Humiliation.
Why does so much on here has to be about humiliating your boy? I’m a gentle domme. Like many other gentle dommes I don’t humiliate my boy or someone else’s boy. I don’t need to be or act like a freaking bitch to have my boy’s submission.
Let’s coat and modify the above points with a large dose of positive reinforcement shall we. And for those wondering; yes, that’s exactly how it works for my babyboy. Also, I left some points out. Ex, fucking an inflatable doll?! Seriously, I laughed out loud!
1. Name calling (stupid, worthless, etc.) => Compliment him as often as possible. Call him beautiful, handsome, dashing, hell the list of possibilities is endless. Before you know it you’ll have a boy who’ll not only radiate at your side but who will also start blushing adorably under your words
2. Praise your boy when he’s doing something good. Tell your boy how proud you are of him.
3. Belittling him or his “equipment” (tiny dick, little willy, etc.) => Name his “equipment”. Choose a name or endearment that fits either your boy’s personality or the physical aspect of his manhood. Regardless if your boy’s locked up or not. Use the name when you’re referring to his cock.
4. Forced cross-dressing / Wearing women’s clothing (maids outfit?) anywhere => On the condition you have a similar size, have him wear one of your t-shirts/sweaters/panties/stockings. Don’t be surprised if said t-shirt/sweater now becomes ‘his’ after a while. If you’re not the same size, when you’re out shopping for you, buy him the same t-shirts/sweater in his size. If you’re into feminizing your boy turn him into a high end call girl, not some 5$ cheap whore.
5. Shopping for lingerie (for you or for him) => YES! Take your time while shopping. Enjoy it! Let your boy point out what he likes as well. (Doesn’t mean you have to take whatever he likes now does it?)
6. Have him wearing a butt-plug in public => YES! Tease your boy about how ready he’ll be for you when you go home afterwards.
7. Wearing women’s panties or pantyhose under street clothes => YES! Lord knows my boy looks so freaking gorgeous in them! I have no doubt your boy looks just as stunning.
8. Masturbating for you or a group => Group or not show your boy off, be proud of how he looks and sounds. You’re the reason he’s a gorgeous ,wanton mess after all.
9. Eating his own (or other men’s) cum => YES! All good boys clean up their messes.
10. Shave his genitals yourself, then make him keep them clean shaven => YES! Of course I shave my boy’s genitals. It not only lets him know who owns him, it creates a deep bond with your boy.
11. Telling others about your lifestyle => Our closest friends know about our lifestyle. Speak proudly about your submissive boy when you do, having his submission is gift.
12. Prostate or other type of milking => Yes! Your boy’s body belongs to you entirely.
13. Being naked around the house => Hell yes! There’s no such thing as not appreciating your naked boy.
14. Anal penetration (dildo, strap-on, etc.) => Yes! You’d be surprised how your boy blooms whenever you’re inside him, how he needs to be taken apart by your girlcock.
15. Being naked outdoors => Yes! Why do you think I take my boy to nude saunas or naturist beaches? I notice the occasional head turn when we walk on by. Placing my hand on his ass as we pass to let them know he’s mine in that instant? Try it, watch your boy’s reaction. You can thank me later.
16. Being photographed (or video recorded) => There’s no such thing as taking too many pictures of videos or your boy, ever.
17. Suck a realistic dildo / Forced bi-sexuality (make him suck another’s cock) => Like so many other women, watching or picturing your boy with another man is a huge turn on. Tell him how gorgeous he would look/looks with another man, no matter who tops or bottoms. Tell him how wet it would make/makes you.
18. Drinking your urine => In case it’s one of your kinks, turn it into a gift from you to him because that’s exactly what it is.
19. Doing just about anything sexual to himself while you (or others) watch => Yes! Your boy is there for your pleasure. In case you have other people present, show your boy off. Be proud of him, after all, he belongs to you. Not them.
Whatever you end up doing with your boy, with a positive attitude you can achieve so much more, often surprising your boy for coming to want/need/crave that what you planted in his brain.
Humiliation is used to make the slave understand his place and lose any vestige of male ego. The basic exercise of walking rather than crawling, of standing rather than kneeling, of speaking rather than remaining silent can be forbidden by the lady on a whim. To be kept naked, cock locked with strict protocol for any interaction is an essential part of exercising Her power and demonstrating his total submission. He needs to accept his humble place as her cuck slave when introduced to her girlfriends, showing no embarrassment of complete slavery. The last thought of equality needs be removed.