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Family , motherhood , your job and us meeting .. it is abt us willing to be together for a very long time which might lead to having great grand kids :relaxed::relaxed:🙃.. it’s us first then family can b informed likewise .

Yes, first us. Meeting and spending a few days is crucial to this. Lots to talk about. Yes, long term for me too.

The reason i bought the topic of age and motherhood is because u Hav it in your mind that Aftr a certain age pregnancy is not easy and chances r birth defects with baby .. thus told u that probably if that is the case u shud b considering looking for a younger life partner to avoid so many complications..

I know it is all about chances of such things happening, but still on my mind as it cannot be wished away. The path of one's life will be altered forever.

even the other facts pertaining to ure family preference from u ie religion same community etc .. I knew this from the very first day that the path will not be easy and I told u not to continue .. but u took a chance and we Hav come this far ..

50% chance, it will be a jini-like situation. Again not thinking about all this now.

listen I still feel that u r not being direct and Hav so many thngs playing in ure head with regard to Wht I Hav written above ..for me i took the decision too to go along and over a period of time I Jst wanted to meet u once for us to see us in person .

All things you have written not relevant at this stage.

There r many factors between us and in this last 1 yr we both Hav seen extreme sides of each other .. but we both keep it going maybe still Dnt want to give up on each other , def not me . But u can decide . I want this to continue but alone I can’t do mch .wud need someone who wants to b with me knowing all the odds and challenges ahead , support , guide , and above all understand me and want me . :kissing_heart:

Yes, odds and challenges ahead will be lots. Want to meet you. Yes, 'desire' you. :kissing_heart: