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My father sexually abused me – but he betrayed my mother too
A father – now in prison – abused his daughter for two years. The mother and her daughter each describe how his actions have affected them
‘My daughter and I are on medication for depression’ … (image posed by model). Photograph: Steve Wisbauer/Getty Images
Last modified on Tue 20 Sep 2016 10.40 BST
Every fortnight, my brother and I went to our dad’s place (my mum and dad split up several years ago, so it was pretty normal to go to his). It was lovely seeing him and his new wife and her son. We went places and did new and fun things. Then it all changed. He sexually abused me.
I was 12 at the time. I just thought my body was giving off a scent that made people want me and that it was all part of puberty. I was so wrong.
It carried on for two years, and I was silent about it. I felt like I was being used, like some sort of object. I began to become depressed. I started to self-harm and gained weight to make myself look ugly so he wouldn’t carry on. But he did. While he abused me, I would try to remember funny things I had watched or try to watch videos to take my mind off of it.
I felt upset all the time and would spend most of it in my room on my own. I also became really scared to go out of the house by myself and wouldn’t even go to the shop, which is only a few minutes’ walk from our house. I worried that Dad might be outside waiting for me or that something might happen to Mum and my brother if I wasn’t at home. I was anxious about school, my future, my looks. My self-esteem was so low.
At school, I became even quieter and distanced myself from friends because I didn’t want them to know what had happened to me and I didn’t think they would understand even if they did know. Even now, only a couple of my friends know. Because of that I isolated myself – it is only recently that I have started talking to people more and friendships at school have improved.
I talked to ChildLine first, I asked them if what he was doing was wrong and they said yes. It was worrying for me as I didn’t know what was going to happen to my family and me. I then decided to tell one of my closest friends as they had noticed the cuts on my arm. They told a teacher, who spoke to me and called my mum to come to the school. Mum was crying when she had heard what was happening to me; she hugged me and told me I was such a brave girl.
The police and social services became involved and everyone was so kind and, more importantly, believed me. The specialist police officers were so supportive.
I was allocated a support worker from a local sexual abuse charity. In November, I began to feel really “down” and my support worker got me a counsellor from a charity for children. I felt so low at this point that I didn’t want to live any more because I thought that life would be easier for Mum and that I was worthless. I think the realisation of what had happened to me had started to sink in. My mum went to the GP and I was seen by Camhs [child and adolescent mental health services]. That was when I was prescribed medication and I’ve been gradually getting better.
The last year has been extremely turbulent – an emotional rollercoaster. I am glad I was finally able to tell someone about the abuse, but feel guilty for what I feel I have put my mum through. She changed her job so she no longer worked with families in need as she couldn’t be objective any more. This meant less pay, which, along with no child maintenance, has made things difficult financially for the family.
My relationship with my brother was terrible in those two years. I despised him so much because he didn’t know what I was going through. I wished that it wasn’t me and that my dad had abused him instead, which turns out is a normal feeling to have in that situation. Things with him are slowly improving.
I started to act sexually online. I wanted boys to love my body. I sent pictures and sexted to some boys. I am told by my counsellor that it’s pretty normal to do this after being sexually abused as you are used to someone loving your body.
I feel really shocked that Dad could do what he did. He ruined my childhood and tarnished all the good memories I had with him. All I can think of now are the bad things he did to me. I have changed my surname because I don’t want to have any links with him.
The thought of going to court made me very nervous, but I was pleased the CPS had agreed to prosecute. At the last moment he pleaded guilty and was convicted of several counts of sexual abuse and sentenced to 12 years with a minimum of six to be served in prison. When I heard the news I was over the moon – I could go outside and be free! I never want to see him again. But the atmosphere in the house is strange. While Mum and I are happy that he was convicted, we are mindful that my brother is very upset.
My mum has been very supportive with all this, and I couldn’t have asked for a better one. She has put up with my problems well, and I am so proud of her.
I’m now going into year 11, and hoping to go into media studies, as I would like to become a behind-the-scenes person doing things like sound editing, camera works and directing videos. I don’t want my past affecting my future. Carrying on with my life with my head held high is like giving the finger to my dad.
To young people going through what happened to me, please tell someone if you haven’t. It doesn’t matter whether you are a girl or boy, eight or 18, tell someone. It really does help and there are people out there who will listen to you and help you through it. You can get through this! Try to find local services that can help. Talk to friends, teachers, parents, ChildLine – anyone that makes you feel safe and you can trust.
I am not a victim of sexual abuse. I am a survivor. This is my story.
How did I feel when told my daughter had been abused for more than two years by her dad, my ex? I think I may have laughed as it was so shocking, and momentarily I thought I was being filmed for some kind of reality programme. Then I felt physically sick.
But I was also thinking, what if she’s lying? Why would she lie? What will happen to her?
The guilt I felt at doubting her was awful and could have destroyed the solid relationship we had and which, thankfully, we still have. I took the risk of being thought a bad mum and voiced my disbelief to my Victim Support worker. The relief of not being judged and the realisation that it wasn’t that I didn’t believe her, but that I couldn’t believe it of him was immense. When he finally pleaded guilty, just before we were due to go to trial, it was like being told all over again, but this time there was no doubt and it felt even more devastating.
I felt so alone, unable to be open with friends and family, not because I didn’t want to talk about it, but doing so would have identified my daughter, which I couldn’t do. There was also a part of me that worried that if the local community found out, they might tar me with the same brush and this would impact on my work. I went through a stage when I worried it was my fault – had I been bossy and a ballbreaker when we had been together? Was it his way of getting back at me?
Our sex life had been “normal”, without a hint of role play. Now I can’t imagine ever being physical with someone. Any feelings of desire are quickly extinguished because of the thoughts of him abusing my daughter. Sometimes I have dreams where he is my caring partner and I wake full of shame, and in others he is the man he truly is and I wake full of rage.
Strangely, even now I don’t hate him. Oh, don’t get me wrong, I will never forgive him, I never want to see him and if I was told he was dead it wouldn’t worry me. But I am not wasting any more time on him.
I felt foolish and guilty for not recognising that something was wrong, but to be honest even on reflection only one event sticks out and at the time I put it down to the terrible threats teenagers have to deal with in today’s technological age. What really galls me is that I phoned her dad (it was their weekend to visit) to stop her from exposing herself over Skype to some “boy” she had met online. I still feel anger that I trusted him to protect our daughter from this online predator and yet he was the one abusing her.
The impact of his actions on this family are immense. My daughter has depression and anxiety, is on prescribed medication and receiving counselling. My son is confused as to how someone he loved could have harmed his sister (he is unaware it was sexual but knows his dad hurt her). I’m on medication for depression, receiving counselling and unable to watch programmes or listen to music once shared with their dad. I feel our family past has been tainted and I am finding it difficult to remember experiences in a positive light; I would rather not remember them at all.
Up to 85% of child abuse in England remains undetected, study says
I wanted and needed to hold and comfort her, but was scared to touch her – would it bring back bad memories, would she feel threatened? In the end, I explained my worries to her and got a big hug in response. I’m worried her experience will impact on her future relationships. I have become aware of how quickly she develops physical relationships with boyfriends.
It is worrying that, despite knowing the NSPCC’s anti-abuse underwear rule, the “Stay safe on the internet” spiel, the “Don’t post any naked photos of yourself” talk and our strong, close relationship, she was still abused and unable to tell me. And I have child-protection knowledge and run protective behaviour sessions – how did I miss the signs?
My advice to mothers who find themselves in a similar position is to talk to someone. Be honest about your feelings, including the unpleasant “I must be a wicked person” thoughts. Keeping them inside will eat you up. These feelings are OK and normal. Be strong. We may not know each other, but I know you will survive because I did.
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The 81-year-old man also pleaded guilty to abusing his sister in-law in the 1970s, when she was 14 years old. Ciara Galvin reports
Two sisters who were sexually abused by their father from as young as eight years old, said they were in court to 'seek justice' and to give back the heavy weight that was placed on their shoulders.
The man, who cannot be named due to reporting restrictions, was sentenced to a total of nine years and two months in prison, with the final four years suspended.
Along with indecently assaulting and sexually assaulting his daughters in the 1980s and 1990s at a location in County Sligo, the man also admitted to indecently assaulting his sister in-law in 1976 when she was 14-years-old.
Reading her own Victim Impact Statement to the court, one of his daughters, now aged in her forties, said the day the defendant began abusing her he lost the title of 'Dad'.
She said she always knew her voice would be heard one day and she would get justice for the little girl she once was.
"I can't fully remember being a child without fear. From the minute you chose to abuse me my little body froze in fear…Today I am fighting you, I'm not scared. You robbed my childhood. I'm so proud of beautiful lady I am today."
The man pleaded guilty to sample counts of indecent and sexual assault of his older daughter from the age of 8, every year to when she was 18 when the abuse finally ceased.
These counts represented abuse for each year but matters were heard on a full facts basis and it was heard he would ask to see her breasts up to 30 or 40 times per month.
He abused her during a period from January 1986 to December 1995, and abused his younger daughter on dates between April 1, 1990 and June 30, 1995, when she was aged between 10 and 15 years old.
The first occasion she was abused, the older daughter recalled to gardaí was when she was eight years old and she was looking out the window and her pants were pulled down. The defendant kept asking if her uncle had arrived yet.
She felt something warm at her bottom and remembers he told her, "What you felt was my finger and don't tell anyone."
She told gardaí she knew it was not his finger.
The court was told by Mr Leo Mulrooney, State prosecutor, instructed by Ms Elisa McHugh, state solicitor, that while it was difficult to tie specific incidents of abuse to different ages, she was clear to gardaí she was consistently abused from the aged of 8 to 18.
On another occasion the older daughter remembered going up fields with the defendant and told to lie on the grass and he lay on top of her feeling her chest and private area, she thought she was about 10 years old at the time.
He also forced her into an abandoned car and she kicked and waved her hands.
In interviews with gardaí the defendant admitted to the abuse in the fields and to masturbating in front of her when she was 10 or 12.
When it was put to him that he put his penis on her forehead on one occasion the man denied this and said he remembers putting his arm around her belly.
He said the worst thing he can remember doing was masturbating while standing outside the bathroom window after he had asked her to show him her breasts. He also admitted to doing this while she stood at the end of the bed.
He told gardaí it was a 'comical set up' -"Here I am looking at a daughter like that and talking about taking them to mass."
The defendant told gardaí he did not want sex and it "wouldn't go further than that".
He told gardaí his older daughter was, "such a good girl in the house" and "a little worker".
The touching of his older daughter's private parts were over her clothes and stopped when she was 15 or 16, and the abuse was then confined to her having to show him her breasts.
The court was told the abuse first came to light when the older daughter was 17 years old and told her mother she and her younger sister were being abused.
The victims and their mother left the house but a time later realised they had nowhere to go and rang the defendant.
The abuse came to light once again when the mother of the victims was in alcohol treatment and the abuse was disclosed.
The matter was not forwarded on to gardaí but the defendant did enter a treatment programme, and wrote an unpublished letter admitting the abuse.
In relation to her abuse, the younger daughter recalled in a garda interview playing with cousins outside when she was 13 and ran into the house.
The defendant was in the bathroom beside the back door of the house and pulled her in.
He lifted her up and started kissing her and tried to stick his tongue inside her mouth.
He held her with his hands and pushed himself on her, and was rough while doing it. She said he had his legs either side of her and was 'moving in and out'.
She said the abuse went on 'for ages' and after she returned to play with her cousins with her eyes full of tears.
She remembers two similar incidents, one when she was 10 and when she was 15.
When interviewed in relation to this the man admitted abusing her in the bathroom.
He said he pushed her into the shower and tried to kiss her and could remember her 'thin little lips' and said he tried to put his knee between her legs and couldn't
The court was informed that the indecent assault of the third victim only came to light when she was contacted by gardaí about possibly corroborating evidence from the other complainants.
She told gardaí she used to babysit for her sister and the defendant and the abuse took place when she was 14, the night of her sister's 21st birthday.
On the night in question the only place she could sleep was with her sister and her brother in-law who was then 37 years old.
She was sleeping on the outside, her sister in the middle, and the defendant on the other side.
She recalled waking up with the defendant sexually assaulting her.
She froze, did nothing and then it stopped. The abuse lasted 10 to 15 minutes.
She said she trusted him and after that she knew he did something wrong. She was frightened every time she was alone with him in the aftermath and tried to blank it from her mind.
The abuse affected her marriage which broke down years later and she became isolated and started drinking heavily.
"That night impacted my life and will always be with me," she wrote in her Victim Impact Statement.
When interviewed about this, the defendant said he put his hand on his sister in-law's belly.
Asked if it may have gone further he said 'I may have went further'.
He told gardaí it was only for a couple of seconds because his wife 'copped' and it was through 'underclothing'.
Reading her own Victim Impact Statement in court, the older daughter of the defendant said she had nowhere to hide and when she cried to her father about what he was doing he made a laugh of it and tried to normalise it by saying every father did it.
She said he "violated every basic human right of being a child" and smothered her with
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