Letter

Dear Pravas Uncle,

When you asked your daughter about her opinion about marriage. She told you very clearly, “she wants to marry me & she will be happy with me.”

Was her answer not enough for you to allow her to talk with me properly? I have been waiting since last 7 months to talk with her properly. She is continuously telling me, let’s wait few more days; Papa will give my phone Automatically.

I respected her feeling and I did wait.. She dragged continuous 7 months by telling me the same answer. (I will not ask for the phone. It won’t be right. Papa will give my phone back to me automatically)

For everyone’s information, her phone was snatched from her since October 20th 2019. Her WhatsApp was deleted. And it’s been 10 months, she is not having her phone. She communicates me

1) Today my question is “Why” ? Why she doesn’t have freedom to talk with me?

2) Why her parents are still trying to manipulate her. Why each & everyday, she is getting pressurised to change her decision?

3) Why other marriage proposals are still coming in to the picture? Why are you forcefully trying to marry her at other place? And for this reason, she is kinda ignoring me from last 2 months.

How come it can happen, just like that...?Everything will happen only with your terms & conditions?

My love with Sonita is almost 3 Years. Hence, it’s not that easy for me that, I will give up on her & allow you marry her at other place. It will never happen..!

Every father has rights to find a suitable candidate for their daughter. But that right get lost, when a daughter choose someone independently. Hence, in this scenario, you also shouldn’t think about your candidate preference.

When Sonita came into relationship with me, she was not a kid. She was matured enough to take her decision. Whatever she has done with me, only according to her wish. And I have never done anything without her consent!

My soul is connected with her... my feelings are so deep about her & I can’t even imagine, my life without her. My emotions & 3 years of time & efforts are invested for her.

Therefore, I want this marriage at any given cost. There is no second choice for you that, you can go ahead with some other proposal... No uncle. Please forget those, if you have such plans.

From last few days, I can feel that, I’m getting treated like an “Option” by Sonia. And it’s very clear that, she is obeying her parents command.

Uncle, I’m not a Toy for your daughter... she will talk to me as per her mood or as per your decision.

I waited almost 1.5 years to talk with her like earlier... and I want my freedom as soon as possible.

If still you are analysing about this marriage, then I’m helpless... i have decided, I will wind up this chapter very quickly.

You can tell me now, whether you genuinely agree for this marriage or you are expecting, I need to beg before you for your daughter?

Kindly take your decisions very wisely... As much I’m getting now, that will be returned to you by multiplying into 3. Ireespective of Love or Hate... A must return will be there for sure.

My patience has been tested more than I deserve & now my actions will be against you, more than you can bear...

Maybe my words sounds quite bitter today. But it’s the result of making me wait for 7 months, not allowing Sonia to talk with me.

Now, I’m not looking for any discussion by involving my guardians. Only I want your answer, whether you are willing to do this marriage or not.

If the answer is “Yes, I want to talk with Sonia officially. Please do provide her phone & allow her to talk with me.

If the answer is “No”, then kindly unblock my number from your phone for 5 minutes. I will give you a call & will let you know, what decision I have already taken, if you deviate from your daughter’s commitment towards me. My purpose is crystal clear & I’m bold with my decision.