometimes.
Don't dump the friend in it; be vague and say that "someone" offered his number to you without specifying exactly who. Or, if there is a plausible reason for seeing his number, such as on a phone tree for sports practice, or something, you have a legitimate out for saying you saw it that way. Although, little white lies aren't a good start to anything.

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Use the phone number sparingly once you have it. You don't want to end up in the situation where he so regrets that you got hold of his number that he goes and changes it just to be rid of your texting and calls! The phone number is just a small step in growing your relationship, so spend a lot of time on all the other important aspects, such as getting to know him face-to-face and hanging out together. Use the phone as a tool to make meet-ups, not an excuse to pour out your heart.

Don't text him too much. Good job if you get his number, but don't annoy him and make him regret his decision. Be mature with what you say, and have fun!
It's okay to use emojis here and there, but don't overuse them—you don't want to come off as too eager. [1]
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If you'd like to be flirty, send him a picture of where you are, or send them a song that reminds you of them. [2]
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Cher Gopman Dating Coach

Expert Interview. 17 May 2019.

If he takes a while to reply to your texts, he might be playing hard to get. [3]
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Expert Interview. 17 May 2019.

What if he doesn't have a phone number?

If he doesn't have a phone number, maybe he has an email address or a social media handle. If not, you could give him your number in case he can borrow a phone from someone.

So this guy asked my number first but I said no. Now it seems like I want to exchange numbers. We don't know each other that well and he's older to me. How do I get to know his intention?

You could try telling him that you're not interested in dating but could be friends and see how he reacts. Or, if you do want to date him, ask him to exchange numbers so you can talk more.

Okay, so I've known this guy for a week, and we haven't really talked, he doesn't use snapchat, so should I just ask for his number?

You can definitely ask for his number! Try saying something like, "I wanted to send you a video. Let me have your number so I can text it to you."

Would it be a good idea to like ask: do you have a phone? Then if he says yes should you like ask: could I have your number?

Absolutely! This is a great way to break the ice and ask for his number. He may even offer to give it to you before you ask.

what if you don't even know if he has a phone number, or social media but has an email address which he never responds to?

You could say something like, "Hey, did you get that email I sent you?" If he says he doesn't really use it, ask him if he has a phone. From there, you can exchange phone numbers.

I want to get my crushe's phone number but I know he won’t give it to me because my other friend said that he should text me and my crush said no I won't give out my phone number. What do I do?

You may just have to respect his boundaries in this case. If he doesn't want to give it out, pressuring him to do so might make him feel uncomfortable.

What if he finds it weird and what if your best friend likes him too and you don't wanna hurt her?

Think carefully about whether or not you really want to start talking to him more, especially if it could hurt a friendship. Or, talk to your friend about it directly and share your feelings. You may be surprised by how she responds!

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↑ Cher Gopman. Dating Coach. Expert Interview. 17 May 2019.

↑ Cher Gopman. Dating Coach. Expert Interview. 17 May 2019.

↑ Cher Gopman. Dating Coach. Expert Interview. 17 May 2019.

This article was co-authored by Cher Gopman . Cher Gopman is the Founder of NYC Wingwoman LLC, a date coaching service based in New York City. 'NYC Wingwoman' offers matchmaking, wingwoman services, 1-on-1 Coaching, and intensive weekend bootcamps. Cher is a Certified Life Coach, a former psychiatric nurse, and her work has been featured on Inside Edition, Fox, ABC, VH1, and The New York Post. This article has been viewed 482,028 times.

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When you have a special guy in your sights, one of the best ways to reach out is through a text or a phone call if you don't have an opportunity to talk in person. Of course, this requires getting their phone number, and although it may seem nerve-wracking, it doesn't have to be!

To get a guy’s phone number, find a moment when he’s separated from his friends, preferably in a quiet environment, and approach him confidently. Tell him that you're interested in talking more or hanging out, and he’ll respect your courageousness! You can say something simple like, “Hey, can I have your number to text you sometime?” If you’re really nervous, you can always make up an excuse for having his number, such as wanting help with homework. To know when and how often to text him, read on!

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