Facesitting
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Nov 4, 2019
Aug 26, 2019
Facesitting
For the kinky female led relationship, there is one activity that should not be overlooked, because it can play an important role in strengthening the D/s aspect for both the dominant and the submissive. Many women may be hesitant to sit on a submissives face, and prefer he gets on his knees to perform oral, however, there could be massive benefits that are missed because of that hesitancy.
Facesitting has a similar impact on both partners, as pegging does. Pegging humbles a submissive, and empowers a dominant, because it’s a complete role reversal. He’s the vulnerable one, he’s being penetrated, and he’s experiencing what it means to not be in control as she thrusts into him at her own pace. He’s helpless to stop her, and the first few times this is done, the power exchange felt is very intense.
Knowing that she can take him with her cock at any time, just because she feels like it, brings out extra submission in him. Especially when she penetrates him when he’s not in the mood, her dominance over him becomes very real. As she discovers her power through this, she comes to enjoy the strap on, and can have orgasms of her own, just by using it on him. Pegging can be used as a disciplinary device as well, and is often more effective than painful punishments.
Ordering him to get her cock, and help her put it on, then taking him with it can be very effective especially if he’s kept in chastity. Pegging can often be the only way he’s allowed sexual pleasure. It’s a complete shift in what he’s used to as a male, and that’s why it’s so powerful in the D/s dynamic.
Facesitting can have the same effect, except, it doesn’t require role reversal, and instead, celebrates each other for who they are. It doesn’t create an inferior or superiority complex, but it really does compliment the dominant and submissive roles perfectly. While seeing a submissive on his knees is a pretty sight, facesitting takes it to a whole new level because of the psychological aspect.
The idea of being under her, looking up at her beauty as she lowers herself onto his face, promotes some of the strongest submissive feelings a submissive can have. It’s also the perfect place for her to be, as she can control exactly where she wants him to pleasure her, be it the front or back door. The ability to grind on his face is also a bonus.
She will feel like she owns him, and the view she can have, facing his body, can be of great amusement, as she gets to play with his body, perhaps out of discipline, or pleasure, while he is busy pleasuring her. It’s particularly powerful if his arms are tied down and he’s truly out of control. She can remain on his face for as long as she wishes, until she’s completely satisfied.
Her scent will intoxicate him, and it will make him addicted to her more so than he was before. The feeling of powerlessness being under her will have him deep in subspace, more obedient than ever. Even more so than pegging. Pegging, chastity, and facesitting all compliment each other beautifully, and help to completely own him. It’s not just about owning his sex life. It’s also about owning exactly how he can give her pleasure. Facesitting becomes a luxury for him.
She can have all sorts of fun with facesitting as well. Facesitting makes him eager to provide oral pleasure, but she can facesit him and take even that pleasure away with a face dildo. She can have good penetrative sex with him, using his face, and his only reward is her scent and fluids on his face. He’s quite literally an instrument of her pleasure, in total submission. Completely in his place.
This opens her up to being able to use him in any way she pleases. Her pleasure becomes his reward. She becomes sacred to him. His face is her throne. There is no greater purpose for him, than when she is on his face. She is his universe. Completely owned, and totally devoted.
azzzkisser7157
All of this!
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Nov 4, 2019
Incredibly intense. Oh Goddess, to have You use me this way would be so powerful
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servinglambteazdndeniedFollow
Oct 28, 2019
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Mar 26, 2018
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Apr 10, 2018
“Please … Please stop doing that.”
“Awe - but the big alpha male lawyer is reacting so well to his new triggers.”
I tried to unlock the door again, but she just started blowing a bubble, and I was pressed back into the seat. I couldn’t see it, but I felt it. Soft and sticky, and sweet, and every time it touched me it felt more pleasurable than the last.
Then just when I thought I was going to ‘Pop’ she brought it into her mouth, and I felt her mouth around me. My hips arched and I thrashed about.
“It’s cute how you thought my liking pink made you better than me. You were so manly and assertive about it. You called me ‘unprofessional’.”
And then she started blowing another one. Larger and larger, I was pressed back I felt like I might be crushed to paste.
And I just wanted to cum before that happened.
In it went again.
She giggled “You know what’s unprofessional? Being in a car with an intern, leaking all your power out the front of a $5,000 suit. That’s just downright … humiliating … isn’t it?”
She didn’t blow a bubble. She just arched an eyebrow.
I whimpered out a ‘Yes’.
“You know what’s really humiliating? You expecting Alexandra to get you coffee in the morning. She’s a lawyer man.”
She blew another bubble … God, it felt like I was just about there. Maybe if I came it would break this spell she had me under.
She inhaled it, and started chewing.
“Or chewing out Denise in public for not correcting a citation you made in your brief. That’s not her job, she’s just usually good at that. It was your fuckup.”
Oh God, her fingers were in my lap.
And she was blowing another bubble! With her fingers and the pressure, god, surely I could come, please …
No, please not again …
“You just made partner, and you sent Robin out to get you a sandwich on her break? That’s not well, I guess the deli was kosher, but that wasn’t.”
She was moving on top of me. Little thrusts of her hips in my lap. I tried to hold her hips, or my hips, still, but she was in complete control.
“Of course, all that was genius compared to dressing down a woman that got her PhD in Psychology at 17, just for wearing pink. That might have repercussions. But I talked to the other girls about it, and we decided this could be handled in house. No need for HR to be involved at all.”
She was blowing another bubble, and it was bigger and bigger, and her hips were shimmying and …
It popped. On my face. I felt like a was having a seizure. She was sitting and smirking at me the whole time. The suit was soaked. My best suit, my suit I bought when I made junior partner.
She opened my door, oh thank god it’s over, I’ll be good I swear I won’t …
She spat out the remaining gum and stuck it to my forehead.
“Keep your eyes on my ass and follow me.”
I did, helplessly. Gum on my face. I couldn’t even say where we went, but my credit card paid for the suite.
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Epilogue: I went back to work Monday, and despite my fears, everything was the same.
Almost.
All the candy dishes had a healthy supply of Big Pink Super Bubble gum™. Biggest Bubbles.
But no humiliation. A few giggles from the intern and other female staff.
And I got a visit from one of the Senior partners. A frankly uncomfortably sexy older woman that shall remain nameless. Former model.
I was halfway through my six month review before I suddenly realized … Every senior partner I had seen could be described that way. Most of the full partners.
The review went … well actually. According to her, the staff like me.
“And that’s it for your review. You’re not the best lawyer I’ve seen, but you might be the best contract attorney I’ve seen at your age, and I think you’ll make partner. So, see you again in six month. Mind if I steal candy?”
“Of course not. I mean, it’s your candy.”
“Thanks, I love these. I’m glad Jenny convinced me to include them.”
It was the bubblegum of course.
Wait - “Uh, Jenny?”
“The blonde intern. That’s my granddaughter. Don’t tell anyone, she’s studying gender dynamics. She thinks we’re a fascinating case study.”
I must have gone pale. I couldn’t tell her it was less from fear than from feeling a blowjob from my bosses bosses boss from five feet away.
She popped her first bubble. I suppressed a moan. Successfully. I think.
She got up to leave but stopped at the door. She stared at me for a moment. Chewing.
“Oh, one last thing. For fun we’re instituting Pink Fridays. If you don’t wear something pink, the staff gets to provide something for you.”
She arched an eyebrow. “I’ve already seen what Jenny has picked for you; If you don’t want to find out I’d find a pink tie by Friday. If she hasn’t already bought every one in the tri-state area.”
Then she casually took the gum out of her mouth and stuck it on the door frame, winked at me, and sauntered out.
It felt like she had stuck a camera there.
Watching me.
I started searching for pink ties.
Everyone was out.
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Oct 17, 2019
Reposted by popular demand! Okay, by one person, who didn’t actually request it, and managed to find it by themselves without any help from me.
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Nov 10, 2018
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Jun 30, 2018
Sly Groping
After our connecting flight dropped us off in country, we still had a near 3 hour car ride to get to where we were staying on this rainy and foggy night. It was 11pm and after a full day of travel and being in a dark car filled with a mix of some local love songs and soft 80s hits I was not surprised to look over and see my boy trying to sleep… sitting straight up. The roads were bumpy and every time his head was jostled off the rest or into it he’d rouse and slowly drift again.
The next time it happened I told him to put his seat back and he claimed he was fine. He watched curiously as I put up the seat divider with the cup holders and pulled my travel pillow out and then patted my thigh. This invitation he tried to take, but those long legs wouldn’t permit him to get comfortable. I was sad because running my hands through his hair while watching the street lights go by and catching glimpses of our new destination would have been, for me, travel perfection. I wanted the contact with him, though, so I laid down on his thigh instead.
I arranged the pillow and settled in on him, his hand resting on my arm, my back, my side in occasional shifts. I nestled in a little closer and smelled him. I caught a trace of the scent of musk and arousal. Likely from his near explosion while I toyed with him on the plane, rather than now… but I eyed the driver who couldn’t see me now in his mirror and he was busy humming along with the music and navigating the roads. My hand moved up his knee… along his thigh… under the pillow and cupped him.
As I thought, he wasn’t hard. Not… yet… at least. It was perfect. Dark, quiet, and covered. My hand and fingernails played with him. I rubbed him through his khakis and his left leg fell out a bit more, giving me more room to toy and tease. I caressed, and molded my hand to his balls. I squeezed his burgeoning erection and traced it with my fingernails. I tested different sensations and touches and to my amazement found that over the hardy fabric for protection it was my fingernails dragging over his shaft that was driving him wild. Firming him underneath me and growing that thick cock to it’s proper size… while constricted by the seatbelt and his clothes. Oh how deliciously frustrating…
I moved my hand fast and slow. I jerked him and rubbed him. I caressed and played and made him leak precum just inches from me. I could smell him. I could smell his arousal and feel his need and it took everything in me to lay mostly still and quiet. To not moan and let my legs get restless with my answering need.
I never looked at him. Only ahead of me at the driver or out the window. My world, though, was reduced to the tiny distance between me and what I wanted. For the last 45 minutes of the drive I kept him hard and twitching and leaking for me. We weren’t alone. We weren’t alone and I was furtively groping his cock and silently encouraging him to cum in his pants a couple of feet away from our driver. I wasn’t going to stop. I was going to push and play and tease and rub until he emptied out right there…
But the driver pulled up to a security cabin and the lights came on. My hand safely and immediately slid down to rest on his thigh… and the pillow stayed over his lap. In a minute we pulled up to our hotel and as I hopped out grabbing our water bottles I shot him a cheeky unrepentant grin while I went and started handling the luggage and talking to the driver to give him a moment to adjust.
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servinglambchastityhumiliationFollow
Oct 27, 2018
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Sep 22, 2018
Progress!!!
My girlfriend and I have been experimenting with chastity for about a year now. Mostly it came from me and she wasn’t into it. Every time we had sex I asked her to tell me something dirty about chastity and about her having sex with another man. I would be locked up for a couple of days or even hours. She never showed me any interest in this. Until I told her about loctober. I went into the cage as practice for loctober. I also send her a chastity caption every day.
What happened next was unimaginable!!! She started to deny me! And she started to tease me! It was hotter than she ever did! The first time she told me to stop after she came but she finished me anyway. The second time was yesterday morning. I had to make her cum. She then stood up and went straight to the shower. When she came out of the shower she showed no mercy and asked for both keys. She would keep them today and maybe she would give me a relief later that day.
Later that day she send me a pic of her in her favourite clothing store together with her best friend. She had bought clothing for quite a lot of money but they way she looked at me during diner made me crazy. Mind you her best friend including her husband were dining with us that evening. every time I made a funny comment or a teasing comment she just gave me that look. Fuck it was hot.
When they had left, I had to order everything to make loctober happen. So I ordered a new buttplug and a new strap on which made me horny as hell. When we went to bed I had to make her cum again. After she finished, she wanted to sleep. I asked her to unlock me and reminded her of her promise that morning. She agreed but told me she was tired and I had to do it myself. This was first for me. She had never seen me masturbate from the start till finish but I was so damn horny that I just didn’t care and started doing my thing. She did suck my nipple a bit and told me it looked hot!! I came so much and it was so hot even though she didn’t do anything. After I finished I told her that some women also stop their husband just moments before cumming. (Just to give her some inspiration) I think she will be doing that in the next time. This morning she made me order a penis sleeve so I can still fuck her during loctober.
Even though we are no where near the captions on internet and we are no pro’s, we’re discovering everything in our own pace. And I wouldn’t have believed you if you said this was possible a year ago.
Damn, I love her.
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Dec 1, 2019
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Apr 19, 2019
Overcoming the turmoil
I used to be ignorant. Knew nothing about non vanilla world. And for all that knowledge, I have to thank my boyfriend. I guess I’ll owe him for a long time to come.
Of course there’ll be a turmoil in your thoughts, at the beginning. Confusion and even disbelief, perhaps. But, there is absolutely nothing wrong in trying things, at least once.
The entire greatness, that comes from one’s submission to the other, is a matter of choice, whether you feel like a dominant person or not. Choice and acceptance.
I am obliged to freely say that our Female Led Relationship, is the one best thing, that ever happened to me/us. But it takes time to figure it all out, and to truly begin to enjoy such a setup.
Most men are capable of loving and cherishing a woman. But, how many men are capable of true worship and utter respect? How many man, in this male led global society, are willing to provide real sacrifice, all powered by love with a huge L? How many men are truly capable of such devotion? Very few, I figure..
So what is it that these submissive men want and ask for? The only thing they ask for, is to be treated fairly unfair, if you know what I mean :)
And I am very grateful I had someone to talk to, learn more and relax more about the whole thing. Which is why I do the same, talk to people and explain things from my own point of view, from my own experience…so, do not hesitate 😉
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Dec 2, 2019
deviantminxy
One of my favourite things to think about
Edging a boy a bunch then locking him in chastity. Putting a harness on him and riding that dong while using a vibrator on my clit, my tits bouncing and me cumming a bunch. Laughing at his strained, frustrated cock. Getting off of him and resting my pussy on his face, making him lick up all my juices while I lick my juices off of the dong. After that putting the harness on, spitting my juices into his mouth and then throat fucking him with the dong.. Making sure that the dong and his chin/mouth are covered in spit. Then slapping the dong across his face, making him beg for it.. after he begs enough, sliding it in slowly into his tight hole while telling him that he’s such a good slut. Which leads into a nice hard fucking, choking him here and there.. hearing him whimper and moan..watching his caged cock bounce around and leaking but not letting him orgasm. Once he gets close, I’d stop thrusting into him and hold him close, telling him to thank me.. then nibbling his ear and whispering “you’re such a good boy, you’re staying locked and not getting an orgasm though. I like you this way, my caged, frustrated, little slut.” And then kiss his forehead and smile.
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Jul 1, 2018
Jesus i fainted
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Damn
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Dec 2, 2019
simmer-until
Constant Denial is Everlasting Love
Edging, teasing and orgasm denial is wonderful and beautiful because of the connection, empathy and control you must have. You must to know exactly how close your partner is to orgasm. Ruined, abandoned orgasms continually extend their arousal.
In orgasm denial, you get everything except that peak that finally satisfies, ends the bliss, and makes one unresponsive. Being teased and toyed with endlessly is a gift. Commands like “later”, “tomorrow”, “no”, “wait”, “no cumming” are like a song replayed over and over in your mind. Your “no touching” rule makes you smile as you bask in this heat - proud at being a good pet. You melt at their touch, and immediately start purring.
You writhe and tingle in the early morning hours in the quiet dark. Warmth spreads across your back, and your hips can’t stop wriggling.
You are so much fun to play with this way. Why would you break the magic spell? Don’t you want to swoon in their arms, and show how much you love being theirs? Be good. Stay good.
This control is constant attention. This denial is everlasting love. Be grateful for what you’ve been given.
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Written all the way back in 2015 on December 27th. I had 100 orgasms that year.
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servinglambgentlefemdomwoman-deactivated20
Dec 2, 2019
gentlefemdomwoman-deactivated20
I really enjoy giving blowjobs to a guy when he is restrained, pausing randomly…or, right when it’s getting really good for him. And then, continuing when he’s calmed down some. And then pausing again, and then starting again…on and on like that for as long as I please. I like getting men to the point where they’re pleading with or begging me. ESPECIALLY when it’s a guy who has previously said that no one has ever made them beg before, that they weren’t the type, or that they doubted that I could get them to do it. They always do, in the end. And that is always both immensely gratifying and arousing to me. My pussy is always so wet and ripe after that.
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servinglambgentlefemdomwoman-deactivated20
Dec 2, 2019
gentlefemdomwoman-deactivated20
It’s been a month. You’ve been securely locked in your cage for a month. No sex.
It’s just been me teasing you, often, because I like watching you struggle, and because I know you love it, deep down, too. And also, we’ve had the occasional session here and there where I’ve taken you out of your cage to give it a nice bath, to inspect your cock, to make you tell me how much you’d love to be inside my pussy, but then telling you “not today, lovely” before leaning down to give your cock a gentle kiss and putting it back in it’s cage, where it belongs.
Now, after all these weeks, I’m feeling generous. I uncage you, bathe your cock, and tell you I’m going to allow you the privilege or putting your cock inside me. I’m even going to allow you to cum — and inside me, at that!
But, it’s not entirely what you think. You’ll be allowed inside me. But only in my ass.
You’ve been a good boy, but I still don’t quite feel like you deserve my pussy just yet. I need you to impress me just a bit more first with your self-restraint, with your patience.
Show me just how much you need my pussy…by going without it. Can you do that for me?
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servinglambgentlefemdomwoman-deactivated20
Dec 2, 2019
gentlefemdomwoman-deactivated20
Is it wrong that I’m fantasizing about tying a guy up while he’s lying face down on my bed, duct-taping his ass cheeks so that they’re held all nice and spread open, eating him out, and then fucking his sweet, welcoming little asshole until I collapse on top of him, whispering in his ear about how he’s such a good slut for me and how much I enjoy his beautiful ass?
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servinglambgentlefemdomwoman-deactivated20
Dec 2, 2019
gentlefemdomwoman-deactivated20
I would love to command you to strip naked for me, with only your cage and a butt plug to wear. I’d dress you with a strap-on, tie you to a chair, straddle your hips so I can look you directly in the face while I hump and grind myself on your crotch - purposely moaning exaggeratedly as I do so in order to get the most lovely flustered reactions from you. Then, I’d slip the strap-on cock inside of me and I’d moan and laugh softly as I’d begin to ride it, my pussy and ass grazing against your caged cock with every movement of my hips. You’d start to whimper and moan and tell me you can’t take it anymore, and I would pause…only to stuff my previously discarded panties into your mouth to get you to stop talking. “I’ll fuck my toy for as long as I want.” And then I’d ride myself to orgasm. Maybe I’d even lick and clean my juices off the dildo once I’ve hopped off of it, looking you directly in the eye while I do it, teasingly, and then lick around your nipples and your lips with my tongue afterwards. And perhaps I’d just leave you tied up just like that for a while after. Take a shower, make some food and eat in front of you…wait for you to beg me to be released. Doesn’t that sound like fun, my sweet, blushing little fuck toy?
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Dec 2, 2019
Omg, will you marry me!
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servinglambitsminxm8-deactivated20200315
Dec 3, 2019
deviantminxy
Go ahead baby
Get on your back and let me use your body. Just relax and let me touch you in ways that will make you shake. Let me take care of you. Gently grazing my fingers on your perfect cock, making you want more. Making you beg for me to grab it. I’ll stroke it for a bit and then use my tongue to glide on the ridge as I wrap my lips around it, sucking it while looking up at you. Grabbing some lube and rubbing it around your little hole, sliding my finger slowly in as you quiver and whimper. Massaging your prostate as my mouth continues to be wrapped around your cock. Begging me to let you cum. Your orgasms are under my control, you’re my little slut. Bringing you to the edge.. the question is will I let you cum or will I make you a desperate little mess?
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