Applying Feng Shui Principles to Your Bed Feng Shui involves many principles for the auspicious (or favorable) positioning of your bed. To take advantage of as many of them as you can, use common sense, along with the conditions of your individual room, to make the best choices possible. For example, Commanding Position concept shows you how to achieve the most powerful bed position according to one Feng Shui school of thought. If you see that your bedroom doesn’t meet these criteria — don’t panic! There are cures you can implement to dramatically enhance your bedroom situation. The first Commanding Position principle states that the position of the bed relative to the bedroom door rates more importantly than the compass direction the bed faces. That is, you don’t analyze whether your bed faces east, west, north, or south. You can rest easy and position the bed according to the way it best relates to the other main feature of the room — the door. The second Commanding Position principle holds that the bed should sit as far from the bedroom door as possible.
If the door is on the left, the best position is the far right corner of the room; if the door is on the right, the best bed location is the far left of the room; and if the door is the center, the best location is either the far right or far left corner of the room. The farther your bed sits from the door, the more control you can feel over your space and your life. You aren’t startled easily, and you have plenty of time to prepare for events as they unfold. The third Commanding Position principle asserts that the bed position should allow the sleeper the widest possible scope of the room. A diminished range of sight within the room can restrict the sleeper’s chi and his or her life vision. The larger the space in front of your bed, the more your life expands, breathes, and improves. For this reason, Feng Shui cautions against placing the foot of the bed against a wall, which can block your career and cause foot and ankle problems. In addition, placing your bed directly against a side wall (with no space between the side of your bed and the wall) can make you feel cramped, stifled, and less flexible in life.
The fourth Commanding Position principle states that you should clearly see the bedroom door from the bed. This concept means that when lying on your back in bed — that is, in the center of the bed (if you sleep alone) or on your side of the bed (if sleeping with a partner) — you can open your eyes and immediately see the door of the room without repositioning your body. If you have to perform gymnastics or create new yoga positions to see who or what’s coming in the door, your bed position does not meet this principle. Not seeing who’s approaching can keep you uncertain and on edge. Even if you think that you’re accustomed to not seeing the door, you still likely experience ongoing subconscious stress, which can create imbalance and frustration. The possibility of always being startled can keep you on edge, and over time, the continual tension and unrest can cause an imbalance in the nervous system. Results can include nervous problems, arrhythmia, and heart palpitations.
In addition, repeatedly twisting the body to see whether someone’s coming can cause neck and spinal problems in the long run. If your bed position doesn’t allow you to see the door and you can’t move the bed, you can place a sizable mirror opposite the bed that allows you to easily see the door. If you need to angle the mirror to show the door, use a standing mirror angled to the appropriate position. The fifth Commanding Position principle holds that the bed should not sit in the direct line of the path of the doorway. If your bed does sit in the direct line of the door, the chi of the door runs directly and too powerfully up the middle of the bed. This factor can create diseases along the midline of the body. The farther you sleep from the door and the more of the room you see while in bed, the more you can feel in control of your environment and, therefore, your life. Seeing the door to your bedroom symbolizes that you know what life is bringing and feel prepared to deal with whatever comes.
You’re in command, and the results manifest positively in many areas of your life. When following the Commanding Position principle, you can choose from three alternatives for good bed placement. Choices 1-b and 1-c are both excellent; just be sure, if possible, to leave enough room on the side closest to the wall for your partner (or yourself) to get into bed. Position 1-a (the bed angled in the corner) is the strongest choice of all; it gains support from two walls rather than one wall. If you choose this position, then your bed should feature a solid headboard. Make sure the corners of the bed firmly touch the walls. You can strengthen this bed position by placing a plant and a light behind the headboard. (A real or an artificial plant works for this cure, and the light should be in good working order but doesn’t need to be on at all. Bedrooms are very important in feng shui for obvious reasons. Your bed and your bedroom have to have good feng shui to support your personal energy.
Your bed also has to maintain the feng shui energy of love and healing. That's a lot of feng shui responsibility for just one piece of furniture, isn't it? The feng shui bed guidelines are quite easy to follow and implement. The feng shui bed placement, however, is where you may encounter many challenges, all depending on your bedroom options. The first step in creating good feng shui energy in your bedroom is to do your best in meeting the feng shui bed guidelines. In a nutshell, this means you have a bed with a solid headboard, good mattress and good frame height (and no storage underneath!) Now, let's find the best feng shui placement in your bedroom for that perfect bed. Examine your bedroom and see if you can place the bed in the ideal feng shui spot for your bed - the so-called feng shui commanding position. The feng shui commanding position is the area further from the door/diagonally from the door, but not in line with it. In other words, you want to be able to see the door while you are in bed, but not be aligned with the door.
There are several other feng shui points to follow in order to find the best placement for your bed, let's look at them one by one. A strong supporting wall behind your bed is very important for a good feng shui bed placement. This creates strong, protective energy around your bed, gives it more power and ability to create (and hold) good energy. Do your best to position your bed in such a way that there is a solid wall behind it. For added strength, you can also choose to paint the wall in an accent color appropriate for your bedroom decor. Having grounding and balanced energy on both sides of the bed is very important for a good feng shui bed placement. This means you have to have two nightstands (not one); but it doesn't mean that they have to match! Be as creative as you feel like and let your imagination soar, but be sure that your bed has access from both sides and is treated well with two similar pieces of furniture on both sides of the bed. Be sure there are no sharp angles pointing at you while you sleep.
This energy is called Sha Chi/attacking energy in feng shui and can come from various wall angles or sharp corners of the nearby furniture. Examine your bedroom space carefully to avoid any attacking energy directed at you while you sleep. Avoid a bed in line with the bedroom door, as well as any other doors - be they balcony doors, bathroom door, walk-in closet or patio doors. If your bed is in line with any door, be sure to tastefully position an appropriate piece of furniture between the bed and the door. It is always smart to position your bed away from the walls that have electric appliances on either side (computer, fridge, or TV). And, of course, it is best feng shui to limit (or completely eliminate!) the electrical appliances in your bedroom. I know you might get really upset while reading this. No TV in the bedroom? No iPad, no cell phones? Yes, this is exactly what I mean. It is possible (and very healthy) to limit your exposure to electrical appliances in the bedroom.
For example, if you... If possible, place the bed according to your best, or lucky feng shui directions. Notice I did not start with the feng shui lucky directions first. Do not place your bed in a corner or in a strange angle just so that you can sleep facing your best feng shui directions. And do not sleep in the living room just so that you can face your best directions! This might sound funny, but believe me I know some people do that. When finding the best placement for your bed, you should always listen to the room, so to speak, and experiment with the best bed placement. If you can have both best feng shui bed placement and your best directions requirements met, then great! If you can't, please do not worry and think that your life is going to be a mess from now on. Approach feng shui logically and practically, and, most importantly, in an empowered way. If your bed cannot face your best feng shui directions, you can sure... Now, if at this point you are thinking "There is no way I can find a good feng shui bed position in my bedroom!", then the next part of this article is for you.